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Month/Cycle:
CD:
WAYDTGKU:
R/R:
CS/Q:
TTC History
Me: 38 DH: 52
Started trying June 2018
BFP Jan 2019 DD born October 2019
TTC July 2021 BFP, ended in MMC August 2021
TTC October 2021
BFP January 2022
MMC March 2022
Beginning May 2022 under the supervision of an RE - Benched while undergoing testing
Hi all! It's been a minute. I've been lurking occasionally. Special hello to the new folks!
Month/Cycle: 4/4
CD: 12
WAYDTGKU: The usual suspects
R/R: It's been a doozy of a month. I had to travel for a funeral and then there was xmas and now lots of us have Covid (including me) so phew! Everyone is doing well and most of us are double or triple vaccinated so it's mostly just a cold. I saw a tweet today that was something like: "I know more people who've gotten covid in the last week than this whole pandemic" and that's totally how I feel. At least my SO and I both have it so we can continue to try to GKU.
CS/Q: Has anyone seen any sign that O gets delayed with Covid? O should be today or tomorrow but so far the signs are showing me nothing.
R/R: My husband and I have a cold, which would normally not be a big deal, but it alarms me in these pandemic times. No fever and just a bit sniffly with a sore throat. My rave is that I finally got a positive OPK, so it’s time to get extra fancy in the bedroom. I just hope DH can power through his man cold.
CS/Q:
TTC History
Me: 38 DH: 52
Started trying June 2018
BFP Jan 2019 DD born October 2019
TTC July 2021 BFP, ended in MMC August 2021
TTC October 2021
BFP January 2022
MMC March 2022
Beginning May 2022 under the supervision of an RE - Benched while undergoing testing
R/R: Just trying to enjoy break while also preparing for all the crazy that starts in the new year. On top of teaching full time and mentoring a student teacher, I am also starting an Autism Specialist Certificate program at ASU and completing my Gifted Certification online with a book study.
CS/Q: Nothing really to report. AF finally left a few days ago, so now just getting back to tracking. Not sure if we are benched this month or not. MH sucks at committing to this. Lol.
@Paturkey one of my coworkers was TTC while isolated with Covid. She O’d on time and her husband didn’t have Covid at the time and luckily didn’t get it! 😂 But that was October of ‘20, the original strain. So who knows 🤷🏼♀️
@Paturkey I’m not sure about Covid messing with ovulation, but the booster pushed mine by a few days. And YES. It feels like the whole world has it right now.
@ejoseph16 That program sounds so interesting! I hope you enjoy your break.
TTC History
Me: 38 DH: 52
Started trying June 2018
BFP Jan 2019 DD born October 2019
TTC July 2021 BFP, ended in MMC August 2021
TTC October 2021
BFP January 2022
MMC March 2022
Beginning May 2022 under the supervision of an RE - Benched while undergoing testing
@Paturkey - wow, I hope you don't get "long Covid"; take care. Haven't seen anything about Covid delaying O, but I haven't looked either.
@elle-0409 get them fancy sweatpants on girl! Lol. I also hope YH powers through the cold.
@ejoseph16 are you taking the certificate remotely from ASU? I know they have a pretty well known distance learning offering
Month/Cycle: 23/18/1AL
CD: 9
WAYDTGKU: the works and then some
R/R: I went to the spa yesterday evening with my SIL and it was so awesome. I got a special facial that included dermaplaning, My skin feels so pure now! We arrived home and asked our DHs if we looked 10 years younger. Lol. Incidentally, my esthetician was saying that she and the one who was doing my SILs facial "work on each other" and I swear, the lady looked like she was 35, but was actually 52. Man I hope I look that young when I'm in my 50's. I guess more facials in my future! HEHEHE. MH will love that. :P
In other news, we're in full real estate search mode as we decided to move in the next month; we're renters (cause you can't buy a house in California) so it should be pretty easy to make the move; aside from the annoying part that is packing/moving/unpacking. I'm really excited to be honest since I'm over living in SF. We've been there for 2 years, so it's time to move. We're still staying in the general vicinity, but moving somewhere where we can have a yard and more square footage.
@elle-0409 that's interesting about the booster - I had mine at the end of my last cycle so it could push O.
@ejoseph16 I hope you can really enjoy your break. It sounds like your year will be intense.
@acleverusername Thanks. I've had three shots so I'm not too concerned about it and there isn't anything to be done at this point. ::shrug:: Just hoping it remains like a cold.
How exciting about moving! Good luck with the hunt! I owned a house in the outer Bay Area back in the day and I'd be happy to discuss things over PM if it would be helpful. My vegetable garden was spectacular, if I do say so myself 😂
@acleverusername yes I am doing it remote! It’s funny because I actually lived in Phoenix for 3 years, and now I’m back in Ohio. So it’s kind of funny to have been to asu’s campus and lived so close, and now 10 years later I’m attending asu online. Re: facials, I miss getting facials! Enjoy that baby butt feeling! Lol! My mom owned a hair salon and day spa from when I was 1yo until July of this year, so I got free facials all the time. I miss that feeling!
@ejoseph16 funny indeed! I'm in Phoenix now, so seeing signs for ASU everywhere we drive. Haha. Also, side note, what a weirdly laid out city. It basically takes 20 min to get everywhere. Lol.
@Paturkey covid solidarity fistbump. Screw 2021. I hope you guys recover soon. I'm having the same experience so far, feels like a bad cold, and SO MANY more people are testing positive in the last couple weeks. Did you have a fever at all? I think fevers can affect O but not sure of covid in general.
@elle-0409 not to be alarmist, but I definitely recommend getting tested if you can, omicron presents more like a cold. I felt like I had a bad cold with runny nose really ramping up Saturday night, got tested Sunday, got a negative rapid, and then a positive PCR today. If testing is anything like it is here though it'll be tough to get an appointment.
@ejoseph16 sounds like you have a lot on your plate! I hope all goes well with the studies.
@acleverusername sounds like a super relaxing time! Good to be relaxed going into a move, since that's the opposite of relaxing lol.
Month/Cycle: 14/13
CD: 14
WAYDTGKU: probably nothing atm
R/R: my covid test was positive, so I had to cancel the IUI. might still try naturally depending on when O happens and if my husband tests positive or not.
@Paturkey Welcome back! I hope Covid stays only a mild annoyance for you. @elle-0409 The threat of the man cold ruining plans is real. Good luck!
@ejoseph16 Sounds like a busy new year! Hope you can relax some this week. @acleverusername Good luck with the move! Super jealous of that facial. @fantasyflyte Oh no! That sucks. I'm so sorry.
Month/Cycle: 4/4 AL
CD: 14
WAYDTGKU: OPKs, vitamins, progesterone
R/R: Pretty sure today/tomorrow is O, so I'll hang out here one more day at least. I'm off work this week and have entered the blissful period where time has no meaning. Otherwise, things are going well. Gearing up to start progesterone in a few days and excited about fancy restaurant leftovers for dinner. Don't be jealous of my wild life. 😉
CS/Q: Nope
Edited for ridiculous spacing. Which editing didn't fix. 🙄
@acleverusername definitely a weird city! I lived in Avondale, but taught in Maryvale. Now I’m in small town Ohio. 😂😂 big change, but I’d take my life now over my life then any day!
@fantasyflyte nooooooo! Sorry your test came back positive! Covid ruins everything. 😔
@fantasyflyte Ugh! Sorry we're in the same boat and a fist bump right back atchya. No fever for me (my chart actually looks okay even!), just a crazy stuffy nose for the most part. Totally just seems like a cold. I literally know ten people in four countries with Covid this week. It's bananas.
I'm so sorry about the IUI cancellation but hopefully you can still try this month anyway.
@fantasyflyte argh, sorry about the covid positivity. At least you don't have to worry about insurance switcheroos? Def do the timed intercourse though.
@abjm0325 +1 to being in a space "where time has no meaning"; the only reason I know today is Tuesday because my vitamin compartment tells me so. And also the title of this thread. Hehe.
@ejoseph16 I totally crave the small-town life right now after living in SF for 2 years; hence the move.
Re: WTO TUESDAY, 12/28
Month/Cycle: 4/4
CD: 12
WAYDTGKU: The usual suspects
R/R: It's been a doozy of a month. I had to travel for a funeral and then there was xmas and now lots of us have Covid (including me) so phew! Everyone is doing well and most of us are double or triple vaccinated so it's mostly just a cold. I saw a tweet today that was something like: "I know more people who've gotten covid in the last week than this whole pandemic" and that's totally how I feel. At least my SO and I both have it so we can continue to try to GKU.
CS/Q: Has anyone seen any sign that O gets delayed with Covid? O should be today or tomorrow but so far the signs are showing me nothing.
Month/Cycle: Cycle 3 AL
CD: 13
WAYDTGKU: OPK, BBT, HIO, Progesterone, PNV
R/R: My husband and I have a cold, which would normally not be a big deal, but it alarms me in these pandemic times. No fever and just a bit sniffly with a sore throat. My rave is that I finally got a positive OPK, so it’s time to get extra fancy in the bedroom. I just hope DH can power through his man cold.
CS/Q:
Month/Cycle: 1/1
CD: 9
WAYDTGKU: BBT, OPK, HIO EOTD
R/R: Just trying to enjoy break while also preparing for all the crazy that starts in the new year. On top of teaching full time and mentoring a student teacher, I am also starting an Autism Specialist Certificate program at ASU and completing my Gifted Certification online with a book study.
CS/Q: Nothing really to report. AF finally left a few days ago, so now just getting back to tracking. Not sure if we are benched this month or not. MH sucks at committing to this. Lol.
@Paturkey one of my coworkers was TTC while isolated with Covid. She O’d on time and her husband didn’t have Covid at the time and luckily didn’t get it! 😂 But that was October of ‘20, the original strain. So who knows 🤷🏼♀️
@elle-0409 get them fancy sweatpants on girl! Lol. I also hope YH powers through the cold.
@ejoseph16 are you taking the certificate remotely from ASU? I know they have a pretty well known distance learning offering
Month/Cycle: 23/18/1AL
CD: 9
WAYDTGKU: the works and then some
R/R: I went to the spa yesterday evening with my SIL and it was so awesome. I got a special facial that included dermaplaning, My skin feels so pure now! We arrived home and asked our DHs if we looked 10 years younger. Lol. Incidentally, my esthetician was saying that she and the one who was doing my SILs facial "work on each other" and I swear, the lady looked like she was 35, but was actually 52. Man I hope I look that young when I'm in my 50's. I guess more facials in my future! HEHEHE. MH will love that. :P
In other news, we're in full real estate search mode as we decided to move in the next month; we're renters (cause you can't buy a house in California) so it should be pretty easy to make the move; aside from the annoying part that is packing/moving/unpacking. I'm really excited to be honest since I'm over living in SF. We've been there for 2 years, so it's time to move. We're still staying in the general vicinity, but moving somewhere where we can have a yard and more square footage.
CS/Q: nope
TTC#2
TTC #2 ... preparing as of March 2024
TTC #1
TTC #1 02/2020 - 07/2022
2009 | Dx PCOS; likely a misdiagnosis
07/14/20 | Dx Hashimoto's Thyroditis
07/21/20 | 1st RE appointment
07/2120 - 08/20/20 | so much testing; no signs of PCOS
08/20/20 | Dx Unexplained; AMA
09/08/20 | IUI #1 Clomid + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
09/30/20 | Urology consult; more testing required
10/2020 | Clomid + OPK + TI + Prometrium | BFN
10/26/2020 | Starting 2nd IUI cycle, with Letrazole and with a new RE / different clinic
11/03/2020 | New Dx "poor egg quality"; IUI cancelled in favor of Trigger + TI + Prometrium | BFN
11/26/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Menopur) + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
12/20/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Gonal-F) + Trigger | IUI Cancelled due to thin lining; TI only | BFN
01/14/2021 | Combo IUI (Letrazole + Menopur) + Trigger | BFN
02/06/2021 | Switched to a new RE (TEW) ; trying naturally until we complete additional testing
03/14/2021 | Hybrid Double IUI, with Zymot (Letrazole, Gonal-F) + Trigger + Endometrin | Ovulated 4 mature eggs but still a BFN ☹️
04/07/2021 | Natural cycle while we regroup | BFN
04/09/2021 | Employer announces fertility benefits starting 05/01/2021! | Search for a new doctor who accepts insurance
05/10/2021 | New RE consult & plan for IVF
05/13/2021 | Mid-luteal IVF cycle #1 interrupted; had to get cancer genetic screening done to make sure I didn't have the same SDHA gene mutation as MH.
06/10/2021 | Aygestin priming IVF cycle #1; opted to Cx after 9 days of stims since only 5-6/12 follicles responded
07/26/2021 | Attempt #2 at IVF cycle #1 (mid-luteal start): 8 retrieved, 8 MII, 6 fert (1 PN3), 3 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 3AA, 3AA, 6AB; 3 euploid
08/09/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC | Shockingly, a BFP! EDD: 5/25/202 | CP at 4w4d
09/23/2021 | IVF cycle #2 (mid-luteal start): 14 retrieved, 13 MII, 11 fert, 5 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 2 x 3AA, 2 x 3AB, 3BB; 2 euploid
11/12/2021 | IVF cycle #3 (mid-luteal start): cancelled due to ovaries being on vacation
12/20/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + Pregmune Immunology Testing; BFN
01/22/2022 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + understanding uncovered immunological issues; BFN
02/18/2022 | Mock transfer cycle! ERA, ReceptivaDx, EMMA/ALICE; start Prednisone to address NK activity
03/16/2022 | Final, "Hail Mary" super-ovulation + TI cycle before FET; BFP! EDD: 12/21/2022 | MMC 05/08/2022
05/20/2022 | D&C; recovering...
06/21/2022 | Trying naturally until October 2022
07/21/2022 | BFP! EDD 04/02/2023; 👦🏼 born on 4/5/2023
@ejoseph16 I hope you can really enjoy your break. It sounds like your year will be intense.
@acleverusername Thanks. I've had three shots so I'm not too concerned about it and there isn't anything to be done at this point. ::shrug:: Just hoping it remains like a cold.
How exciting about moving! Good luck with the hunt! I owned a house in the outer Bay Area back in the day and I'd be happy to discuss things over PM if it would be helpful. My vegetable garden was spectacular, if I do say so myself 😂
@ejoseph16 funny indeed! I'm in Phoenix now, so seeing signs for ASU everywhere we drive. Haha. Also, side note, what a weirdly laid out city. It basically takes 20 min to get everywhere. Lol.
TTC#2
TTC #2 ... preparing as of March 2024
TTC #1
TTC #1 02/2020 - 07/2022
2009 | Dx PCOS; likely a misdiagnosis
07/14/20 | Dx Hashimoto's Thyroditis
07/21/20 | 1st RE appointment
07/2120 - 08/20/20 | so much testing; no signs of PCOS
08/20/20 | Dx Unexplained; AMA
09/08/20 | IUI #1 Clomid + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
09/30/20 | Urology consult; more testing required
10/2020 | Clomid + OPK + TI + Prometrium | BFN
10/26/2020 | Starting 2nd IUI cycle, with Letrazole and with a new RE / different clinic
11/03/2020 | New Dx "poor egg quality"; IUI cancelled in favor of Trigger + TI + Prometrium | BFN
11/26/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Menopur) + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
12/20/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Gonal-F) + Trigger | IUI Cancelled due to thin lining; TI only | BFN
01/14/2021 | Combo IUI (Letrazole + Menopur) + Trigger | BFN
02/06/2021 | Switched to a new RE (TEW) ; trying naturally until we complete additional testing
03/14/2021 | Hybrid Double IUI, with Zymot (Letrazole, Gonal-F) + Trigger + Endometrin | Ovulated 4 mature eggs but still a BFN ☹️
04/07/2021 | Natural cycle while we regroup | BFN
04/09/2021 | Employer announces fertility benefits starting 05/01/2021! | Search for a new doctor who accepts insurance
05/10/2021 | New RE consult & plan for IVF
05/13/2021 | Mid-luteal IVF cycle #1 interrupted; had to get cancer genetic screening done to make sure I didn't have the same SDHA gene mutation as MH.
06/10/2021 | Aygestin priming IVF cycle #1; opted to Cx after 9 days of stims since only 5-6/12 follicles responded
07/26/2021 | Attempt #2 at IVF cycle #1 (mid-luteal start): 8 retrieved, 8 MII, 6 fert (1 PN3), 3 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 3AA, 3AA, 6AB; 3 euploid
08/09/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC | Shockingly, a BFP! EDD: 5/25/202 | CP at 4w4d
09/23/2021 | IVF cycle #2 (mid-luteal start): 14 retrieved, 13 MII, 11 fert, 5 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 2 x 3AA, 2 x 3AB, 3BB; 2 euploid
11/12/2021 | IVF cycle #3 (mid-luteal start): cancelled due to ovaries being on vacation
12/20/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + Pregmune Immunology Testing; BFN
01/22/2022 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + understanding uncovered immunological issues; BFN
02/18/2022 | Mock transfer cycle! ERA, ReceptivaDx, EMMA/ALICE; start Prednisone to address NK activity
03/16/2022 | Final, "Hail Mary" super-ovulation + TI cycle before FET; BFP! EDD: 12/21/2022 | MMC 05/08/2022
05/20/2022 | D&C; recovering...
06/21/2022 | Trying naturally until October 2022
07/21/2022 | BFP! EDD 04/02/2023; 👦🏼 born on 4/5/2023
@Paturkey covid solidarity fistbump. Screw 2021. I hope you guys recover soon. I'm having the same experience so far, feels like a bad cold, and SO MANY more people are testing positive in the last couple weeks. Did you have a fever at all? I think fevers can affect O but not sure of covid in general.
@elle-0409 not to be alarmist, but I definitely recommend getting tested if you can, omicron presents more like a cold. I felt like I had a bad cold with runny nose really ramping up Saturday night, got tested Sunday, got a negative rapid, and then a positive PCR today. If testing is anything like it is here though it'll be tough to get an appointment.
@ejoseph16 sounds like you have a lot on your plate! I hope all goes well with the studies.
@acleverusername sounds like a super relaxing time! Good to be relaxed going into a move, since that's the opposite of relaxing lol.
Month/Cycle: 14/13
CD: 14
WAYDTGKU: probably nothing atm
R/R: my covid test was positive, so I had to cancel the IUI. might still try naturally depending on when O happens and if my husband tests positive or not.
CS/Q: nah
@elle-0409 The threat of the man cold ruining plans is real. Good luck!
@acleverusername Good luck with the move! Super jealous of that facial.
@fantasyflyte Oh no! That sucks. I'm so sorry.
Month/Cycle: 4/4 AL
Otherwise, things are going well. Gearing up to start progesterone in a few days and excited about fancy restaurant leftovers for dinner. Don't be jealous of my wild life. 😉
Edited for ridiculous spacing. Which editing didn't fix. 🙄
@fantasyflyte nooooooo! Sorry your test came back positive! Covid ruins everything. 😔
I'm so sorry about the IUI cancellation but hopefully you can still try this month anyway.
@abjm0325 +1 to being in a space "where time has no meaning"; the only reason I know today is Tuesday because my vitamin compartment tells me so. And also the title of this thread. Hehe.
@ejoseph16 I totally crave the small-town life right now after living in SF for 2 years; hence the move.
TTC#2
TTC #2 ... preparing as of March 2024
TTC #1
TTC #1 02/2020 - 07/2022
2009 | Dx PCOS; likely a misdiagnosis
07/14/20 | Dx Hashimoto's Thyroditis
07/21/20 | 1st RE appointment
07/2120 - 08/20/20 | so much testing; no signs of PCOS
08/20/20 | Dx Unexplained; AMA
09/08/20 | IUI #1 Clomid + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
09/30/20 | Urology consult; more testing required
10/2020 | Clomid + OPK + TI + Prometrium | BFN
10/26/2020 | Starting 2nd IUI cycle, with Letrazole and with a new RE / different clinic
11/03/2020 | New Dx "poor egg quality"; IUI cancelled in favor of Trigger + TI + Prometrium | BFN
11/26/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Menopur) + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
12/20/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Gonal-F) + Trigger | IUI Cancelled due to thin lining; TI only | BFN
01/14/2021 | Combo IUI (Letrazole + Menopur) + Trigger | BFN
02/06/2021 | Switched to a new RE (TEW) ; trying naturally until we complete additional testing
03/14/2021 | Hybrid Double IUI, with Zymot (Letrazole, Gonal-F) + Trigger + Endometrin | Ovulated 4 mature eggs but still a BFN ☹️
04/07/2021 | Natural cycle while we regroup | BFN
04/09/2021 | Employer announces fertility benefits starting 05/01/2021! | Search for a new doctor who accepts insurance
05/10/2021 | New RE consult & plan for IVF
05/13/2021 | Mid-luteal IVF cycle #1 interrupted; had to get cancer genetic screening done to make sure I didn't have the same SDHA gene mutation as MH.
06/10/2021 | Aygestin priming IVF cycle #1; opted to Cx after 9 days of stims since only 5-6/12 follicles responded
07/26/2021 | Attempt #2 at IVF cycle #1 (mid-luteal start): 8 retrieved, 8 MII, 6 fert (1 PN3), 3 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 3AA, 3AA, 6AB; 3 euploid
08/09/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC | Shockingly, a BFP! EDD: 5/25/202 | CP at 4w4d
09/23/2021 | IVF cycle #2 (mid-luteal start): 14 retrieved, 13 MII, 11 fert, 5 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 2 x 3AA, 2 x 3AB, 3BB; 2 euploid
11/12/2021 | IVF cycle #3 (mid-luteal start): cancelled due to ovaries being on vacation
12/20/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + Pregmune Immunology Testing; BFN
01/22/2022 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + understanding uncovered immunological issues; BFN
02/18/2022 | Mock transfer cycle! ERA, ReceptivaDx, EMMA/ALICE; start Prednisone to address NK activity
03/16/2022 | Final, "Hail Mary" super-ovulation + TI cycle before FET; BFP! EDD: 12/21/2022 | MMC 05/08/2022
05/20/2022 | D&C; recovering...
06/21/2022 | Trying naturally until October 2022
07/21/2022 | BFP! EDD 04/02/2023; 👦🏼 born on 4/5/2023