This is a place for FTMs to ask questions and S+TMs to share the wealth of knowledge they've accumulated on baby products. This week is all about baby/toddler health and safety.
FTMs: what questions do you have? Products you want to know about?
S+TMs: what are your recommendations? think medications, illness, thermometer, gas/colic "treatment," are you a nose frida fan or prefer something else, how do you give baby meds? What's in your first aid kit? teething remedies? recommendations for clipping those tiny talons (fingernails)? what about in the baby's room? (we do have a planned "baby proofing thread" but can combine that here as well.)
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TTC#1 10/2016
TTC/IF:included medicated cycles, IUIs and 2 rounds of IVF with 1 embryo each.
BFP finally in 12/2018
TTC#2 06/2021
planning FET
"Some days are diamonds, some days are rocks,
some doors are open, some roads are blocked"
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we use an in ear thermometer, DS is 2 and now likes to do it himself. I also have one of those smart thermometers that has a bluetooth link to an app to track temp, but we never use it, it was difficult to turn on and DS hated having his arm held down to take the temp.
we were gifted a lot of baby "meds" and honestly didn't use much I gave a bunch of the "gripe water" away. We were gifted this "little remedies" set that had small bottles of several meds and that was enough for us. We did have Tylenol/acetaminophen at first and then ibuprofen once he got a bit older and just followed the pedi's advice on that. The infant and children's Tylenol are the same, but the ibuprofen is not, so check your bottles.
Nail clippers, we have like 3 or 4 apparently when you're team green people don't know what to buy...anyway we have one with a magnifying glass that is a good concept, but the glass gets in the way. We use the safety first clippers. I also have a glass nail file that worked well. I would just clip his nails when he was nursing since he was distracted.
other things:
-the oogie bear was recommended by a friend and worked well for us when he was tiny
-we had both the smile frida and the baby banana toothbrush. our pediatrician recommended pumpkin butt for teething relief
-I also kept a ball suction/aspirator thing in the diaper bag/cars bc I was (am?) an anxious FTM and wanted to be able to have some kind of suction device incase he was choking on spitup/etc.
we also have a cool mist humidifier in his room to help with the congestion. (again allergies)
TTC#1 10/2016
TTC/IF:included medicated cycles, IUIs and 2 rounds of IVF with 1 embryo each.
BFP finally in 12/2018
TTC#2 06/2021
planning FET
"Some days are diamonds, some days are rocks,
some doors are open, some roads are blocked"
I love the mesh crib liners that wrap around the crib railing right next to the mattress. DD6 got her arm stuck in the slats between railings before, everyone had a bad day. Mesh so that if baby’s face is pressed against it they can still breathe.
Don't get anything special for medicine administration. Tylenol is so sweet that DS5 loved it. His reflux meds we would just put the dose in a bottle nipple and let him suck it out of there while laying down.
You can't use regular Vics vapor rub on babies, but they do have a lavender version that we would put on the bottom of his feet to help him sleep when he was sick. We thought it worked pretty well. We also had a very little wedge that we put under his crib mattress (not sheets) to elevate his head ever so slightly.
I didn't use gripe water. I tried it once and he fell asleep so hard I thought I had killed him.
Pay attention to other potential safety hazards. Outlets within reach of the crib, curtains/strings within reach of the crib, etc. We liked the magnetic locks for our kitchen cupboards. Although DS5 never tried getting into cabinets, so we only had to put a lock on the one with slicers/sharp things and chemicals.
You will want lots of baby gates all over the house to confine them to manageable and within sight areas.
https://slate.com/human-interest/2015/05/teething-symptoms-in-babies-are-not-as-bad-as-parents-think.html
I will say our worst time ever was a perfect storm - teething, 9 month leap, vacation, and learning to pull to stand but couldn't sit back down. We got nearly 0 hours of sleep for an entire week. But there's not much you can do for any of that besides just survive. That time was worse than newborn week for us.
But we use it to keep bedroom at night more humid while sick and to help the shower get the bathroom more humid quickly. Especially helpful with croup. I've had that 4 year from Amazon est. Have had no issues and use it about once a season on average way more when she was 1-2 years old.
I agree about the Frieda being super effective at getting stuff out but the filter is not very think or HEPA so if you thought your kid might get you sick before imagine sucking it right in your lungs. My husband's running joke was that's how he got all her colds like 3 days later.
My husband is a pharmacist and as such he is super sparing with all meds. She has to be dying. But we always kept children's Tylenol just in case late night runs to the store are inevitable if you don't have it. But I think the first bottle expired before we used it all. Not a Terrible problem.
I've never stressed about the kind of thermometer because our pediatrician will always ask what type we are using as the acceptable range is just different a little bit for each type and they know that range so calling in asking for help they always ask where we took the temp and go from that. I'd say if it really concerns you ask what your pediatrician recommends.
Speaking of, finding your pediatrician should start soon. You will want to register with a pediatrician if you haven't already so when your child comes if they have hospital privileges they will be the first ones to do the exam in the hospital and make sure all the first shots are given etc. They also will schedule at that time for first follow up visit and second set of shots. My daughter's birth weight dropped concerningly (normal to drop just not that much) at hospital so this changed home plan and timeline for first follow up. Ours did interviews first to make sure we fit well and our philosophy of child care on things like vaccination was similar before they agreed to take us on. We looked for an office that had multiple doctors so if yours was out you could see another in a pinch. A sick and well waiting room so sick kids didn't go in the same door or waiting room as well kids. Now ours only sees well appointments in the morning and sick in afternoon. A separate infant room so vaccine visits you aren't in the waiting room with everyone and you have a kid with no immunity.
Find out where your nearest pediatric urgent care is so much easier to just know where you need to go in an emergency just in case.
Now I live in medical mecca in Houston TX so I'm sure this isn't everyone's experience just things to think about.
Sure I didn't edit all the spelling errors but I tried.
We also use the frida baby nail clippers and like those.
Married: October 2011
DS: January 2016
DS: May 2019
#3: April 2022
Also I am laughing that we have spent so much time on rectal thermometers!