March 2022 Moms

Newborn Phase Must Haves

I was cleaning out the girls' playroom yesterday to make some space for baby's things and it got to me thinking...

What are your absolute must haves for the newborn stage (like 0 to 6 months). What can you absolutely not live without and what did you find you didn't need at all?

Any category at all!

Plus it's a little slow here lately...😉

Re: Newborn Phase Must Haves

  • Other than the obvious (crib, car seat, stroller, etc), for me it is:

    Bassinet that I can easily move from room to room
    Carrier
    Baby bathtub
    Play mat
    Bouncy seat
    Our pink noise machine
    And if he's like DD2 then a million burp clothes and bibs to deal with the constant spit up

    Once baby is around 4 months I have an activity saucer that is a lifesaver

    Around 6 months the jolly jumper
    Music table
    A toy that baby can easily and safely pull up on

    And some toys for development at each stage:)

    Oh, and the playpen!

    These are definitely my staple must haves for those first few months! Or at least the things that I definitely will be sure to have in the house. Or at least they're the things that come to mind first, so probably the most important for me...:)




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  • Good idea! I'll probably add more comments later as I'm reminded of things. 

    Must haves:
    - Frida Baby Windi (these worked a lot better than gas drops for us when coupled with infant massage)
    -Auqaphor 
    -Baby Bum Brush for diaper cream 
    -Sound machine (both a portable one and one for the nursery)
    -SnuggleMe (obviously don't leave baby unattended and we didn't use in her crib overnight)
    -Velcro swaddles 
    -Newman's ointment if you are nursing. It saved our nursing journey. 

    So so:
    -I really didn't think the Nose Frida was worth it. Our electronic sucker was so much better IMO. 
    -I got one of those flower bath mat things and hated it. It was such a pain to dry and all that.
    -The haaka didn't work for me. My flow wasn't strong enough I guess. I never really leaked at all so maybe that is why. I bought a big box of nursing pads that I never even opened. 

  • @Panaceia ah yes, approximately 1 million burp cloths for us too 🥴. DH and I were just talking about that last night. I'm keeping everything crossed that this baby didn't inherit that trait lol.

  • Love this topic! Agree with some of yours for sure so far!

    Must Haves:
    -My Breast Friend/ Boppy
    because it helps a tired and sore mama position baby for breastfeeding with ease.

    -Baby Bath

    -Sleepsacks/ Velcro Swaddles

    -A few Sleepers with two-way zippers

    -Plain Cloth Diapers= Best Burp Cloths ever.

    -A soft blanket for tummy time

    -Pack N Play Bassinet for letting the baby sleep in our room the first few months easily.

    -White Noise/ Music Maker for tough naps and car rides 



    Things I barely/never used with my Son:

    -Bouncer (He kind of hated it)

    -Pacifier (We opted not to, despite constant harassment from my mom and we think it made things easier in the long run. So probably will skip it again.)

    -Mittens (We kept misplacing them or forgetting they existed and put socks on DS hands or sleeper with the flip cuff, we intend to try to use them this time.)


  • @faithmovesmountains totally agree. Mittens we're dumb. We just used socks if she absolutely needed them. And as the mom of a binky addict, you were probably smart. DD's teeth look so sad now 😭. 
  • I agree on the mittens. They were purposeless and we just pulled his sleeves over his hands if we were worried about scratching.

    Boppy lounger (supervised, not for sleep)
    Velcro fleece swaddle 
    Aquaphor (we still use it daily at 15 months) 
    Bouncer (people give these away for free all the time, definitely look for a hand me down)
    Bassinet that was on wheels
    Multiple sound machines (kiddo has two running these days)
    Breastfeeding stool 
    hands free pumping bra


  • For us, newborn must-haves were:
    - breastfeeding pillows (at least two - one for first floor and one for second floor)
    - bassinet
    - Tummy time mat/pillow/mirror
    - burp cloths (burt’s bees were my fav)
    - A baby carrier for baby wearing - I prefer a ring sling or K’tan for newborn days and switched to a Tula once DD1 was a bit older/heavier
    - Costco/Kirkland brand baby wipes 
    - Diaper cream
    - We loved having an infant bath tub with an integrated scale - DD1 was slow to gain, so it was helpful to track her weight gain at home
    - Sound machine
    - comfy postpartum leggings, breastfeeding tank tops, and plenty of open front layering options (robe with pockets, open cardigan, etc)
    - bouncer
    - an elevated place to change diapers on each floor of the house (my pp recovery was long, so minimizing bending and getting up and down to the floor was helpful)


    This time around I am also planning to get a Fisher Price Baby Dome (meets bassinet safe sleep standards and folds flat for easy transport and storage!), so we can have an option for DD2 to have her own space to snooze or wiggle around while being somewhat more protected from DD1’s wild two year old antics ☺️

  • @kgg2241 DD1 never spit up...like...never! We had 1 burp cloth for her and never used it. DD2 was like a fountain...I seriously didn't know so much liquid could come out of one child so often!!! Also hoping we don't have a repeat of that this time...
  • PanaceiaPanaceia member
    edited October 2021
    @faithmovesmountains Aaah yes to the sleep sacks!!! How did I forget to add those!!! And we never used a pacifier with either girl and won't this time either. We also never swaddled either. For me it's just another habit I don't want to have to deal with later on 🤣 And DD1 HATED the bouncer, like wouldn't go in it without screaming, but DD2 LOVED it! She loved it so much we bought a couple more just so we had them randomly around the house...so curious to see whether this little guy loves them or hates them! I'm hoping he loves them cause we have 3 of them now...

    ETA we also never used mittens...
  • @jenis_fan_for_life Yes to the postpartum and nursing clothing! I didn't have nursing bras or tops with my first and I don't know how I survived!!!!
  • @faithmovesmountains cloth diapers were the best burp cloths! The were the right size, and very absorbent!

    Boudreaux butt paste was our favorite diaper cream. 
    A good nightlight. We didn't find our favorite until dd was 4, but we will be getting another! It is kind of egg shaped, and dimmable. It does not need to be plugged in to use it. We charge it once a week.
  • So many good suggestions here already. 

    My list of must-have (in addition to the usual basics):
    - nasal aspirator (electric or nose frida)
    - electric nail filer
    - footie pajamas with fold over hands and feet (eliminates the need for mittens, that as everyone has already stated, completely disappear.)
    - bouncer (baby bjorn is my favorite, definitely buy secondhand.)
    - hatch night light/white noise machine: perfect nursing light, dimmable, controlled by an app so you can easily change it from even across the room.
    - countertop bottle sterilizer (also used for pump parts the first 4 months at least).
    - a nursing/feeding/nap-trapped cart on wheels that has everything you need for nursing, pumping, feeding, and also snacks, waters, a phone charger, hair bands, ibuprofen, burp cloths- little things you may need beside you when you get stuck under a sleeping baby.
    - we loved the 4moms bath tub that was discontinued, only baby thing I kept after our first. Has a built in thermometer so you always know water is good temp, sits in a kitchen sink with water constantly running over baby so they don’t get cold.
    - wrap/ring sling/structured carrier: big fan of happy baby carriers and wraps: only way I got baby calmed during the afternoon witching hours.
    - swaddles: velcro were great for DH to learn the technique. I preferred the weighted ones. Im looking at Dreamland Baby this time around.
    - cool mist humidifier: the most underrated baby item. Register for one. You will be so glad you did. And make sure to always use distilled water in it to eliminate organism growth in it.
    - breast pump open it, learn how to use it and have all the parts cleaned in case you have to unexpectedly pump due to slow weight gain, latch issues, or jaundice.
    - silverette cups for nipple healing
    - lactation nurse! Usually covered by insurance at the hospital you deliver at. We went once a week the first few months. Looked forward to it every week.
  • @night_nurse Yes to the cool mist humidifier. We've had one since DD1 2as born. We didn't use it much with DD2 only because we didn't need to, but used it ALLLLLL the time with DD1!
  • agree with most of these, just want to add a +1 to: 

    baby carrier (we're partial to the ktan for newborn days)
    Somewhere to put the baby when not sleeping (snuggle me/swing/etc) 
    Moveable bassinet (lots of pack'n'plays have them as attachements) 
    Nursing/nap trap kit: snacks, water, charger, nipple cream, burp cloth, book/magazine
    Changing station that you don't have to do a lot of bending to get to (tbh we put a changing pad on our dining room table with DD) 

  • @morgantu With DD1 we put a changing pad on a shelf in our wardrobe...and with DD2 on the top of the desk in the bedroom. I have since gotten rid of the desk so I have to figure out what surface will become the changing station this time around 😅 
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