This week's spotlight is all about
Car Seats the one thing that pretty much everyone will need.
Share your experiences/feedback/research. Infant seat? convertible?
STM+ what did you look for/what did you like/what did you buy? Why?
FTM: ask your car seat questions here.
ALL: feel free to revive this thread as needed
Prior Product Spotlights (stroller/travel system discussed in last week's post)
TTC#1 10/2016
TTC/IF:included medicated cycles, IUIs and 2 rounds of IVF with 1 embryo each.
BFP finally in 12/2018
TTC#2 06/2021
planning FET
"Some days are diamonds, some days are rocks,
some doors are open, some roads are blocked"
Re: Product Spotlight: Car Seats
We live in place that requires a vehicle and does not have public transportation, so an infant seat with a base wasn't a huge issue for us. DH was very into the car seat research & I let him have at it. He read multiple safety reviews, considered the crash test results and the weight of the seat without a child in it among other things. Ultimately we ended up with the Chicco Key Fit 30 zip air. We went with the air bc we live in a warm climate and wanted the "breathable mesh" fabric. We also got a second base so we would have one for each vehicle.
We purchased the adapter for our stroller to be able to click in the car seat.
Also, with holiday shopping/sales/deals coming up I'd recommend looking into your car seat choices/options and possibly getting a great deal /discount during the Black Friday/Holiday Sales. We did that for our convertible seat. We weren't ready to transition, and it did take up space in our house for a while, but we got a great deal on it.
TTC#1 10/2016
TTC/IF:included medicated cycles, IUIs and 2 rounds of IVF with 1 embryo each.
BFP finally in 12/2018
TTC#2 06/2021
planning FET
"Some days are diamonds, some days are rocks,
some doors are open, some roads are blocked"
We also have 2 convertible car seats which has been really nice to not have to move around car seats. We figured once we had a second kid then the additional car seat would become theirs.
Something that we never realized we would have to think about is the minimum weight for the infant seat. Nobody ever thinks you have to bring a less than 5lb baby home from the hospital but we did. Some car seats have a minimum weight of 6lbs. Probably a pretty rare thing, and shouldn't be at the top of the priority list. But just something to think about!
I think the most important thing in selecting a seat is finding one that gets a good install in your car. You can have the safest seat in the world but if it’s not installed securely it is still not safe. A PSA that a lot of people don’t realize: don’t use both the latch and seatbelt to install your seat, that creates too much pressure and can damage the seat.
I was really into searching for the right car seat. I decided on an infant seat first and I went with the Clek Liing Marmont which has Merino wool fabric. I chose it for a few resons, their safety features and data. I chose the wool because it's naturally FR and temperature regulating so baby wouldn't get too hot or cold because of the fabric. One thing I did t think of was how easy it would be to clean.
Then for convertible, I went with the Clek Foonf with the c-zero plus fabric because it is so damn easy to clean and any liquids bead off of it. Again, I echo everything that @zamoraspin2 said about the company and the safety of the seat. It is a narrow seat so you can fit more seating in the back and it's fricken heavy, I hate moving it so I'm buying a second one for DHs car.
I would say the most important thing for FTMs to know about car seats is THEY DO NOT ALL FIT IN ALL CARS AND NOT ALL CARS FIT CAR SEATS WELL!! Do not assume that a car seat you're buying will fit well in your car. Do not assume they're all easy to install. And if you get a car seat and cannot for the life of you figure out how to properly install it after watching a ton of youtube videos, do not assume all car seats are that difficult to install. Return it and get a different one. (Or better yet go to a store that lets you test out install in the parking lot.)
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We have the Britax B-Safe 35. At the time, I chose it for its safety features and ratings. Just like @Blondesweety444 said, it never occurred to me to check the minimum weight requirements, so we got extra lucky with this seat. Definitely didn’t plan on a preemie but DD weighed 4lb 14oz when we brought her home and the Britax minimum is 4 pounds. I wish we had bought an extra car seat base because I had to lug it out of my car every morning before work so DH could put it in his truck and getting it in and out was a pain in the booty. It also clicks right into our BOB stroller with an extra bar we bought.
We moved her to a convertible Britax Marathon when she outgrew the infant seat and she is still in it at 6. I needed something narrow for my little car and the safety ratings are great for this model. It is very heavy and installation takes a minute but we got the hang of it eventually. We have a lighter Cosco seat we take on airplanes and traveling.
Another PSA to make sure every sitter, aunt/uncle, grandparent, friend, or spouse who straps your baby into the car seat gets trained by you how to do it correctly and you check them. Don’t assume just because they’ve used car seats before that they know what they’re doing. Speaking from experience. 😣
This time I am looking at the Bugaboo Turtle which seems similar to the Chico but better looking. I will def stick with Diono for all my non-infants.
For the convertible seat, we have Evenflo Symphony seats. Comfy, two cup holders, easy enough to clean, and move easily from car to car as needed. And slightly cheaper than the big brands.
BFP1 04/24/2015 EDD Dec 2015 MMC 10W5d;
BFP 2 09/25/2015 EDD June 2016 MMC 9wks;
BFP 3 03/22/2016 EDD Dec 6th 2016
We did the Britax B-Safe for DS6 and could still use it for DS3, which we were fine with. We did comparisons and picked a middle ground price one that had higher safety ratings and my SIL got the same seat (she gave birth 4 months before) so the ILs just needed one base for both kids. I don't remember it being hard to install. They even got an extra for the ranger so they could take the kids around the property with the rest of us, lol. I guess the bases weren't expensive, which will be something to think about this time around-some of these extra bases for the more expensive brands are crazy pricey!
We used the Chico Key Fit Zip for a convertible because of "ease of cleaning" HAHAHA. It is NOT easy to remove the damn cover. We could not get it rezipped after the second time and had to stop using it with DS3 because they broke the styrofoam inside while messing around with it. I will definitely be looking at things easy to clean and really easy to remove and easy to put back together.
As a TTM its amazing to me that I'm still looking for these things-my kids are far enough apart that both carseats are expired by now so I'm back at square one! Which is fun but...its gonna be just as expensive as having the first, lol.
BFP1 04/24/2015 EDD Dec 2015 MMC 10W5d;
BFP 2 09/25/2015 EDD June 2016 MMC 9wks;
BFP 3 03/22/2016 EDD Dec 6th 2016