Trying to Get Pregnant
Options

TWW Monday 9/6

**This is a thread that welcomes all regardless of where they are at in their TTC journeys. Please be mindful of topics that are discussed that could be hurtful to those going through tough times. Mention of children or pregnancies of others should have a TW (trigger warning) and be in a spoiler if possible, and only be mentioned if it is extremely pertinent to the conversation. Thanks for keeping this a safe place for us all to engage!** 

Month/Cycle: 

CD/DPO: 

Timing: 

Typical LP length: 

Testing: 

R/R: 

CS/Q: 

Re: TWW Monday 9/6

  • Options

    Month/Cycle: 5/4

    CD/DPO: 22/2

    Timing: o-2,o-1, o+1

    Typical LP length: 11ish

    Testing: 12DPO is the plan…

    R/R: My hope of feeling confident in O date got thwarted, but I’m going to go ahead and switch over to TWW anyway. Got called at 1:15 AM to go check on things at work because of an employee concern. It all turned out ok but nonetheless means I didn’t get back to sleep until 4 and woke up at 7:30. Decided to temp then anyway because I know it’ll go up the rest of the morning regardless and invalidate a later test. So who knows. I’m still going to assume an O date of CD20 based on my opks.

    CS/Q: After three long months I finally have an OBGYN appointment tomorrow to hopefully get some feedback on irregular cycles! I’m paranoid that I won’t be taken seriously because I think the only thing they’ll hear is we’ve been TTC since May. If statistically speaking I only have 10 seconds of the doctor’s attention then I want to make sure I use that 10 seconds wisely. Any advice on what would be important to discuss based on the following (I’ll spoiler it since it’s a little lengthy)? Or do I just lay it all out there and see what they say?

    Cycles varying in length from 19-41 days (I have data for about 40 cycles over the last 4 years to show this)

    Difficult periods with most symptoms lining up with endo, plus an immediate family history of endo

    Family history of autoimmune and inflammation type disorders 

    CBAD tests showing an early estrogen surge that doesn’t line up with O, plus multiple small LH surges with no peaks

  • Options

    Month/Cycle: 3/1AL

    CD/DPO: 32/13

    Timing: good

    Typical LP length: 16

    Testing: Maybe tomorrow am. Maybe WFAF. 

    R/R: got to see some friends this morning that I hadnt seen in a while and it was lovely! 

    CS/Q: What's your MO when it comes to HPT? Do you go for dollar store tests or spend the big bucks for FRER (or do you go in between and use the generic brand)?

  • Loading the player...
  • Options
    Not posting today but wanted to address @pinkkillersheep: girl… you laid it out pretty well about what you need to ask your doc. I wouldn’t mention the CBAD estrogen thing… it (CBAD) is not meant as a diagnostic for anything so it’s not a good idea to read into mismatches between readings and O. And especially given 10 sec of your doctor’s attention, I would focus on endo, autoimmune conditions, and questions around confirmation of ovulation. You should try and get day 3 hormone panel as well as a “day 21” progesterone test (taken 7 DPO, not necessarily CD 21). You should ask for a CBC and a full thyroid panel at the minimum. Boy… there’s just so much to unpack there. Endo can’t be confirmed without more invasive testing (ultrasound, hysteroscopy, laparoscopy, etc) and I don’t know how your doc will feel about that at this point in time. Anyway, good luck and let us know how it all goes. 
    MY CHART
    TTC History
    TTC#2
    Me: 40.5; MH: 39 | Met 02/2009 | Started Dating 08/2017 | Married 02/02/2020
    TTC #2 ... preparing as of March 2024


    TTC #1
    Me: 36, MH: 34 | Met 02/2009 | Started Dating 08/2017 | Married 02/02/2020
    TTC #1 02/2020 - 07/2022
    2009 | Dx PCOS; likely a misdiagnosis
    07/14/20 | Dx Hashimoto's Thyroditis
    07/21/20 | 1st RE appointment
    07/2120 - 08/20/20 | so much testing; no signs of PCOS
    08/20/20 | Dx Unexplained; AMA
    09/08/20 | IUI #1 Clomid + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
    09/30/20 | Urology consult; more testing required
    10/2020 | Clomid + OPK + TI + Prometrium | BFN
    10/26/2020 | Starting 2nd IUI cycle, with Letrazole and with a new RE / different clinic
    11/03/2020 | New Dx "poor egg quality"; IUI cancelled in favor of Trigger + TI + Prometrium | BFN
    11/26/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Menopur) + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
    12/20/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Gonal-F) + Trigger | IUI Cancelled due to thin lining; TI only | BFN
    01/14/2021 | Combo IUI (Letrazole + Menopur) + Trigger | BFN
    02/06/2021 | Switched to a new RE (TEW) ; trying naturally until we complete additional testing 
    03/14/2021 | Hybrid Double IUI, with Zymot (Letrazole, Gonal-F) + Trigger + Endometrin | Ovulated 4 mature eggs but still a BFN ☹️
    04/07/2021 | Natural cycle while we regroup | BFN
    04/09/2021 | Employer announces fertility benefits starting 05/01/2021! | Search for a new doctor who accepts insurance
    05/10/2021 | New RE consult & plan for IVF
    05/13/2021 | Mid-luteal IVF cycle #1 interrupted; had to get cancer genetic screening done to make sure I didn't have the same SDHA gene mutation as MH. 
    06/10/2021 | Aygestin priming IVF cycle #1; opted to Cx after 9 days of stims since only 5-6/12 follicles responded
    07/26/2021 | Attempt #2 at IVF cycle #1 (mid-luteal start): 8 retrieved, 8 MII, 6 fert (1 PN3), 3 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 3AA, 3AA, 6AB; 3 euploid
    08/09/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC | Shockingly, a BFP! EDD: 5/25/202 | CP at 4w4d
    09/23/2021 | IVF cycle #2 (mid-luteal start): 14 retrieved, 13 MII, 11 fert, 5 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 2 x 3AA, 2 x 3AB, 3BB; 2 euploid
    11/12/2021 | IVF cycle #3 (mid-luteal start): cancelled due to ovaries being on vacation
    12/20/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + Pregmune Immunology Testing; BFN
    01/22/2022 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + understanding uncovered immunological issues; BFN
    02/18/2022 | Mock transfer cycle! ERA, ReceptivaDx, EMMA/ALICE; start Prednisone to address NK activity
    03/16/2022 | Final, "Hail Mary" super-ovulation + TI cycle before FET; BFP! EDD: 12/21/2022 | MMC 05/08/2022
    05/20/2022 | D&C; recovering... 
    06/21/2022 | Trying naturally until October 2022
    07/21/2022 | BFP! EDD 04/02/2023; 👦🏼 born on 4/5/2023


Sign In or Register to comment.
Choose Another Board
Search Boards
"
"