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Month/Cycle:
CD/DPO:
Timing:
Typical LP length:
Testing:
R/R:
CS/Q:
Re: TWW Monday 9/6
Month/Cycle: 5/4
CD/DPO: 22/2
Timing: o-2,o-1, o+1
Typical LP length: 11ish
Testing: 12DPO is the plan…
R/R: My hope of feeling confident in O date got thwarted, but I’m going to go ahead and switch over to TWW anyway. Got called at 1:15 AM to go check on things at work because of an employee concern. It all turned out ok but nonetheless means I didn’t get back to sleep until 4 and woke up at 7:30. Decided to temp then anyway because I know it’ll go up the rest of the morning regardless and invalidate a later test. So who knows. I’m still going to assume an O date of CD20 based on my opks.
CS/Q: After three long months I finally have an OBGYN appointment tomorrow to hopefully get some feedback on irregular cycles! I’m paranoid that I won’t be taken seriously because I think the only thing they’ll hear is we’ve been TTC since May. If statistically speaking I only have 10 seconds of the doctor’s attention then I want to make sure I use that 10 seconds wisely. Any advice on what would be important to discuss based on the following (I’ll spoiler it since it’s a little lengthy)? Or do I just lay it all out there and see what they say?
Cycles varying in length from 19-41 days (I have data for about 40 cycles over the last 4 years to show this)
Difficult periods with most symptoms lining up with endo, plus an immediate family history of endo
Family history of autoimmune and inflammation type disorders
CBAD tests showing an early estrogen surge that doesn’t line up with O, plus multiple small LH surges with no peaks
Month/Cycle: 3/1AL
CD/DPO: 32/13
Timing: good
Typical LP length: 16
Testing: Maybe tomorrow am. Maybe WFAF.
R/R: got to see some friends this morning that I hadnt seen in a while and it was lovely!
CS/Q: What's your MO when it comes to HPT? Do you go for dollar store tests or spend the big bucks for FRER (or do you go in between and use the generic brand)?
TTC#2
TTC #2 ... preparing as of March 2024
TTC #1
TTC #1 02/2020 - 07/2022
2009 | Dx PCOS; likely a misdiagnosis
07/14/20 | Dx Hashimoto's Thyroditis
07/21/20 | 1st RE appointment
07/2120 - 08/20/20 | so much testing; no signs of PCOS
08/20/20 | Dx Unexplained; AMA
09/08/20 | IUI #1 Clomid + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
09/30/20 | Urology consult; more testing required
10/2020 | Clomid + OPK + TI + Prometrium | BFN
10/26/2020 | Starting 2nd IUI cycle, with Letrazole and with a new RE / different clinic
11/03/2020 | New Dx "poor egg quality"; IUI cancelled in favor of Trigger + TI + Prometrium | BFN
11/26/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Menopur) + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
12/20/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Gonal-F) + Trigger | IUI Cancelled due to thin lining; TI only | BFN
01/14/2021 | Combo IUI (Letrazole + Menopur) + Trigger | BFN
02/06/2021 | Switched to a new RE (TEW) ; trying naturally until we complete additional testing
03/14/2021 | Hybrid Double IUI, with Zymot (Letrazole, Gonal-F) + Trigger + Endometrin | Ovulated 4 mature eggs but still a BFN ☹️
04/07/2021 | Natural cycle while we regroup | BFN
04/09/2021 | Employer announces fertility benefits starting 05/01/2021! | Search for a new doctor who accepts insurance
05/10/2021 | New RE consult & plan for IVF
05/13/2021 | Mid-luteal IVF cycle #1 interrupted; had to get cancer genetic screening done to make sure I didn't have the same SDHA gene mutation as MH.
06/10/2021 | Aygestin priming IVF cycle #1; opted to Cx after 9 days of stims since only 5-6/12 follicles responded
07/26/2021 | Attempt #2 at IVF cycle #1 (mid-luteal start): 8 retrieved, 8 MII, 6 fert (1 PN3), 3 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 3AA, 3AA, 6AB; 3 euploid
08/09/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC | Shockingly, a BFP! EDD: 5/25/202 | CP at 4w4d
09/23/2021 | IVF cycle #2 (mid-luteal start): 14 retrieved, 13 MII, 11 fert, 5 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 2 x 3AA, 2 x 3AB, 3BB; 2 euploid
11/12/2021 | IVF cycle #3 (mid-luteal start): cancelled due to ovaries being on vacation
12/20/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + Pregmune Immunology Testing; BFN
01/22/2022 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + understanding uncovered immunological issues; BFN
02/18/2022 | Mock transfer cycle! ERA, ReceptivaDx, EMMA/ALICE; start Prednisone to address NK activity
03/16/2022 | Final, "Hail Mary" super-ovulation + TI cycle before FET; BFP! EDD: 12/21/2022 | MMC 05/08/2022
05/20/2022 | D&C; recovering...
06/21/2022 | Trying naturally until October 2022
07/21/2022 | BFP! EDD 04/02/2023; 👦🏼 born on 4/5/2023