I recently moved from one state to another and have had 2 prenatal appointments with my new doctor(s). The doctors are friendly but the office isn't very clean and I found out they don't have a NICU at the hospital I would be delivering at (a Level 1 nursery equipped for births 35+ weeks... says I would go to different hospital if premature or baby in a helicopter to get intensive treatment if needed but that they are ready to handle these situations). There is a hospital at a similar distance from me with a Level II NICU that is equipped for births 32+ weeks. However, when I called a doctor affiliated with the hospital to make an appointment, they said they can't accept me because they are full and 22 weeks is late to transfer. Should I keep looking and go to a doctor with less favorable reviews who is associated with the hospital with better NICU? It is hard to find a doctor with consistently good reviews associated with this hospital.
Re: Switch doctor at 22 weeks?
I've been in state of the art buildings where the bathrooms were not as clean - I had to empty my bladder before a test and there was urine on the seat and a urine catcher in the trash. It happens, just mention it and they will take care of it w/ proper protection.
Who cares if the scale is not electronic - it still gives accurate (if not MORE ACCURATE) weight. 3D ultrasounds are not a necessity unless you need level 2 care. A standard ultrasound machine is perfectly fine.
Sorry, but in the grand scheme of things - those are very minor. If you are more comfortable w/ your provider to wear a mask, just ask.
It sounds like there is no worry about a need for NICU. If you were high risk then I would be more concerned. You need to do what you feel is best, but honestly just because some place is more "updated" doesn't necessarily mean that the care is better.
i would rather take a friendly doc with good reviews over someone with brand new equipment and sh*tty bedside manner.
FWIW, I moved states around 21 weeks and didn’t see my new midwife until 26 weeks. So it’s possible, but they can have whatever policies in place that work for them.
I saw multiple different midwives for my prenatal care and had different ones while I was being induced (took two full days). And then in the end needed a high risk OB to deliver my son last minute because he was stuck and I developed an infection. So I didn’t really care who was taking care of us as long as they knew what they were doing 🤷🏻♀️
I honestly just feel like you need to relax and enjoy the best part of your pregnancy. If you aren't comfortable find somewhere else, but if the only reason you want to transfer is the very slim reason your baby may need NICU, then I would recommend you evaluate why you're so anxious about it.