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CS/Q:
Re: WTO Tuesday 6.1
Month/Cycle: 24/3 AL
CD: 1
WAYDTGKU: hopefully Letrozole & TI
R/R: AF showed up this morning right on time. I’m planning to call my doctor this morning and ask about doing a medicated cycle since my primary isn’t concerned about diabetes. I’m so anxious what his answer will be.
We officially booked our flights to Italy on Friday. We leave in 2.5 weeks which is crazy! I’m so ridiculously excited!
CS/Q:
Month/Cycle: n/a, cycle 0 AL
CD: 13
WAYDTGKU: bbt/cm, currently benched
R/R: rant: MF mosquitoes!!! I have 10 bites all over me, and I have no idea when I got most of them! The rain here needs to stop, and dare I say it, it needs to get hotter so those b*tches don't come out.
CS/Q: nothing to see.
TW loss
Eta: spoilered my CS/Q just in case.
Month/Cycle: 3/3
CD: 4
WAYDTGKU: PNV, Mira, Proov, ordered Mosie so gonna try that this cycle
R/R: we had a great weekend with family, which is a rave. But it makes me not want to work, which is my rant.
CS/Q: none really
@gingermama29 I’m soooooo envious, love Italy so much! How exciting to get away!
@pajamstagrams mosquitos are a plague here too. And I swear I’m the one they prefer to bite because in a crowd I’m the one with 10 bites and everybody else escapes with one. TW loss mentioned
That first cycle after a loss can be so weird, just adds to the emotional gut punch. After my losses my cycle returned to its version of normal the second cycle following the loss. Hope your experience is as smooth as possible.
@pajamstagrams we got so lucky not having bugs on Sunday when we had family over. And it was a super still day. Isn't that when they're likely to come out?? I'm currently still dealing with a small cluster on my butt cheek towards my hip. They won't itch until I end up scratching them which then makes me feel I need to scratch even harder. Ugh. At least I've gotten better at not giving myself bruises. Apparently you can do that to yourself if you scratch hard enough for a long enough period of time.
@rachelredhead add me to the don't really wanna work today crowd lol. The long weekend wasn't long enough IMO haha
Month/Cycle: 48/7 AL
CD: 10
WAYDTGKU: bbt, opks, CM, GF/DF diet, supplements
R/R: our Sunday was absolutely exhausting hosting family. DH and I slept in until 10am yesterday. I had my alarm set for my usual temping time and promptly fell asleep right away for another 3.5 hours. Glad it's a short work week this week.
Rant - hitting 4 full years TTC
CS/Q:
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC ended due to filing divorce
**New relationship starting May 2024**
Surprise BFP!! | 9.7.25 | EDD 5.11.26
@inthewoods23 hugs, friend. ❤️
Also yes you can get bruises/welts from scratching. I got about 50 on my legs one summer, and they literally took months to fade from the nasty purple. Definitely found out who my real friends were at the time, high school girls are b*tches!
@rachelredhead I'm absolutely a mosquito, etc. magnet. But if you Google all the factors that make people more susceptible, I have none of them 🤷♀️
TW loss
Month/Cycle: 3
CD: 10
WAYDTGKU: OPKs, BBT, CM, DH and I are adding mucinex because why the heck not
R/R: i went to log onto my computer this morning to find that one of the cats knocked over the flowers DH got for me last week and my laptop was sitting in a puddle (probably since yesterday, who knows). It turns on but the keyboard won’t work, so that’s fun. I currently have it resting on some rice with rice on the keyboard as well, I don’t know what else to do! Not the ideal way to return to work.
Also not to be too tmi but I had a lot of EWCM going on yesterday which was confusing on CD 9. Once again I’m happy I’m temping this cycle to see what’s going on
CS/Q: looking fairly consistent other than the one morning after drinking too much. I also converted several temps since I’ve been sleeping like trash and have been taking them at random times.
Edited bc my tags are messed up
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC ended due to filing divorce
**New relationship starting May 2024**
Surprise BFP!! | 9.7.25 | EDD 5.11.26
@rachelredhead also team not wanting to work today. Hope the day goes by quickly!
@inthewoods23 sending hugs friend for that milestone.
Month/Cycle: 3/3
CD: 1
WAYDTGKU: OPKs, BDing EOD between end of AF & a few days past O
R/R: There was a lot of stuff going on at the end of May, so I'm glad it's June. My birthday was yesterday, so another year older. Numbers have a feeling to me, so 33 feels good; hard to explain.
CS/Q: Nada
@pajamstagrams The dang mosquitos are back here, too. I have to put bug spray at all doors so I don't forget to apply it when I step outside the house.
@rachelredhead glad to hear you had a good weekend; I also don't want to return to work today.
@inthewoods23 -hugs-
@b_1029 Oh no, I hope your laptop recovers. That's the worst.
@gingermama29 oooh, Italy sounds fun!
@pajamstagrams mosquitos are the worst, blugh.
@rachelredhead boo back to work. It's always tough after a long weekend.
@inthewoods23 sorry it was exhausting, and hugs for you.
@b_1029 oh no! Try googling how to take apart your laptop model, and remove the keyboard and stuff so it can dry out inside if possible. My husband spilled a glass of water on his laptop a couple months ago, and we looked it up online and found videos on how to take off the bottom covering and the keyboard and such and were able to get paper towels in there, and left it open to air dry for about 2 days. It ended up being completely fine afterward.
Unrelated to the laptop, I had the same thing this cycle, had TONS of EWCM on Sunday, but no temp shift or opk change. Which I'm kind of glad about since our HIO attempts this weekend encountered...issues on DH's side (frustrating but a whole separate rant).
Month/Cycle: 8/7
CD: 19
WAYDTGKU: bbt, opks, cm, preseed, cinnamon supplements
R/R: Had a nice long weekend. Had a laugh yesterday. Went to the store and got some Preseed to try, and in the instructions was a manufacturer's coupon...that expired in 2017.
CS/Q: hoping I O in the next few days but based on my history it could be like 10+ more days. Bah.
Ugh and yeah, I had to use bug spray while working out in my garage. So annoying!
@fantasyflyte you and me both re: O day hopes. Hurry up and get here, dang it!
Also is the pre-seed expired??
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC ended due to filing divorce
**New relationship starting May 2024**
Surprise BFP!! | 9.7.25 | EDD 5.11.26
@b_1029 Oh no -- sorry about your computer. If it was turned off when it happened, there might be hope!
@beakay8 Happy belated birthday!
@inthewoods23 Hugs
@gingermama29 I hope ovulation day is today and that you are back to some normalcy with your cycles. Fx.
Month/Cycle: 5/4
CD: 6
WAYDTGKU: Mira
R/R: Just still feeling annoyed at my OB about not getting my Letrozole refill ready in time. It is ready today but that doesn't really do much good now. At least I'll be able to drink at my sister's bridal shower this weekend and bachelorette party later this month without worrying. Silver linings lol. Weekend was good though! I feel like I need a day off to recover though. We were go-go-go all weekend.
CS/Q: Nope
@pajamstagrams ugh mosquitoes are the WORST. I blow up like a balloon whenever I get a bit, I have to be so careful. FX O is coming soon!
@rachelredhead the struggle to get up for work this morning was REAL. Hopefully your day goes by fast!
@inthewoods23 hugs
@b_1029 eek! Hope you are able to solve your computer troubles. Is it your personal computer or your work computer? Don't you love early EWCM - like body what are you doing?
@beakay8 happy birthday! Did you do anything fun to celebrate?
@fantasyflyte omg! How long has that been on the shelf haha
@kgg2241 that's so frustrating about your OB! Have you gotten into contact with her at all?
Month/Cycle: 13/12
CD: 15
WAYDTGKU: things
R/R: I was shocked to wake up this morning and realize it was CD15. I'm probably a little late to start CBAD but I'll try tomorrow and see what happens. The weekend was gray but my dad came up and helped us do the kitchen backsplash - I'm so excited! That just about wraps up the interior home improvements since we started renovating our house 2 years ago. Alleluia!
CS/Q:
@kgg2241 haha thanks. Today CD 1 though so I’m not expecting O any time soon. So frustrating about your OB and Letrozole but I’m glad you’ve found a silver lining.