BFN

Re: BFN

• meggyme member

  May 2021 edited May 2021

  annaclausen said:

  AF is 4 days late as of today (May 14th) but I'm 19dpo but still get BFN. Please let me hear your stories where you get a late BFP just so I know I'm still in the game. 
  
  I have nausea, headaches and cramps so it's hard for me to believe it's AF but not preggo symptoms. 
  
  P.s. I posted this in the TTC place here on the bump and got nothing but attacks, so if you're going to attack me, don't bother, just scroll. If you are willing to share a HELPFUL comment I welcome you

  If you are getting a negative hpt you are not pregnant. Unless you are temping you don’t really know when (or if) you ovulated and could not have ovulated yet. There are many reasons why your period could be late because bodies are weird and unpredictable. If you don’t believe your pregnancy test call your doctor. No one can tell you you’re pregnant over the internet.
  
  And also, don’t bash TTGP. They’re everywhere and the most supportive group of people you’ll ever find and all they ask is that you follow the rules.
  
  ETA: you might want to change your username to something other than your name.

  DD1: June '16 DD2: March ‘19 :::: Married since 2011 :::: USN Wife ::::

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• Lisa3379 member

  May 2021

  What @meggyme said. I've been pregnant 5 times, and each time, my BFP came at least 3 days before my period was supposed to start. I've never had a positive after that date. I also echo @meggyme re: TTGP. I was there for a few months and it is a community of the most supportive ladies ever. I also read the rules pretty closely to make sure my future posts were in the right place and I used TW tags when necessary and all that. Trying to get pregnant can be a super emotional process. Your question probably would've been answered in a constructive way had you introduced yourself first and posted the question in the appropriate place. FWIW, if you're serious about TTGP and you want help and advice from others, try the board again. Introduce yourself. I'm sure the ladies there will give you another chance if you are genuine about being a participant.  

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• lelkcot member

  May 2021

  If you’re getting multiple negative pregnancy test than you simply are not pregnant at this time. As has been mentioned, unless you’re tracking and confirming ovulation (and no, an app in which you note when your period starts doesn’t count as tracking) than you can’t actually know if your period is late. Wait a few more days and if AF hasn’t shown, test again. If you don’t get a positive test or AF after 60 days, call your doctor.
  Frankly, the ladies of TTGP were not “attacking” you, simply telling you how that board works. If you want a smart, scientific minded, kind and supportive group to talk to while TTC, they are exactly that. If you’re just looking for a place to ask questions and get sunshine answers, probably not a good fit.

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• emeraldcity1214 member

  May 2021

  First off, grow some thicker skin. I read your post in TTGP and no one attacked you. 

  
  

  Second, don’t make a post and demand people respond a certain way. This is a public forum and people can respond how they want. 

  
  

  Third, a negative test means you aren’t pregnant. No one can tell you what you want to hear. So I’m not sure why you keep making this post on multiple boards. 

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• harpseal135 member

  May 2021

  Until you turn a test - you are NOT pregnant.  
  
  
  

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• babybelugaco member

  May 2021

  Since you're looking for some positivity, I'll throw in my experience here. I took a HPT 2 days before my missed period, 3 days into my missed period, and the last day of my expected period and they were all extremely negative. I had lower back cramps and tender breasts and knew something was going on, it's exactly how I felt when I got pregnant with my daughter. 
  I didn't get a super faint positive until a day or 2 after my missed period and a positive digital a day after that. I didn't track with OPKs or anything other than my period tracker and watching my CM. So my BFP came ~20DPO. I'm currently just over 20w pregnant. 

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