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Chart Stalk / Questions – April 2021

Post your charts & ask your questions here. 

MY CHART
TTC History
TTC#2
Me: 40.5; MH: 39 | Met 02/2009 | Started Dating 08/2017 | Married 02/02/2020
TTC #2 ... preparing as of March 2024


TTC #1
Me: 36, MH: 34 | Met 02/2009 | Started Dating 08/2017 | Married 02/02/2020
TTC #1 02/2020 - 07/2022
2009 | Dx PCOS; likely a misdiagnosis
07/14/20 | Dx Hashimoto's Thyroditis
07/21/20 | 1st RE appointment
07/2120 - 08/20/20 | so much testing; no signs of PCOS
08/20/20 | Dx Unexplained; AMA
09/08/20 | IUI #1 Clomid + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
09/30/20 | Urology consult; more testing required
10/2020 | Clomid + OPK + TI + Prometrium | BFN
10/26/2020 | Starting 2nd IUI cycle, with Letrazole and with a new RE / different clinic
11/03/2020 | New Dx "poor egg quality"; IUI cancelled in favor of Trigger + TI + Prometrium | BFN
11/26/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Menopur) + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
12/20/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Gonal-F) + Trigger | IUI Cancelled due to thin lining; TI only | BFN
01/14/2021 | Combo IUI (Letrazole + Menopur) + Trigger | BFN
02/06/2021 | Switched to a new RE (TEW) ; trying naturally until we complete additional testing 
03/14/2021 | Hybrid Double IUI, with Zymot (Letrazole, Gonal-F) + Trigger + Endometrin | Ovulated 4 mature eggs but still a BFN ☹️
04/07/2021 | Natural cycle while we regroup | BFN
04/09/2021 | Employer announces fertility benefits starting 05/01/2021! | Search for a new doctor who accepts insurance
05/10/2021 | New RE consult & plan for IVF
05/13/2021 | Mid-luteal IVF cycle #1 interrupted; had to get cancer genetic screening done to make sure I didn't have the same SDHA gene mutation as MH. 
06/10/2021 | Aygestin priming IVF cycle #1; opted to Cx after 9 days of stims since only 5-6/12 follicles responded
07/26/2021 | Attempt #2 at IVF cycle #1 (mid-luteal start): 8 retrieved, 8 MII, 6 fert (1 PN3), 3 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 3AA, 3AA, 6AB; 3 euploid
08/09/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC | Shockingly, a BFP! EDD: 5/25/202 | CP at 4w4d
09/23/2021 | IVF cycle #2 (mid-luteal start): 14 retrieved, 13 MII, 11 fert, 5 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 2 x 3AA, 2 x 3AB, 3BB; 2 euploid
11/12/2021 | IVF cycle #3 (mid-luteal start): cancelled due to ovaries being on vacation
12/20/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + Pregmune Immunology Testing; BFN
01/22/2022 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + understanding uncovered immunological issues; BFN
02/18/2022 | Mock transfer cycle! ERA, ReceptivaDx, EMMA/ALICE; start Prednisone to address NK activity
03/16/2022 | Final, "Hail Mary" super-ovulation + TI cycle before FET; BFP! EDD: 12/21/2022 | MMC 05/08/2022
05/20/2022 | D&C; recovering... 
06/21/2022 | Trying naturally until October 2022
07/21/2022 | BFP! EDD 04/02/2023; 👦🏼 born on 4/5/2023


Re: Chart Stalk / Questions – April 2021

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    @griffonmama This is where you can ask your bbt / charting questions! 
    MY CHART
    TTC History
    TTC#2
    Me: 40.5; MH: 39 | Met 02/2009 | Started Dating 08/2017 | Married 02/02/2020
    TTC #2 ... preparing as of March 2024


    TTC #1
    Me: 36, MH: 34 | Met 02/2009 | Started Dating 08/2017 | Married 02/02/2020
    TTC #1 02/2020 - 07/2022
    2009 | Dx PCOS; likely a misdiagnosis
    07/14/20 | Dx Hashimoto's Thyroditis
    07/21/20 | 1st RE appointment
    07/2120 - 08/20/20 | so much testing; no signs of PCOS
    08/20/20 | Dx Unexplained; AMA
    09/08/20 | IUI #1 Clomid + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
    09/30/20 | Urology consult; more testing required
    10/2020 | Clomid + OPK + TI + Prometrium | BFN
    10/26/2020 | Starting 2nd IUI cycle, with Letrazole and with a new RE / different clinic
    11/03/2020 | New Dx "poor egg quality"; IUI cancelled in favor of Trigger + TI + Prometrium | BFN
    11/26/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Menopur) + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
    12/20/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Gonal-F) + Trigger | IUI Cancelled due to thin lining; TI only | BFN
    01/14/2021 | Combo IUI (Letrazole + Menopur) + Trigger | BFN
    02/06/2021 | Switched to a new RE (TEW) ; trying naturally until we complete additional testing 
    03/14/2021 | Hybrid Double IUI, with Zymot (Letrazole, Gonal-F) + Trigger + Endometrin | Ovulated 4 mature eggs but still a BFN ☹️
    04/07/2021 | Natural cycle while we regroup | BFN
    04/09/2021 | Employer announces fertility benefits starting 05/01/2021! | Search for a new doctor who accepts insurance
    05/10/2021 | New RE consult & plan for IVF
    05/13/2021 | Mid-luteal IVF cycle #1 interrupted; had to get cancer genetic screening done to make sure I didn't have the same SDHA gene mutation as MH. 
    06/10/2021 | Aygestin priming IVF cycle #1; opted to Cx after 9 days of stims since only 5-6/12 follicles responded
    07/26/2021 | Attempt #2 at IVF cycle #1 (mid-luteal start): 8 retrieved, 8 MII, 6 fert (1 PN3), 3 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 3AA, 3AA, 6AB; 3 euploid
    08/09/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC | Shockingly, a BFP! EDD: 5/25/202 | CP at 4w4d
    09/23/2021 | IVF cycle #2 (mid-luteal start): 14 retrieved, 13 MII, 11 fert, 5 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 2 x 3AA, 2 x 3AB, 3BB; 2 euploid
    11/12/2021 | IVF cycle #3 (mid-luteal start): cancelled due to ovaries being on vacation
    12/20/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + Pregmune Immunology Testing; BFN
    01/22/2022 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + understanding uncovered immunological issues; BFN
    02/18/2022 | Mock transfer cycle! ERA, ReceptivaDx, EMMA/ALICE; start Prednisone to address NK activity
    03/16/2022 | Final, "Hail Mary" super-ovulation + TI cycle before FET; BFP! EDD: 12/21/2022 | MMC 05/08/2022
    05/20/2022 | D&C; recovering... 
    06/21/2022 | Trying naturally until October 2022
    07/21/2022 | BFP! EDD 04/02/2023; 👦🏼 born on 4/5/2023


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    fifilala516fifilala516 member
    edited April 2021
    So I've been using CBAD to track my cycle since my...

    **TW**

    ...CP (sorry, haven't figured out yet how to hide the TWs!)...

    and I had low fertility for a few days, then a week of high fertility, and I tested again today and it's back to low - never had a peak. It's possible I missed it since I was only testing once a day, but has that happened to anyone else? 

    Edit: My CM indicates that I am still at high/possibly peak fertility. I should add that I got the low fertility after getting an error message earlier that day using first urine of the day. I had waited the appropriate amount of time before testing again, which is when I got the low, so perhaps the urine was too diluted.
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    I don't know why my temperatures are doing this...could it be my thermometer??


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    I’m not sure if this is the place to ask this or not but I have a couple questions about taking temps.
    1. Does it matter what time you take it as long as you’ve been at rest for a few hours? I see a lot of people get up early to check it and talk about going back to sleep when they get up to check it earlier then they get up 🤔🤷‍♀️
    2. What if you have to get up to pee or you have a toddler that sleeps in your bed and is often trying to e right on top of you and that makes you move around? Will you never get an accurate reading or be able to take your temp?🤔🤷‍♀️ 
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    @griffonmama

    Yes, it does matter, but how much varies. My temp is usually 0.1-0.2F higher if I take it more than an hour "late". For me, that only really affects temps when trying to determine when I ovulated, so I definitely try to be consistent during my fertile window. 
    Rest in spoiler *TW LC mentioned*
    I was pumping at 1 am FOREVER with my daughter, so sometimes I would only have 3 hrs of sleep before I woke up, and typically 4 hrs+ is suggested. That being said, for me, even getting up to pee an hour before I take my temp doesn't affect it too much, so my midnight pump sessions didn't cause any issues with charting and seeing patterns. But again, it's going to vary person to person. Give it a few months and see what you get. 

    @deaf_girl are you referring to the repeating temps? My old thermometer favored the same temp at least 5-6x a month, even with a newish battery, so I bought a new one. Problem solved. Try changing the battery or just buy a new one (preferably not in the middle of your cycle) and see if that helps!
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    @fifilala516  The CBADs can be tricky if you are experiencing a longer surge.  You are only supposed to test with those once a day, so that's fine, and I would try to stick with FMU or SMU (it may say in the instructions) but the exact time or whatever doesn't matter.  I think more likely than you missing Peak, is that possibly things backed off a bit and you didn't actually ovulate yet.  Do your temps corroborate that?  It helps so much to have more than once piece of data to provide more insight into what may be going on.

    If you want to try using cheapie OPK strips, THOSE I would use twice a day once you start to see some action, (I usually did morning and late afternoon), and possibly three times a day, (morning, late afternoon, evening), as you start to see them looking close to positive, so you don't miss it.  But that is a non-issue with the digital ones.  Once you get a Peak, it will stop working for that cycle, whereas a false surge would not give you a Peak reading, so just hang in there...

    @deaf_girl  That does happen sometimes that you get the exact same reading two days in a row.  When I have that, I usually try to re-temp in a few minutes and see if I get a different number, just to make sure it's working.  If the new temp is similar, then I don't worry about it and it's probably just a fluke thing, nbd.  If the new number is TOTALLY different, then I will use that second temp instead.  Either way, since you are post-O, even if one temp ends up being a little wonky, it won't make a difference in your overall chart.  At 5 or 6 DPO, you are safely just riding out until test day (or AF).  As long as they stay up there, you should turn a positive test, but if they come down and AF arrives, then that tells you about how long you can expect your LP to be going forward.  GL!!!

    @griffonmama You will see what works for you.  Some people with weird schedules just temp after their longest sleep, most people like to find a consistent TIME to temp, and then either get up or go back to sleep depending on the day.  As far as moving around, it shouldn't make a huge difference.  I keep my thermometer under my pillow and temp while still laying in bed.  You just don't want to get up and move around, go to the bathroom, etc, and then come back and temp once you've gotten OUT of bed.  Make sense?
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    @pajamstagrams thanks, if I have to I will...

    @BusinessWife I will definitely try that...thanks, I know I don't have the best chances, but I'm still crossing my fingers...
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    Ok! So how do you know what time is a good time to do it every morning? It looks like around 5-6 is what I see a lot of people doing but how do you know if your doing it “late” 🤔🤔🤷‍♀️
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    @griffonmama. Literally all that matters is the pattern, not the levels, so you should pick any time you can do it consistently. I think a lot of people do it early on weekends and go back to sleep because that is their normal wakeup time on weekdays. I have a fairly consistent wakeup time, so I just did it whenever I woke up, I rolled over and temped before I got out of bed. It takes a bit of time to figure out what affects your temps (other than ovulation), and you learn to see the patterns over time, but it's not immediate. It's good to combine with cheap OPKs when you're first starting out if you really want to nail your timing. 
    TTC History
    TTC #1 Sep 2017-Sep 2018 
    BFP 11/30/2017 | MMC 12/31/2017
    BFP 6/22/2018 | CP 6/27/2018
    BFP 10/5/2018 | EDD 6/14/2019
    Baby girl born 6/19/19

    TTC #2 May 2020-November 2021
    BFP 7/18/2020 | MonoDi Twins | MMC 9/10/2020
    BFP 11/7/2020 | CP 11/9/2020
    RE Consult January 2021 | Dx "borderline DOR"/RPL
    IVF with PGT:
    Standard Antagonist:
    ER #1 3/27/2021 7R | 5M | 3F | 2B | 1 PGT-A Normal, 1 low-level mosaic
    ER #2 4/22/2021 10R | 7M | 3F | 2B | 0 normal, 2 aneuploid
    ER #3 5/19/2021 2R | 1M | 0F
    Estrogen Priming Antagonist:
    ER #4 7/10/2021 5R | 4M | 3F | 1B | 1 PGT-A Normal
    Duostim  (Standard Antagonist):
    ER #5 9/22/2021 13R | 11M | 8F | 5B | 2 PGT-A Normal, 1 low-level mosaic, 2 aneuploid
    ER #6 10/9/2021  9R | 6M | 4 F | 1B | 1 aneuploid
    FET #1  11/5/2021 | EDD 7/24/2022
    Baby boy born 7/19/22

    TTC #3 since May 2023 (ntnp)
    IVF Started Fall 2023 (Standard Antagonist)
    ER #7 10/6/2023 | 9R | 6M | 5F | 3B | 2 aneuploid, 1 high-level mosaic
    ER #8 10/31/2023 | 5R | 4M | 3F | 1B | 1 PGT-A Normal
    FET #2 11/27/23 | CP (bHCG = 8)
    FET #3 planned Jan 2024



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    @fifilala516. The CBADs are programmed not to go back to "low" after a "high" reading, so I'm guessing it was an error. They are basically just an estrogen threshold test, which reads high as soon as you are higher than your baseline estrogen (for me this was useless because it was nearly always high the second day I tested no matter what). Then it reads "high" until it detects an LH-surge, which is also threshold based. If you get a lot of days of high with no peak, it's likely one of two things is going on. Either your estrogen level is high or bounces around a lot, and so your "high" was sort of a false-positive, or your LH surge is low, and so you never get a peak because you never reach the threshold (I also had some of these problems). If you don't have the textbook CBAD cycle pattern, they really aren't very useful. I found that either (a) cheapie OPKs + CM (cheap option) or (b) mira (expensive option) gave me much more insight into actual O timing. As for this cycle, I'm guessing you have not O-ed yet. Keep trying!
    TTC History
    TTC #1 Sep 2017-Sep 2018 
    BFP 11/30/2017 | MMC 12/31/2017
    BFP 6/22/2018 | CP 6/27/2018
    BFP 10/5/2018 | EDD 6/14/2019
    Baby girl born 6/19/19

    TTC #2 May 2020-November 2021
    BFP 7/18/2020 | MonoDi Twins | MMC 9/10/2020
    BFP 11/7/2020 | CP 11/9/2020
    RE Consult January 2021 | Dx "borderline DOR"/RPL
    IVF with PGT:
    Standard Antagonist:
    ER #1 3/27/2021 7R | 5M | 3F | 2B | 1 PGT-A Normal, 1 low-level mosaic
    ER #2 4/22/2021 10R | 7M | 3F | 2B | 0 normal, 2 aneuploid
    ER #3 5/19/2021 2R | 1M | 0F
    Estrogen Priming Antagonist:
    ER #4 7/10/2021 5R | 4M | 3F | 1B | 1 PGT-A Normal
    Duostim  (Standard Antagonist):
    ER #5 9/22/2021 13R | 11M | 8F | 5B | 2 PGT-A Normal, 1 low-level mosaic, 2 aneuploid
    ER #6 10/9/2021  9R | 6M | 4 F | 1B | 1 aneuploid
    FET #1  11/5/2021 | EDD 7/24/2022
    Baby boy born 7/19/22

    TTC #3 since May 2023 (ntnp)
    IVF Started Fall 2023 (Standard Antagonist)
    ER #7 10/6/2023 | 9R | 6M | 5F | 3B | 2 aneuploid, 1 high-level mosaic
    ER #8 10/31/2023 | 5R | 4M | 3F | 1B | 1 PGT-A Normal
    FET #2 11/27/23 | CP (bHCG = 8)
    FET #3 planned Jan 2024



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    @BusinessWife @bumblebee0210 Thanks for the insight. I ended up testing again the next morning, it went back to high and then ~12 hours later it confirmed the LH surge (the timing also mirrored last month's readings so I feel confident that that blip was indeed an error.) I haven't done BBT testing yet - that's going to be my next foray, I think, to corroborate the CBAD. 
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    @griffonmama the time should be as consistent as you can, but that's obviously not always possible (like on mornings when I needed to wake up at 3am for a business trip). My Flo app doesn't care at all what time your temp is taken. It doesn't change to triangles or anything like FF does if you temp off your usual time. For a while I was temping at my usual weekday wakeup time of 5:45am and then temping at 7am on weekends. There never was a major difference by temping over an hour later. I can't remember if FF likes it within +/- 30min or +/- 1hr from your default temp time. I wouldn't fret if you normally wake up for work at 6am and end up temping at 8am on a day you have off.
    *TW* History:
    Me: 34 DH: 36 | Together since 2007 | Married July 2016

    TTC #1 since 7.2017
    Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies

    IUI #1-3 all BFN
    IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
    FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
    RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
    FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
    2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
    Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
    TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20

    Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
    Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
    Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
    Bloodwork | 10.21.21 high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
    BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22 B) | biopsy provided same effect as endometrial scratch; added supplemental progesterone and estrogen, prednisone, levothyroxine, and MTX Support to maintain pregnancy
    DS born 7.19.22 after induction


    TTC #2 begins 6.2023
    Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
    Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
    Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
    Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
    Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
    Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
    Repeat labs in 8 weeks
    Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
    TTC put on pause
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    Thanks guys! 
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    So I’ve taken all my temps between 7 and 8 am so far. 
    *TW LC*** sorry i don’t know how to hide it 
     my youngest still sleeps awful and is up at random times every night and he nurses sometimes in the mornings.
    END TW****

     so I can’t get my times any closer. Does this look like it’ll be accurate enough to actually tell when I O? This is my first time temping so I think I may be over thinking this. 

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    You should be fine. @daisy0322. Just keep at it!  The most important thing is that you keep going from here, through any fertile patches (you will generally see it keep getting gradually lower) then once it spikes up, keep going so you see a sustained shift i.e. three temps higher than the previous temps, generally speaking.  You're not relying too much on any one temp, it's the overall pattern and shift you want to look for.
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    @BusinessWife thanks! I just spent like an hour looking at the help sheets and taking the interpretation quiz. My last attempt I got a 90% and I think I’m getting the hang of it ❤️
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    @daisy0322 I agree that you should be fine, especially if your main goal is to know if you’re ovulating versus narrowing down to a specific day. I had a similar issue (I took my temp at the same time every day but I didn’t always have 3 hours of sleep first). This is one of my charts from temping this time around, I could def see the shift even though it was a little crazy. 


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    keikilovekeikilove member
    edited April 2021
    @daisy0322 You are doing well with getting the temping times within a one-hour range. FF will give you those triangles if the times are more than 30 minutes outside your average. You can always fudge the times😄 For example, you could change 7:00 to 7:15, and change 8:00 to 7:45. This should eliminate any triangles and give you solid crosshairs instead of dotted crosshairs once ovulation is confirmed. 
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    daisy0322daisy0322 member
    edited April 2021
    @bows22 awesome thank you so much for sharing your chart! My cycles have been consistent at 32 days long since they started back up again a few months ago. I really have high hopes for ovulating! 

    @keikilove thanks! The triangles bother me haha 
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    fifilala516fifilala516 member
    edited April 2021
    Me again! So I wrote earlier this month about a wonky CBAD, but then confirmed an LH surge on April 3. AF never came (I expected it around April 21). 

    I just started doing BBT, which was probably unwise since it's not at the start of a cycle BUT this past Saturday, I had EWCM and my BBT temp jumped .6 from Saturday to Sunday, so I am pretty sure I O'ed again (unless the earlier one was an error? Who knows at this point?)

    I am sure it's happened where women have O'ed and not gotten a period, but ostensibly ovulating twice in 3 weeks? Whaaa?

    EDIT: I had multiple BFNs when AF never came. 
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    Hi all! This is my first month tracking BBT. Based on my chart, how confident should I be that I ovulated on Sunday? I got a positive opk that evening (didn’t test earlier because I was sick) and then had heavy EWCM on Monday with cramping. I know everyone says to go by temps over everything else but just wanted someone to take another look! Thanks!
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    Here is a more updated picture of my graph to my previous post! Thanks!
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    @fpb2825 I’m new to temping too so there’s lots of way more qualified people than me but I’ve been studying it a lot the today and yesterday. I would actually say Tuesday you I’d but I could also see Sunday. I know being sick can kind of make ovulating funky. I’m sure there’s someone else that can tell you more though @BusinessWife for one I think is really good at it. 
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    fpb2825fpb2825 member
    edited April 2021
    @daisy0322 thank you so much for your input! I feel somewhat lost with temping so appreciate all the advice!
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    @fpb2825 I’d say your welcome but I’m not confident enough in my answer 😂 
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    @fpb2825 keep in mind a positive OPK means you'll ovulate within 24-48 hours. So if you got that positive in the evening of Sunday, you definitely wouldn't have ovulated on Sunday. I had a cycle where my first positive was around 10PM and FF had put my O date on the day of that first positive but that can't be possible. It did eventually adjust it to a day or 2 later as I had more temp data points. Charting interpretation is definitely an art you learn over time as you understand what's common for you.
    *TW* History:
    Me: 34 DH: 36 | Together since 2007 | Married July 2016

    TTC #1 since 7.2017
    Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies

    IUI #1-3 all BFN
    IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
    FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
    RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
    FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
    2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
    Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
    TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20

    Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
    Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
    Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
    Bloodwork | 10.21.21 high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
    BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22 B) | biopsy provided same effect as endometrial scratch; added supplemental progesterone and estrogen, prednisone, levothyroxine, and MTX Support to maintain pregnancy
    DS born 7.19.22 after induction


    TTC #2 begins 6.2023
    Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
    Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
    Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
    Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
    Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
    Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
    Repeat labs in 8 weeks
    Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
    TTC put on pause
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    @inthewoods23 that’s what I thought too. I took Another opk Monday evening and it was negative. Does that mean I ovulated on Monday? Or not necessarily? Thanks for your help!
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    Alright I have a question - how many of you mark the heaviness of your flow? Does anyone not really care and just mark "yes" in FF? I'm tempted to stop caring about flow since I use a cup now. I still feel like I should check it every 6-8 hours so I can know if I'm having a heavy or regular/medium flow on CD1 and 2 but that can't be that important is it?
    *TW* History:
    Me: 34 DH: 36 | Together since 2007 | Married July 2016

    TTC #1 since 7.2017
    Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies

    IUI #1-3 all BFN
    IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
    FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
    RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
    FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
    2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
    Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
    TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20

    Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
    Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
    Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
    Bloodwork | 10.21.21 high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
    BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22 B) | biopsy provided same effect as endometrial scratch; added supplemental progesterone and estrogen, prednisone, levothyroxine, and MTX Support to maintain pregnancy
    DS born 7.19.22 after induction


    TTC #2 begins 6.2023
    Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
    Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
    Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
    Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
    Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
    Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
    Repeat labs in 8 weeks
    Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
    TTC put on pause
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    keikilovekeikilove member
    edited April 2021
    @inthewoods23 I mark the flow but really don’t care about it. What I’ve found is that doctors really want to know if it follows a normal pattern, or if it’s always heavy & full of clots, or very short & light lasting just a few days. This tips them off to whether a person might be dealing with endo, imbalanced hormones, etc. so I mark it but my pattern is almost always clearly “normal”. The one time recently that it was short & light I ended up with a lining that was too thin for transfer. So, in my case, the flow definitely gave clues, albeit retroactively. 
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    @inthewoods23 is right but @fpb2825 when was your last OPK before the positive one? If it was more than 24 hours before then you could have had your first positive earlier and just not know it 
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    @bows22 i tested Saturday evening at it was super close to being positive but not quit. Then was under the weather until Sunday pm and that’s when it was at its peak, being way darker than the control line! So I very well could have had a positive in the am but didn’t know.
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    @inthewoods23 I mark the flow, but I'm also a data nerd and find it interesting to see how my cycle's changed over time. I also like the idea that if I have a weird-seeming flow, I can look back and see if it's actually weird comparatively.
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    @fifilala516 you can't O more than once in a cycle, so it's possible you O'ed this weekend and not earlier in the month. It's also possible that you don't get a period even if you O, and the likely culprit there is a cyst. Remind me: what was the issue with your wonky CBAD earlier in the cycle?
    MY CHART
    TTC History
    TTC#2
    Me: 40.5; MH: 39 | Met 02/2009 | Started Dating 08/2017 | Married 02/02/2020
    TTC #2 ... preparing as of March 2024


    TTC #1
    Me: 36, MH: 34 | Met 02/2009 | Started Dating 08/2017 | Married 02/02/2020
    TTC #1 02/2020 - 07/2022
    2009 | Dx PCOS; likely a misdiagnosis
    07/14/20 | Dx Hashimoto's Thyroditis
    07/21/20 | 1st RE appointment
    07/2120 - 08/20/20 | so much testing; no signs of PCOS
    08/20/20 | Dx Unexplained; AMA
    09/08/20 | IUI #1 Clomid + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
    09/30/20 | Urology consult; more testing required
    10/2020 | Clomid + OPK + TI + Prometrium | BFN
    10/26/2020 | Starting 2nd IUI cycle, with Letrazole and with a new RE / different clinic
    11/03/2020 | New Dx "poor egg quality"; IUI cancelled in favor of Trigger + TI + Prometrium | BFN
    11/26/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Menopur) + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
    12/20/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Gonal-F) + Trigger | IUI Cancelled due to thin lining; TI only | BFN
    01/14/2021 | Combo IUI (Letrazole + Menopur) + Trigger | BFN
    02/06/2021 | Switched to a new RE (TEW) ; trying naturally until we complete additional testing 
    03/14/2021 | Hybrid Double IUI, with Zymot (Letrazole, Gonal-F) + Trigger + Endometrin | Ovulated 4 mature eggs but still a BFN ☹️
    04/07/2021 | Natural cycle while we regroup | BFN
    04/09/2021 | Employer announces fertility benefits starting 05/01/2021! | Search for a new doctor who accepts insurance
    05/10/2021 | New RE consult & plan for IVF
    05/13/2021 | Mid-luteal IVF cycle #1 interrupted; had to get cancer genetic screening done to make sure I didn't have the same SDHA gene mutation as MH. 
    06/10/2021 | Aygestin priming IVF cycle #1; opted to Cx after 9 days of stims since only 5-6/12 follicles responded
    07/26/2021 | Attempt #2 at IVF cycle #1 (mid-luteal start): 8 retrieved, 8 MII, 6 fert (1 PN3), 3 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 3AA, 3AA, 6AB; 3 euploid
    08/09/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC | Shockingly, a BFP! EDD: 5/25/202 | CP at 4w4d
    09/23/2021 | IVF cycle #2 (mid-luteal start): 14 retrieved, 13 MII, 11 fert, 5 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 2 x 3AA, 2 x 3AB, 3BB; 2 euploid
    11/12/2021 | IVF cycle #3 (mid-luteal start): cancelled due to ovaries being on vacation
    12/20/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + Pregmune Immunology Testing; BFN
    01/22/2022 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + understanding uncovered immunological issues; BFN
    02/18/2022 | Mock transfer cycle! ERA, ReceptivaDx, EMMA/ALICE; start Prednisone to address NK activity
    03/16/2022 | Final, "Hail Mary" super-ovulation + TI cycle before FET; BFP! EDD: 12/21/2022 | MMC 05/08/2022
    05/20/2022 | D&C; recovering... 
    06/21/2022 | Trying naturally until October 2022
    07/21/2022 | BFP! EDD 04/02/2023; 👦🏼 born on 4/5/2023


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    @kpb2825

    What were the timing issues going on with the triangles?  Did you mark any of those temps for illness?  FF will adjust the weight of those temps accordingly.  I agree if the opk was that evening, it's unlikely you ovulated the same day.  I feel like this may be a case to trust the opk more over the temps, if between illness and temp times, it sounds like they may be less trustworthy.  So there's a good case to be made for Tuesday, but then you've only got three temps since then, so I would wait and keep watching if the shift becomes a bit more obvious in a few more days.
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    @BusinessWife thanks for your reply!  I unfortunately record at different times because my daughter wakes at random times depending on the morning.  I do use the ovusense vaginal thermometer that  I wear all night long so was hoping the time  I recorded temps may not be as much of an issue since it’s been recording all night.  I could Be wrong though.
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    @fifilala516 you can't O more than once in a cycle, so it's possible you O'ed this weekend and not earlier in the month. It's also possible that you don't get a period even if you O, and the likely culprit there is a cyst. Remind me: what was the issue with your wonky CBAD earlier in the cycle?
    Hi! Thanks for the response. I was tracking my fertility following a CP, and I had low and then high for about 8 days, then low again after getting an error message - then hit an LH surge a day later. I am thinking either the stick was defective, or more likely - my body is still regulating itself and that I did have an LH surge but perhaps didn't have a mature follicle to release a few weeks ago.

    I am almost certain I ovulated on Saturday, given the EWCM and the BBT jump on Sunday.

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    @fifilala516 yep, sounds like you O'ed this weekend. CBAD is good until you're having a wonky cycle and then it's meaningless. I came across this pretty detailed guide on how it works that might help you (spoiler: it says that if you have too many days of H, then just stop testing for that cycle.) That's why I usually use cheapie OPKs for backup, but... I've also been at this for 16 months, so... 🤷‍♀️ 
    MY CHART
    TTC History
    TTC#2
    Me: 40.5; MH: 39 | Met 02/2009 | Started Dating 08/2017 | Married 02/02/2020
    TTC #2 ... preparing as of March 2024


    TTC #1
    Me: 36, MH: 34 | Met 02/2009 | Started Dating 08/2017 | Married 02/02/2020
    TTC #1 02/2020 - 07/2022
    2009 | Dx PCOS; likely a misdiagnosis
    07/14/20 | Dx Hashimoto's Thyroditis
    07/21/20 | 1st RE appointment
    07/2120 - 08/20/20 | so much testing; no signs of PCOS
    08/20/20 | Dx Unexplained; AMA
    09/08/20 | IUI #1 Clomid + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
    09/30/20 | Urology consult; more testing required
    10/2020 | Clomid + OPK + TI + Prometrium | BFN
    10/26/2020 | Starting 2nd IUI cycle, with Letrazole and with a new RE / different clinic
    11/03/2020 | New Dx "poor egg quality"; IUI cancelled in favor of Trigger + TI + Prometrium | BFN
    11/26/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Menopur) + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
    12/20/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Gonal-F) + Trigger | IUI Cancelled due to thin lining; TI only | BFN
    01/14/2021 | Combo IUI (Letrazole + Menopur) + Trigger | BFN
    02/06/2021 | Switched to a new RE (TEW) ; trying naturally until we complete additional testing 
    03/14/2021 | Hybrid Double IUI, with Zymot (Letrazole, Gonal-F) + Trigger + Endometrin | Ovulated 4 mature eggs but still a BFN ☹️
    04/07/2021 | Natural cycle while we regroup | BFN
    04/09/2021 | Employer announces fertility benefits starting 05/01/2021! | Search for a new doctor who accepts insurance
    05/10/2021 | New RE consult & plan for IVF
    05/13/2021 | Mid-luteal IVF cycle #1 interrupted; had to get cancer genetic screening done to make sure I didn't have the same SDHA gene mutation as MH. 
    06/10/2021 | Aygestin priming IVF cycle #1; opted to Cx after 9 days of stims since only 5-6/12 follicles responded
    07/26/2021 | Attempt #2 at IVF cycle #1 (mid-luteal start): 8 retrieved, 8 MII, 6 fert (1 PN3), 3 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 3AA, 3AA, 6AB; 3 euploid
    08/09/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC | Shockingly, a BFP! EDD: 5/25/202 | CP at 4w4d
    09/23/2021 | IVF cycle #2 (mid-luteal start): 14 retrieved, 13 MII, 11 fert, 5 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 2 x 3AA, 2 x 3AB, 3BB; 2 euploid
    11/12/2021 | IVF cycle #3 (mid-luteal start): cancelled due to ovaries being on vacation
    12/20/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + Pregmune Immunology Testing; BFN
    01/22/2022 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + understanding uncovered immunological issues; BFN
    02/18/2022 | Mock transfer cycle! ERA, ReceptivaDx, EMMA/ALICE; start Prednisone to address NK activity
    03/16/2022 | Final, "Hail Mary" super-ovulation + TI cycle before FET; BFP! EDD: 12/21/2022 | MMC 05/08/2022
    05/20/2022 | D&C; recovering... 
    06/21/2022 | Trying naturally until October 2022
    07/21/2022 | BFP! EDD 04/02/2023; 👦🏼 born on 4/5/2023


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