Let’s talk car seats and travel systems.
Common considerations when talking car seats are safety guidelines, travel systems, deals, different styles for different stages, car seats with small frames for smaller cars, etc.
Also share your resources about car seat safety!
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Re: Product spotlight: Car seats
Also, FTMs learn from our mistake and make sure your car seat fits in your car! At the time DS was born my husband had a Toyota Corolla and the seat could not be behind him or in the middle (where the manufacturer suggested putting it) because of his seat placement. It had to go on the passenger side. I could barely fit in the passenger seat with the car seat behind it and I’m 5’1 and very petite. If you or your spouse is tall this will be a problem.
This time around for #3, I am not going with separate seats for different stages. I've decided to go with the Graco Extend2Fit, which has an infant insert and follows the baby from rear facing through high-back booster stage. The reason I've decided not to do it is because I decided to go with the Uppababy Stroller with the bassinet and the infant seat so I don't feel the need to take a car seat in and out.
I like to check babygearlab.com for a list of car seats and their ratings, which include crash test and other things like ease of install, ease of use, etc.
I remember when I was pregnant with my son, the decision for what car seat to buy was the most overwhelming of anything we had to purchase. I didn't understand what a convertible car seat was, compared to a combination car seat, and just an infant car seat. I was so confused. So if you're a FTM here and have any questions about car seats and need help sorting it all out, please reach out! I'm happy to help you.
We had a diono and I hated it. It was massive front-to-back and so hard to tighten, I never understood what all the rage was.
I switched to a Britax Boulevard and it is my favorite seat out of the ones we have. It has pretty high rear facing limits and it fit in our Mazda 3 really well.
Definitely check to make sure the seat will fit in your car, we didn't and ended up losing the front passenger seat for almost a year.
This time baby will be in the Britax right away and my daughter will move into a harnessed booster.
Has anyone bought/used it? Is it worth the hype?
Also, I know this isn't about strollers, but in my mind, my car seat decision goes directly with my stroller choice, since I will want them to be compatible. So that further complicates everything for me.
We had a Chico Keyfit gifted when DD was a baby. It was ok I guess but I didn't love it and she outgrew it very quickly (she was a big baby). The bucket seats are sooooo heavy and it was just a pain to carry everywhere. And that's a relatively expensive seat that everyone had when she was an infant, so I feel like I had the nice seat experience and it wasn't any different. I had a different brand stroller (hand me down) and I think it had an adapter but stroller systems are big and annoying in a lot of places. It can be a real pain to try to deal with groceries and a giant stroller and what have you. Plus DD grew too tall for that kind of stroller around 2 or 3 or so, pretty early. So I'm not a huge fan of the travel system. It was easier to baby wear a lot of the the time until the first 6 months at which point they can use a normal, lighter stroller.
Eventually I got an OXO Cubby stroller which has been great and she can still use it at almost 5 years old. It's really light and I can open it one-handed so it's just way easier. Then after the baby seat I got an Evenflo Symphony LX Platinum because it's made in America and fits pretty well in our small cars. It worked fine until eventually DD ripped the cupholder off by using it as a handhold to climb in (took a few years) and I didn't feel like it was safe, so then I got her a FF seat, the Evenflo Maestro Sport. It's kind of hard to install but I am an expert by now. My only regret is that it doesn't recline enough for her to sleep in it, but she rarely does sleep in the car anymore anyway. It feels more like a big girl seat to her. And we also have a Graco Contender 65 in our other car which is fine, and it's pretty cheap. Don't hate it don't love it. I don't know what a car seat would have to do for me to love it, but I haven't met one yet. Like others said, the big thing is that it fits in your car so research the heck out of that.
Edit: we got the Clek foonf, it's a Canadian brand, highly recommended. And consumer reports has it listed as the safest car seat available.
My suggestion is to get the more expensive seat for your primary car and have a cheaper back up for the car you drive less.
ETA- Graco 4Evers are on sale right now through the Graco site.