This is a place for FTMs to ask questions and S+TMs to share the wealth of knowledge they've accumulated on baby products. Each week we'll spotlight a new category of product to help streamline and make it easier to refer back. This week it's.... baby carriers! Ring slings, wraps, you name it.
Please use the prompts below to try to share as much relevant info as you can in a format that is easy for those reading to absorb/respond to. If you'd like to recommend/ask questions about more than one product, please copy/paste the prompts as needed.
For S+TMs:
- Favorite [baby carrier]:
- Link/picture:
- Cost (either actual dollar amount, or just $, $$, $$$, etc.):
- What you like about it:
- What you don't like about it, if anything:
- Is there a [baby carrier] you don't have but are considering? Why?:
- Additional thoughts on [baby carriers]:
For FTMs:
- [Carrier(s)] you're interested in:
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- Cost (either actual dollar amount, or just $, $$, $$$, etc.):
- Any questions about it/them for S+TMs?:
Here is the schedule for the product spotlights to keep track of the topics and threads: (this is actually October’s but I’m not tech savvy enough to know how to make one for us. I tried lol so if anyone knows how to do this, let me know and I’ll add our own link!)
https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1sI-VJ1F71kVneOVUjKUs7hEChObe7H8_GufjE1XgzSg/edit?usp=sharingFeel free to offer suggestions for other products or changes you think can be made. This is copied from O21 BMB so thanks to those going before us :-)
Re: Product Spotlight: Baby Carriers 3/14
Due: 6 Nov 2021
Carriers are so great that I would get 1 in each category (clips, freeflow and ring). Especially if there will be 2 caregivers
the Ergo (hated it)
the didymos (loved) it is a long, woven traditional wrap and if you’re not careful it can drag the ground while you’re in the process of wrapping your lo.
the k’tan (favorite) I’ve used it exclusively for my last 2 babies. You get the snugness of a traditional wrap, the supposed ease of a carrier (I think they’re super hard to put on but whatever lol), and you can wear your baby in it from birth til... idk actually 😂 my youngest is almost 13 months and I still wear her in it sometimes.
So basically try things out if you can before dropping a lot of money, or get something that has a good resale value just in case your kid can't stand it.
This time around, I know I'm gonna need my hands free with a 3-year old, so I plan to try the Moby and Solly this time around with the hope that the stretchy fabric makes me feel more secure.
When my son was an older baby and had better temperature regulation, we started using the Lillebaby complete airflow 6-in-1 when we were out and about sometimes and both DH and I really liked that one.
Carrier (original) It’s THE BEST!
Link/picture: https://happybabycarriers.com/
Cost (either actual dollar amount, or just $, $$, $$$, etc.): they run about $165
What you like about it: it’s a linen and it folds up small enough to fit in your diaper bag easily. It’s easy to put on it, since it’s lightweight maybe doesn’t get hot, it does not require an infant insert, but mostly it’s just so comfy. I still put my three year old in it, no problem.
What you don't like about it, if anything: they’re always sold out 😫
Is there a [baby carrier] you don't have but are considering? Why?: nope. This is my fourth baby and so I have tried them all.
Additional thoughts on [baby carriers]: I think a soft woven wrap or ring sling is generally easier for newborns, happy baby after that! Edit bc I tried to fix the formatting
What you don't like about it, if anything: I never felt comfortable with trying to strap my son onto my back with the carrier. It always seemed to need 2 people to do it super safely.
@Starynightsky24 yessss HBCs are the best! I am kind of obsessed! The drops are like my Olympics and I get such a rush trying to score a carrier. I have bought and sold quite a few over the last 2 years. I'm excited to finally have an excuse to buy more (not like I really needed one).
DS: 6/1/18 (Pre-E; IUGR; seizures; NICU)
TTC #2: 12/2019
Sept 2020: HSG possible blocked right tube
Nov 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFN
Dec 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFP!!! EDD 9/18