Scheduled my first dr appt and ultrasound today, it’s for April 8th. I’ll be 9.5 weeks. It sucks I have to wait so long but that was the earliest they could get me in. If something happens and I need to see them sooner though, she said we could move it up.
I also scheduled an appt to get a sneak peak clinical gender test done. That’s on March 29th, so I’ll know the gender of this little babe before we even see the dr lol. They said they might even get us in for a quick ultrasound after the gender test so me might get to see baby early too, since we have to wait so long for my dr appt.
I’m so nervous! We already have a son and are praying for a little girl this time 🤞🏻💕
@sliztee you have to be at least 8 weeks and I will be 8w1d 😂
look it up- it’s called sneakpeak. They have a gender kit you can do at home but I get queasy when squeezing blood out of fingers so that was a no go. I also live with two boys so I’d be paranoid the whole time that the results are skewed if I did it myself. I’m doing clinical because it’s much more accurate and I don’t have to inflict the pain on myself lol. It’s more expensive but I think it’s worth it.
@tmk2021 and @sliztee I'll keep fingers crossed that you both get a precious baby girl! Do you know how accurate the sneak peak tests are?
I got pregnant through IVF so my first ultrasound will be on 3/16 which will be 6w5d. I got my second beta today and it was 541 which is great since the one last Thursday was 541. I am still trying to manage the anxiety of a possible mc since I know it is possible in early pregnancy but also trying to enjoy the time now so I can get every drop of joy out of this pregnancy. I did schedule with the doc who will be my OB for my first appointment on April 7th which will be 8w6d
Me: 34 DH: 43 Our Journey for #1
2014 -- Started TTC casually 2017 -- Discovered MFI but didn't move forward with treatment due to expense and grad school Spring 2019 -- Started with RE and confirmed MFI Fall 2019 -- 3 cycles of Clomid and TI, 3 BFNs, discovered hostile cervical mucus was also contributing Spring/Summer 2020 -- 3 cycle of IUI, 3 BFNs Nov 2020 - First IVF with 3 little frosties, had to change to freeze all due to OHSS Feb 16, 2021 - FET #1 - BFP! Beta #1 100 Beta # 2 541 EDD 11/4/2021
@KNB1027 I think the home test is 75-95% accurate and the clinical test is 99.9%.
Congratulations on your pregnancy! I wish I could say the anxiety goes away with time, but in reality, it just shifts to something else. That’s part of being a mama 😉 Live in the moment and enjoy every second! I’m glad your betas are rising, that’s always a great sign. I’ll keep your little baby in my thoughts. Keep growing little one🤞🏻
I scheduled my appointment yesterday as well. I could get in with my second choice dr 3/23, but I'm waiting until 4/8 to meet with my first choice. I don't have an OB/GYN after moving here so that's why I have choice 1 and choice 2. I'll be 10w2d
Is anyone else still POAS every couple days just to be sure or is that just me? I am now at the point where the line is darker than the control line but I still plan to do it again in a day or 2. It just makes me feel better haha.
Me 35, DH 37
Unexplained infertility and TTC since December 2014
February 2016 - May 2016: 3 IUI's -- all BFN
August 2016: IVF #1 (Lupron, Gonal F and Menopur) -- 12 retrieved, 9 fertilized, 3 frozen and 1 x day 5 hatching blast transferred -- BFN. Sent remaining 3 embryos for PGS testing -- 2 didn't survive thaw, 1 was abnormal.
February 2017: IVF #2 (Gonal F, Menopur, and Ganirelix) -- 12 retrieved, 6 fertilized, 3 sent for PGS testing and all were abnormal
March 2018: IVF #3 (Menopur, Follistim, Ganirelix and HGH) -- 14 retrieved, 12 fertilized, 4 sent for PGS testing, and 3 were PGS normal
May 2018: FET #1 -- BFN
August 2018: FET #2 -- BFP!!! healthy baby girl born May 2019!!
July 2020: FET #3 -- embyro did not survive thaw
September 2020 - IVF #4 (Menopur, Follistim, Ganirelix and HGH) -- 1 PGS normal
October 2020 - FET #4 -- BFN
January 2021 - IVF #5 (Menopur, Follistim, Ganirelix and HGH) -- 2 PGS normal
No appointments scheduled yet... I'm looking to switch practices. But I'm thinking I might go ahead and schedule an initial visit at my current clinic while I keep looking at other options.
@teamginger13 I just had a conversation with DH about how I don't even know why they sell pregnancy tests in single packs. Is anyone ever satisfied with just one test? I suppose there must be some, but I got a 3-pack right off the bat because I know one wouldn't cut it for me!
@teamginger13 I was but I ran out of tests before I even missed my period 😂 whoops
does anyone have any cute nicknames for their “bump?” Baby, bean, peanut, pickle, something else cute? We’ve just been saying “baby” right now but I’m not crazy about it lol I want to call them peanut because it’s what my dad used to call me (he passed away 10 years ago on the 19th, so I have that coming up 😕) but not sure yet
@teamginger13 omg yes. I have a pack of 50 cheapies I bought off Amazon, I have to limit to every few days or I drive myself crazy 😆 I usually stop once I get my blood levels and I know they are doubling normally.
@jackie_dunny My 4 yr old calls it a t-rex lol. We were trying to wait to tell him, but I told him he had to stop jumping on my stomach this morning, and he remembered from last time that it was because there is a baby in there.
Sorry for your loss ❤❤ I lost my dad 4 years ago, and the anniversary is always rough. Sending you comfort
@jackie_dunny I had been calling mine my little pea both because it was a frozen embryo and because it is sending me to the bathroom like crazy My mom doesn't love it so has been calling it by whatever fruit size it is for the week - this week at 5wks it is the little apple seed
@sonovia I have my ultrasound on 3/16 and will be 6w5d and was told they should be able to see and hear the HB. I know for some it may be measuring a little behind due to late ovulation or implantation so there is room for hearing or not and it still being normal
Me: 34 DH: 43 Our Journey for #1
2014 -- Started TTC casually 2017 -- Discovered MFI but didn't move forward with treatment due to expense and grad school Spring 2019 -- Started with RE and confirmed MFI Fall 2019 -- 3 cycles of Clomid and TI, 3 BFNs, discovered hostile cervical mucus was also contributing Spring/Summer 2020 -- 3 cycle of IUI, 3 BFNs Nov 2020 - First IVF with 3 little frosties, had to change to freeze all due to OHSS Feb 16, 2021 - FET #1 - BFP! Beta #1 100 Beta # 2 541 EDD 11/4/2021
My first appointment and ultrasound isn’t until end of month... SUCH a long wait. I’m a little (ahem) older, so we want to wait to tell anyone including our 7 and 4 year old, just in case, but it is really hard to watch what we say (especially with the older one) not to let it slip. On the positive side, with everything going on we haven’t been getting together with anyone, so it is easy to keep it a secret - with my first 2 I got questions on why I wasn’t drinking almost immediately. So I guess there’s that!
On a random note, does anyone know how to change the avatar? I don’t necessarily have a picture in mind, I’m fine with the little system generated one - but mine for whatever reason defaulted to a man holding a baby and it is driving me crazy a little bit?! I can only see how to change it to a picture...
@sonovia my first ultrasound with DD was 6+3 and they saw the heartbeat then! They should definitely be able to see yours.
Me 35, DH 37
Unexplained infertility and TTC since December 2014
February 2016 - May 2016: 3 IUI's -- all BFN
August 2016: IVF #1 (Lupron, Gonal F and Menopur) -- 12 retrieved, 9 fertilized, 3 frozen and 1 x day 5 hatching blast transferred -- BFN. Sent remaining 3 embryos for PGS testing -- 2 didn't survive thaw, 1 was abnormal.
February 2017: IVF #2 (Gonal F, Menopur, and Ganirelix) -- 12 retrieved, 6 fertilized, 3 sent for PGS testing and all were abnormal
March 2018: IVF #3 (Menopur, Follistim, Ganirelix and HGH) -- 14 retrieved, 12 fertilized, 4 sent for PGS testing, and 3 were PGS normal
May 2018: FET #1 -- BFN
August 2018: FET #2 -- BFP!!! healthy baby girl born May 2019!!
July 2020: FET #3 -- embyro did not survive thaw
September 2020 - IVF #4 (Menopur, Follistim, Ganirelix and HGH) -- 1 PGS normal
October 2020 - FET #4 -- BFN
January 2021 - IVF #5 (Menopur, Follistim, Ganirelix and HGH) -- 2 PGS normal
Re: Weekly Randoms 3/1-3/7
I also scheduled an appt to get a sneak peak clinical gender test done. That’s on March 29th, so I’ll know the gender of this little babe before we even see the dr lol. They said they might even get us in for a quick ultrasound after the gender test so me might get to see baby early too, since we have to wait so long for my dr appt.
I’m so nervous! We already have a son and are praying for a little girl this time 🤞🏻💕
I, too, would really love for this bean to be a girl ❤️🤞🏼
look it up- it’s called sneakpeak. They have a gender kit you can do at home but I get queasy when squeezing blood out of fingers so that was a no go. I also live with two boys so I’d be paranoid the whole time that the results are skewed if I did it myself. I’m doing clinical because it’s much more accurate and I don’t have to inflict the pain on myself lol. It’s more expensive but I think it’s worth it.
Fingers crossed for a girl for you too! 🤞🏻
I got pregnant through IVF so my first ultrasound will be on 3/16 which will be 6w5d. I got my second beta today and it was 541 which is great since the one last Thursday was 541. I am still trying to manage the anxiety of a possible mc since I know it is possible in early pregnancy but also trying to enjoy the time now so I can get every drop of joy out of this pregnancy. I did schedule with the doc who will be my OB for my first appointment on April 7th which will be 8w6d
Our Journey for #1
2017 -- Discovered MFI but didn't move forward with treatment due to expense and grad school
Spring 2019 -- Started with RE and confirmed MFI
Fall 2019 -- 3 cycles of Clomid and TI, 3 BFNs, discovered hostile cervical mucus was also contributing
Spring/Summer 2020 -- 3 cycle of IUI, 3 BFNs
Nov 2020 - First IVF with 3 little frosties, had to change to freeze all due to OHSS
Feb 16, 2021 - FET #1 - BFP! Beta #1 100 Beta # 2 541 EDD 11/4/2021
My first ultrasound with my daughter was at 12 weeks. Anyone know if an ultrasound at 8-9 weeks is transvaginal or abdominal?
Me 35, DH 37
Unexplained infertility and TTC since December 2014
February 2016 - May 2016: 3 IUI's -- all BFN
August 2016: IVF #1 (Lupron, Gonal F and Menopur) -- 12 retrieved, 9 fertilized, 3 frozen and 1 x day 5 hatching blast transferred -- BFN. Sent remaining 3 embryos for PGS testing -- 2 didn't survive thaw, 1 was abnormal.
February 2017: IVF #2 (Gonal F, Menopur, and Ganirelix) -- 12 retrieved, 6 fertilized, 3 sent for PGS testing and all were abnormal
March 2018: IVF #3 (Menopur, Follistim, Ganirelix and HGH) -- 14 retrieved, 12 fertilized, 4 sent for PGS testing, and 3 were PGS normal
May 2018: FET #1 -- BFN
August 2018: FET #2 -- BFP!!! healthy baby girl born May 2019!!
July 2020: FET #3 -- embyro did not survive thaw
September 2020 - IVF #4 (Menopur, Follistim, Ganirelix and HGH) -- 1 PGS normal
October 2020 - FET #4 -- BFN
January 2021 - IVF #5 (Menopur, Follistim, Ganirelix and HGH) -- 2 PGS normal
February 2021 - FET #5 - BFP!!! Due 11/6/2021
@teamginger13 I just had a conversation with DH about how I don't even know why they sell pregnancy tests in single packs. Is anyone ever satisfied with just one test? I suppose there must be some, but I got a 3-pack right off the bat because I know one wouldn't cut it for me!
does anyone have any cute nicknames for their “bump?” Baby, bean, peanut, pickle, something else cute? We’ve just been saying “baby” right now but I’m not crazy about it lol I want to call them peanut because it’s what my dad used to call me (he passed away 10 years ago on the 19th, so I have that coming up 😕) but not sure yet
Due: 6 Nov 2021
@jackie_dunny My 4 yr old calls it a t-rex lol. We were trying to wait to tell him, but I told him he had to stop jumping on my stomach this morning, and he remembered from last time that it was because there is a baby in there.
Sorry for your loss ❤❤ I lost my dad 4 years ago, and the anniversary is always rough. Sending you comfort
@sonovia I have my ultrasound on 3/16 and will be 6w5d and was told they should be able to see and hear the HB. I know for some it may be measuring a little behind due to late ovulation or implantation so there is room for hearing or not and it still being normal
Our Journey for #1
2017 -- Discovered MFI but didn't move forward with treatment due to expense and grad school
Spring 2019 -- Started with RE and confirmed MFI
Fall 2019 -- 3 cycles of Clomid and TI, 3 BFNs, discovered hostile cervical mucus was also contributing
Spring/Summer 2020 -- 3 cycle of IUI, 3 BFNs
Nov 2020 - First IVF with 3 little frosties, had to change to freeze all due to OHSS
Feb 16, 2021 - FET #1 - BFP! Beta #1 100 Beta # 2 541 EDD 11/4/2021
On a random note, does anyone know how to change the avatar? I don’t necessarily have a picture in mind, I’m fine with the little system generated one - but mine for whatever reason defaulted to a man holding a baby and it is driving me crazy a little bit?! I can only see how to change it to a picture...
Me 35, DH 37
Unexplained infertility and TTC since December 2014
February 2016 - May 2016: 3 IUI's -- all BFN
August 2016: IVF #1 (Lupron, Gonal F and Menopur) -- 12 retrieved, 9 fertilized, 3 frozen and 1 x day 5 hatching blast transferred -- BFN. Sent remaining 3 embryos for PGS testing -- 2 didn't survive thaw, 1 was abnormal.
February 2017: IVF #2 (Gonal F, Menopur, and Ganirelix) -- 12 retrieved, 6 fertilized, 3 sent for PGS testing and all were abnormal
March 2018: IVF #3 (Menopur, Follistim, Ganirelix and HGH) -- 14 retrieved, 12 fertilized, 4 sent for PGS testing, and 3 were PGS normal
May 2018: FET #1 -- BFN
August 2018: FET #2 -- BFP!!! healthy baby girl born May 2019!!
July 2020: FET #3 -- embyro did not survive thaw
September 2020 - IVF #4 (Menopur, Follistim, Ganirelix and HGH) -- 1 PGS normal
October 2020 - FET #4 -- BFN
January 2021 - IVF #5 (Menopur, Follistim, Ganirelix and HGH) -- 2 PGS normal
February 2021 - FET #5 - BFP!!! Due 11/6/2021