This is a place for FTMs to ask questions and S+TMs to share the wealth of knowledge they've accumulated on baby products. Each week we'll spotlight a new category of product to help streamline and make it easier to refer back. This week it's.... Cribs! Cribs, bassinets or other safe sleeping surfaces!
Please use the prompts below to try to share as much relevant info as you can in a format that is easy for those reading to absorb/respond to. If you'd like to recommend/ask questions about more than one product, please copy/paste the prompts as needed.
For S+TMs:
- Favorite [crib/sleep surface]:
- Link/picture:
- Cost (either actual dollar amount, or just $, $$, $$$, etc.):
- What you like about it:
- What you don't like about it, if anything:
- Is there a [crib/sleep surface] you don't have but are considering? Why?:
- Additional thoughts on [crib/sleep surface]:
For FTMs:
- [crib/sleep surface] you're interested in:
- Link/picture:
- Cost (either actual dollar amount, or just $, $$, $$$, etc.):
- Any questions about it/them for S+TMs?:
Here is the schedule for the product spotlights to keep track of the topics and threads:
https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1BFKfcrp0DX8dvYklwMEyqaex6ixXUoJ2zRbYirApXd4/edit?usp=sharing
*TW LC*
Me & MH: 32
DS: 6/1/18 (Pre-E; IUGR; seizures; NICU)
TTC #2: 12/2019
Sept 2020: HSG possible blocked right tube
Nov 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFN
Dec 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFP!!! EDD 9/18
Re: Product Spotlight: Cribs w/o 2-22
DS: 6/1/18 (Pre-E; IUGR; seizures; NICU)
TTC #2: 12/2019
Sept 2020: HSG possible blocked right tube
Nov 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFN
Dec 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFP!!! EDD 9/18
*a recommendation -- I hate extra stuff - we are fairly minimalist. We just use the PnP in our room for the first 6 months instead of buying a separate cradle. I also think using the PnP is great because baby is already accustomed to the sleep environment in the PnP which makes it easier when traveling! When they are a newborn I just having the PnP right up against our bed - almost like a cosleeper - I can still just reach my hand and soothe if needed. Then around 3 months-ish I move it further from the bed for better sleep.
I haven't really looked into convertible cribs yet so I'll definitely be checking out this thread for suggestions!
DS2 chewed it like a rat.
My advice, buy a nice, cheap one 😂 chances if you converting it to a toddler and then full size bed seems slim to none. Not one person I know has actually done this.
My oldest slept in his bassinet until he was 5 months then he slept in our bed. We never used the crib. Now he has his own double bed in his room.
- Favorite [crib/sleep surface]: SnuggleNest
- Link/picture: https://www.amazon.com/Baby-Delight-Portable-Co-Sleeper-Waterproof/dp/B014F7UEXG
- Cost (either actual dollar amount, or just $, $$, $$$, etc.): $ cheap compared to most other options!
- What you like about it: It's a great intro to co-sleeping, I could hoist my boob over the edge and nurse lying down in the middle of the night, which was a game-changer for those many middle of the night feeds. It's also small and very easily portable. I got mine originally from a consignment sale, and it's one of the few things we kept, so yay!
- What you don't like about it, if anything: Nothing!
- Is there a [crib/sleep surface] you don't have but are considering? Why?: Yes, we just got a Halo Bassinet from a friend who just moved and got rid of their baby stuff. She posted it for sale online, and as soon as I saw it I texted her and was like, "Surprise! I'm pregnant, also can I buy your bassinet and bath seat?" lol
- Additional thoughts on [crib/sleep surface]: My son literally never used his crib. We ended up co-sleeping and then moving to just a mattress on the floor in his room once he was closer to 12 mo. The crib was a big waste of money for us. It did make sleeping easier back then, but I have mixed feelings because even now at 6, he refuses to sleep alone. We finally got him in his own bed, but he needs someone else in his room and it's been really hard to get him to be more independent, so with baby #2, I'll try harder to get them to sleep on their own earlier. We will still plan on co-sleeping in the beginning, though, because the middle of the night feeds make it so hard to function in the beginning, and though it's pretty natural to not fall into a deep sleep while nursing lying down, it does feel more restful than having to sit all the way up.
**Advice to new parents: Please please please do some research ahead of time on safe co-sleeping practices even if you don't plan on doing it. You may want a backup plan, or may find yourself accidentally in a co-sleeping situation out of desperation. Better to know that you're doing it safely!!