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Month/Cycle:
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Timing:
Typical LP length:
Testing:
R/R:
CS/Q:
Re: TWW Monday 2.8
Month/Cycle: 27/29
CD/DPO: 29/11
Timing: -4,-2,O
Typical LP length: 12
Testing: BFN today
R/R: I had some brown spotting this morning which is usually how AF starts for me so that’s fun. Another 10 day LP (used to be 12-13 and now all of a sudden I’ve had some 10s the last few cycles). My RE’s office never got back to me on the records so this will give me motivation to call this week assuming AF is coming. I pretty much spent the weekend working and helping people to find vaccine appointments which has been hectic so I’m kind of glad for it to be Monday and “only” have to work. Have a great day all!
CS/Q:
Month/Cycle: 44/3AL
Likely going to be posting and ghosting since work continues to be busy. Figured I'd post in the AM since it's been a few days!
CS/Q: FF confirmed O for Thursday already which is good for our timing, but I'm not entirely convinced it was that day since what Wednesday positive was at 10:30pm. Peak reading was late Thursday morning
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC ended due to filing divorce
**New relationship starting May 2024**
Surprise BFP!! | 9.7.25 | EDD 5.11.26
@bows22 sorry about the BFN. And so annoying about your RE and your records. Bug the crap out of them!
@inthewoods23 go you with another 30 day challenge! 💪
Month/Cycle: 7/1AL
CD/DPO: 18/3
Timing: -5, -4, -3, -1, O, +1 (based on when FF says O was)
Typical LP length: 11 days
Testing: Will try to wait until 2/17
R/R: Probably a boring Super Bowl for most but my team won so pretty excited!
CS/Q: No other questions. Posted a pic of my OPKs in the OPK help thread over the weekend asking for opinions on O. But just going to go by what FF marked it as. I don’t temp so really can only do by that and an educated guess.
@inthewoods23 go you with another 30 days! You'll be doing all the balancing stuff before you know it.
@sienna221 lol the Super Bowl was definitely boring but hooray for the Bucs! On O... hard to pinpoint... I've read anywhere from 12-48 hours after first positive OPK. In the TD group I'm in there's a lot of really serious charters who know all of the rules to the T, and they're always saying that you can't actually pinpoint O to a day without ultrasound, you're always dealing with a range. I think this is different from TCOYF says but I would have to go back and check. Anyways, something to consider.
Month/Cycle: 8/8
CD/DPO: 33/11
Timing: -3, -1
Typical LP length: 12-13
Testing: 13 dpo unless AF shows up
R/R: I spent the weekend working on a project for my advisor and had so much fun doing it that coming into work today was even more of a drag. Just a reminder that I need to be looking at other options for sure. Anyways, I'm starting to get anxious about testing - I usually spot 1-2 days before AF arrives, so now I've got a pit in my stomach every time I wipe. Ugh. TTC can really mess with your head.
CS/Q:
@fameonmain2 yes I got about a dozen people appointments! I don’t know how older people are expected to deal with scheduling online when appointments are booked literally within seconds. And funnily enough, I was chatting with a TTGP grad over the weekend who must be in your state because she told me about that site too! And then 5 minutes later I saw a post in a Facebook group I’m in for finding vaccines in our city and someone made a comment about their aunt living in your state and not being able to get one. So I was able to share it there too!
@bows22 Good for you for helping a dozen people get appointments! That’s huge. I’m sure they’re so grateful to you for the help. I’m sorry about the bfn and the shortened LP. Bodies are so strange. Get those records and get this party started with the new RE🎉
winning! I watched the fourth quarter. It wasn’t particularly exciting but still fun to see a bit of action. I haven’t watched sports in ages. Also, re: your OPKs, I just always go with the day after the Peak being O day. But I have to temp to confirm that.
@fameonmain2Love the story of the private citizen making that site! Ridiculous that the state government didn’t do it, but at least someone did. Hope you make it through the workday ok.
CD/DPO: 22/8
Timing: -2, -1
Typical LP length: 13ish
Testing: Probably tomorrow
R/R: Today is busy, then my calendar is mostly wide open for the rest of the week. Miracles do happen! I’m going to tackle my pile of clothes that needs to be given away, and just get refocused in general with organization around the house.
CS/Q: Things are looking good. But I’m supplementing with progesterone so it’s very possibly just false hope. I have no symptoms whatsoever.
@sienna221 based on the score it sounded like it would have been boring to watch.
@fameonmain2 hopefully I'll get better at balance! I can tell one leg is better than the other with my balance.
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC ended due to filing divorce
**New relationship starting May 2024**
Surprise BFP!! | 9.7.25 | EDD 5.11.26
TTC History
TTC#2
Mar 2024 | consult to get established with a new reproductive immunologist (Alan Beer Center)
Apr/May 2024 | required testing & waiting for a protocol
May 2024 | protocol given / decided to go back to my old reproductive immunologist, Dr. Jubiz
Jun / Jul 2024 | more testing, incl. SIS, ultrasound, and endometrial biopsy
Jul 2024 | Dx chronic endometritis; 14 days of 100mg of doxy given
Sep 2024 | Repeat endometrial biopsy; still + for chronic endometritis. 2 more antibiotics + an antiviral
Oct 2024 | Hysteroscopy turned polypectomy; endometriosis consult w/ specialist who confirmed high likelihood of endo based on symptoms and ultrasound; lots of blood tests ordered
Mar 2025 | Endo excision surgery. Stage 3 endo found! Recoveing
Apr 2025 | Planning transfer w/ RE & green light protocol w/ RI; target transfer July or August 2025
May 2025 | Surprise BFP! EDD 1/11/2026
TTC #1
TTC #1 02/2020 - 07/2022
2009 | Dx PCOS; likely a misdiagnosis
07/14/20 | Dx Hashimoto's Thyroditis
07/21/20 | 1st RE appointment
07/2120 - 08/20/20 | so much testing; no signs of PCOS
08/20/20 | Dx Unexplained; AMA
09/08/20 | IUI #1 Clomid + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
09/30/20 | Urology consult; more testing required
10/2020 | Clomid + OPK + TI + Prometrium | BFN
10/26/2020 | Starting 2nd IUI cycle, with Letrazole and with a new RE / different clinic
11/03/2020 | New Dx "poor egg quality"; IUI cancelled in favor of Trigger + TI + Prometrium | BFN
11/26/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Menopur) + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
12/20/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Gonal-F) + Trigger | IUI Cancelled due to thin lining; TI only | BFN
01/14/2021 | Combo IUI (Letrazole + Menopur) + Trigger | BFN
02/06/2021 | Switched to a new RE (TEW) ; trying naturally until we complete additional testing
03/14/2021 | Hybrid Double IUI, with Zymot (Letrazole, Gonal-F) + Trigger + Endometrin | Ovulated 4 mature eggs but still a BFN ☹️
04/07/2021 | Natural cycle while we regroup | BFN
04/09/2021 | Employer announces fertility benefits starting 05/01/2021! | Search for a new doctor who accepts insurance
05/10/2021 | New RE consult & plan for IVF
05/13/2021 | Mid-luteal IVF cycle #1 interrupted; had to get cancer genetic screening done to make sure I didn't have the same SDHA gene mutation as MH.
06/10/2021 | Aygestin priming IVF cycle #1; opted to Cx after 9 days of stims since only 5-6/12 follicles responded
07/26/2021 | Attempt #2 at IVF cycle #1 (mid-luteal start): 8 retrieved, 8 MII, 6 fert (1 PN3), 3 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 3AA, 3AA, 6AB; 3 euploid
08/09/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC | Shockingly, a BFP! EDD: 5/25/202 | CP at 4w4d
09/23/2021 | IVF cycle #2 (mid-luteal start): 14 retrieved, 13 MII, 11 fert, 5 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 2 x 3AA, 2 x 3AB, 3BB; 2 euploid
11/12/2021 | IVF cycle #3 (mid-luteal start): cancelled due to ovaries being on vacation
12/20/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + Pregmune Immunology Testing; BFN
01/22/2022 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + understanding uncovered immunological issues; BFN
02/18/2022 | Mock transfer cycle! ERA, ReceptivaDx, EMMA/ALICE; start Prednisone to address NK activity
03/16/2022 | Final, "Hail Mary" super-ovulation + TI cycle before FET; BFP! EDD: 12/21/2022 | MMC 05/08/2022
05/20/2022 | D&C; recovering...
06/21/2022 | Trying naturally until October 2022
07/21/2022 | BFP! EDD 04/02/2023; 👦🏼 born on 4/5/2023
@keikilove that chart looks particularly gorgeous. 🤞🏼 it’s no false hope!
@fameonmain2 it’s nice to hear that I’m not only in obsessively checking toilet paper before AF. I’m anxious every bathroom break!
@sienna221 it was one of the most boring Super Bowls I can remember. I really wanted both teams to lose, but really wanted the Buccs to lose more. 🙈 Sorry! Not a Tom Brady fan!
@inthewoods we hit -28 Sunday morning with windchills of -40. It was awful. Can’t stand the cold. Not sure why I live somewhere where the air hurts my face 5 months of the year! But the deer sure do look happy!
@bows22 sorry about the BFN. 👎🏼 I hope you are able to get ahold of your RE office and get things situated!
Month/Cycle: 8/9
CD/DPO: 20/4
Timing: -3, -2, -1
Typical LP length: 22 days
Testing: Valentine’s Day (because like @inthewoods23 said, why not ruin another holiday 🤣)
R/R: I am feeling particularly exhausted already this week. I started a master’s class (for free) so that’s been taking up a lot of my extra time. Not much to rave about right now. Just feeling generally run down.
CS/Q:
Me: 26 DH: 27
TTC #1 | June '18-August '18 | DD | Born April 21, 2019 | Due May 10, 2019
TTC#2 | June '20-February '21 | DS | Due October 27, 2021
Props to getting all the appointments scheduled! I’m no where close to being in line but I hear it’s a bit messy in our state!
@keikilove that looks so good!
@intothewoods way to go on the consistency!
Month/Cycle: 1/1
CD/DPO: 28/?
Timing: Solid
Testing: BFN Sunday...but still holding out hope that I was too early.
R/R: Does anyone watch reels on Instagram? There’s one I’ve come across pointing out how similar early pregnancy symptoms and period symptoms are like twins. It makes me chuckle and be so frustrated at the same time because it’s so true.
CS/Q:
@inthewoods23 oh thank you for that suggestion. Not all of my results are on the portal so I can’t do it myself but maybe they would be more willing to send them to me (even though I signed a release). I’m going to try that.