Me: 29 | DH: 28
Due: 6 Nov 2021
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Re: TWW Wednesday 2/3
Month/Cycle: 8/8
CD/DPO: 28/6
Timing: -3, -1
Typical LP length: 12-13
Testing: no desire yet
R/R: I'm going to try really hard to wait to test. If the next week is anything like these past few days, though, it won't be hard to wait! Tonight is the big school committee meeting when they'll take public comment on the district's reopening plan. I'm sure that will be a doozy. I'm up to date on my grading, though, so looks like I can take the afternoon to work on a research project for my PhD program. Yay!
CS/Q: my chart's never looked so good. I don't know if it's TD or my body finally regulating after getting of BC but I'm happy!
@fameonmain2 that really is a great chart, no question on when you ovulated! Glad you are feeling caught up at work too!
Month/Cycle: 26/29
CD/DPO: 24/6
Timing: -4,-2,O
Typical LP length: 12
Testing: 10 or 11 DPO
R/R: False alarm with the meeting yesterday. It ended up being a marketing thing, which I wasn’t aware of since no one from marketing was on the original invite (but one did attend the meeting). My friend who is a partner didn’t even know that the committee existed so it’s all very bizarre. Just happy there was no drama! I have 3 new audits this tax season, one is done and I just got the info for another one. So that is my project for the next couple of days. I have this nice little window the rest of this week where I don’t have anything else to do so I’m just hoping it goes smoothly and I can get the majority of it done in this time! New stuff can be such a pain.
CS/Q:
Why does it feel soooo slow around here this week!? Blah!
@fameonmain2 Yay for being all caught up on grading! What type of research project are you doing?
@bows22 I’m glad your meeting wasn’t awkward yesterday! Sounds like you will have a pretty smooth rest of the week. I love it when that happens!
Month/Cycle: 2/2
CD/DPO: 22/7
Timing: -4, -2, +1
Typical LP length: 13
Testing: 10 dpo
R/R: It’s pretty slow at work right now so I’m having a hard time trying to stay busy. Which means the days are dragging by! Gah. I keep thinking of potential career changes that would make me feel more fulfilled. But, I’m honestly happy with my current job. Just not passionate about the field I guess. Idk. Too much time on my hands lol.
CS/Q: nope
Married: 8/2015
TTC #1: 4/2017
Testing: HSG, U/S, BW, and DH's SA all normal
DX: Unexplained
8/2018: Clomid + TI = BFN
9/2018: Clomid + TI + Progesterone = BFN
11/2018: Clomid + IUI + Progesterone = BFN
12/2018: Letrozole + IUI + Progesterone \\ Cancelled due to cyst
1/2019: Letrozole + IUI + Progesterone = BFP! \\ EDD Sept 30th, 2019
10/7/2019: Healthy baby boy!
TTC #2: 12/2020
2/2021: Letrozole + TI = BFN
3/2021: Letrozole + TI = BFN
4/2021: Surprise! Natural BFP! \\ EDD Jan 6th, 2022 \\ Chemical, betas not rising
8/2021: Letrozole + IUI + Progesterone = BFN
9/2021: Letrozole + IUI + Progesterone = BFN
10/2021: Letrozole + IUI + Progesterone = BFN
11/2021: Letrozole + IUI + Progesterone = BFP! \\ EDD July 29th, 2022
ETA for my tags
@fameonmain2 Are they considering in school full time? None of our public schools are doing that but almost all of the privates.
@bows22 I hope your new audit goes smoothly! I like starting new projects, but the follow through is where it gets boring for me!
Month/Cycle: 2 / 1 AL
CD/DPO: 28/9
Timing: -8 thru O
Typical LP length: not sure
Testing: Maybe this evening after DH gets home.
R/R: I'm definitely not feeling any symptoms that would lead me to believe me this was it! When I was leaving the grocery this morning I felt a pain in my boob, and I was like oh great! Until I remembered that I went to my gyn with this same pain in September and she thought it was cycle related. Darn! Even my heartburn hasn't bothered me since 3dpo, so I guess that's a plus! AF was supposed to start tomorrow based on my original calculations (not tracking O).
We got about 18 inches of snow Monday-Tuesday, but thankfully my cardiologist appt was confirmed at the last second and I raced over there! I have a stress test next week - last time I spoke with him they were only doing the nuclear ST, so I was concerned about that while TTC, but they are back to the good old treadmill now!
CS/Q: My temp was back at the luteal line this morning, so I don't know if that's good or bad.
@demimondaine I only like starting new things when I don’t have a million other things going on which is rare. So I’m glad for once to be in that situation! I’m glad you were able to go to your appointment! Good luck tonight if you test!
@bows22 good luck with the new stuff at work! I love when I can just focus and check stuff off the to do list work wise.
@LJMoon6 I hear you on the career change. Worth taking a look at if nothing else. I on the other hand am seriously disliking my job so I’m actively looking. But I think that if I was just content, and not unhappy, I would think different. AFM I'm working on coding responses for survey about civics roles and responsibilities. Not the most exciting but I will take the experience (for that job change!).
@bows22 missed your initial post yesterday, but got the gist of it from the comments. Glad that it was "just a marketing" thing. How bad can those be, right? Happy to hear that you have a small windows of rest coming up next week! Woot.
@LJMoon6 I think it feels slow because most ppl are in the WTO phase. I know all too well about not being passionate about the field. That missing passion in something we do for ~40 hours each week can drastically affect one's mental disposition.
@demimondaine glad to hear your cardiologist appointment went ahead! Good luck with the "good old treadmill" test!
Month/Cycle: 13/13
CD/DPO: 21/7
Timing: -4, -3, O(IUI), +1
Typical LP length: ~14
Testing: 11DPO on 2/7
R/R: I took a day off from the dailies yesterday as it's was my first wedding anniversary and I also had 3 medical appointments throughout the day. So, work wise my day wasn't particularly productive either. I ended up going to see and gastroenterologist because of chronic gut issues, and after discussing my symptoms, he said the quickest way to get a diagnosis is to do an endoscopy/colonoscopy, which I ended up booking for Feb 10. Yay! I'm actually not sure if it's counter-indicated in pregnancy so if I get a positive test (a girl can dream, right?) next week, I might need to reschedule it. The prep for this procedure is quite daunting: 1 day of liquid diet and plus drinking some kind of intestine-clearing liquid; no food or drink the day of procedure. Sounds... delish.
MH and I had a couple of glasses of wine (2.5 to be exact) with our anniversary dinner which we ordered from a fancy-ish restaurants, and I regretted it because the alcohol didn't quite clear by system before I went to bed and my sleep was shitty. I literally can't drink at night any more.
CS/Q: Temp jumped because of shitty sleep and alcohol.
TTC#2
TTC #2 ... preparing as of March 2024
TTC #1
TTC #1 02/2020 - 07/2022
2009 | Dx PCOS; likely a misdiagnosis
07/14/20 | Dx Hashimoto's Thyroditis
07/21/20 | 1st RE appointment
07/2120 - 08/20/20 | so much testing; no signs of PCOS
08/20/20 | Dx Unexplained; AMA
09/08/20 | IUI #1 Clomid + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
09/30/20 | Urology consult; more testing required
10/2020 | Clomid + OPK + TI + Prometrium | BFN
10/26/2020 | Starting 2nd IUI cycle, with Letrazole and with a new RE / different clinic
11/03/2020 | New Dx "poor egg quality"; IUI cancelled in favor of Trigger + TI + Prometrium | BFN
11/26/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Menopur) + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
12/20/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Gonal-F) + Trigger | IUI Cancelled due to thin lining; TI only | BFN
01/14/2021 | Combo IUI (Letrazole + Menopur) + Trigger | BFN
02/06/2021 | Switched to a new RE (TEW) ; trying naturally until we complete additional testing
03/14/2021 | Hybrid Double IUI, with Zymot (Letrazole, Gonal-F) + Trigger + Endometrin | Ovulated 4 mature eggs but still a BFN ☹️
04/07/2021 | Natural cycle while we regroup | BFN
04/09/2021 | Employer announces fertility benefits starting 05/01/2021! | Search for a new doctor who accepts insurance
05/10/2021 | New RE consult & plan for IVF
05/13/2021 | Mid-luteal IVF cycle #1 interrupted; had to get cancer genetic screening done to make sure I didn't have the same SDHA gene mutation as MH.
06/10/2021 | Aygestin priming IVF cycle #1; opted to Cx after 9 days of stims since only 5-6/12 follicles responded
07/26/2021 | Attempt #2 at IVF cycle #1 (mid-luteal start): 8 retrieved, 8 MII, 6 fert (1 PN3), 3 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 3AA, 3AA, 6AB; 3 euploid
08/09/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC | Shockingly, a BFP! EDD: 5/25/202 | CP at 4w4d
09/23/2021 | IVF cycle #2 (mid-luteal start): 14 retrieved, 13 MII, 11 fert, 5 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 2 x 3AA, 2 x 3AB, 3BB; 2 euploid
11/12/2021 | IVF cycle #3 (mid-luteal start): cancelled due to ovaries being on vacation
12/20/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + Pregmune Immunology Testing; BFN
01/22/2022 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + understanding uncovered immunological issues; BFN
02/18/2022 | Mock transfer cycle! ERA, ReceptivaDx, EMMA/ALICE; start Prednisone to address NK activity
03/16/2022 | Final, "Hail Mary" super-ovulation + TI cycle before FET; BFP! EDD: 12/21/2022 | MMC 05/08/2022
05/20/2022 | D&C; recovering...
06/21/2022 | Trying naturally until October 2022
07/21/2022 | BFP! EDD 04/02/2023; 👦🏼 born on 4/5/2023
Does anyone have any tips on using the app? I try to copy and paste the standard info so I can type the reply, but I can’t get my app to scroll!
@acleverusername happy anniversary! DH has had to do that prep several times and I don’t think it’s something you would want to do while pregnant, plus the sedation I would think would be an issue? Fingers crossed you have to consider that though! I can’t remember, did you trigger ovulation?
@sammygirl18 what others have said - mobile is so much better. I prefer the desktop bc sometimes mobile is overwhelming but it does just fine!