@fameonmain2 I love my little fur ball, but they can be so gross at times!
Big things happening in my small town... a Raising Cane's just opened (mind you there's one in the town over) and the line is a mile long. WHY?! Is it that good?
I just noticed there's a checkbox under Specifics in FF to mark miscarriage for those cycles. And the weirdest f*cking thing happened when I marked it in that cycle - it gave me a pop up message that they updated my O date from CD16 to CD20! Meaning my timing had actually been -1 and -2! This was 2 days after my last +OPK. Which means my first BFP was actually 8dpo, not 12dpo.
WTF how does this happen that it changes my O date from that?
*TW* History
TTC #1 since 7.2017 Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3| all BFN IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name" RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer 2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20 Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21 Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22 | biopsy provided same effect as endometrial scratch; added supplemental progesterone and estrogen, prednisone, levothyroxine, and MTX Support to maintain pregnancy DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023 Consultation with RI | 6.6.23 Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56 Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox Repeat labs in 8 weeks Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues TTC ended due to filing divorce **New relationship starting May 2024** Surprise BFP!! | 9.7.25 | EDD 5.11.26
TTC #1 since 7.2017 Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3| all BFN IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name" RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer 2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20 Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21 Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22 | biopsy provided same effect as endometrial scratch; added supplemental progesterone and estrogen, prednisone, levothyroxine, and MTX Support to maintain pregnancy DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023 Consultation with RI | 6.6.23 Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56 Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox Repeat labs in 8 weeks Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues TTC ended due to filing divorce **New relationship starting May 2024** Surprise BFP!! | 9.7.25 | EDD 5.11.26
@inthewoods23 that’s so weird. FF can be weird though. I had to change from the advanced detector to the FAM detector for it to get my o day right on at least 2 cycles
@inthewoods23 I just started my chart, and it did the same for me, without the temps/crosshairs. I think it just realigns it to the middle - a real wtf!
@inthewods23 That is bizarre. I have no explanation for you. I have used that "miscarriage" marker on my chart in the past but never noticed that it changed anything.
I have a big WTF but it discusses a lady bombarding me with her politics so please skip if not in the mood.
I was running errands and ran into an acquaintance that I know from community events (before the pandemic). She has been super nice in our few interactions in the past, and mostly normal, albeit a bit of an airy-fairy hippy-dippy type. (We have tons of those types where I live.)
She seemed happy to see me and we caught up for a couple minutes. As we were parting ways she stopped me and said, "I don't know where you stand politically, or if you know, but that huge land preservation property that Oprah owns here--supposedly to 'preserve the land'--actually has tons of underground tunnels leading to other islands. They use this to traffic kids to the airports for the sex trafficking trade in Asia.... I hope you're doing okay in these times. Like I said, I don't know where you stand politically, but it's really exciting the big things that are about to happen. I don't know if you follow Qanon at all? But yeah, JFK Junior faked his death twenty years ago and has been underground all this time. I know it sounds crazy! But he did this so he can avenge his father's death, because, you know, JFK was the first one to try to expose the corrupt government. That's why they had to assassinate him. So his son has been underground all this time working to expose all of this and it's just about to come out. Like any day now! And when it does, things are really going to turn around and there's going to be a lot of support for people like you who have a good heart and are trying to do good things in our community. You are going to get a lot of financial support for your efforts, hang in there!"
What the Actual F***?!
I was so dumbfounded that all I could do was walk away.
@demimondaine Haha! Right?! And she was speaking so fast that there wouldn't have been a chance to ask a question or respond anyway, even if I could have thought of something despite my total shock.
@keikilove wow, that’s a lot to take in while you’re running errands. I try to avoid most social interactions while out and about in my town to avoid that kind of interaction! I’ve found that the masks + a winter or baseball cap make me nearly unrecognizable 😂
@keikilove how the hell does that beginning connect with the end???
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And what is with people who think things are going to get immediately better with change? Like that shit takes time. There was one guy I knew in college who stated that racism was going to end in 10 years because all the old people would be dead by then.
That was sometime in 2011 or 12 so...*checks calendar*... we've only got 2 more years max to make that happen
*TW* History
TTC #1 since 7.2017 Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3| all BFN IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name" RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer 2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20 Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21 Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22 | biopsy provided same effect as endometrial scratch; added supplemental progesterone and estrogen, prednisone, levothyroxine, and MTX Support to maintain pregnancy DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023 Consultation with RI | 6.6.23 Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56 Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox Repeat labs in 8 weeks Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues TTC ended due to filing divorce **New relationship starting May 2024** Surprise BFP!! | 9.7.25 | EDD 5.11.26
@inthewoods23 Exactly! I have no idea how conspiracy theories coming true are going to magically reverse the current reality or benefit me personally. 🤷♀️ I want no part of the crazy.😆 Also, LOLing at that comment from your college classmate. If only it were so easy... @fameonmain2 She cornered me in the vegetable aisle. Haha, I wish disguises were an option! It’s too warm here for more than double masks & sunglasses.
@misspricklepants To your last comment I must reply “WTF!?” Canes is literally the best chicken ever and I will hear no argument!
I’m obviously partially joking, but I really do love Canes so much. I have to prevent myself from going there because I would eat waaaay to much. I don’t know that I would wait in a mile long line, but once things calm down you definitely need to go there. The sauce is the best, and dipping the toast in the sauce is my inner fat person paradise.
Re: WTF Wednesday 1.13
Big things happening in my small town... a Raising Cane's just opened (mind you there's one in the town over) and the line is a mile long. WHY?! Is it that good?
@fifilala516 I am only watching in spurts for this reason.
WTF how does this happen that it changes my O date from that?
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC ended due to filing divorce
**New relationship starting May 2024**
Surprise BFP!! | 9.7.25 | EDD 5.11.26
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC ended due to filing divorce
**New relationship starting May 2024**
Surprise BFP!! | 9.7.25 | EDD 5.11.26
ETA: From day 14 to day 20 for me
She seemed happy to see me and we caught up for a couple minutes. As we were parting ways she stopped me and said, "I don't know where you stand politically, or if you know, but that huge land preservation property that Oprah owns here--supposedly to 'preserve the land'--actually has tons of underground tunnels leading to other islands. They use this to traffic kids to the airports for the sex trafficking trade in Asia.... I hope you're doing okay in these times. Like I said, I don't know where you stand politically, but it's really exciting the big things that are about to happen. I don't know if you follow Qanon at all? But yeah, JFK Junior faked his death twenty years ago and has been underground all this time. I know it sounds crazy! But he did this so he can avenge his father's death, because, you know, JFK was the first one to try to expose the corrupt government. That's why they had to assassinate him. So his son has been underground all this time working to expose all of this and it's just about to come out. Like any day now! And when it does, things are really going to turn around and there's going to be a lot of support for people like you who have a good heart and are trying to do good things in our community. You are going to get a lot of financial support for your efforts, hang in there!"
What the Actual F***?!
I was so dumbfounded that all I could do was walk away.
Spoilering more specific comments
That was sometime in 2011 or 12 so...*checks calendar*... we've only got 2 more years max to make that happen
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC ended due to filing divorce
**New relationship starting May 2024**
Surprise BFP!! | 9.7.25 | EDD 5.11.26
@fameonmain2 She cornered me in the vegetable aisle. Haha, I wish disguises were an option! It’s too warm here for more than double masks & sunglasses.
@fameonmain2 I do love me some BWW... Asian Zing all the way!