May 2021 Moms

Product spotlight: Cribs, travel cribs, sleeping surfaces

Happy Monday! We'll be tackling lots of baby furniture and gear over the next few months, but one of the major focus points of the nursery is the CRIB! So let's start there!

Many people find themselves with a million different sleep surfaces, e.g.: a bedside bassinet for when they're itty bitty, a sturdy crib (which may or may not convert to a toddler bed down the road) for their nursery, travel cribs, a Pack and Play for other areas in the house, a portable sleep surface like dock a tot for putting baby in random spots, and we want to hear about them ALL! Do you like all the bells and whistles like a SNOO? Or perhaps just the minimalist dream of the Finnish Baby in A Cardboard Box tradition? Please share!

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Re: Product spotlight: Cribs, travel cribs, sleeping surfaces

  • Bassinet: We did the Halo. Got it second hand from a family where neither of their two kids liked it so it was practically new. My little loved it and would roll to sleep right against the mesh. I'm torn on buying a new one for baby #2 since the mesh is pretty stretched out. Clearly we loved it though. It made me feel like he was safe while also being able to sleep close to him and middle of the night feeds were easy. 

    Crib: We went with a Delta convertible crib. It feels sturdy, we have it set up as a toddler bed now and it can convert to a full when he's older so I love the longevity of it. It also made the switch from a crib to a toddler bed really easy because it was still his bed. We didn't have any trouble at all. 

    Travel Crib: We travel overnight a few times a year so invested in the Baby Bjorn travel crib. The set up is so freaking easy and it's fairly light. Does travel well. That said, I kind of wish I had gone with the Lotus because that zip side would be very convenient. The Bjorn is just so high from the top to the ground and I'm short. There was a time he got sick on one of our trips and I couldn't reach him to comfort him while going to sleep. That's really my only complaint though and probably isn't a problem for anyone taller than me (5'2")
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  • Bassinet: I’ve had an Arms Reach Cosleeper with all 3 of my littles, and I love them! I love how sturdy they are, and that they can be next to the bed or not, it moves easily enough. Plus, it has a storage space below, which is great for blankets and extra things you might need at night in your room. Since my kids are so far apart though, we’ve bought 2, and will have to buy one again because I gave it away. 

    Crib: We already have one from our last child, and it’s ready to go. I can’t remember the brand, but it’s got a changing table attached- which I now don’t recommend. The changing table is so small it only works for a couple of months. All of our cribs have been convertible, but we just end up putting our toddlers in a real bed at about 2 and a half. 

    Travel: I’ve had a few Graco Pack n Plays, I really like them. They work great!

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  • @SkilledSailor where did you get your conversion kit from for the crib? I think ours is a delta too, but we never found a conversion kit.  We got ours from target.  
    We are planning to get a bassinet this time.  We are debating between the mommaroo and halo.


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  • Bassinet. We didn't use a bassinet last time. Our initial plan was to put her in her crib in her room from day one but it didn't work out like that. We ended up putting her in a pack and play in our room for the first 12 weeks. Our pack and play didn't have a bassinet attachment but we used the changing table attachment. This time we're planning on buying a twin bassinet and keeping it in our room for the same amount of time (12 weeks). 

    Crib. We bought a Babyletto convertible crib for our first and she is still sleeping in it as a crib at almost 3 years old. Our plan is to keep her in it for as long as she'll stay in it or until we're ready for the twins to move to their room, whichever comes first and then just move her to a full bed (which we are getting as a hand me down from my in-laws). We'll move that crib into the new nursery and then we'll have to buy a second crib which won't match because I'm not spending $400 just to get a matching crib  :#  

    Travel. We've used our 4moms pack and play as our travel crib and it's been great. We don't plan on doing much traveling after the twins get here so not worried about what we'll do for them at this point.
  • @mkc3888 I ended up ordering it directly from Delta over the summer. Came in pretty quickly. 
  • Bassinet. For nighttime sleeping we used the bassinet insert in the pack 'n' play. For putting them down in the living room we used this portable bassinet/changing table, and really like it. It's a little hard to flip at first, but once you figure out the trick and get the hang of it, it works great. 

    Crib. We kicks the babies out of our room pretty quickly, (between 2-6 weeks). But my older two actually stayed in the pack 'n' play for the first year of their life. (The oldest because we were in an apartment and didn't have room for a full crib, and the second because the older was still using the crib.) When we were ready for a crib we just went to Buy Buy Baby and bought one that looked good. I actually picked it because it was the only one I liked that came in blond wood, blond wood was very out of fashion at the time, so they only had like 3 options. We went to check out and it turns out the blond was discontinued, at that point I was so shopped out I just got it in the gray. We like it a lot, it's survived three rough and tumble boys so far, but for the life of me I can't tell you what company it is. It is a convertible, but only because it's very hard to find anything else these days. We have no plans of converting it, we keep moving toddler out into real beds, and putting new babies in. (This baby will be in the pack 'n' play until my 1 yo learns to climb out of the crib. The only reason the 1 yo didn't spend any time in the pack 'n' play is because my 3 yo learned to climb out at 18 months. Hoping this one takes a little longer.)

    Travel. We use the Graco pack 'n' play, and are happy with it. Not that we do much traveling. 


  • Has anybody tried the Babybjorn bassinet? I just think it looks sooo good, but it is expensive. 2nd choice is the Halo.

    Also snuggle me vs dock a tot?
  • @mimser same question as you regarding babybjorn because my SIL is giving me hers!!  DH is super into anything smart and techy so I’m wondering if I’ll be good with this or will be missing out not getting something like Halo. I’d love to have one less thing to buy if possible! And it’s so gorgeous!!

    no experience here but everyone I know that’s had a baby in past year has sworn by dock a tot so I intend to get that
  • We put DS in the crib starting about night 3 at home so we plan to do that again, so no bassinett.

    We used a Graco pack n play that has a bouncer and diaper changer, and we loved it. We had it set up in the basement for the first few months because that was where we spent the majority of the time when hanging out. 

    @mimser I have had a few friends who used a dock-a-tot and none of them recommended it because they all said the transition out of it was very hard. For that reason, we never used one...we have always been lucky because DS is a really great sleeper.
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  • @spartan4life oh that's interesting. What do you mean by transition, like going to their crib after? I would use the dock a tot more like during the day as another place to lay baby in.
  • Crib: we have been reusing cribs for a while lol, since the baby will be in our room we have a mini crib that we will be using. Right now our one year old is in it but she will be almost 2 when this baby comes so we will transition her to a toddler bed.
    Travel: over the years/kids we have tried a number of things, pack and play, mini pack and play but this past year we found a winner! The fisher price on the go baby dome, its good for both indoor and outdoor use and super portable. Its great for when baby is small but once they start standing then you may want to upgrade to something bigger.


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  • @mimser that makes sense. Yeah, they used it at night in the crib or bassinet and said it was hard to transition them to sleeping without it once they were getting too big for it.
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    We started with the Graco pack 'n' play in our room with the insert to raise the bottom to prevent bending over. We had the changing pad insert, but I was always uncomfortable using it, so I used the main surface instead or our bed. Maybe it was because it wasn't flat enough for me or the fact that I didnt want him sleeping under it and I hated removing it and replacing it ever time we needed to use it. It was just more convenient to remove it, forget about it and just use any flat surface available. 

    When he was 2&1/2 months I went back to work for a few weeks and the playpen moved permanently to my mother in law's house as a sleep surface. We then set up the crib in our room and did some unsafe things, in my mind, to raise the mattress to a more accessible level. (Four crates under the mattress.) 

    But then covid struck and we moved back in with my MIL and he was in the Graco for four months. I did not know you can get a play pen mattress. Wonderful investment if you are going to use the play pen exclusively for sleeping. By the time I found out it was too late. Around 6 or 7 months, when he started to stand up, he started throwing himself in his sleep, which was ok with the playpen walls, but painful to watch as he hit the thin pad on the bottom. When he moved back to the crib at 10 months he was still throwing himself, but it the opposite problem. The mattress was soft but it was scary to watch him deadfall into the wooden crib walls. I had been terrified of using crib bumpers, for SIDS, but we did use them for a short while to see if it would help.

    Around a year he stopped the crazy falling, which is a relief because we do a form of Co sleeping. Around 10ish months right after we started back with the crib, I took out the side where the toddle opening was and pushed his crib onto the side of our bed. He had some trouble getting off our very high bed for a while, so I regret not waiting a month or two until he was an expert. But with the breastfeeding in the night it was much easier to feed laying down and then when he was sleeping just roll him over to his bed. Around 10 months I started feeding lying down, couldn't figure out earlier, but I fell asleep faster than the baby in this position so he spent a lot of time in the bed. Having bed closer really helped with getting him off the bed and leaving more space for us. (We have a full, so we have no extra space and I moved the bed specifically so my husband would stop leaving because the baby was taking up all the space) 

    Travel My sister gave me a smer infant by my side sleeper that I was going to but in the playpen. But my Mom panicked and wouldn't let me, something amount the moro reflex, so I almost never used it. After my Mom left I tried it at my MIL's house, before the Graco lived there and it turned out to be awesome for travel. For the first 6 months we used it whenever we traveled and it was so convenient. For the next baby I may try it as a bassinet. 

    @mimser My preference would go to a bassinet, like the by my side sleeper instead of a cushioned surface like snuggle me or dock a tot. They sleep so much at the beginning and I was always scared about SIDS. Although mine slept a lot in his brights starts rocker, because that was the only way for me to calm him and that's not a safe sleep surface either. 

  • @mimser I registered for a Dock a Tot, also to lay him down in during day if I need to use the bathroom or next to me on the couch. I’m getting the Babybjorn bouncer for when he can hold himself / his neck up. 

    I still don’t know if he’ll sleep in our room at all, so I registered for the pack n play with the bassinet/changing level just in case. We can look at renting a bassinet if we feel differently as the time gets closer.  
  • @mimser I plan to get a dock a tot also, for a place to lay baby around the house (not for night time). Last time we used the hell out of a rock & play but I’m trying to just leave it in storage this time, both because of the recall and because I want baby to be more used to laying flat.
  • We don’t have a Dock a Tot or anything similar and we don’t plan on getting one. We just lay them on the sofa (before they can roll) or the floor if we need to put them down or if they fall asleep when we’re downstairs 🤷‍♀️ 
  • my SIL gave us her old crib, but i need to procure a new mattress.  any suggestions? do i splurge on this?
  • @asf0613 I honestly don’t think it’s worth a splurge. They all have to meet the same safety standards and be firm. However ours didn’t get much use last time. We’ll be using the same one for this baby. 

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  • thanks @mkc3888 ! i was thinking they all must be similar enough and found a few for <$100 that i'll probably go for, as opposed to some that are $200-$300!!
  • @asf0613 yeah I think last time we spent $100? And we’ll reuse that one this time and then got the same one on prime day for $60. 
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    @asf0613 We have a handme down crib with a nice mattress. Even if you don't splurge, keep in mind that there are some low quality mattresses. A baby isn't very heavy so the effect will be different but around 4-6 months some babies start projecting themselves. I think it's between crawling and walking, when they're gaining control of their gross motor abilities. So a good quality mattress is nice to have, especially at that time. 

    And there might still be time to get a black Friday/ Cyber Monday deal. 
  • thanks @gusgus14 and @littlelibelula !

    turns out my MIL was holding the mattress at her house (all of these hand-me-downs are all over the place!) so we will see the condition of the mattress before purchasing anything new
  • We just ordered our Babyletto crib, and we have a cradle that my FIL made before he passed (and all grandbabies have slept in so far).  I'm wondering what other items are truly necessary?

    I was gifted a bouncer already--can I just use that in lieu of something like a dock-a-tot for putting baby down in during the day?  I am torn on if I should get a pack and play or not....don't plan on doing too much travel due to Covid (I do live across the country from my family, but if I travel to see them my mom/siblings have things I can use).  Our house is 1 level, very open floor plan so I feel like it will be just as easy to put baby in the nursery as it is to have all these extra things in my living room?  Am I crazy!?  

  • @nkeaney definitely not crazy! I know some people use pack and plays in family rooms and stuff but we only ever use ours when traveling as a place for her to sleep (and that's with us having a two story house where the bedrooms are all upstairs). On top of that, not all babies like the same things so I wouldn't buy a bunch of stuff until you can figure out what they like. Personally, I don't think you need more than your cradle, crib, and some sort of bouncer/swing/seat. I will say, we ended up with a mamaroo, a swing, and a little bouncy seat but that's only because we bought the mamaroo first and our kid hated it. About 6 weeks in we broke down and bought a swing which she tolerated and was the only place I could get her to fall asleep for a few minutes (and even that was hit or miss) and then once she started daycare we discovered she loved the little vibrating bouncy seats so we bought one of those so we could alternate her between the swing and seat since she would only tolerate each for so long.

    Full disclosure: our baby was a *very* fussy newborn and was only really happy if she was being held facing out and walking laps around the house. Sharing that to say that had she not been like that, we probably wouldn't have ended up with all three of those things.
  • @nkeaney I have the same interrogation about getting a pack n play... so far we think of getting it and leaving it in our media room downstairs in our basement 🤷‍♀️
  • Yup my pack n play is really for travel, and also a safe place to put baby where the toddlers can’t reach. Otherwise we will be getting a swing for fussy times in our living room, but our bedrooms are all upstairs so the crib/bassinet are far away. 

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  • Ok so I did more research on travel cribs. 

    Babybjorn vs Guava Lotus va Phil and Ted's?

    I like the price of Phil and Ted's and just how easy it would be to take this to the park for a picnic for example.
  • @mimser I'm sure you watched some already, but there are a lot of comparison videos on YouTube. 

    Here's an ok video that has all 3, plus an extra.  https://youtu.be/dN3tlfdH-ac

    The Guava Lotus seems pretty nice, with all the extra extra accessories. 
  • Do any cat owners have a suggestion for something to put over the bassinet while not in use to keep kitty from making it her new personal bed? I'm not worried about the crib since it will be too high for her to jump into, but the bassinet is an easy target since it will be level with our bed. I saw a mosquito net thing on Amazon, but it looks too flimsy to physically keep her out.
  • @ec1212 I don't live with a cat anymore but I've heard that a sheet of aluminium foil. That's for when baby is not in the bassinet obviously. Do you think she might go in when baby's there?
  • @mimser whaaaaa? like just a piece inside of foil inside of it? Wow, I'd never have guessed. That's funny visualizing it. No, she won't go in while baby is in there but I'm sure when we first set it up and when baby's not in it, she will try to make it her own special spot like thanks guys you finally got me my own fancy elevated bed.
  • @ec1212 yes! Apparently that keeps cats away they are scared of it and won't like the feeling of standing on it.
  • @ec1212 foil doesn't work with all cats but yeah in general they don't like it so worth a try! The problem is, when you stop putting foil down they might start getting in it again. The only things that deters our cats is when we spray them with water which obviously isn't ideal if you're not sitting there watching to see if/when they jump in. They've never gotten in the crib or pack n play (which we used in place of a bassinet) though. 
  • @gusgus14 I just hate the idea of training her to deal with the door closed...she loves going in to sleep on or under our bed when we're in the other rooms and she will freak out...and we might not have enough time to train her so she might just stand outside the door and yell. I'll just try the tin foil and then maybe the mosquito net when we set things up a week or two before baby and see what happens. Will keep Googling for other creative solutions.
  • @ec1212 set the bassinet out early and keep a spray bottle out. If you catch your cat thinking about jumping in, give them a spritz. We trained our cat to stay off our bed this way a few years ago and he never looked back 😂
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