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TWW WEEKEND OF 12.5-12.6

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Month/Cycle: 

CD/DPO: 

Timing: 

Typical LP length: 

Testing: 

R/R: 

CS/Q: 

GTKY: Share your favorite Christmas Day tradition. 


TTC History
TTC#2
Me: 41; MH: 40 | Met 02/2009 | Started Dating 08/2017 | Married 02/02/2020
Mar 2024 | consult to get established with a new reproductive immunologist (Alan Beer Center)
Apr/May 2024 | required testing & waiting for a protocol
May 2024 | protocol given / decided to go back to my old reproductive immunologist, Dr. Jubiz
Jun / Jul 2024 | more testing, incl. SIS, ultrasound, and endometrial biopsy
Jul 2024 | Dx chronic endometritis; 14 days of 100mg of doxy given
Sep 2024 | Repeat endometrial biopsy; still + for chronic endometritis. 2 more antibiotics + an antiviral
Oct 2024 | Hysteroscopy turned polypectomy; endometriosis consult w/ specialist who confirmed high likelihood of endo based on symptoms and ultrasound; lots of blood tests ordered
Mar 2025 | Endo excision surgery. Stage 3 endo found! Recoveing
Apr 2025 | Planning transfer w/ RE & green light protocol w/ RI; target transfer July or August 2025
May 2025 | Surprise BFP! EDD 1/11/2026


TTC #1
Me: 36, MH: 34 | Met 02/2009 | Started Dating 08/2017 | Married 02/02/2020
TTC #1 02/2020 - 07/2022
2009 | Dx PCOS; likely a misdiagnosis
07/14/20 | Dx Hashimoto's Thyroditis
07/21/20 | 1st RE appointment
07/2120 - 08/20/20 | so much testing; no signs of PCOS
08/20/20 | Dx Unexplained; AMA
09/08/20 | IUI #1 Clomid + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
09/30/20 | Urology consult; more testing required
10/2020 | Clomid + OPK + TI + Prometrium | BFN
10/26/2020 | Starting 2nd IUI cycle, with Letrazole and with a new RE / different clinic
11/03/2020 | New Dx "poor egg quality"; IUI cancelled in favor of Trigger + TI + Prometrium | BFN
11/26/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Menopur) + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
12/20/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Gonal-F) + Trigger | IUI Cancelled due to thin lining; TI only | BFN
01/14/2021 | Combo IUI (Letrazole + Menopur) + Trigger | BFN
02/06/2021 | Switched to a new RE (TEW) ; trying naturally until we complete additional testing 
03/14/2021 | Hybrid Double IUI, with Zymot (Letrazole, Gonal-F) + Trigger + Endometrin | Ovulated 4 mature eggs but still a BFN ☹️
04/07/2021 | Natural cycle while we regroup | BFN
04/09/2021 | Employer announces fertility benefits starting 05/01/2021! | Search for a new doctor who accepts insurance
05/10/2021 | New RE consult & plan for IVF
05/13/2021 | Mid-luteal IVF cycle #1 interrupted; had to get cancer genetic screening done to make sure I didn't have the same SDHA gene mutation as MH. 
06/10/2021 | Aygestin priming IVF cycle #1; opted to Cx after 9 days of stims since only 5-6/12 follicles responded
07/26/2021 | Attempt #2 at IVF cycle #1 (mid-luteal start): 8 retrieved, 8 MII, 6 fert (1 PN3), 3 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 3AA, 3AA, 6AB; 3 euploid
08/09/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC | Shockingly, a BFP! EDD: 5/25/202 | CP at 4w4d
09/23/2021 | IVF cycle #2 (mid-luteal start): 14 retrieved, 13 MII, 11 fert, 5 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 2 x 3AA, 2 x 3AB, 3BB; 2 euploid
11/12/2021 | IVF cycle #3 (mid-luteal start): cancelled due to ovaries being on vacation
12/20/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + Pregmune Immunology Testing; BFN
01/22/2022 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + understanding uncovered immunological issues; BFN
02/18/2022 | Mock transfer cycle! ERA, ReceptivaDx, EMMA/ALICE; start Prednisone to address NK activity
03/16/2022 | Final, "Hail Mary" super-ovulation + TI cycle before FET; BFP! EDD: 12/21/2022 | MMC 05/08/2022
05/20/2022 | D&C; recovering... 
06/21/2022 | Trying naturally until October 2022
07/21/2022 | BFP! EDD 04/02/2023; 👦🏼 born on 4/5/2023


Re: TWW WEEKEND OF 12.5-12.6

  • Month/Cycle: 11/11

    CD/DPO: 14/2

    Timing: Excellent

    Typical LP length: 17 days while on progesterone

    Testing: beta on Dec 17, my nephew's bday so hopefully lucky!

    R/R: Well, the Bay area has made the decision to adopt a strict stay-at-home order starting Sunday night, which ahead of the governor-mandated guidelines (those are when the ICU capacity is drops to below 15%). That means all non-essential businesses are once again shutting down: hair salons, outdoor dining, etc. Retail chains are allowed to remain open, but at 25% capacity (down fro 50%). MH and I went to a grocery store today at 7:15 to get ahead of the run on. When we were leaving at 7:50, it was already pretty busy and MH was getting cranky (he's super vigilant about being in public space right now.) To be honest, I'm glad that Bay area is being pro-active and not waiting until things get so bad that we've completely overwhelmed the healthcare system, but this means it's going to be a very very different holiday season. We had invited a friend or 2 over for Christmas dinner but that may need to be reconsidered now. 

    I'm spending the day cooking, which is my happy activity. Ribs are currently smoking on the BBQ, I started bulk fermentation of my gluten-free sourdough bread, and currently working on a butternut squash soup. I'm looking forward to eating all the fruits of my labor later today. 

    CS/Q: Nope. 

    GTKY: Share your favorite Christmas Day tradition. For the past decade or so, whenever I spent Christmas with my family, we always head to the ski hills first thing Christmas Day. Obviously this year is different since I'm not going home, so I'm looking forward to creating some new traditions with MH. 


    TTC History
    TTC#2
    Me: 41; MH: 40 | Met 02/2009 | Started Dating 08/2017 | Married 02/02/2020
    Mar 2024 | consult to get established with a new reproductive immunologist (Alan Beer Center)
    Apr/May 2024 | required testing & waiting for a protocol
    May 2024 | protocol given / decided to go back to my old reproductive immunologist, Dr. Jubiz
    Jun / Jul 2024 | more testing, incl. SIS, ultrasound, and endometrial biopsy
    Jul 2024 | Dx chronic endometritis; 14 days of 100mg of doxy given
    Sep 2024 | Repeat endometrial biopsy; still + for chronic endometritis. 2 more antibiotics + an antiviral
    Oct 2024 | Hysteroscopy turned polypectomy; endometriosis consult w/ specialist who confirmed high likelihood of endo based on symptoms and ultrasound; lots of blood tests ordered
    Mar 2025 | Endo excision surgery. Stage 3 endo found! Recoveing
    Apr 2025 | Planning transfer w/ RE & green light protocol w/ RI; target transfer July or August 2025
    May 2025 | Surprise BFP! EDD 1/11/2026


    TTC #1
    Me: 36, MH: 34 | Met 02/2009 | Started Dating 08/2017 | Married 02/02/2020
    TTC #1 02/2020 - 07/2022
    2009 | Dx PCOS; likely a misdiagnosis
    07/14/20 | Dx Hashimoto's Thyroditis
    07/21/20 | 1st RE appointment
    07/2120 - 08/20/20 | so much testing; no signs of PCOS
    08/20/20 | Dx Unexplained; AMA
    09/08/20 | IUI #1 Clomid + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
    09/30/20 | Urology consult; more testing required
    10/2020 | Clomid + OPK + TI + Prometrium | BFN
    10/26/2020 | Starting 2nd IUI cycle, with Letrazole and with a new RE / different clinic
    11/03/2020 | New Dx "poor egg quality"; IUI cancelled in favor of Trigger + TI + Prometrium | BFN
    11/26/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Menopur) + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
    12/20/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Gonal-F) + Trigger | IUI Cancelled due to thin lining; TI only | BFN
    01/14/2021 | Combo IUI (Letrazole + Menopur) + Trigger | BFN
    02/06/2021 | Switched to a new RE (TEW) ; trying naturally until we complete additional testing 
    03/14/2021 | Hybrid Double IUI, with Zymot (Letrazole, Gonal-F) + Trigger + Endometrin | Ovulated 4 mature eggs but still a BFN ☹️
    04/07/2021 | Natural cycle while we regroup | BFN
    04/09/2021 | Employer announces fertility benefits starting 05/01/2021! | Search for a new doctor who accepts insurance
    05/10/2021 | New RE consult & plan for IVF
    05/13/2021 | Mid-luteal IVF cycle #1 interrupted; had to get cancer genetic screening done to make sure I didn't have the same SDHA gene mutation as MH. 
    06/10/2021 | Aygestin priming IVF cycle #1; opted to Cx after 9 days of stims since only 5-6/12 follicles responded
    07/26/2021 | Attempt #2 at IVF cycle #1 (mid-luteal start): 8 retrieved, 8 MII, 6 fert (1 PN3), 3 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 3AA, 3AA, 6AB; 3 euploid
    08/09/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC | Shockingly, a BFP! EDD: 5/25/202 | CP at 4w4d
    09/23/2021 | IVF cycle #2 (mid-luteal start): 14 retrieved, 13 MII, 11 fert, 5 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 2 x 3AA, 2 x 3AB, 3BB; 2 euploid
    11/12/2021 | IVF cycle #3 (mid-luteal start): cancelled due to ovaries being on vacation
    12/20/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + Pregmune Immunology Testing; BFN
    01/22/2022 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + understanding uncovered immunological issues; BFN
    02/18/2022 | Mock transfer cycle! ERA, ReceptivaDx, EMMA/ALICE; start Prednisone to address NK activity
    03/16/2022 | Final, "Hail Mary" super-ovulation + TI cycle before FET; BFP! EDD: 12/21/2022 | MMC 05/08/2022
    05/20/2022 | D&C; recovering... 
    06/21/2022 | Trying naturally until October 2022
    07/21/2022 | BFP! EDD 04/02/2023; 👦🏼 born on 4/5/2023


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  • Month/Cycle: 5/6

    CD/DPO: 16/ 3? I don’t know 

    Timing: -1,0

    Typical LP length: 14?

    Testing: 

    R/R: I think the opks put me in a mind funk. The clear blue ones never stopped the blinking smiley face and they aren’t easy to compare days. I ran out of tests for the month before I ever got an actual smiley. I bought wondfos for next month because I’m not feeling confident at all for this month. I think it also put pressure on MH so it was a struggle.

    CS/Q: 

    GTKY: Share your favorite Christmas Day tradition. 

    We don’t have traditions per day. We do presents together and then my mom usually comes over, which likely won’t happen this year. 


    @acleverusername I wish Indiana and Illinois would tighten their mandates. It’s getting crazy over here but I think people are just over it. IL is supposed to be in Tier 3 with no indoor dining service but restaurants are open anyway. I live in IL and work in IN, so keeping up with both mandates gets confusing. 

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  • @acleverusername glad they are being proactive! This year is a great year to start new traditions! 

    @emmylou78 I don't know how you keep up with both mandates. I feel like keeping up with just the one is difficult at times. Personally, if download the premom app for your wondfos next month. Even if you don't pay much attention to their readings, it's nice to compare tests side by side.

    Month/Cycle: 6/2 or 3 AL? I have been trying to be active this month, but life seems to be kinda crazy so I can't remember what cycle I'm on... 

    CD/DPO: 16/ 2

    Timing: +1

    Typical LP length: 14

    Testing: who knows....

    R/R: so we had things set up with a donor, he had random covid test come back positive the day he was going to donate, so I got ahold of a different donor last minute. So at least we aren't completely out this cycle. My other rant is in the gtky.

    CS/Q: nothing to see. Premom thinks I O'd Sat since I peaked on Friday, but I definitely felt O pain Friday night, so I'm counting Friday as O.

    GTKY: Share your favorite Christmas Day tradition.

    This year is the first year we bought a house so we are starting our own traditions. We're hosting family which isn't huge (her parents and sister's family of 4 plus my mom, brother and his wife) for Christmas Eve day into Christmas morning. This has been a plan since before Halloween. Her sister informed us this past week that they'll head up that morning and leave that evening which is a 2.5 hr trip one way. My mom then calls to tell me she'll come up some time that evening after spending time with my brother and they aren't coming (news to me). I then call my brother who tells me to not count on them as he'll likely be working since he's waiting to hear back from a job. Needless to say we are disappointed in most of our families. It looks like we'll be spending the holiday with my in-laws, who I adore... I just wanted to finally host the holiday.


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