TW: loss?

Lisa3379 · November 2020

Ultrasound this morning after a day and a half of light to moderate bleeding revealed... there’s nothing in there. Nothing fucking in there. Huh.

Not enough bleeding to suggest miscarriage happened, and just having a period a month late after a positive pregnancy test seems weird, so they ordered an hCG test. That came back at 2,601. Hmm. So another blood test Wednesday to compare is the next step. My gut tells me ectopic.

Anyway, I wish you all the best of luck! Our next step is straight to IVF, because I’m old and I can’t wait cycle after cycle anymore. So wish us luck with that I guess!

mindyb2019 · November 2020

@Lisa3379 aww honey im so sorry for your loss and that your ultrasound news wasn't great. Take care of yourself. Sending you lots of love and hugs ❤ Hoping your next bloodtest will shed some light and give you some answers.

artsiefartsie · November 2020

Oh no,I'm so sorry! I hope they can figure it out quickly. Sending you love and luck for future babies! ❤❤

_orchid_ · November 2020

@Lisa3379 oh no, I am so, so sorry. I was hoping for a better outcome for you. I hope your bloodwork on Wednesday gives you a better idea of what is going on, and that you find yourself on another BMB soon. Sending you so much ♥️, please take care of yourself as you heal and grieve.

laurad75 · November 2020

I’m so sorry @Lisa3379. I hope you get some answers soon. If you go the IVF route the boards here on the bump are very supportive. Take good care of yourself!

mrsrundmc · November 2020

I am so sorry to hear this. Take care of yourself.

kristah2 · November 2020

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I hope you get some answers as soon as possible. Best of luck with yo ur IVF journey.

mc0303 · November 2020

I’m so sorry for your loss! I hope you find yourself in another BMB soon. Wishing you so much luck with the IVF journey ❤️❤️❤️

DoubleUp8 · November 2020

I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope the next blood test helps to figure out what's going on. Take care and good luck with your next steps.

ruemcclanahan · November 2020

Oh Lisa I'm so sorry for your loss

wendy838 · November 2020

So sorry to hear this news

best of luck with the IVF and hope to see you very soon on the BMBs.

disgruntled_pelican · November 2020

I’m so so sorry. That is so frustrating to not have answers. Many prayers for you.

legallykate · November 2020

I'm so sorry to hear this. If you ever want to talk IVF, I am happy to tell you about my experience and answer any questions. Wishing you the best

MelissaMay82 · November 2020

I’m so sorry.

tilournextadventure · November 2020

Lisa I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. Sending virtual hugs your way. I hope the blood tests provide some answers. Take care of yourself. ❤️

angelz429 · November 2020

So sorry

good luck

ramzlau · November 2020

Sorry for your loss! Hope they find you answers soon! When you are ready, you should check out the IF thread on TTGP. Lots of amazing women on there with great knowledge and support.

DreamReve1 · November 2020

I am so sorry. Sending you so many hugs.

DreamReve1 · November 2020

I am so sorry. Sending you so many hugs.

klj0228 · November 2020

I am sorry for your loss. I hope you are able to get some answers moving forward. When doing IVF remember the bump has some great resources in other people have gone that route.

marebear15 · November 2020

Oh no! I'm so very sorry for your loss. I hope they can help you through this quickly so you can move on to your next step.

akoros · November 2020

Oh no, I'm so so sorry. I also recommend the IF thread on the TTGP forum, as well as TTCAL (when you're ready). They really helped me after my second loss and I learned so much.