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TW Tuesday 10.20

We haven’t done a Twatwaffle Tuesday in a long time! Who or what is being a twatwaffle  in your life these days? 


Re: TW Tuesday 10.20

  • keikilovekeikilove member
    edited October 2020
    Ok, I will go first again. I don’t usually have too many complaints but this week they are piling up.😬 
    My youngest sister is the TW in my life lately. I b*tch about her every now & then. She’s really bad at communication, loves to be passive-aggressive. We live right next door to each other. Last week she asked me to TEXT her before we come by her house, to give her that “courtesy”. So I asked her to TEXT before my niece comes over (daily!). She said she’d try to remember.🙄 The very next day my sister brought her adult friend over to tour OUR house while I was laid out in my bedroom with a headache. She wanted to show her friend how our two houses are different. No text, no warning, nothing. Just walked right in. I was too tired to say anything but I’m still fuming.  
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  • @keikilove sometimes I wish I lived closer to family but then I read stuff like this and I'm "nope I'm good!"

    This is a total first world TW but we are waiting on our Peloton bike to be delivered next Monday. I ordered back in August and I got an email today that said they are having a delay in shipping and that I need to reschedule my delivery. I look on the site and the next options were in December! So I call them, wait on hold for over 45 minutes (it actually hung up on me once and I had to call back and wait again) only to be told that it must have been a system error because our delivery for Monday is still scheduled. I asked who do I speak with to confirm that they are actually going to be delivering, like someone has to know that there is a bike for us somewhere on it's way here?, and he said they will call 30 minutes before when they are no their way. Ok...I guess it's good we are already working from home but I guess I need to block my calendar off for whenever they decide to show up. 

    Again, I get that this is a total minor inconvenience first world problem. Please feel free to flame me.  
    *TW LC*
    Me & MH: 32
    DS: 6/1/18 (Pre-E; IUGR; seizures; NICU)
    TTC #2: 12/2019
    Sept 2020: HSG possible blocked right tube
    Nov 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFN
    Dec 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFP!!! EDD 9/18

  • @krash_ so much envy! I want a peloton so bad but still working on talking my hubs i to it abs that he would like it as well. 
  • keikilovekeikilove member
    edited October 2020
    @krash_  Yes, total envy of the June21 BMB and your new Peloton! You will not get flamed from me. I hate sitting on the phone dealing with nonsense like what you just described.  Also, I see the Monday Bitchfest, Twatwaffle Tuesday, and WTF Wednesday as spaces to vent about anything we want, no matter how mundane or first-world. 

    PS: In all my petty complaining about my sis, I forgot to add that she TEXTED me in order to ask me to text her in the future when we are going to walk the 20 feet to knock on her door (which we only do about every 2 weeks, because of some other nonsense she pulled at the beginning of the pandemic). Petty as hell.  Couldn't even make that idiotic request verbally in person.
  • @keikilove I am sorry that your sister is being such a TW. You don't need this in your life right now. Or ever. 

    TTC History
    TTC#2
    Me: 41; MH: 40 | Met 02/2009 | Started Dating 08/2017 | Married 02/02/2020
    Mar 2024 | consult to get established with a new reproductive immunologist (Alan Beer Center)
    Apr/May 2024 | required testing & waiting for a protocol
    May 2024 | protocol given / decided to go back to my old reproductive immunologist, Dr. Jubiz
    Jun / Jul 2024 | more testing, incl. SIS, ultrasound, and endometrial biopsy
    Jul 2024 | Dx chronic endometritis; 14 days of 100mg of doxy given
    Sep 2024 | Repeat endometrial biopsy; still + for chronic endometritis. 2 more antibiotics + an antiviral
    Oct 2024 | Hysteroscopy turned polypectomy; endometriosis consult w/ specialist who confirmed high likelihood of endo based on symptoms and ultrasound; lots of blood tests ordered
    Mar 2025 | Endo excision surgery. Stage 3 endo found! Recoveing
    Apr 2025 | Planning transfer w/ RE & green light protocol w/ RI; target transfer July or August 2025
    May 2025 | Surprise BFP! EDD 1/11/2026


    TTC #1
    Me: 36, MH: 34 | Met 02/2009 | Started Dating 08/2017 | Married 02/02/2020
    TTC #1 02/2020 - 07/2022
    2009 | Dx PCOS; likely a misdiagnosis
    07/14/20 | Dx Hashimoto's Thyroditis
    07/21/20 | 1st RE appointment
    07/2120 - 08/20/20 | so much testing; no signs of PCOS
    08/20/20 | Dx Unexplained; AMA
    09/08/20 | IUI #1 Clomid + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
    09/30/20 | Urology consult; more testing required
    10/2020 | Clomid + OPK + TI + Prometrium | BFN
    10/26/2020 | Starting 2nd IUI cycle, with Letrazole and with a new RE / different clinic
    11/03/2020 | New Dx "poor egg quality"; IUI cancelled in favor of Trigger + TI + Prometrium | BFN
    11/26/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Menopur) + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
    12/20/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Gonal-F) + Trigger | IUI Cancelled due to thin lining; TI only | BFN
    01/14/2021 | Combo IUI (Letrazole + Menopur) + Trigger | BFN
    02/06/2021 | Switched to a new RE (TEW) ; trying naturally until we complete additional testing 
    03/14/2021 | Hybrid Double IUI, with Zymot (Letrazole, Gonal-F) + Trigger + Endometrin | Ovulated 4 mature eggs but still a BFN ☹️
    04/07/2021 | Natural cycle while we regroup | BFN
    04/09/2021 | Employer announces fertility benefits starting 05/01/2021! | Search for a new doctor who accepts insurance
    05/10/2021 | New RE consult & plan for IVF
    05/13/2021 | Mid-luteal IVF cycle #1 interrupted; had to get cancer genetic screening done to make sure I didn't have the same SDHA gene mutation as MH. 
    06/10/2021 | Aygestin priming IVF cycle #1; opted to Cx after 9 days of stims since only 5-6/12 follicles responded
    07/26/2021 | Attempt #2 at IVF cycle #1 (mid-luteal start): 8 retrieved, 8 MII, 6 fert (1 PN3), 3 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 3AA, 3AA, 6AB; 3 euploid
    08/09/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC | Shockingly, a BFP! EDD: 5/25/202 | CP at 4w4d
    09/23/2021 | IVF cycle #2 (mid-luteal start): 14 retrieved, 13 MII, 11 fert, 5 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 2 x 3AA, 2 x 3AB, 3BB; 2 euploid
    11/12/2021 | IVF cycle #3 (mid-luteal start): cancelled due to ovaries being on vacation
    12/20/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + Pregmune Immunology Testing; BFN
    01/22/2022 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + understanding uncovered immunological issues; BFN
    02/18/2022 | Mock transfer cycle! ERA, ReceptivaDx, EMMA/ALICE; start Prednisone to address NK activity
    03/16/2022 | Final, "Hail Mary" super-ovulation + TI cycle before FET; BFP! EDD: 12/21/2022 | MMC 05/08/2022
    05/20/2022 | D&C; recovering... 
    06/21/2022 | Trying naturally until October 2022
    07/21/2022 | BFP! EDD 04/02/2023; 👦🏼 born on 4/5/2023


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