Trying to Get Pregnant

TWW - Weekend 10.17-10.18

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Month/Cycle: 

CD/DPO: 

Timing: 

Typical LP length: 

Testing: 

R/R: 

CS/Q: 

GTKY: What was your favorite Halloween costume growing up? (I think I saw this while lurking the IF board maybe?)

TTC History

Me: 26 DH: 27

TTC #1 | June '18-August '18 | DD | Born April 21, 2019 | Due May 10, 2019

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TTC#2 | June '20-February '21 | DS | Due October 27, 2021

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Re: TWW - Weekend 10.17-10.18

  • Month/Cycle: 2/2

    CD/DPO: 38/6

    Timing: O-1 

    Typical LP length: 🤷🏽‍♀️

    Testing: Wednesday if I don’t get AF by then  

    R/R: I am so happy it’s the weekend. This week was just insane for work as per usual. Not many plans but I’ve already done 2 loads of laundry, cooked dinner, got takeaway coffees and went for a long walk through the park. For those who asked before, I’m in Amsterdam so lockdown again because our cases are bout 7-8X higher than spring. My back has been hurting so much yesterday and today. Probably from being hunched over a laptop all week. 

    CS/Q: No Qs. I like to CS so I figure other people do as well. That dip - I was super cold that night and the house was freezing (even my H wore socks to bed and he’s Canadian and never cold). 


    GTKY: What was your favorite Halloween costume growing up? (I think I saw this while lurking the IF board maybe?)

    Gosh I have a really bad memory and can hardly remember costumes. I don’t think my family was very creative either. I’ll think about it haha. 


    *Live, Love, Laugh, Learn*

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  • @AKuzReve my DH has a lot of coworkers in Europe and he keeps telling me how bad it is getting again according to the conversations he has had 😞


    Month/Cycle: 4/4

    CD/DPO: 17/5

    Timing: crappy. I think -3 and +1 according to FF but another app i use shows -1 and +3

    Typical LP length: 12

    Testing: no

    R/R: it’s a long weekend! Much needed after my long week and i plan to get nothing done until Monday. 

    CS/Q: 

    GTKY: a bride 🤣

  • @AKuzReve do you also have a curfew like Paris? Or not that bad yet? The US hit 69,000 new cases yesterday; highest since July. So it’s not getting better anywhere.

    @And846 enjoy your R&R weekend. What on your relaxation agenda.

    *WARNING* sad post ahead...

    Month/Cycle: 9/9

    CD/DPO: 24/11

    Timing: doesn’t really matter 

    Typical LP length: 17 days while on progesterone 

    Testing: BFN this morning; I’ll test again on Monday just so that I can stop progesterone but at this point I’m fairly certain I didn’t get KUed this cycle. 

    R/R: I am very sad today; for some reason, both MH and had been hoping this cycle was ours. I even let myself contemplate creative ways I could tell him I got a BFP. And I also found the Pregnancy Monitor section in FF that had a potential due date had we gotten KUed. Today I wondered if I’ll ever see a BFP 😔. I might need to pick up some cheap pregnancy tests because it might be a long while before that happens. Anyway, I hate to to be a Debbie Downer but that’s my current mood.

    I will likely not post to the dailies until new cycle starts which will likely be on Friday. 

    CS/Q: looks like my baseline progesterone dropped so it’s just the supplemental progesterone keeping my temps above coverline. 


    GTKY: What was your favorite Halloween costume growing up? Slightly different than the IF thread GTKY. I honestly don’t recall (m)any childhood costumes. I got really more creative when I hit adulthood. I dressed up as a Russian Mail Order Bride in 2008 and that was probably my most clever costume.


    TTC History
    TTC#2
    Me: 41; MH: 40 | Met 02/2009 | Started Dating 08/2017 | Married 02/02/2020
    Mar 2024 | consult to get established with a new reproductive immunologist (Alan Beer Center)
    Apr/May 2024 | required testing & waiting for a protocol
    May 2024 | protocol given / decided to go back to my old reproductive immunologist, Dr. Jubiz
    Jun / Jul 2024 | more testing, incl. SIS, ultrasound, and endometrial biopsy
    Jul 2024 | Dx chronic endometritis; 14 days of 100mg of doxy given
    Sep 2024 | Repeat endometrial biopsy; still + for chronic endometritis. 2 more antibiotics + an antiviral
    Oct 2024 | Hysteroscopy turned polypectomy; endometriosis consult w/ specialist who confirmed high likelihood of endo based on symptoms and ultrasound; lots of blood tests ordered
    Mar 2025 | Endo excision surgery. Stage 3 endo found! Recoveing
    Apr 2025 | Planning transfer w/ RE & green light protocol w/ RI; target transfer July or August 2025
    May 2025 | Surprise BFP! EDD 1/11/2026


    TTC #1
    Me: 36, MH: 34 | Met 02/2009 | Started Dating 08/2017 | Married 02/02/2020
    TTC #1 02/2020 - 07/2022
    2009 | Dx PCOS; likely a misdiagnosis
    07/14/20 | Dx Hashimoto's Thyroditis
    07/21/20 | 1st RE appointment
    07/2120 - 08/20/20 | so much testing; no signs of PCOS
    08/20/20 | Dx Unexplained; AMA
    09/08/20 | IUI #1 Clomid + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
    09/30/20 | Urology consult; more testing required
    10/2020 | Clomid + OPK + TI + Prometrium | BFN
    10/26/2020 | Starting 2nd IUI cycle, with Letrazole and with a new RE / different clinic
    11/03/2020 | New Dx "poor egg quality"; IUI cancelled in favor of Trigger + TI + Prometrium | BFN
    11/26/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Menopur) + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
    12/20/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Gonal-F) + Trigger | IUI Cancelled due to thin lining; TI only | BFN
    01/14/2021 | Combo IUI (Letrazole + Menopur) + Trigger | BFN
    02/06/2021 | Switched to a new RE (TEW) ; trying naturally until we complete additional testing 
    03/14/2021 | Hybrid Double IUI, with Zymot (Letrazole, Gonal-F) + Trigger + Endometrin | Ovulated 4 mature eggs but still a BFN ☹️
    04/07/2021 | Natural cycle while we regroup | BFN
    04/09/2021 | Employer announces fertility benefits starting 05/01/2021! | Search for a new doctor who accepts insurance
    05/10/2021 | New RE consult & plan for IVF
    05/13/2021 | Mid-luteal IVF cycle #1 interrupted; had to get cancer genetic screening done to make sure I didn't have the same SDHA gene mutation as MH. 
    06/10/2021 | Aygestin priming IVF cycle #1; opted to Cx after 9 days of stims since only 5-6/12 follicles responded
    07/26/2021 | Attempt #2 at IVF cycle #1 (mid-luteal start): 8 retrieved, 8 MII, 6 fert (1 PN3), 3 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 3AA, 3AA, 6AB; 3 euploid
    08/09/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC | Shockingly, a BFP! EDD: 5/25/202 | CP at 4w4d
    09/23/2021 | IVF cycle #2 (mid-luteal start): 14 retrieved, 13 MII, 11 fert, 5 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 2 x 3AA, 2 x 3AB, 3BB; 2 euploid
    11/12/2021 | IVF cycle #3 (mid-luteal start): cancelled due to ovaries being on vacation
    12/20/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + Pregmune Immunology Testing; BFN
    01/22/2022 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + understanding uncovered immunological issues; BFN
    02/18/2022 | Mock transfer cycle! ERA, ReceptivaDx, EMMA/ALICE; start Prednisone to address NK activity
    03/16/2022 | Final, "Hail Mary" super-ovulation + TI cycle before FET; BFP! EDD: 12/21/2022 | MMC 05/08/2022
    05/20/2022 | D&C; recovering... 
    06/21/2022 | Trying naturally until October 2022
    07/21/2022 | BFP! EDD 04/02/2023; 👦🏼 born on 4/5/2023


  • @AKuzReve I am impressed by your productivity this weekend. I need to take a page from your book and get off the couch. I did run this morning, but then I took a nap so I feel like that negates the productivity.

    @And846 Have you posted a chart so far? Maybe we can help pick an O day.

    @acleverusername I am so sorry about your test results. Nothing about this is fair. 11DPO is still somewhat early so don’t give up hope entirely, but you are still perfectly fine to vent to us ❤️

    Month/Cycle: 10/3 AL

    CD/DPO: 20/4

    Timing: -2,-1,O

    Typical LP length: 13

    Testing: I’m still thinking I will WFAF. This might be weird to say but I truly don’t want to know if I ever have a CP. 

    R/R: I have to be productive with some things around the house today, and so far I have not been doing well with it. I’m feeling unmotivated after the work week. I was able to schedule some vacation days in the near future though, so I have something to look forward to! 

    CS/Q: Nothing new

    GTKY: What was your favorite Halloween costume growing up? A giant skeleton that I wore in a backpack and moved with my arms and legs. Hard to describe how it worked, but for a small child it was awesome. 

  • @acleverusername, no curfew but they shut all bars, restaurants, and cafes. And you’re only allowed a max of 3 people to your home. So really there’s nothing to do anymore. 

    *Live, Love, Laugh, Learn*

  • @fitzfizz ❤️. Going for a run on a Saturday is plenty productive. After all, weekends are meant for relaxing. 

    TTC History
    TTC#2
    Me: 41; MH: 40 | Met 02/2009 | Started Dating 08/2017 | Married 02/02/2020
    Mar 2024 | consult to get established with a new reproductive immunologist (Alan Beer Center)
    Apr/May 2024 | required testing & waiting for a protocol
    May 2024 | protocol given / decided to go back to my old reproductive immunologist, Dr. Jubiz
    Jun / Jul 2024 | more testing, incl. SIS, ultrasound, and endometrial biopsy
    Jul 2024 | Dx chronic endometritis; 14 days of 100mg of doxy given
    Sep 2024 | Repeat endometrial biopsy; still + for chronic endometritis. 2 more antibiotics + an antiviral
    Oct 2024 | Hysteroscopy turned polypectomy; endometriosis consult w/ specialist who confirmed high likelihood of endo based on symptoms and ultrasound; lots of blood tests ordered
    Mar 2025 | Endo excision surgery. Stage 3 endo found! Recoveing
    Apr 2025 | Planning transfer w/ RE & green light protocol w/ RI; target transfer July or August 2025
    May 2025 | Surprise BFP! EDD 1/11/2026


    TTC #1
    Me: 36, MH: 34 | Met 02/2009 | Started Dating 08/2017 | Married 02/02/2020
    TTC #1 02/2020 - 07/2022
    2009 | Dx PCOS; likely a misdiagnosis
    07/14/20 | Dx Hashimoto's Thyroditis
    07/21/20 | 1st RE appointment
    07/2120 - 08/20/20 | so much testing; no signs of PCOS
    08/20/20 | Dx Unexplained; AMA
    09/08/20 | IUI #1 Clomid + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
    09/30/20 | Urology consult; more testing required
    10/2020 | Clomid + OPK + TI + Prometrium | BFN
    10/26/2020 | Starting 2nd IUI cycle, with Letrazole and with a new RE / different clinic
    11/03/2020 | New Dx "poor egg quality"; IUI cancelled in favor of Trigger + TI + Prometrium | BFN
    11/26/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Menopur) + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
    12/20/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Gonal-F) + Trigger | IUI Cancelled due to thin lining; TI only | BFN
    01/14/2021 | Combo IUI (Letrazole + Menopur) + Trigger | BFN
    02/06/2021 | Switched to a new RE (TEW) ; trying naturally until we complete additional testing 
    03/14/2021 | Hybrid Double IUI, with Zymot (Letrazole, Gonal-F) + Trigger + Endometrin | Ovulated 4 mature eggs but still a BFN ☹️
    04/07/2021 | Natural cycle while we regroup | BFN
    04/09/2021 | Employer announces fertility benefits starting 05/01/2021! | Search for a new doctor who accepts insurance
    05/10/2021 | New RE consult & plan for IVF
    05/13/2021 | Mid-luteal IVF cycle #1 interrupted; had to get cancer genetic screening done to make sure I didn't have the same SDHA gene mutation as MH. 
    06/10/2021 | Aygestin priming IVF cycle #1; opted to Cx after 9 days of stims since only 5-6/12 follicles responded
    07/26/2021 | Attempt #2 at IVF cycle #1 (mid-luteal start): 8 retrieved, 8 MII, 6 fert (1 PN3), 3 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 3AA, 3AA, 6AB; 3 euploid
    08/09/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC | Shockingly, a BFP! EDD: 5/25/202 | CP at 4w4d
    09/23/2021 | IVF cycle #2 (mid-luteal start): 14 retrieved, 13 MII, 11 fert, 5 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 2 x 3AA, 2 x 3AB, 3BB; 2 euploid
    11/12/2021 | IVF cycle #3 (mid-luteal start): cancelled due to ovaries being on vacation
    12/20/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + Pregmune Immunology Testing; BFN
    01/22/2022 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + understanding uncovered immunological issues; BFN
    02/18/2022 | Mock transfer cycle! ERA, ReceptivaDx, EMMA/ALICE; start Prednisone to address NK activity
    03/16/2022 | Final, "Hail Mary" super-ovulation + TI cycle before FET; BFP! EDD: 12/21/2022 | MMC 05/08/2022
    05/20/2022 | D&C; recovering... 
    06/21/2022 | Trying naturally until October 2022
    07/21/2022 | BFP! EDD 04/02/2023; 👦🏼 born on 4/5/2023


  • M onth/Cycle: 4/4 

    CD/DPO: 16/5

    Timing: -3,-2,-1,+1

    Typical LP length: 14d

    Testing: waiting longer this time. Maybe until CD 24 or so, if I can hold out. 

    R/R: I’ve been cleaning like a mad woman today, although I know full well that after we have friends over tomorrow, it’ll just need cleaned again  

    CS/Q: No CS, but considering starting to track BBT. 

    GTKY: What was your favorite Halloween costume growing up? I was the typical early 90s ghost in a sheet. I wore it to the elementary school parade that we had in my small town. 


    @AKuzReve haha at the Canadian comment. I’m always cold! 

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  • @emmylou78 enjoy your visit with friends 

    TTC History
    TTC#2
    Me: 41; MH: 40 | Met 02/2009 | Started Dating 08/2017 | Married 02/02/2020
    Mar 2024 | consult to get established with a new reproductive immunologist (Alan Beer Center)
    Apr/May 2024 | required testing & waiting for a protocol
    May 2024 | protocol given / decided to go back to my old reproductive immunologist, Dr. Jubiz
    Jun / Jul 2024 | more testing, incl. SIS, ultrasound, and endometrial biopsy
    Jul 2024 | Dx chronic endometritis; 14 days of 100mg of doxy given
    Sep 2024 | Repeat endometrial biopsy; still + for chronic endometritis. 2 more antibiotics + an antiviral
    Oct 2024 | Hysteroscopy turned polypectomy; endometriosis consult w/ specialist who confirmed high likelihood of endo based on symptoms and ultrasound; lots of blood tests ordered
    Mar 2025 | Endo excision surgery. Stage 3 endo found! Recoveing
    Apr 2025 | Planning transfer w/ RE & green light protocol w/ RI; target transfer July or August 2025
    May 2025 | Surprise BFP! EDD 1/11/2026


    TTC #1
    Me: 36, MH: 34 | Met 02/2009 | Started Dating 08/2017 | Married 02/02/2020
    TTC #1 02/2020 - 07/2022
    2009 | Dx PCOS; likely a misdiagnosis
    07/14/20 | Dx Hashimoto's Thyroditis
    07/21/20 | 1st RE appointment
    07/2120 - 08/20/20 | so much testing; no signs of PCOS
    08/20/20 | Dx Unexplained; AMA
    09/08/20 | IUI #1 Clomid + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
    09/30/20 | Urology consult; more testing required
    10/2020 | Clomid + OPK + TI + Prometrium | BFN
    10/26/2020 | Starting 2nd IUI cycle, with Letrazole and with a new RE / different clinic
    11/03/2020 | New Dx "poor egg quality"; IUI cancelled in favor of Trigger + TI + Prometrium | BFN
    11/26/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Menopur) + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
    12/20/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Gonal-F) + Trigger | IUI Cancelled due to thin lining; TI only | BFN
    01/14/2021 | Combo IUI (Letrazole + Menopur) + Trigger | BFN
    02/06/2021 | Switched to a new RE (TEW) ; trying naturally until we complete additional testing 
    03/14/2021 | Hybrid Double IUI, with Zymot (Letrazole, Gonal-F) + Trigger + Endometrin | Ovulated 4 mature eggs but still a BFN ☹️
    04/07/2021 | Natural cycle while we regroup | BFN
    04/09/2021 | Employer announces fertility benefits starting 05/01/2021! | Search for a new doctor who accepts insurance
    05/10/2021 | New RE consult & plan for IVF
    05/13/2021 | Mid-luteal IVF cycle #1 interrupted; had to get cancer genetic screening done to make sure I didn't have the same SDHA gene mutation as MH. 
    06/10/2021 | Aygestin priming IVF cycle #1; opted to Cx after 9 days of stims since only 5-6/12 follicles responded
    07/26/2021 | Attempt #2 at IVF cycle #1 (mid-luteal start): 8 retrieved, 8 MII, 6 fert (1 PN3), 3 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 3AA, 3AA, 6AB; 3 euploid
    08/09/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC | Shockingly, a BFP! EDD: 5/25/202 | CP at 4w4d
    09/23/2021 | IVF cycle #2 (mid-luteal start): 14 retrieved, 13 MII, 11 fert, 5 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 2 x 3AA, 2 x 3AB, 3BB; 2 euploid
    11/12/2021 | IVF cycle #3 (mid-luteal start): cancelled due to ovaries being on vacation
    12/20/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + Pregmune Immunology Testing; BFN
    01/22/2022 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + understanding uncovered immunological issues; BFN
    02/18/2022 | Mock transfer cycle! ERA, ReceptivaDx, EMMA/ALICE; start Prednisone to address NK activity
    03/16/2022 | Final, "Hail Mary" super-ovulation + TI cycle before FET; BFP! EDD: 12/21/2022 | MMC 05/08/2022
    05/20/2022 | D&C; recovering... 
    06/21/2022 | Trying naturally until October 2022
    07/21/2022 | BFP! EDD 04/02/2023; 👦🏼 born on 4/5/2023


  • @And846 I would definitely agree with CD12, even 13 if you were going by OPKs, but I am curious why another app would peg it as so much earlier given this information. 

    @emmylou78 I did the same thing this weekend, cleaned before people came over, now I am cleaning again. Don’t know why I bother haha
  • @fitzfizz i know, right? My P Tracker app i switched on to TTC mode and just loaded opk and HIO info and it game me CD 14 as O 🤷🏼‍♀️ 
    I’m just going to call this a wash this month. 
  • *lurking* 

    @and846 are you trusting an app to tell you when you ovulated? I highly recommend reading Taking Charge of Your Fertility. It is a super quick and easy read. It will tell you exactly how to interpret your own chart and determine ovulation. Apps are notoriously wrong. 
  • @emeraldcity1214 I’m still learning my cycle and recording my actions and symptoms. So, going off my feeling and what that pegs me at as well 🤷🏼‍♀️ I’ll look up there read today :) 

  • @and846 Trusting an app can make you miss your window. Are you knowledgeable about tracking cervical mucus? Knowing exactly when your FW opens allows you the best timing. That book will lay all of that out for you. 
  • @emeraldcity1214 i track CM and it was EW thru CD 15-16. Perhaps it came off as I’m entirely trusting an app, which I’m not. I’m learning my body and seeing if apps are telling the same thing that I’m observing. Does that make sense? 

  • @and846 From what I am reading on here lots of people are relying heavily on their apps. I think that’s a big mistake. You can have fertile CM and even positive OPKs and still not ovulate. You need your temps to confirm ovulation and line up with your CM. Your temps don’t confirm ovulation. If CD16 had stayed elevated instead of dropping it would have confirmed. Have your temps gone back up? I need to check today’s daily thread. 
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