Trying to Get Pregnant

WTO Tuesday 10/13

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Re: WTO Tuesday 10/13

  • Month/Cycle: 10/3 AL

    CD: 16

    WAYDTGKU: BBT, OPKs, PNV

    R/R: Good news yesterday from the lab! I’ll post a little more info in the weekly thread, but essentially this was good news, it came back faster than planned, and there is no more testing to be done. Perfect timing as I think I’m about to move to TWW.

    CS/Q: Just to be confusing, temp is up today but OPKs were not positive until this morning. I’m not sure what to make of that as far as tracking, but I think I’m ovulating today? 


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  • @fitzfizz I’m so glad to hear you finally got your test results. I sneak over to the weekly thread to see your update. ❤️

    Month/Cycle: 5/5

    CD: 10

    WAYDTGKU:vitamins, BBT through O, OPKs

    R/R: after my appointment yesterday with my PCP, she suggested I drop everything I’m doing to track, as she suspects it’s not helping my mental health state (duh). So I compromised and said I’d keep POAS and I’d temp through 3dpo, so that’s what I’m trying. I also start a new anxiety/depression nee today. Hoping I react okay to it. Our super chilly, Fall weather week starts today. I’ll also be heavily stalking prime day deals while working. 🙈 Oops.

    CS/Q: 


    TTC History

    Me: 26 DH: 27

    TTC #1 | June '18-August '18 | DD | Born April 21, 2019 | Due May 10, 2019

    Lilypie Third Birthday tickers

    TTC#2 | June '20-February '21 | DS | Due October 27, 2021

    Lilypie Maternity tickers

  • @fitzfizz Yay for O day!
    @chindimples04 I hope you find a good balance between tracking and your mental health. TTC itself is such a mind f*ck you gotta do what works best for you!

    Month/Cycle: 11/12

    CD: 2

    WAYDTGKU: bleeding & meeting with RE today

    R/R: I'm really nervous the RE is going to tell us to just keep trying or that that we're both healthy so there's nothing he can do. I did the intake call with the nurse yesterday and she said that with blocked tubes the dr will a lot of times just say that it could have been a spasm or the contrast just went the path of least resistance if there no indicators for a blocked tube (ectopic pregnancy, pelvic inflammatory disease, pelvic surgery or a previous chlamydial infection) none of which I have had. 

    CS/Q: nothing yet

    *TW LC*
    Me & MH: 32
    DS: 6/1/18 (Pre-E; IUGR; seizures; NICU)
    TTC #2: 12/2019
    Sept 2020: HSG possible blocked right tube
    Nov 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFN
    Dec 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFP!!! EDD 9/18

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    @krash_ good luck today! Looking forward to your update. 

    TTC History
    TTC#2
    Me: 41; MH: 40 | Met 02/2009 | Started Dating 08/2017 | Married 02/02/2020
    Mar 2024 | consult to get established with a new reproductive immunologist (Alan Beer Center)
    Apr/May 2024 | required testing & waiting for a protocol
    May 2024 | protocol given / decided to go back to my old reproductive immunologist, Dr. Jubiz
    Jun / Jul 2024 | more testing, incl. SIS, ultrasound, and endometrial biopsy
    Jul 2024 | Dx chronic endometritis; 14 days of 100mg of doxy given
    Sep 2024 | Repeat endometrial biopsy; still + for chronic endometritis. 2 more antibiotics + an antiviral
    Oct 2024 | Hysteroscopy turned polypectomy; endometriosis consult w/ specialist who confirmed high likelihood of endo based on symptoms and ultrasound; lots of blood tests ordered
    Mar 2025 | Endo excision surgery. Stage 3 endo found! Recoveing
    Apr 2025 | Planning transfer w/ RE & green light protocol w/ RI; target transfer July or August 2025
    May 2025 | Surprise BFP! EDD 1/11/2026


    TTC #1
    Me: 36, MH: 34 | Met 02/2009 | Started Dating 08/2017 | Married 02/02/2020
    TTC #1 02/2020 - 07/2022
    2009 | Dx PCOS; likely a misdiagnosis
    07/14/20 | Dx Hashimoto's Thyroditis
    07/21/20 | 1st RE appointment
    07/2120 - 08/20/20 | so much testing; no signs of PCOS
    08/20/20 | Dx Unexplained; AMA
    09/08/20 | IUI #1 Clomid + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
    09/30/20 | Urology consult; more testing required
    10/2020 | Clomid + OPK + TI + Prometrium | BFN
    10/26/2020 | Starting 2nd IUI cycle, with Letrazole and with a new RE / different clinic
    11/03/2020 | New Dx "poor egg quality"; IUI cancelled in favor of Trigger + TI + Prometrium | BFN
    11/26/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Menopur) + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
    12/20/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Gonal-F) + Trigger | IUI Cancelled due to thin lining; TI only | BFN
    01/14/2021 | Combo IUI (Letrazole + Menopur) + Trigger | BFN
    02/06/2021 | Switched to a new RE (TEW) ; trying naturally until we complete additional testing 
    03/14/2021 | Hybrid Double IUI, with Zymot (Letrazole, Gonal-F) + Trigger + Endometrin | Ovulated 4 mature eggs but still a BFN ☹️
    04/07/2021 | Natural cycle while we regroup | BFN
    04/09/2021 | Employer announces fertility benefits starting 05/01/2021! | Search for a new doctor who accepts insurance
    05/10/2021 | New RE consult & plan for IVF
    05/13/2021 | Mid-luteal IVF cycle #1 interrupted; had to get cancer genetic screening done to make sure I didn't have the same SDHA gene mutation as MH. 
    06/10/2021 | Aygestin priming IVF cycle #1; opted to Cx after 9 days of stims since only 5-6/12 follicles responded
    07/26/2021 | Attempt #2 at IVF cycle #1 (mid-luteal start): 8 retrieved, 8 MII, 6 fert (1 PN3), 3 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 3AA, 3AA, 6AB; 3 euploid
    08/09/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC | Shockingly, a BFP! EDD: 5/25/202 | CP at 4w4d
    09/23/2021 | IVF cycle #2 (mid-luteal start): 14 retrieved, 13 MII, 11 fert, 5 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 2 x 3AA, 2 x 3AB, 3BB; 2 euploid
    11/12/2021 | IVF cycle #3 (mid-luteal start): cancelled due to ovaries being on vacation
    12/20/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + Pregmune Immunology Testing; BFN
    01/22/2022 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + understanding uncovered immunological issues; BFN
    02/18/2022 | Mock transfer cycle! ERA, ReceptivaDx, EMMA/ALICE; start Prednisone to address NK activity
    03/16/2022 | Final, "Hail Mary" super-ovulation + TI cycle before FET; BFP! EDD: 12/21/2022 | MMC 05/08/2022
    05/20/2022 | D&C; recovering... 
    06/21/2022 | Trying naturally until October 2022
    07/21/2022 | BFP! EDD 04/02/2023; 👦🏼 born on 4/5/2023


  • @krash_ good luck today, hope you get some helpful answers.

    @chindimples04 hope these strategies work for you, glad you're taking care of your mental health

    Month/Cycle: 2/2

    CD: 4

    WAYDTGKU: temping, opks

    R/R: I found a $5 bill on the ground this morning so got myself a free Starbucks woohoo!

    CS/Q: None

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  • @chindimples04 Do you feel like it is making you more anxious? I think it could go either way, because for me I would be more anxious about not tracking and not knowing. I would say do whichever makes you feel more calm. 

    @krash_ I really hope the RE says more than that, because even if the other tube *can* pick up an egg, it still decreases your chances. People with unexplained diagnoses still get options, so if they are saying a blocked tube doesn’t matter, I hope they can help anyway. 

    @canucklehead123 Free Starbucks is the best! 
  • @fitzfizz yay for the good news!! So happy that the labs came back how you hoped they would. 

    @chindimples04 I think that sounds like a really mental-health centered plan, which is just so so important. Hoping that it helps!

    @krash_ I hope you got some good input from your RE today!

    @canucklehead123 yum! Such a nice treat for yourself!

    Month/Cycle: 11/10

    CD: 20

    WAYDTGKU: Clomid (took my last dose yesterday!!!), ovidrel, IUI 

    R/R: DH and I bought some trees for our backyard over the weekend and they got delivered today! I’m so excited to put them in the ground. They’re going to be so pretty! Other than that, I had a boring Tuesday. It’s weird that football is on tonight but we will watch it anyway lol.

    CS/Q: 

  • Month/Cycle: 4/4

    CD: 12

    WAYDTGKU: tracking cm, hio, FF

    R/R: work was so busy today. I took a 4 day weekend then offered to help staff the nursing unit today, which means my actual work got shoved to the side. 

    I had a terrible episode of vertigo a couple weeks ago, so I really thought I might be KU, but then AF showed up so I’m back in the WTO. 

    CS/Q: none 

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  • @fitzfizz I was so happy to read your other update about the test results! Congrats on getting the news at the perfect time to move forward. Re: your chart, FF will likely pin yesterday as O day, but you can override it if you don’t think it’s happened yet. Your temp tomorrow will tell, I guess...

    @chindimples04 Your plan of stopping temping after 3DPO sounds like a good one to reduce anxiety. Hope the new meds help you feel better soon! 

    @krash_ I’m still catching up on this week’s posts, not sure if you’ve had an update after the RE. I hope you got more than you were expecting out of the appointment! 

    @canucklehead123 Woohoo for finding money! I bet that drink tasted extra delish😄

    @runningoncookies Congrats on finishing up the Clomid! Best of luck with the upcoming IUI🤞🏽The new trees sound exciting. Enjoy! 

    Month/Cycle: 29/idk 

    CD: 16–one of the longest cycles I’ve had 

    WAYDTGKU: So much: Meds & vitamins & good ol’ horizontal wrestling 🤼‍♀️ 😆 (MH’s alternative to “Baby dancing”)

    R/R: Rave is that we got a new fertility treatment & met a new IVF doctor. Felling good about having more possibilities/options. No rants today! 

    CS/Q: Oops. I guess the rant is that I forgot to temp a couple of times while we were traveling. Not sure what FF will make of my chart. 


  • @emmylou78 We must’ve been posting around the same time, I missed your update. How nice that you had a 4-day weekend! But sorry that you didn’t get to tackle any of your own work since you were helping other nurses. Hopefully that good deed comes back to you in other ways! 
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