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Month/Cycle:
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CS/Q:
Re: WTO Tuesday 10/13
Month/Cycle: 10/3 AL
CD: 16
WAYDTGKU: BBT, OPKs, PNV
R/R: Good news yesterday from the lab! I’ll post a little more info in the weekly thread, but essentially this was good news, it came back faster than planned, and there is no more testing to be done. Perfect timing as I think I’m about to move to TWW.
CS/Q: Just to be confusing, temp is up today but OPKs were not positive until this morning. I’m not sure what to make of that as far as tracking, but I think I’m ovulating today?
Month/Cycle: 5/5
CD: 10
WAYDTGKU:vitamins, BBT through O, OPKs
R/R: after my appointment yesterday with my PCP, she suggested I drop everything I’m doing to track, as she suspects it’s not helping my mental health state (duh). So I compromised and said I’d keep POAS and I’d temp through 3dpo, so that’s what I’m trying. I also start a new anxiety/depression nee today. Hoping I react okay to it. Our super chilly, Fall weather week starts today. I’ll also be heavily stalking prime day deals while working. 🙈 Oops.
CS/Q:
Me: 26 DH: 27
TTC #1 | June '18-August '18 | DD | Born April 21, 2019 | Due May 10, 2019
TTC#2 | June '20-February '21 | DS | Due October 27, 2021
@chindimples04 I hope you find a good balance between tracking and your mental health. TTC itself is such a mind f*ck you gotta do what works best for you!
Month/Cycle: 11/12
CD: 2
WAYDTGKU: bleeding & meeting with RE today
R/R: I'm really nervous the RE is going to tell us to just keep trying or that that we're both healthy so there's nothing he can do. I did the intake call with the nurse yesterday and she said that with blocked tubes the dr will a lot of times just say that it could have been a spasm or the contrast just went the path of least resistance if there no indicators for a blocked tube (ectopic pregnancy, pelvic inflammatory disease, pelvic surgery or a previous chlamydial infection) none of which I have had.
CS/Q: nothing yet
DS: 6/1/18 (Pre-E; IUGR; seizures; NICU)
TTC #2: 12/2019
Sept 2020: HSG possible blocked right tube
Nov 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFN
Dec 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFP!!! EDD 9/18
@krash_ good luck today! Looking forward to your update.
TTC History
TTC#2
Mar 2024 | consult to get established with a new reproductive immunologist (Alan Beer Center)
Apr/May 2024 | required testing & waiting for a protocol
May 2024 | protocol given / decided to go back to my old reproductive immunologist, Dr. Jubiz
Jun / Jul 2024 | more testing, incl. SIS, ultrasound, and endometrial biopsy
Jul 2024 | Dx chronic endometritis; 14 days of 100mg of doxy given
Sep 2024 | Repeat endometrial biopsy; still + for chronic endometritis. 2 more antibiotics + an antiviral
Oct 2024 | Hysteroscopy turned polypectomy; endometriosis consult w/ specialist who confirmed high likelihood of endo based on symptoms and ultrasound; lots of blood tests ordered
Mar 2025 | Endo excision surgery. Stage 3 endo found! Recoveing
Apr 2025 | Planning transfer w/ RE & green light protocol w/ RI; target transfer July or August 2025
May 2025 | Surprise BFP! EDD 1/11/2026
TTC #1
TTC #1 02/2020 - 07/2022
2009 | Dx PCOS; likely a misdiagnosis
07/14/20 | Dx Hashimoto's Thyroditis
07/21/20 | 1st RE appointment
07/2120 - 08/20/20 | so much testing; no signs of PCOS
08/20/20 | Dx Unexplained; AMA
09/08/20 | IUI #1 Clomid + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
09/30/20 | Urology consult; more testing required
10/2020 | Clomid + OPK + TI + Prometrium | BFN
10/26/2020 | Starting 2nd IUI cycle, with Letrazole and with a new RE / different clinic
11/03/2020 | New Dx "poor egg quality"; IUI cancelled in favor of Trigger + TI + Prometrium | BFN
11/26/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Menopur) + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
12/20/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Gonal-F) + Trigger | IUI Cancelled due to thin lining; TI only | BFN
01/14/2021 | Combo IUI (Letrazole + Menopur) + Trigger | BFN
02/06/2021 | Switched to a new RE (TEW) ; trying naturally until we complete additional testing
03/14/2021 | Hybrid Double IUI, with Zymot (Letrazole, Gonal-F) + Trigger + Endometrin | Ovulated 4 mature eggs but still a BFN ☹️
04/07/2021 | Natural cycle while we regroup | BFN
04/09/2021 | Employer announces fertility benefits starting 05/01/2021! | Search for a new doctor who accepts insurance
05/10/2021 | New RE consult & plan for IVF
05/13/2021 | Mid-luteal IVF cycle #1 interrupted; had to get cancer genetic screening done to make sure I didn't have the same SDHA gene mutation as MH.
06/10/2021 | Aygestin priming IVF cycle #1; opted to Cx after 9 days of stims since only 5-6/12 follicles responded
07/26/2021 | Attempt #2 at IVF cycle #1 (mid-luteal start): 8 retrieved, 8 MII, 6 fert (1 PN3), 3 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 3AA, 3AA, 6AB; 3 euploid
08/09/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC | Shockingly, a BFP! EDD: 5/25/202 | CP at 4w4d
09/23/2021 | IVF cycle #2 (mid-luteal start): 14 retrieved, 13 MII, 11 fert, 5 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 2 x 3AA, 2 x 3AB, 3BB; 2 euploid
11/12/2021 | IVF cycle #3 (mid-luteal start): cancelled due to ovaries being on vacation
12/20/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + Pregmune Immunology Testing; BFN
01/22/2022 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + understanding uncovered immunological issues; BFN
02/18/2022 | Mock transfer cycle! ERA, ReceptivaDx, EMMA/ALICE; start Prednisone to address NK activity
03/16/2022 | Final, "Hail Mary" super-ovulation + TI cycle before FET; BFP! EDD: 12/21/2022 | MMC 05/08/2022
05/20/2022 | D&C; recovering...
06/21/2022 | Trying naturally until October 2022
07/21/2022 | BFP! EDD 04/02/2023; 👦🏼 born on 4/5/2023
@krash_ good luck today, hope you get some helpful answers.
@chindimples04 hope these strategies work for you, glad you're taking care of your mental health
Month/Cycle: 2/2
CD: 4
WAYDTGKU: temping, opks
R/R: I found a $5 bill on the ground this morning so got myself a free Starbucks woohoo!
CS/Q: None
@krash_ I hope you got some good input from your RE today!
@canucklehead123 yum! Such a nice treat for yourself!
Month/Cycle: 11/10
CD: 20
WAYDTGKU: Clomid (took my last dose yesterday!!!), ovidrel, IUI
R/R: DH and I bought some trees for our backyard over the weekend and they got delivered today! I’m so excited to put them in the ground. They’re going to be so pretty! Other than that, I had a boring Tuesday. It’s weird that football is on tonight but we will watch it anyway lol.
CS/Q:
Month/Cycle: 4/4
CD: 12
WAYDTGKU: tracking cm, hio, FF
R/R: work was so busy today. I took a 4 day weekend then offered to help staff the nursing unit today, which means my actual work got shoved to the side.
I had a terrible episode of vertigo a couple weeks ago, so I really thought I might be KU, but then AF showed up so I’m back in the WTO.
CS/Q: none
@chindimples04 Your plan of stopping temping after 3DPO sounds like a good one to reduce anxiety. Hope the new meds help you feel better soon!
@canucklehead123 Woohoo for finding money! I bet that drink tasted extra delish😄
CD: 16–one of the longest cycles I’ve had
WAYDTGKU: So much: Meds & vitamins & good ol’ horizontal wrestling 🤼♀️ 😆 (MH’s alternative to “Baby dancing”)
R/R: Rave is that we got a new fertility treatment & met a new IVF doctor. Felling good about having more possibilities/options. No rants today!
CS/Q: Oops. I guess the rant is that I forgot to temp a couple of times while we were traveling. Not sure what FF will make of my chart.