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WTO Monday 10/12

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Re: WTO Monday 10/12

  • Month/Cycle: 10/3 AL

    CD: 15

    WAYDTGKU: BBT, OPKs

    R/R: My only rant is that it is Monday again. This was a nice weekend, but I really want a longer break. I just want to plan a vacation, but I’m not willing to get on a plane at this point. I wish I lived closer to places I want to vacation. Any suggestions in the southeast? 

    CS/Q: My plan had been EOD this week, but I think I was off by a day or two in starting it. I typically have ovulated CD 16-18, but OPK was almost positive this morning and my temp was low, so I’m guessing possible O tonight or tomorrow. Planning on trying again tonight just in case. 


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  • @fitzfizz I totally feel you on wanting to plan a vacation but not feeling comfortable on a plane. I definitely am getting that itch to travel, but it’s just so much stress now to figure out what to do!

    Month/Cycle: 11/10

    CD: 19

    WAYDTGKU: Clomid, ovidrel, IUI

    R/R: I am so so soooo tired this morning. It should be a slightly lighter week at work for me, but I’m just dreading going! Tonight is my last dose of round 2 of Clomid, and I’m really looking forward to waking up and not feeling so terrible. We had a really nice weekend. We were at my parents for pizza with them and my ILs on Friday, then Saturday we cleaned the entire house and relaxed, and yesterday went back to my parents house to watch football. So decently busy, but fun!

    CS/Q: 

  • @fitzfizz same on the vacation! Please and thank you!

    @runningoncookies that weekend sounds perfect!

    Month/Cycle: 5/5

    CD: 9

    WAYDTGKU: vitex, C and E, BBT, OPKs, CM, CP, HIO EOD

    R/R: we had a super laid back weekend of organizing the house, which I greatly appreciated. It’s gotten messy and overwhelming so it was nice to organize again. It’s supposed to storm today and then be in the 40s the rest of the week. 👎🏼 I was really loving the 70 and 80 degree weather!

    CS/Q: Took an OPK yesterday because my CM seems fertile, but alas, it was v negative. Not that I’m really shocked. Lol.


    TTC History

    Me: 26 DH: 27

    TTC #1 | June '18-August '18 | DD | Born April 21, 2019 | Due May 10, 2019

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    TTC#2 | June '20-February '21 | DS | Due October 27, 2021

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  • @fitzfizz ahh yes to a vacation. No suggestions but hopefully you'll be able to get away soon!

    @runningoncookies sounds like a great weekend! Glad this week will be lighter for you.

    @chindimples04 it's amazing how mentally cleansing it is to declutter! We've been staying that here too and it's doing wonders for my stress.

    Month/Cycle: 16/10

    CD: 39

    WAYDTGKU: temping, prenatals, OPKs, and HIO of course

    R/R: still absolutely no sign of O. Given my LP length, I'm definitely looking at a 50+day cycle. Ughhhh. In happier news, DH and I are both off today and enjoying a nice quiet day at home. We had a decent, relaxing weekend with a brief visit from the ILs on Saturday.

    CS/Q:
  • Month/Cycle: 2/2 

    CD: 3

    WAYDTGKU: bbt, opks

    R/R: have the day off today, nose is not stuffed anymore and got my negative covid results!! Huraah I get to leave the house and can stop worrying!! Today is a good day!

    CS/Q: none

    @fitzfizz I hear you on wanting to travel - it’s gunna be a long winter with no promise of a sunny destination to break it up 😫 Not very familiar with your area but I’m sure you could find somewhere nice within driving range - even if it’s just for a hotel getaway with good food! 

    @runningoncookies sounds like a lovely weekend!

    @gingermama29 sorry for the long cycle, fx the o drops soon for you


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  • @fitzfizz no ideas about where to vacation, but I think we all just need a vacation.
    @runningoncookies sounds like a great weekend!
    @chindimples04 cold and stormy weather here too. Not the fall weather I look forward to.
    @gingermama29 yay for a nice day with YH. Bummer about it probably being a longer cycle for you.
    @canucklehead123 yay for a negative test!

    Month/Cycle: 5/1 AL

    CD: 19

    WAYDTGKU?: bbt, opk, cm/cp, PNV, AI, baby aspirin

    R/R: so tired. Loved having mil here, but I feel like I could sleep for a week. She was such a big help though.  Also, my temps were wacky due to poor sleep, and I feel like opks don't work on me. And the bump is throwing fits. I've tried to type this post about 5 times.

    CS/Q: I don't know if I belong here.... For some reason it won't you'd my chart.

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  • @canucklehead123 yay for a negative covid test! I'm glad you don't have to be quarantined or worried any more.

    @Kenneylynn3 glad you had a nice visit with your MIL. Sorry TB is acting up for you.
  • @fitzfizz no suggestions in the SE but MH and I just drove a little over an hour for our anniversary weekend and it was so nice to get away and plan a little something but not feel like we had all the daunting hours of travel either by plane or car. Would recommend!
    @runningoncookies I hope you feel better after the Clomid! 
    @chindimples04 I on the other hand am excited for all the soup, sweaters and scarves and anything else cozy that starts with a S with the cold weather!
    @gingermama29 sorry you're in for another long haul. I hope you can get some more info soon!
    @canucklehead123 enjoy your day off. How was Thanksgiving?
    @Kenneylynn3 sorry about all the uncertainty 

    Month/Cycle: 11/12

    CD: 1 🎉 /S

    WAYDTGKU: bleeding, seeing RE tomorrow

    R/R: I guess I'm not a special unicorn that get's KU before their consult with the RE. My cycles have been getting shorter and shorter. The last two were both only 25 days. I would just like to get more information and feel like I am doing something to move this along. In other news, we are adult enough to have a mortgage, adult enough to refinance that mortgage but not adult enough to realize it's freaking Columbus Day and the banks are close so we can't get the cashier's check to pay the title company at closing today. Luckily our lender ended up paying our taxes out of our escrow account so we were going to have to bring $2,500 to closing but now we'll only need about $600 which they will accept a personal check for. That's far more banking and adulting than I care to do.

    CS/Q: nothing yet


    *TW LC*
    Me & MH: 32
    DS: 6/1/18 (Pre-E; IUGR; seizures; NICU)
    TTC #2: 12/2019
    Sept 2020: HSG possible blocked right tube
    Nov 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFN
    Dec 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFP!!! EDD 9/18

  • *Lurking*
    @krash_ I am sorry you find yourself back here. :neutral:

    TTC History
    TTC#2
    Me: 41; MH: 40 | Met 02/2009 | Started Dating 08/2017 | Married 02/02/2020
    Mar 2024 | consult to get established with a new reproductive immunologist (Alan Beer Center)
    Apr/May 2024 | required testing & waiting for a protocol
    May 2024 | protocol given / decided to go back to my old reproductive immunologist, Dr. Jubiz
    Jun / Jul 2024 | more testing, incl. SIS, ultrasound, and endometrial biopsy
    Jul 2024 | Dx chronic endometritis; 14 days of 100mg of doxy given
    Sep 2024 | Repeat endometrial biopsy; still + for chronic endometritis. 2 more antibiotics + an antiviral
    Oct 2024 | Hysteroscopy turned polypectomy; endometriosis consult w/ specialist who confirmed high likelihood of endo based on symptoms and ultrasound; lots of blood tests ordered
    Mar 2025 | Endo excision surgery. Stage 3 endo found! Recoveing
    Apr 2025 | Planning transfer w/ RE & green light protocol w/ RI; target transfer July or August 2025
    May 2025 | Surprise BFP! EDD 1/11/2026


    TTC #1
    Me: 36, MH: 34 | Met 02/2009 | Started Dating 08/2017 | Married 02/02/2020
    TTC #1 02/2020 - 07/2022
    2009 | Dx PCOS; likely a misdiagnosis
    07/14/20 | Dx Hashimoto's Thyroditis
    07/21/20 | 1st RE appointment
    07/2120 - 08/20/20 | so much testing; no signs of PCOS
    08/20/20 | Dx Unexplained; AMA
    09/08/20 | IUI #1 Clomid + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
    09/30/20 | Urology consult; more testing required
    10/2020 | Clomid + OPK + TI + Prometrium | BFN
    10/26/2020 | Starting 2nd IUI cycle, with Letrazole and with a new RE / different clinic
    11/03/2020 | New Dx "poor egg quality"; IUI cancelled in favor of Trigger + TI + Prometrium | BFN
    11/26/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Menopur) + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
    12/20/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Gonal-F) + Trigger | IUI Cancelled due to thin lining; TI only | BFN
    01/14/2021 | Combo IUI (Letrazole + Menopur) + Trigger | BFN
    02/06/2021 | Switched to a new RE (TEW) ; trying naturally until we complete additional testing 
    03/14/2021 | Hybrid Double IUI, with Zymot (Letrazole, Gonal-F) + Trigger + Endometrin | Ovulated 4 mature eggs but still a BFN ☹️
    04/07/2021 | Natural cycle while we regroup | BFN
    04/09/2021 | Employer announces fertility benefits starting 05/01/2021! | Search for a new doctor who accepts insurance
    05/10/2021 | New RE consult & plan for IVF
    05/13/2021 | Mid-luteal IVF cycle #1 interrupted; had to get cancer genetic screening done to make sure I didn't have the same SDHA gene mutation as MH. 
    06/10/2021 | Aygestin priming IVF cycle #1; opted to Cx after 9 days of stims since only 5-6/12 follicles responded
    07/26/2021 | Attempt #2 at IVF cycle #1 (mid-luteal start): 8 retrieved, 8 MII, 6 fert (1 PN3), 3 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 3AA, 3AA, 6AB; 3 euploid
    08/09/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC | Shockingly, a BFP! EDD: 5/25/202 | CP at 4w4d
    09/23/2021 | IVF cycle #2 (mid-luteal start): 14 retrieved, 13 MII, 11 fert, 5 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 2 x 3AA, 2 x 3AB, 3BB; 2 euploid
    11/12/2021 | IVF cycle #3 (mid-luteal start): cancelled due to ovaries being on vacation
    12/20/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + Pregmune Immunology Testing; BFN
    01/22/2022 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + understanding uncovered immunological issues; BFN
    02/18/2022 | Mock transfer cycle! ERA, ReceptivaDx, EMMA/ALICE; start Prednisone to address NK activity
    03/16/2022 | Final, "Hail Mary" super-ovulation + TI cycle before FET; BFP! EDD: 12/21/2022 | MMC 05/08/2022
    05/20/2022 | D&C; recovering... 
    06/21/2022 | Trying naturally until October 2022
    07/21/2022 | BFP! EDD 04/02/2023; 👦🏼 born on 4/5/2023


  • @gingermama29 I’m sorry you still have no signs of O. I’m so frustrated for you!
    @canucklehead123 yayyy for negative COVID tests! 🎉 
    @Kenneylynn3 I feel that so much! Help is so nice but can be so exhausting!
    @krash_ happy (and sorry) new cycle! I’m so excited for you to meet with RE and hopefully gets some answers! Certainly a melancholy feeling, but I’m sure certainly relieving at the same time. ❤️ I always forget about Columbus Day. Blah. Glad it still worked out well!
    TTC History

    Me: 26 DH: 27

    TTC #1 | June '18-August '18 | DD | Born April 21, 2019 | Due May 10, 2019

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    TTC#2 | June '20-February '21 | DS | Due October 27, 2021

    Lilypie Maternity tickers

  • @chindimples04 glad you had a productive cleaning weekend! Organizing always makes me feel good even if it doesn’t stay that way. 

    @gingermama29 ughhh come on, O! Sorry that it’s taking so long!

    @canucklehead123 yay for the negative COVID test! That has to be a good feeling for it to be official. 

    @Kenneylynn3 hopefully you are able to catch up on some sleep! 

    @krash_ sorry for CD1, I hope that your RE is able to give you some answers tomorrow. Sorry for the banking issues! Glad it all worked out okay for you. 
  • @runningoncookies We are very similar! This is round 3 of clomid + ovidrel +TI for me. The first time I did 50 mg clomid. I responded to that and triggered successfully. The second time I did 50 mg clomid, but ended up needed another 5 days of 50 mg booster. Then I responded and was able to trigger successfully. Neither of those times resulted in pregnancy.

    This is my third cycle. This time we tried 100 mg clomid from the beginning. I responded, but not as much as I should have, so I got a 25 mg booster, which worked, and I was able to successfully trigger. I'm now 7 DPT and 5 DPO. This TWW is going by slooowwly.

    If this round doesn't work, next up is clomid + ovidrel + IUI.
  • @runningoncookies So glad you are done with clomid! For a number of reasons I hope you never need it again. 

    @chindimples04 I’m so sick of the heat (and hurricanes!) here that I am literally jealous of your stormy 40 degree weather. I hope you enjoy it! 

    @gingermama29 I’m so sorry your ovaries are just not cooperating. I hope your provider agrees and just lets you move on to some help next cycle. 

    @canucklehead123 Yay negative COVID! We can get to Florida beaches reasonably quickly, but that is about it. Too busy there for me now, but maybe we can make a winter trip. 

    @Kenneylynn3 I had similar bump problems over the weekend and I just gave up. I hope your AI all worked out well and you confirm ovulation soon! 

    @krash_ So sorry you find yourself back on this side again. Regarding the financial situation, I am also (*technically) a functional adult human and I didn’t know it was Columbus Day until I read your post. Even if I did, I would not have known banks are closed. No judgement here! 

    @fingerscrossed1 Yay for confirming ovulation! I know things can be super confusing around here (it definitely took me a while) but after ovulation you can move to the TWW daily thread to commiserate with others in a similar situation. 
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