Trying to Get Pregnant

TWW Thursday 10/8

**This is a thread that welcomes all regardless of where they are at in their TTC journeys. Please be mindful of topics that are discussed that could be hurtful to those going through tough times. Mention of children or pregnancies of others should have a TW (trigger warning) and be in a spoiler if possible, and only be mentioned if it is extremely pertinent to the conversation. Thanks for keeping this a safe place for us all to engage!** 

Month/Cycle: 

CD/DPO: 

Timing: 

Typical LP length: 

Testing: 

R/R: 

CS/Q: 

Re: TWW Thursday 10/8

  • Month/Cycle: 2/2

    CD/DPO: 29/3 

    Timing: good 

    Typical LP length: 🤷🏽‍♀️

    Testing: October 19 

    R/R: Tomorrow is my H’s birthday so that’s exciting! We will also celebrate Canadian thanksgiving on Sunday so I need to grocery plan and shop. I’m already tired of working this week and still 2 days to go. 😭

    CS/Q: Got crosshairs today. Personally I don’t think I O’ed until Tuesday (Monday overnight/AM) so I think I’m really 2 DPO  but I’ll go with this. 




    *Live, Love, Laugh, Learn*

  • Loading the player...
  • Month/Cycle: 28/2 AL

    CD/DPO: 17/2

    Timing: -3, -1

    Typical LP length: 14-15 days

    Testing: only if late

    R/R: It's our anniversary! And it's my "Friday" (i.e. I'm off tomorrow) on an already-long weekend! Not too motivated to work, but that's ok

    CS/Q: none

  • @AKuzReve Happy birthday to your H and Happy Thanksgiving! 
    @akoros Happy anniversary! Enjoy your long weekend!

    Month/Cycle: 11/11

    CD/DPO: 22/9

    Timing: good

    Typical LP length: 13 days

    Testing: not unless AF is late

    R/R: struggling with my OB and I'm going to reach out to an RE today. I need to get a bunch of cleaning done today the house is a total mess and I haven't had my normal time to clean and it is killing me. I really need to find motivation to work but for some reason it's just not there. 

    CS/Q: temps are all over the place. Trying not to read into that dip too much. 


    *TW LC*
    Me & MH: 32
    DS: 6/1/18 (Pre-E; IUGR; seizures; NICU)
    TTC #2: 12/2019
    Sept 2020: HSG possible blocked right tube
    Nov 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFN
    Dec 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFP!!! EDD 9/18

  • @AKuzReve happy birthday to your H, and happy Canadian Thanksgiving!

    @akoros Happy anniversary!

    @krash_ I am home today, and my house is also a complete disaster. Solidarity on the cleaning front.

    Month/Cycle: 2/2

    CD/DPO: 25/6

    Timing: good

    Typical LP length: unsure?

    Testing: Sunday maybe.

    R/R: I have a bunch of cleaning to do today, plus some projects for my Etsy shop. Later I am going to go up to the cemetery my grandparents are buried and clean up the graves. My mom typically does this every season, but she's been so busy and hasn't had a chance to do it. Figured it would be a nice surprise for her. 

    CS/Q: solid temp rise this morning


  • @daisy528 what do you make for Etsy?
    *TW LC*
    Me & MH: 32
    DS: 6/1/18 (Pre-E; IUGR; seizures; NICU)
    TTC #2: 12/2019
    Sept 2020: HSG possible blocked right tube
    Nov 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFN
    Dec 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFP!!! EDD 9/18

  • I’m definitely here now! Yay!

    @AKuzReve enjoy your H’s birthday celebrations and Happy Thanksgiving. MH and I wanted to smoke a turkey this weekend in solidarity but it’s impossible to get a turkey in the US this early on (plus we only inquired at the butcher last weekend so it was too late to place a special order.)

    @akoros hey there DPO buddy! Happy Anniversary! What have you got planned to celebrate? Good luck getting through the workday and enjoy your 4-day weekend.

    @krash_ I posted my thoughts on your situation in the IF thread. Good luck reaching out to an RE; I think it’s your best bet.

    @daisy528 it’s so nice that you visit / clean your grandparents’ graves. This is something I used to do as well as a child. I find that practice restorative. 

    Month/Cycle: 9/9

    CD/DPO: 15/2

    Timing: -5, -3, -2, O

    Typical LP length: since I’m on progesterone supps, it’s 17 days. 

    Testing: not until 12DPO unless my chart is looking different from other cycles’ chart (I deliberately don’t have any cheapies around to avoid the temptation.)

    R/R: glad to finally be on this side of the fence. No CHs yet but other physiological sights point to O on Tuesday. 

    CS/Q: 



    TTC History
    TTC#2
    Me: 41; MH: 40 | Met 02/2009 | Started Dating 08/2017 | Married 02/02/2020
    Mar 2024 | consult to get established with a new reproductive immunologist (Alan Beer Center)
    Apr/May 2024 | required testing & waiting for a protocol
    May 2024 | protocol given / decided to go back to my old reproductive immunologist, Dr. Jubiz
    Jun / Jul 2024 | more testing, incl. SIS, ultrasound, and endometrial biopsy
    Jul 2024 | Dx chronic endometritis; 14 days of 100mg of doxy given
    Sep 2024 | Repeat endometrial biopsy; still + for chronic endometritis. 2 more antibiotics + an antiviral
    Oct 2024 | Hysteroscopy turned polypectomy; endometriosis consult w/ specialist who confirmed high likelihood of endo based on symptoms and ultrasound; lots of blood tests ordered
    Mar 2025 | Endo excision surgery. Stage 3 endo found! Recoveing
    Apr 2025 | Planning transfer w/ RE & green light protocol w/ RI; target transfer July or August 2025
    May 2025 | Surprise BFP! EDD 1/11/2026


    TTC #1
    Me: 36, MH: 34 | Met 02/2009 | Started Dating 08/2017 | Married 02/02/2020
    TTC #1 02/2020 - 07/2022
    2009 | Dx PCOS; likely a misdiagnosis
    07/14/20 | Dx Hashimoto's Thyroditis
    07/21/20 | 1st RE appointment
    07/2120 - 08/20/20 | so much testing; no signs of PCOS
    08/20/20 | Dx Unexplained; AMA
    09/08/20 | IUI #1 Clomid + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
    09/30/20 | Urology consult; more testing required
    10/2020 | Clomid + OPK + TI + Prometrium | BFN
    10/26/2020 | Starting 2nd IUI cycle, with Letrazole and with a new RE / different clinic
    11/03/2020 | New Dx "poor egg quality"; IUI cancelled in favor of Trigger + TI + Prometrium | BFN
    11/26/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Menopur) + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
    12/20/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Gonal-F) + Trigger | IUI Cancelled due to thin lining; TI only | BFN
    01/14/2021 | Combo IUI (Letrazole + Menopur) + Trigger | BFN
    02/06/2021 | Switched to a new RE (TEW) ; trying naturally until we complete additional testing 
    03/14/2021 | Hybrid Double IUI, with Zymot (Letrazole, Gonal-F) + Trigger + Endometrin | Ovulated 4 mature eggs but still a BFN ☹️
    04/07/2021 | Natural cycle while we regroup | BFN
    04/09/2021 | Employer announces fertility benefits starting 05/01/2021! | Search for a new doctor who accepts insurance
    05/10/2021 | New RE consult & plan for IVF
    05/13/2021 | Mid-luteal IVF cycle #1 interrupted; had to get cancer genetic screening done to make sure I didn't have the same SDHA gene mutation as MH. 
    06/10/2021 | Aygestin priming IVF cycle #1; opted to Cx after 9 days of stims since only 5-6/12 follicles responded
    07/26/2021 | Attempt #2 at IVF cycle #1 (mid-luteal start): 8 retrieved, 8 MII, 6 fert (1 PN3), 3 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 3AA, 3AA, 6AB; 3 euploid
    08/09/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC | Shockingly, a BFP! EDD: 5/25/202 | CP at 4w4d
    09/23/2021 | IVF cycle #2 (mid-luteal start): 14 retrieved, 13 MII, 11 fert, 5 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 2 x 3AA, 2 x 3AB, 3BB; 2 euploid
    11/12/2021 | IVF cycle #3 (mid-luteal start): cancelled due to ovaries being on vacation
    12/20/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + Pregmune Immunology Testing; BFN
    01/22/2022 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + understanding uncovered immunological issues; BFN
    02/18/2022 | Mock transfer cycle! ERA, ReceptivaDx, EMMA/ALICE; start Prednisone to address NK activity
    03/16/2022 | Final, "Hail Mary" super-ovulation + TI cycle before FET; BFP! EDD: 12/21/2022 | MMC 05/08/2022
    05/20/2022 | D&C; recovering... 
    06/21/2022 | Trying naturally until October 2022
    07/21/2022 | BFP! EDD 04/02/2023; 👦🏼 born on 4/5/2023


  • @AKuzReve Hope your husband has a great birthday, and enjoy the holiday!

    Thanks, @krash_ @daisy528 and @acleverusername! Going out for dinner later at a nice new restaurant, one of very few "dining out" outings we've done lately (we've mostly opted for takeout). We'll be sitting outside, so hopefully not too much of a risk and most restaurants around here are pretty good with spacing and staying safe. Might try to talk him into leaving a bit early so we can meander along the river on our walk over. 

    @daisy528 That's so nice to be able to visit their graves. Mine are all far away (and my husband's are even further), so we never really go to see them. 
  • @AKuzReve @akoros Yay for celebrations!

    @krash_ ugh I feel you on motivation. I blame the pandemic?

    @daisy528 that's a really nice thing to do for your mom. 

    @acleverusername Yay for O! 

    Month/Cycle: 5/1 AL

    CD/DPO: "11"/2

    [I just started arbitrarily counting "day 1" like 2 weeks AL, so it's more like 25/2]

    Timing: -2, +1

    Typical LP length: 11-13ish

    Testing: not until I'm pretty late, given weird cycle

    R/R: I think I'm in the right place now, though this cycle was/is wacky. Don't have high hopes because the timing was not great, but that's ok. Just trying to get back into the swing of things. I have day 3 testing next cycle, and I lave data, so actually kind of looking forward to that.  

    CS/Q: 




    TTC History
    TTC #1 Sep 2017-Sep 2018 
    BFP 11/30/2017 | MMC 12/31/2017
    BFP 6/22/2018 | CP 6/27/2018
    BFP 10/5/2018 | EDD 6/14/2019
    Baby girl born 6/19/19

    TTC #2 May 2020-November 2021
    BFP 7/18/2020 | MonoDi Twins | MMC 9/10/2020
    BFP 11/7/2020 | CP 11/9/2020
    RE Consult January 2021 | Dx "borderline DOR"/RPL
    IVF with PGT:
    Standard Antagonist:
    ER #1 3/27/2021 7R | 5M | 3F | 2B | 1 PGT-A Normal, 1 low-level mosaic
    ER #2 4/22/2021 10R | 7M | 3F | 2B | 0 normal, 2 aneuploid
    ER #3 5/19/2021 2R | 1M | 0F
    Estrogen Priming Antagonist:
    ER #4 7/10/2021 5R | 4M | 3F | 1B | 1 PGT-A Normal
    Duostim  (Standard Antagonist):
    ER #5 9/22/2021 13R | 11M | 8F | 5B | 2 PGT-A Normal, 1 low-level mosaic, 2 aneuploid
    ER #6 10/9/2021  9R | 6M | 4 F | 1B | 1 aneuploid
    FET #1  11/5/2021 | EDD 7/24/2022
    Baby boy born 7/19/22

    TTC #3 since May 2023 (ntnp)
    IVF Started Fall 2023 (Standard Antagonist)
    ER #7 10/6/2023 | 9R | 6M | 5F | 3B | 2 aneuploid, 1 high-level mosaic
    ER #8 10/31/2023 | 5R | 4M | 3F | 1B | 1 PGT-A Normal
    FET #2 11/27/23 | CP (bHCG = 8)
    FET #3 planned Jan 2024



  • @krash_ I make custom birthday invitations, posters, etc. It's a fun little thing that I have been doing on the side now for 2.5 years. Great way to channel my creativity!
  • edited October 2020


    Month/Cycle: 1/1

    CD/DPO: 28/12

    Timing: good

    Typical LP length: dunno

    Testing: Saturday

    R/R:  Just struggling to stay in my house and annoyed that I can't have a COVID test until Friday given I am already feeling a lot better.  I also need to shop for Thanksgiving (got our turkey already but no veg or sides yet) - so will probably have to send DH to the store because there's no way I'm going on Saturday (and that's with the assumption I'll have my results back by then) and who knows what he'll come back with...even with a very detailed list!!  Might be a weiiiiiiird turkey dinner for us LOL.

    CS/Q: Have stopped temping due to illness and multiple night wake ups for nose blowing etc. Just waiting and seeing.

    @akoros happy anniversary!

    @AKuzReve happy bday to your H!

    @krash_ Add me to the lacking motivation team! And sorry you're struggling with your OB, hope you can find what you need in another care provider.

    @acleverusername I used that same strategy, invested in ONE FRER and it has been a great motivator for resisting the urge to test earlier.

    BabyFruit Ticker
  • @bumblebee0210 Yay for your chart! I'd agree that you O'ed on Day 9. Question: in the past when you used OPKs, would they turn decisively positive? I.e. test line much darker than control line? The reason I ask is that every woman's LH surge is different. If your LH concentration is lower, then it might never reach the threshold of the OPKs you use. Lots of great info on that here and here

    @canucklehead123 LOL @ "who knows what he'll come back with...even with a very detailed list!!" I hope whatever YH picks up, it makes for a delicious Thanksgiving dinner. Glad to hear that you're feeling better. 

    TTC History
    TTC#2
    Me: 41; MH: 40 | Met 02/2009 | Started Dating 08/2017 | Married 02/02/2020
    Mar 2024 | consult to get established with a new reproductive immunologist (Alan Beer Center)
    Apr/May 2024 | required testing & waiting for a protocol
    May 2024 | protocol given / decided to go back to my old reproductive immunologist, Dr. Jubiz
    Jun / Jul 2024 | more testing, incl. SIS, ultrasound, and endometrial biopsy
    Jul 2024 | Dx chronic endometritis; 14 days of 100mg of doxy given
    Sep 2024 | Repeat endometrial biopsy; still + for chronic endometritis. 2 more antibiotics + an antiviral
    Oct 2024 | Hysteroscopy turned polypectomy; endometriosis consult w/ specialist who confirmed high likelihood of endo based on symptoms and ultrasound; lots of blood tests ordered
    Mar 2025 | Endo excision surgery. Stage 3 endo found! Recoveing
    Apr 2025 | Planning transfer w/ RE & green light protocol w/ RI; target transfer July or August 2025
    May 2025 | Surprise BFP! EDD 1/11/2026


    TTC #1
    Me: 36, MH: 34 | Met 02/2009 | Started Dating 08/2017 | Married 02/02/2020
    TTC #1 02/2020 - 07/2022
    2009 | Dx PCOS; likely a misdiagnosis
    07/14/20 | Dx Hashimoto's Thyroditis
    07/21/20 | 1st RE appointment
    07/2120 - 08/20/20 | so much testing; no signs of PCOS
    08/20/20 | Dx Unexplained; AMA
    09/08/20 | IUI #1 Clomid + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
    09/30/20 | Urology consult; more testing required
    10/2020 | Clomid + OPK + TI + Prometrium | BFN
    10/26/2020 | Starting 2nd IUI cycle, with Letrazole and with a new RE / different clinic
    11/03/2020 | New Dx "poor egg quality"; IUI cancelled in favor of Trigger + TI + Prometrium | BFN
    11/26/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Menopur) + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
    12/20/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Gonal-F) + Trigger | IUI Cancelled due to thin lining; TI only | BFN
    01/14/2021 | Combo IUI (Letrazole + Menopur) + Trigger | BFN
    02/06/2021 | Switched to a new RE (TEW) ; trying naturally until we complete additional testing 
    03/14/2021 | Hybrid Double IUI, with Zymot (Letrazole, Gonal-F) + Trigger + Endometrin | Ovulated 4 mature eggs but still a BFN ☹️
    04/07/2021 | Natural cycle while we regroup | BFN
    04/09/2021 | Employer announces fertility benefits starting 05/01/2021! | Search for a new doctor who accepts insurance
    05/10/2021 | New RE consult & plan for IVF
    05/13/2021 | Mid-luteal IVF cycle #1 interrupted; had to get cancer genetic screening done to make sure I didn't have the same SDHA gene mutation as MH. 
    06/10/2021 | Aygestin priming IVF cycle #1; opted to Cx after 9 days of stims since only 5-6/12 follicles responded
    07/26/2021 | Attempt #2 at IVF cycle #1 (mid-luteal start): 8 retrieved, 8 MII, 6 fert (1 PN3), 3 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 3AA, 3AA, 6AB; 3 euploid
    08/09/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC | Shockingly, a BFP! EDD: 5/25/202 | CP at 4w4d
    09/23/2021 | IVF cycle #2 (mid-luteal start): 14 retrieved, 13 MII, 11 fert, 5 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 2 x 3AA, 2 x 3AB, 3BB; 2 euploid
    11/12/2021 | IVF cycle #3 (mid-luteal start): cancelled due to ovaries being on vacation
    12/20/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + Pregmune Immunology Testing; BFN
    01/22/2022 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + understanding uncovered immunological issues; BFN
    02/18/2022 | Mock transfer cycle! ERA, ReceptivaDx, EMMA/ALICE; start Prednisone to address NK activity
    03/16/2022 | Final, "Hail Mary" super-ovulation + TI cycle before FET; BFP! EDD: 12/21/2022 | MMC 05/08/2022
    05/20/2022 | D&C; recovering... 
    06/21/2022 | Trying naturally until October 2022
    07/21/2022 | BFP! EDD 04/02/2023; 👦🏼 born on 4/5/2023


  • @acleverusername he's off the store now so.... fingers crossed LOL
    BabyFruit Ticker
  • Month/Cycle: 1/1

    CD/DPO:  28/8

    Timing:  good

    Typical LP length:  10

    Testing:  I can't put the sticks down

    R/R:  I think I got a super squinter this morning.  Or it's an evap line.  Or I'm crazy.  DH thinks he sees it too.    Who knows.  I am a symptom spotting special snowflake.  The TWW makes me crazy.  

    I decided to stop keto.  I'm not feeling great, kind of flu-ish.

    CS/Q: nada

    Me: 33 DH: 36
    Married: June 2013
    BFP- Nov 2015

  • lurking from wto

    @mcmurray33 hi! I don’t think we’ve interacted yet, but I wanted to mention that the rule of thumb is that we don’t talk about 2nd lines here, even if you think it might be an evap. Take a few days and keep testing and if it’s positive, head over to your BMB. If it’s negative then we will see you back here!
Sign In or Register to comment.
Choose Another Board
Search Boards
"
"