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Month/Cycle:
CD/DPO:
Timing:
Typical LP length:
Testing:
R/R:
CS/Q:
Re: TWW Thursday 10/8
Month/Cycle: 2/2
CD/DPO: 29/3
Timing: good
Typical LP length: 🤷🏽♀️
Testing: October 19
R/R: Tomorrow is my H’s birthday so that’s exciting! We will also celebrate Canadian thanksgiving on Sunday so I need to grocery plan and shop. I’m already tired of working this week and still 2 days to go. 😭
CS/Q: Got crosshairs today. Personally I don’t think I O’ed until Tuesday (Monday overnight/AM) so I think I’m really 2 DPO but I’ll go with this.
*Live, Love, Laugh, Learn*
Month/Cycle: 28/2 AL
CD/DPO: 17/2
Timing: -3, -1
Typical LP length: 14-15 days
Testing: only if late
R/R: It's our anniversary! And it's my "Friday" (i.e. I'm off tomorrow) on an already-long weekend! Not too motivated to work, but that's ok
CS/Q: none
@akoros Happy anniversary! Enjoy your long weekend!
Month/Cycle: 11/11
CD/DPO: 22/9
Timing: good
Typical LP length: 13 days
Testing: not unless AF is late
R/R: struggling with my OB and I'm going to reach out to an RE today. I need to get a bunch of cleaning done today the house is a total mess and I haven't had my normal time to clean and it is killing me. I really need to find motivation to work but for some reason it's just not there.
CS/Q: temps are all over the place. Trying not to read into that dip too much.
DS: 6/1/18 (Pre-E; IUGR; seizures; NICU)
TTC #2: 12/2019
Sept 2020: HSG possible blocked right tube
Nov 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFN
Dec 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFP!!! EDD 9/18
@AKuzReve happy birthday to your H, and happy Canadian Thanksgiving!
@akoros Happy anniversary!
@krash_ I am home today, and my house is also a complete disaster. Solidarity on the cleaning front.
Month/Cycle: 2/2
CD/DPO: 25/6
Timing: good
Typical LP length: unsure?
Testing: Sunday maybe.
R/R: I have a bunch of cleaning to do today, plus some projects for my Etsy shop. Later I am going to go up to the cemetery my grandparents are buried and clean up the graves. My mom typically does this every season, but she's been so busy and hasn't had a chance to do it. Figured it would be a nice surprise for her.
CS/Q: solid temp rise this morning
DS: 6/1/18 (Pre-E; IUGR; seizures; NICU)
TTC #2: 12/2019
Sept 2020: HSG possible blocked right tube
Nov 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFN
Dec 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFP!!! EDD 9/18
@akoros hey there DPO buddy! Happy Anniversary! What have you got planned to celebrate? Good luck getting through the workday and enjoy your 4-day weekend.
@krash_ I posted my thoughts on your situation in the IF thread. Good luck reaching out to an RE; I think it’s your best bet.
@daisy528 it’s so nice that you visit / clean your grandparents’ graves. This is something I used to do as well as a child. I find that practice restorative.
Month/Cycle: 9/9
CD/DPO: 15/2
Timing: -5, -3, -2, O
Typical LP length: since I’m on progesterone supps, it’s 17 days.
Testing: not until 12DPO unless my chart is looking different from other cycles’ chart (I deliberately don’t have any cheapies around to avoid the temptation.)
R/R: glad to finally be on this side of the fence. No CHs yet but other physiological sights point to O on Tuesday.
CS/Q:
TTC History
TTC#2
Mar 2024 | consult to get established with a new reproductive immunologist (Alan Beer Center)
Apr/May 2024 | required testing & waiting for a protocol
May 2024 | protocol given / decided to go back to my old reproductive immunologist, Dr. Jubiz
Jun / Jul 2024 | more testing, incl. SIS, ultrasound, and endometrial biopsy
Jul 2024 | Dx chronic endometritis; 14 days of 100mg of doxy given
Sep 2024 | Repeat endometrial biopsy; still + for chronic endometritis. 2 more antibiotics + an antiviral
Oct 2024 | Hysteroscopy turned polypectomy; endometriosis consult w/ specialist who confirmed high likelihood of endo based on symptoms and ultrasound; lots of blood tests ordered
Mar 2025 | Endo excision surgery. Stage 3 endo found! Recoveing
Apr 2025 | Planning transfer w/ RE & green light protocol w/ RI; target transfer July or August 2025
May 2025 | Surprise BFP! EDD 1/11/2026
TTC #1
TTC #1 02/2020 - 07/2022
2009 | Dx PCOS; likely a misdiagnosis
07/14/20 | Dx Hashimoto's Thyroditis
07/21/20 | 1st RE appointment
07/2120 - 08/20/20 | so much testing; no signs of PCOS
08/20/20 | Dx Unexplained; AMA
09/08/20 | IUI #1 Clomid + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
09/30/20 | Urology consult; more testing required
10/2020 | Clomid + OPK + TI + Prometrium | BFN
10/26/2020 | Starting 2nd IUI cycle, with Letrazole and with a new RE / different clinic
11/03/2020 | New Dx "poor egg quality"; IUI cancelled in favor of Trigger + TI + Prometrium | BFN
11/26/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Menopur) + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
12/20/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Gonal-F) + Trigger | IUI Cancelled due to thin lining; TI only | BFN
01/14/2021 | Combo IUI (Letrazole + Menopur) + Trigger | BFN
02/06/2021 | Switched to a new RE (TEW) ; trying naturally until we complete additional testing
03/14/2021 | Hybrid Double IUI, with Zymot (Letrazole, Gonal-F) + Trigger + Endometrin | Ovulated 4 mature eggs but still a BFN ☹️
04/07/2021 | Natural cycle while we regroup | BFN
04/09/2021 | Employer announces fertility benefits starting 05/01/2021! | Search for a new doctor who accepts insurance
05/10/2021 | New RE consult & plan for IVF
05/13/2021 | Mid-luteal IVF cycle #1 interrupted; had to get cancer genetic screening done to make sure I didn't have the same SDHA gene mutation as MH.
06/10/2021 | Aygestin priming IVF cycle #1; opted to Cx after 9 days of stims since only 5-6/12 follicles responded
07/26/2021 | Attempt #2 at IVF cycle #1 (mid-luteal start): 8 retrieved, 8 MII, 6 fert (1 PN3), 3 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 3AA, 3AA, 6AB; 3 euploid
08/09/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC | Shockingly, a BFP! EDD: 5/25/202 | CP at 4w4d
09/23/2021 | IVF cycle #2 (mid-luteal start): 14 retrieved, 13 MII, 11 fert, 5 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 2 x 3AA, 2 x 3AB, 3BB; 2 euploid
11/12/2021 | IVF cycle #3 (mid-luteal start): cancelled due to ovaries being on vacation
12/20/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + Pregmune Immunology Testing; BFN
01/22/2022 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + understanding uncovered immunological issues; BFN
02/18/2022 | Mock transfer cycle! ERA, ReceptivaDx, EMMA/ALICE; start Prednisone to address NK activity
03/16/2022 | Final, "Hail Mary" super-ovulation + TI cycle before FET; BFP! EDD: 12/21/2022 | MMC 05/08/2022
05/20/2022 | D&C; recovering...
06/21/2022 | Trying naturally until October 2022
07/21/2022 | BFP! EDD 04/02/2023; 👦🏼 born on 4/5/2023
Thanks, @krash_ @daisy528 and @acleverusername! Going out for dinner later at a nice new restaurant, one of very few "dining out" outings we've done lately (we've mostly opted for takeout). We'll be sitting outside, so hopefully not too much of a risk and most restaurants around here are pretty good with spacing and staying safe. Might try to talk him into leaving a bit early so we can meander along the river on our walk over.
@daisy528 That's so nice to be able to visit their graves. Mine are all far away (and my husband's are even further), so we never really go to see them.
@AKuzReve @akoros Yay for celebrations!
@krash_ ugh I feel you on motivation. I blame the pandemic?
@daisy528 that's a really nice thing to do for your mom.
@acleverusername Yay for O!
Month/Cycle: 5/1 AL
CD/DPO: "11"/2
[I just started arbitrarily counting "day 1" like 2 weeks AL, so it's more like 25/2]
Timing: -2, +1
Typical LP length: 11-13ish
Testing: not until I'm pretty late, given weird cycle
R/R: I think I'm in the right place now, though this cycle was/is wacky. Don't have high hopes because the timing was not great, but that's ok. Just trying to get back into the swing of things. I have day 3 testing next cycle, and I lave data, so actually kind of looking forward to that.
CS/Q:
BFP 11/30/2017 | MMC 12/31/2017
BFP 6/22/2018 | CP 6/27/2018
BFP 10/5/2018 | EDD 6/14/2019
Baby girl born 6/19/19
TTC #2 May 2020-November 2021
BFP 7/18/2020 | MonoDi Twins | MMC 9/10/2020
BFP 11/7/2020 | CP 11/9/2020
RE Consult January 2021 | Dx "borderline DOR"/RPL
IVF with PGT:
Standard Antagonist:
ER #1 3/27/2021 7R | 5M | 3F | 2B | 1 PGT-A Normal, 1 low-level mosaic
ER #2 4/22/2021 10R | 7M | 3F | 2B | 0 normal, 2 aneuploid
ER #3 5/19/2021 2R | 1M | 0F
Estrogen Priming Antagonist:
ER #4 7/10/2021 5R | 4M | 3F | 1B | 1 PGT-A Normal
Duostim (Standard Antagonist):
ER #5 9/22/2021 13R | 11M | 8F | 5B | 2 PGT-A Normal, 1 low-level mosaic, 2 aneuploid
ER #6 10/9/2021 9R | 6M | 4 F | 1B | 1 aneuploid
FET #1 11/5/2021 | EDD 7/24/2022
Baby boy born 7/19/22
TTC #3 since May 2023 (ntnp)
IVF Started Fall 2023 (Standard Antagonist)
ER #7 10/6/2023 | 9R | 6M | 5F | 3B | 2 aneuploid, 1 high-level mosaic
ER #8 10/31/2023 | 5R | 4M | 3F | 1B | 1 PGT-A Normal
FET #2 11/27/23 | CP (bHCG = 8)
FET #3 planned Jan 2024
Month/Cycle: 1/1
CD/DPO: 28/12
Timing: good
Typical LP length: dunno
Testing: Saturday
R/R: Just struggling to stay in my house and annoyed that I can't have a COVID test until Friday given I am already feeling a lot better. I also need to shop for Thanksgiving (got our turkey already but no veg or sides yet) - so will probably have to send DH to the store because there's no way I'm going on Saturday (and that's with the assumption I'll have my results back by then) and who knows what he'll come back with...even with a very detailed list!! Might be a weiiiiiiird turkey dinner for us LOL.
CS/Q: Have stopped temping due to illness and multiple night wake ups for nose blowing etc. Just waiting and seeing.
@akoros happy anniversary!
@AKuzReve happy bday to your H!
@krash_ Add me to the lacking motivation team! And sorry you're struggling with your OB, hope you can find what you need in another care provider.
@acleverusername I used that same strategy, invested in ONE FRER and it has been a great motivator for resisting the urge to test earlier.
@canucklehead123 LOL @ "who knows what he'll come back with...even with a very detailed list!!" I hope whatever YH picks up, it makes for a delicious Thanksgiving dinner. Glad to hear that you're feeling better.
TTC History
TTC#2
Mar 2024 | consult to get established with a new reproductive immunologist (Alan Beer Center)
Apr/May 2024 | required testing & waiting for a protocol
May 2024 | protocol given / decided to go back to my old reproductive immunologist, Dr. Jubiz
Jun / Jul 2024 | more testing, incl. SIS, ultrasound, and endometrial biopsy
Jul 2024 | Dx chronic endometritis; 14 days of 100mg of doxy given
Sep 2024 | Repeat endometrial biopsy; still + for chronic endometritis. 2 more antibiotics + an antiviral
Oct 2024 | Hysteroscopy turned polypectomy; endometriosis consult w/ specialist who confirmed high likelihood of endo based on symptoms and ultrasound; lots of blood tests ordered
Mar 2025 | Endo excision surgery. Stage 3 endo found! Recoveing
Apr 2025 | Planning transfer w/ RE & green light protocol w/ RI; target transfer July or August 2025
May 2025 | Surprise BFP! EDD 1/11/2026
TTC #1
TTC #1 02/2020 - 07/2022
2009 | Dx PCOS; likely a misdiagnosis
07/14/20 | Dx Hashimoto's Thyroditis
07/21/20 | 1st RE appointment
07/2120 - 08/20/20 | so much testing; no signs of PCOS
08/20/20 | Dx Unexplained; AMA
09/08/20 | IUI #1 Clomid + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
09/30/20 | Urology consult; more testing required
10/2020 | Clomid + OPK + TI + Prometrium | BFN
10/26/2020 | Starting 2nd IUI cycle, with Letrazole and with a new RE / different clinic
11/03/2020 | New Dx "poor egg quality"; IUI cancelled in favor of Trigger + TI + Prometrium | BFN
11/26/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Menopur) + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
12/20/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Gonal-F) + Trigger | IUI Cancelled due to thin lining; TI only | BFN
01/14/2021 | Combo IUI (Letrazole + Menopur) + Trigger | BFN
02/06/2021 | Switched to a new RE (TEW) ; trying naturally until we complete additional testing
03/14/2021 | Hybrid Double IUI, with Zymot (Letrazole, Gonal-F) + Trigger + Endometrin | Ovulated 4 mature eggs but still a BFN ☹️
04/07/2021 | Natural cycle while we regroup | BFN
04/09/2021 | Employer announces fertility benefits starting 05/01/2021! | Search for a new doctor who accepts insurance
05/10/2021 | New RE consult & plan for IVF
05/13/2021 | Mid-luteal IVF cycle #1 interrupted; had to get cancer genetic screening done to make sure I didn't have the same SDHA gene mutation as MH.
06/10/2021 | Aygestin priming IVF cycle #1; opted to Cx after 9 days of stims since only 5-6/12 follicles responded
07/26/2021 | Attempt #2 at IVF cycle #1 (mid-luteal start): 8 retrieved, 8 MII, 6 fert (1 PN3), 3 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 3AA, 3AA, 6AB; 3 euploid
08/09/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC | Shockingly, a BFP! EDD: 5/25/202 | CP at 4w4d
09/23/2021 | IVF cycle #2 (mid-luteal start): 14 retrieved, 13 MII, 11 fert, 5 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 2 x 3AA, 2 x 3AB, 3BB; 2 euploid
11/12/2021 | IVF cycle #3 (mid-luteal start): cancelled due to ovaries being on vacation
12/20/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + Pregmune Immunology Testing; BFN
01/22/2022 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + understanding uncovered immunological issues; BFN
02/18/2022 | Mock transfer cycle! ERA, ReceptivaDx, EMMA/ALICE; start Prednisone to address NK activity
03/16/2022 | Final, "Hail Mary" super-ovulation + TI cycle before FET; BFP! EDD: 12/21/2022 | MMC 05/08/2022
05/20/2022 | D&C; recovering...
06/21/2022 | Trying naturally until October 2022
07/21/2022 | BFP! EDD 04/02/2023; 👦🏼 born on 4/5/2023
Month/Cycle: 1/1
CD/DPO: 28/8
Timing: good
Typical LP length: 10
Testing: I can't put the sticks down
R/R: I think I got a super squinter this morning. Or it's an evap line. Or I'm crazy. DH thinks he sees it too. Who knows. I am a symptom spotting special snowflake. The TWW makes me crazy.
I decided to stop keto. I'm not feeling great, kind of flu-ish.
CS/Q: nada
Married: June 2013
BFP- Nov 2015
@mcmurray33 hi! I don’t think we’ve interacted yet, but I wanted to mention that the rule of thumb is that we don’t talk about 2nd lines here, even if you think it might be an evap. Take a few days and keep testing and if it’s positive, head over to your BMB. If it’s negative then we will see you back here!