I’m going to skip maternity clothes... I feel like we already covered that on the thread about it.
So tell us what works for you... specific brand? Backpack? Tote? Purse like? Do you swear by a dedicated diaper bag or using a regular bag that doubles as a diaper bag?
Re: Product Spotlight: Diaper Bags
The mini diaper bag that we keep in each car (and that I take into the doctor's office, church, etc): Skip Hop Pronto
Also, keep a wet bag in the diaper bag. It's basically a waterproof bag that can go in the washer when it's dirty. Sold for use mainly to hold wet cloth diapers on the go, but it's also great for putting blowout clothes and such into it. There are tons of brands/kinds, but here's the one that you can buy at Target and I use.
I've been eyeing the Freshly Picked classic bag which is a backpack. It's the pricier side it seems as diaper bags go, so would love to hear any feedback on if it's worth it or just frivolous. But then again, don't we all need frivolous things sometimes!?
If you find a bag you love that doesn't have great organization, you can do that yourself with packing cubes or zipper pouches. There are endless options!!! I like the visibility of tote bag style and appreciate the hands free of a backpack. DH prefers a backpack.
Another thing to consider is having a larger bag for day trips, and a smaller pouch to pull out for running into a store (which has a diaper, small pack of wipes, and maybe a new outfit) you can always restock when you get to the car and don't have to carry everything with you at all times.
I also personally prefer separate bags for separate occasions. I have a bag perfectly organized for myself how I like it, and everytime I sent that to Grandma's house for the day it came back a jumbled mess. So now grandma's house has its own tote bag 🤷🏻♀️ we also have separate daycare totes that take a bit more abuse
+1 to an extra mom shirt
+1 to always carrying a wet bag!!!
My SIL gave is these (they are basically similar to dog poop bags):
Munchkin Arm and Hammer Diaper Bag Dispenser, Colors May Vary https://smile.amazon.com/dp/B001QKDI48/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_h2qFFb4C30YF7
i also kept a wet bag in there for blowouts. Side note: don’t forget to put new clothes in there when you have to use your backups. My son had a blow out at the doctors office in January and I forgot to refill the bag with clothes. It was awful!
i always keep a pacifier clip in there and use that to strap a toy to the high chair if we go out to eat so he doesn’t keep throwing the toy on the floor. I clip it to his shirt or the high chair.
@kkfishy9 you will use it a lot so make sure you get something you like! I don’t think it hurts to spend more on the diaper bag because you want it to be comfortable, cute and be able to take a beating.
To any new moms, you’ll be wearing this thing every day for (possibly) up to 3 years... longer if you have another kid in the meantime. Find something you really like!
https://kavu.com/collections/rope-bag-line/products/rope-bag?variant=30260280426567
we did put small diaper bags in the cars and honestly we have never used them. One thing I did in the house was put together a changing basket in the living room so I didn’t have to haul him to his room every time he needed a change.
i am thinking about the bag below for this kid since the oldest will only be 20 months so I will have to be able to fit items for both kids this time:
https://www.momkindness.com/collections/frontpage
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07YD741HB/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o06_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1
I love the look of it, but don't think it has much more storage than the back pack and I don't like the way it lays when i carry it either. So then I bought this backpack style at once upon a child and I like it for Jonah but have no clue what I want to do with two kids. (I have a bag problem). For Jonah as a toddler I bring a cup of water, diapers, wipes, a change of clothes, stuff for out to eat incase we need it like a bib and a disposable place mat. and the changing pad of course. UGHHH i just don't know.
i think it’s a nice bag just not what i want. Haha