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Month/Cycle:
CD/DPO:
Timing:
Typical LP length:
Testing:
R/R:
CS/Q:
Re: TWW Monday 9/28
Month/Cycle: 4/4
CD/DPO: 26/6
Timing: -4, -2, O
Typical LP length: 9-11 days
Testing: Thursday
R/R: Virtual learning starts today. I am so nervous about it. I worry my kids will become overwhelmed. I worry that I won’t be able to provide the help they need. I’m just really struggling with it. I did get to spend the day at my parents yesterday hiking and watching football, which was much needed!
CS/Q:
Me: 26 DH: 27
TTC #1 | June '18-August '18 | DD | Born April 21, 2019 | Due May 10, 2019
TTC#2 | June '20-February '21 | DS | Due October 27, 2021
@chindimples04 my heart is with you, I hope everything goes well on the first day and continues at a pace that works for you and your kids; hoping you find a rhythm and a new normal that works for you all quickly.
Month/Cycle: 1/1
CD/DPO: 18/2
Timing: -1, -2, -3
Typical LP length: have no idea anymore; first time charting in a long time
Testing: waiting until my regular checkup on the 13th, if AF doesn't come before that
R/R: We're having a beautiful autumn here (I live in a town where it usually snows by now) - so we've just been enjoying as much outside time as possible and had a lovely weekend taking in the bright orange/yellow trees!
CS/Q: idk this is my first time getting back into it and it's been a struggle - temps are so inconsistent - all I'm going off of is some positive OPKs (that actually just realized are expired) and some pretty distinct ovulation pain (but it's not ideal - if there is a next cycle I pledge to do better for myself).
Month/Cycle: 2/2 AL #2
CD/DPO: 25/7
Timing: Doesnt matter
Typical LP length: 10-11 days
Testing: Nope. WFAF
R/R: Well the rest of my weekend has been miserable. DH and I got into another HUGE fight on sat night( he started it) and we aren't talking to each other. I try to talk to him but he pretty much just gives me the cold shoulder and silent treatment or short answers like "fine" "dont know" or "i dont care" its been really ackward and uncomfortable and im extremely sad 😥 I'm ready to move pass it and go back to normal if that ever happens at this rate. 🤷♀️
CS/Q: Just keeps on dropping.
@canucklehead123 Were having a nice autumn here too. Its been beautiful. We did have some crappy rainy windy days for a bit but thats passed and the sunshine and warm weather is back again. I will enjoy it while I can. Man you get snow early where you live wow! The fall leave colors are soo pretty. I love when they change.
@chindimples04 GL with starting your virtual learning today. I hope it all goes well! You got this!!
Me: 26 DH: 27
TTC #1 | June '18-August '18 | DD | Born April 21, 2019 | Due May 10, 2019
TTC#2 | June '20-February '21 | DS | Due October 27, 2021
@canucklehead123 you sound like me this cycle. I'm just winging it and looking at OPKs and temps and moving CH as I entered in data.
@mindyb2019 so sorry to hear about a fight with your DH. I know what has helped us int he past is we take a few hours to ourself and talk it out (or write it out) and vow to not go to bed angry. I hope you get over the awkward and get back to normal soon.
Month/Cycle: 2/2
CD/DPO: 28/13
Timing: -4, -1 and +2
Typical LP length: 14
Testing: Not unless late
R/R: starting to feel some AF symptoms so its not just a waiting game. This was first cycle temping and learned a lot, so I'll take that as a win. Off work the next few days and its 90% chance of rain the next few days. I guess that means Netflix?
CS/Q:
Month/Cycle: 2/2
CD/DPO: 15/4?
Timing: -4, -1, +1, +3
Typical LP length: 12 days
Testing: no plans
R/R: I honestly don't know where I go, but I think I O'd on CD11. I am going to go with that until CH appear (if they appear). I think today's temp might be a fluke, so I am taking it with a grain of salt. I finally have an alarm set in my phone to take my BBT at the same time daily. I don't think I realized how much may sleep schedule fluctuates depending on the day. I was off work today due to Yom Kippur, so was able to get some weeding done out front that I have been neglecting. Doing yard work can be so satisfying at times!
CS/Q: You be the judge...
@mindyb2019 I'm sorry about the fight with your DH. I hope you guys are able to talk it out soon, and get over the awkward hump. Sending some virtual hugs!
@And846 I agree, I learned a ton temping this cycle. If this cycle isn't it for you, I hope the next one is! What are you going to binge on Netflix?
@And846 thanks. Im glad you learned alot from your first cycle of temping. I learned alot too when I first started. I love rainy netflix days. Enjoy!
*TW previous pregnancies...
@daisy528 if you really had EWCM today I’d keep having sex. Also I don’t think you are going to get CH anytime soon. Your temps on CD 7-10 are too high compared to your temps on CD 12-15. You may have ovulated but FF isn’t going to agree I don’t think. But if it were my chart I’d keep up with EOD a little while longer to have my bases covered!
@And846 I’m glad you can see this cycle as a win, even if you aren’t KU. I love the temp data and kind of geek out about it. 🤣 plus, learning about my body and it’s pattern!
@daisy528 I don’t think you’ve O’d yet. And if you have, like @bows22 said, you’re definitely not going to get CH. I would keep the EOD timing for at least one more session!
Me: 26 DH: 27
TTC #1 | June '18-August '18 | DD | Born April 21, 2019 | Due May 10, 2019
TTC#2 | June '20-February '21 | DS | Due October 27, 2021