How are you feeling?: The nausea has been mostly better. I haven’t been very hungry. Mostly I’ve felt much better now that I’m in the second trimester.
Rants/Raves: NA
Questions: NA
GTKY: What 3 things would you take with you on a deserted island? 🏝
Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: an eyemask, a pomegranate, a creme brulee, a turnip, a chipmunk (wow!)
Upcoming appointments: Thursday
How are you feeling?: BAD back pain, but otherwise ok
Rants/Raves: I'm in pain with no painkillers. AHHHHH.
Questions: GTKY: What 3 things would you take with you on a deserted island? 🏝 I'm going with actual things, assuming I can land on the island with my fam: - Ipod or other music device - Coffee beans - The Norton Anthology of English Literature (or whatever the biggest book of stuff to read I could find)
Rainbow Baby? {2.1.21} MC at 8 weeks {EDD 9.2.20} Rainbow Girl! {2.28.16} Baby boy, lost at 16 weeks {EDD 6.10.15}
Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: An Avocado 🥑
Upcoming appointments: sept 8th for my anatomy scan at 18 wks
How are you feeling?: ok. So much better than my first trimester. Getting more stretching sensations across my uterus now.
Rants/Raves: I guess all it took was for me to put it out in the universe that I wasn’t really showing yet for it to happen. I woke up this morning and I def don’t have just a food baby anymore.
Questions: Might be TMI- anyone else noticing an increase in their discharge? Nothing alarming in color, just pantyliner needed all day amounts for me. 🤦🏻♀️ GTKY: What 3 things would you take with you on a deserted island? 🏝 -Chapstick -one of those fire starter stick things (I’m clearly very outdoorsy) -a Swiss army knife like @mdfarmchick
Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: an avocado
Upcoming appointments: OB on 9/2
How are you feeling?: decently better, nausea is mostly gone but still super tired and get winded so easily. Lots of headaches and heartburn.
Rants/Raves: rant: probably TMI but I have had zero sex drive since getting pregnant. My poor H keeps asking (but not pushing). So last night we did the deed and immediately after he finished I just sobbed. He of course thought I was hurt or something was wrong but I think it was just a hormone dump because I had no idea why I was crying. It was not attractive and I definitely ruined the moment.
Questions: not at the moment GTKY: What 3 things would you take with you on a deserted island?
Ummm a solar charger kindle loaded with books a Swiss Army knife
Upcoming appointments: This thursday for a quick checkup
How are you feeling?: Starting to get headaches here and there, but overall pretty good.
Rants/Raves: I said it in another thread, but we found out we are having a girl! It was so fun to do a little gender reveal with my sister and two friends.
Questions: GTKY: What 3 things would you take with you on a deserted island? 🏝 Sunscreen, a good book, a margarita machine (for when I'm not pregnant)
Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: size of an infant hat
Upcoming appointments: next Wednesday for 18 week check and 3 weeks anatomy scan!
How are you feeling?: still tired, nauseous, heartburn and wishing I could feel baby move more often
Rants/Raves: work has been awful lately so I’ve been trying to take random mental health days off. Last Friday was one of those days and it was very much needed!
Questions: none right now
GTKY: What 3 things would you take with you on a deserted island? 🏝
family chapstick-my addiction @szwill86 genie in a bottle with 3 wishes
Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: Maple leaf
Upcoming appointments: Sept 8 US for cervical check (I have a condition that is sometimes associated with cervical insufficiency) and midwife appointment same day.
How are you feeling?: gradually a bit less nauseous and tired, so I progressed back to jogging yesterday (only 1 min jog, 1 min walk, no incline). Then last night I had very severe abdominal pain mostly right side. It kind of felt like gas pain but I wasn’t constipated or anything. Today it’s still there but less severe. Wondering if it’s muscle/ligament stretching although it really didn’t feel that way last night.
Rants/Raves: there is demolition happening across the street from my house and it makes the loudest noises ALL THE TIME- even Saturday. And I cannot escape from the noise anywhere in my house!!
Questions: For the experiences pregnant ladies: where did you feel round ligament pain/what did it feel like to you?
GTKY: What 3 things would you take with you on a deserted island? 🏝
How are you feeling?: Good! Sore hips and if I have to be on my feet for any extended period of time everything hurts from the waist down. But I feel overall good!
Rants/Raves: I failed my 1 hr glucose test so I have to go in for a 3 hr on Friday. Bummed about it.
Questions: Is anyone's office letting spouses come for anatomy scans? Mine is still saying no and I'm really sad hubs can't be there for any ultrasounds.
GTKY: What 3 things would you take with you on a deserted island? Sunscreen, chapstick, a really good
Me: 31 Husby: 36 Married May 2014 TTC # 2 Since December 2021 Baby girl W born 2/2021 Our journey so far... (tw loss & infertility)
Diagnosis: Poor Egg Quality Working with an RE since March 2016 2 failed TI cycles 3 failed IUI cycles
IVF Feb - April 2017 23 eggs collected, 20 mature, 14 fertilized with ICSI, 4 day 3 blasts, 3 day 5 blasts, 1 PGS normal Transferred 1 PGS normal embryo 4.12.17 BFP 4.21.17 MMC due to small gestational sac 6.8.17
Our adoption journey: 12.25.18 Agency picked and apps submitted! 5.1.19 Adoption on hold so we can buy a house! 1.1.20 Homestudy process started 3.14.20 First social worker visit 5.25.20 Homestudy Approved & Submitted to Agency
6.1.20 Surprise! Positive pregnancy test! Healthy baby girl born 2/10/2021
Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: A Ring Pop
Upcoming appointments: today, also 8 September for cervical check (due to med condition), 23 September w/OB doc, 28 September (MFM cervical check/anat scan)
How are you feeling?: Tired mostly and trying not to be a ball of nerves. Second the sore back & hips. Trying to be careful with looser joints. Trying to focus on the positive in my life because who needs all the negative crap?
Rants/Raves: I'm really grateful for how this pregnancy seems to be bringing me closer to people I have been meaning to reconnect to in my life thus far. (I have only told a couple close friends besides some family currently).
Questions: Where is everyone getting the cool size comparisons? Everywhere I look compares baby size to fruit or vegetables, with the exception of one site.
GTKY: What 3 things would you take with you on a deserted island? 🏝 (Also assuming Family is a given):
-My Animals (If this is already a given, a hatchet. If not, I'll stick hatchet on s/o haha) -Bow and Arrow -Rope
@manditchka24 I'm pretty sure I was having this exact same pain also on the right most of yesterday also on the right side. It feels like an extremely sharp stabbing pain also like a side stitch sometimes. It took my breath away yesterday & I couldn't get comfortable. My Orthopedic Doctor that does adjustments (apparently including uterine massage!) worked on it the first day I had it (so can confirm that's the pain I felt) & said it was the round ligament & theres a ligament that goes vertically in the center as well, so be prepared haha. A warm epsom salt bath might help. Hope you feel better!
@tamalahoops mine is not letting me bring s/o with the exception of my MFM Doctor.
Upcoming appointments: General OB 9/1, Anatomy Scan 9/22 @ 20wks
How are you feeling?: Nervous about next week. They found our MMC last time at 17 weeks.
Rants/Raves: Rant: One of the committees I run at work is in charge of writing a 1-page memo summarizing people's careers when they retire. Which is normally FINE, except when HR gives me a last working day and then NEGLECTS TO INFORM ME WHEN IT CHANGES, so I show up day-of and they're like "Oh, did you do that?" No, Helen, you told me their last day is next Sunday - which gives me literally all of this week to work on it. Or, you know, has someone else do it and then NEGLECTS TO TELL ME IT'S ALREADY BEEN DONE "Well, you were out of the office, so I just wanted to make sure it got done. I already had to do Barbara's!" Oh...you mean Barbara who decided she was retiring while I was on vacation, but neglected to tell anyone she was retiring months early until after I was already on vacation?
Questions: I've seen a few of you talk about your fetal dopplers. Which brand/model did you get and where did you get them? I'm wondering if having one might ease my anxiety stemming from our previous MMC.
GTKY: What 3 things would you take with you on a deserted island? 1 - My crafting kit (That counts as just one, right?) 2 - A good shovel 3 - A portable solar cooker
@tamalahoops - I find the GD diagnosis annoying, but so far all of my #s have been good so aside from having to check my sugars frequently and e-mail my dietitian once a week my daily life hasn't changed.
Estimated Due Date/Weeks + Days: Feb. 2nd / 13 weeks
FTM/STM/STM+: Fourth
Team Green/Pink/Blue/Finding Out: Finding out
Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: Babies are the size of lemons
Upcoming appointments: MFM Sept. 17th
How are you feeling?: Nauseous 24/7, migraines started, tired all day long and now I started getting very dizzy on and off all day.
Rants/Raves: I went to my obgyn today and since neither the RN or my OB could find the babies heartbeats with the doppler I got to see them on an ultrasound
Questions: Has anyone tried Magnesium Spray on their feet for migraines? GTKY: What 3 things would you take with you on a deserted island? 🏝 Family, Boat, Hatchet
@animommy I get different baby size from the Ovia pregnancy app....you can pick your theme: weird but cute animals (house mouse currently), fun and games (troll doll currently), Parisian bakery (Mille-feuille currently) or fruits/vegetables (beet). Also the bump app home page usually gives me something new each day.
glad to hear I’m not alone in the abdominal pain but also feel bad that you’re experiencing it too!!
I’ve had it since Jan 2017 and got it on ebay when it was new, so I don’t know if it’s still around. I’m finding that the HR detector isn’t so reliable number-wise anymore, so I just count BPM in 30 seconds and multiply it by two. I also use aloe vera gel since I ran out of the tiny ultrasound gel that came with this within the first few weeks of using it and it works just fine!
@manditchka24 Thank you so much! That's super cool how you can pick what theme you want! I hope you feel better soon! So far, mine has typically subsided by the next day because Stretch Armstrong here haha! I hope you can find relief.
@szwill86 oh that's a great idea! I was thinking KY but have aloe on hand! Was debating one on ebay but was skeptical so this is reassuring. Thank you!
@tamalahoops my husband does get to come to the anatomy scan with me. They actually said my 2 year old can come too and I was like yeah he will be at daycare...
@WildMagelet I have a neeva baby Doppler. It was around $50 and works really well. It definitely helps ease my anxiety!
Upcoming appointments: had my second ultrasound Tues, next one in 6 weeks
How are you feeling?: tired, lazy, but more energized than the first trimester; out of breath easily
Rants/Raves: its a boy!!! I think a boy will be very fitting for our family! Our most recent ultrasound was funny, the tech turned it on and found him and first thing she said was, "uhhh he's doing a headstand":)
Questions: when do you begin shopping & decorating? I'm a big shopper and trying to take it easy.. GTKY: What 3 things would you take with you on a deserted island? phone assuming that there's wifi, husband & dog, a pool float or hammock to pass the time!
Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: a roll of kodak film
Upcoming appointments: Monday visit 8/31
How are you feeling?: mmm fat and kind of waddly tbh.
Rants/Raves: The one good thing about social distancing is I don't have to tell anyone about this spontaneous weight gain. I just look like I've been eating my way through the pandemic.
Sadly I discovered babylist last week and I have been curating all of the things. I've even planned a celestial theme for the nursery.
My pregnancy pillow came today. Lets see how that goes.
My fingers randomly tingle for stretches of time. I dont think its carpal tunnel and Im not far along enough yet.
Waiting on Mondays visit so I can start working out again
Questions: GTKY: What 3 things would you take with you on a deserted island? 🏝 a hatchet, a metal bucket, a gun (with bullets) eh..... I've read all those books about huge island boar and I am not trying to take one of those monsters down with a hatchet. Nope not me. If there are no boar on my island my alternative option is a flashlight with solar powered batteries.
Re: Weekly Check-In 8/24
17 weeks
STM+
A Taco
anatomy scan 11 September
The nausea has been mostly better. I haven’t been very hungry. Mostly I’ve felt much better now that I’m in the second trimester.
NA
NA
GTKY: What 3 things would you take with you on a deserted island? 🏝
My Family
A Boat
GTKY: What 3 things would you take with you on a deserted island? 🏝
Family
Wine
coffee
GTKY: What 3 things would you take with you on a deserted island? 🏝
I'm going with actual things, assuming I can land on the island with my fam:
- Ipod or other music device
- Coffee beans
- The Norton Anthology of English Literature (or whatever the biggest book of stuff to read I could find)
MC at 8 weeks {EDD 9.2.20}
Rainbow Girl! {2.28.16}
Baby boy, lost at 16 weeks {EDD 6.10.15}
GTKY: What 3 things would you take with you on a deserted island? 🏝
-Chapstick
-one of those fire starter stick things (I’m clearly very outdoorsy)
-a Swiss army knife like @mdfarmchick
GTKY: What 3 things would you take with you on a deserted island?
kindle loaded with books
a Swiss Army knife
GTKY: What 3 things would you take with you on a deserted island? 🏝 Sunscreen, a good book, a margarita machine (for when I'm not pregnant)
GTKY: What 3 things would you take with you on a deserted island? 🏝
family
chapstick-my addiction @szwill86
genie in a bottle with 3 wishes
14+5
Maple leaf
GTKY: What 3 things would you take with you on a deserted island? 🏝
scuba gear
music
:
GTKY: What 3 things would you take with you on a deserted island? Sunscreen, chapstick, a really good
Married May 2014
TTC # 2 Since December 2021
Baby girl W born 2/2021
Our journey so far...
(tw loss & infertility)
Working with an RE since March 2016
2 failed TI cycles
3 failed IUI cycles
IVF Feb - April 2017
23 eggs collected, 20 mature, 14 fertilized with ICSI, 4 day 3 blasts, 3 day 5 blasts, 1 PGS normal
Transferred 1 PGS normal embryo 4.12.17
BFP 4.21.17
MMC due to small gestational sac 6.8.17
Our adoption journey:
12.25.18 Agency picked and apps submitted!
5.1.19 Adoption on hold so we can buy a house!
1.1.20 Homestudy process started
3.14.20 First social worker visit
5.25.20 Homestudy Approved & Submitted to Agency
6.1.20 Surprise! Positive pregnancy test!
Healthy baby girl born 2/10/2021
FTM/STM/STM+: FTM (Rainbow)
Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: A Ring Pop
Upcoming appointments: today, also 8 September for cervical check (due to med condition), 23 September w/OB doc, 28 September (MFM cervical check/anat scan)
How are you feeling?: Tired mostly and trying not to be a ball of nerves. Second the sore back & hips. Trying to be careful with looser joints. Trying to focus on the positive in my life because who needs all the negative crap?
Rants/Raves: I'm really grateful for how this pregnancy seems to be bringing me closer to people I have been meaning to reconnect to in my life thus far. (I have only told a couple close friends besides some family currently).
Questions: Where is everyone getting the cool size comparisons? Everywhere I look compares baby size to fruit or vegetables, with the exception of one site.
GTKY: What 3 things would you take with you on a deserted island? 🏝
(Also assuming Family is a given):
-My Animals (If this is already a given, a hatchet. If not, I'll stick hatchet on s/o haha)
-Bow and Arrow
-Rope
@manditchka24 I'm pretty sure I was having this exact same pain also on the right most of yesterday also on the right side. It feels like an extremely sharp stabbing pain also like a side stitch sometimes. It took my breath away yesterday & I couldn't get comfortable. My Orthopedic Doctor that does adjustments (apparently including uterine massage!) worked on it the first day I had it (so can confirm that's the pain I felt) & said it was the round ligament & theres a ligament that goes vertically in the center as well, so be prepared haha. A warm epsom salt bath might help. Hope you feel better!
@tamalahoops mine is not letting me bring s/o with the exception of my MFM Doctor.
How are you feeling?: Nervous about next week. They found our MMC last time at 17 weeks.
Rant: One of the committees I run at work is in charge of writing a 1-page memo summarizing people's careers when they retire. Which is normally FINE, except when HR gives me a last working day and then NEGLECTS TO INFORM ME WHEN IT CHANGES, so I show up day-of and they're like "Oh, did you do that?" No, Helen, you told me their last day is next Sunday - which gives me literally all of this week to work on it. Or, you know, has someone else do it and then NEGLECTS TO TELL ME IT'S ALREADY BEEN DONE "Well, you were out of the office, so I just wanted to make sure it got done. I already had to do Barbara's!" Oh...you mean Barbara who decided she was retiring while I was on vacation, but neglected to tell anyone she was retiring months early until after I was already on vacation?
GTKY: What 3 things would you take with you on a deserted island?
1 - My crafting kit (That counts as just one, right?)
2 - A good shovel
3 - A portable solar cooker
@tamalahoops - I find the GD diagnosis annoying, but so far all of my #s have been good so aside from having to check my sugars frequently and e-mail my dietitian once a week my daily life hasn't changed.
SD: 21 & SS: 17
BFP #2 6/3/2020
*Trigger Warning*
GTKY: What 3 things would you take with you on a deserted island? 🏝 Family, Boat, Hatchet
glad to hear I’m not alone in the abdominal pain but also feel bad that you’re experiencing it too!!
@szwill86 oh that's a great idea! I was thinking KY but have aloe on hand! Was debating one on ebay but was skeptical so this is reassuring. Thank you!
@WildMagelet I have a neeva baby Doppler. It was around $50 and works really well. It definitely helps ease my anxiety!
GTKY: What 3 things would you take with you on a deserted island?
phone assuming that there's wifi, husband & dog, a pool float or hammock to pass the time!
Sadly I discovered babylist last week and I have been curating all of the things. I've even planned a celestial theme for the nursery.
My pregnancy pillow came today. Lets see how that goes.
My fingers randomly tingle for stretches of time. I dont think its carpal tunnel and Im not far along enough yet.
Waiting on Mondays visit so I can start working out again
GTKY: What 3 things would you take with you on a deserted island? 🏝 a hatchet, a metal bucket, a gun (with bullets) eh..... I've read all those books about huge island boar and I am not trying to take one of those monsters down with a hatchet. Nope not me. If there are no boar on my island my alternative option is a flashlight with solar powered batteries.