This thread is for anyone who has experienced loss at any point in pregnancy or experienced the loss of a child. ((Please feel free to share your loss story if you haven’t already.)) Also a general TW (trigger warning) in that previous losses will likely be discussed in this thread.
How far along are you?
How are you feeling (symptoms, mentally/emotionally)?
Any upcoming appointments?
GTKY: Coffee or tea?
TTC history in spoiler
Me: 31 Him: 37
Married: Oct 2015
Baby G born June 2017
TTC#2: July 2018
BFP #2: 2/6/19 MC 3/14/19
BFP#3 from IUI #2: 6/30/20 EDD 3/9/21

Re: PGAL check in 8/11
How are you feeling (symptoms, mentally/emotionally)? My symptoms keep getting stronger this week. I've decided to live in my sleep bra so that I only have to remove a bra once a day when I shower. The girls are feeling extra sore and heavy this week (and wicked warm to the touch). Emotionally I'm doing OK. I have a heartbeat check in the morning so here goes...I'll panic when I get there.
GTKY: Coffee or tea? COFFEE ermigerd. I will eat/drink anything coffee related. Always decaf, even before this cycle and pregnancy started. If it didn't give me such acid reflux I'd be drinking more than a cup a day.
How are you feeling (symptoms, mentally/emotionally)? Symptoms wise, still pretty miserable. Emotionally, I go back and forth. I’m definitely further along now than I was with the pregnancy I lost, which is mildly reassuring but I keep thinking anything could happen... 😕
GTKY: Coffee or tea? Tea... I’m not a coffee fan, though I don’t mind coffee flavored things like ice cream. Now being pregnant just the smell of coffee turns me off 🤢
@kloe818 good luck tomorrow, hope the appointment is reassuring!!
Married: Oct 2015
Baby G born June 2017
TTC#2: July 2018
BFP #2: 2/6/19 MC 3/14/19
BFP#3 from IUI #2: 6/30/20 EDD 3/9/21
How are you feeling (symptoms, mentally/emotionally)? I'm feeling ok, finding out that I officially have a small SCH was ironically reassuring
GTKY: Coffee or tea? I'm a coffee person, but I do enjoy a nice cup of black tea with milk and sugar on occasion!
IVF Cycle #1 February 2020 4 embryos frozen, 1 fresh transfer = CP
FET #1 Natural Cycle March 2020 CXL'd due to Covid-19
FET #1 Natural Cycle June 2020 - CP #2
FET #2 Natural Cycle July 2020 - BFP!!!!!! Beta #1 = 273
June Signature Challenge - Favorite TV Quotes
How are you feeling (symptoms, mentally/emotionally)? Symptoms are steady and moderate. Nausea most days that is worse in evening. Breasts heavy, less sore now though. Extreme fatigue. Though I do have random better days with milder symptoms and those days really freak me out. Emotionally I’m pretty good, and trying to stay optimistic despite PGAL anxiety. I just try to remember my past two ultrasounds that were positive and envision that happening again.
GTKY: Coffee or tea? Coffee! But I love tea too, I just don’t make it as often.
@treebagel My symptoms come and go too and I hear you on the freaking out thing.
@mvt2003 How long is maternity leave where you are??
IVF Cycle #1 February 2020 4 embryos frozen, 1 fresh transfer = CP
FET #1 Natural Cycle March 2020 CXL'd due to Covid-19
FET #1 Natural Cycle June 2020 - CP #2
FET #2 Natural Cycle July 2020 - BFP!!!!!! Beta #1 = 273
June Signature Challenge - Favorite TV Quotes
@mvt2003 I'm sure the SCH is reassuring! I think having any reason for the spotting helps take some of the anxiety away. This is totally TMI but with my daughter I had spotting on and off until about 10 weeks and around the 8 week mark it turned out I had a yeast infection, and knowing that was probably causing the spotting from all the irritation was such a relief!
@treebagel it's crazy how the better days can be both nice and also nerve-wracking
Married: Oct 2015
Baby G born June 2017
TTC#2: July 2018
BFP #2: 2/6/19 MC 3/14/19
BFP#3 from IUI #2: 6/30/20 EDD 3/9/21