DH gets this award this week! Last night he refused to discuss my questions about my bloodwork results since I hadn’t heard from the Dr yet (yes he was probably right, but he was being a dick about it and he has access to the program called Up To Date & i just wanted him to look it up) & then he was so annoyed that I called him “rude” & is still so annoyed he has refused to eat the food I’ve made for dinner 2 nights in a row. Last night he ate cereal instead of stir fry. Tonight he has yet to eat anything. Congrats on your Twatwaffle award this Tuesday DH! 🎉
@shelmcclel Oh my gosh why act like such a brat?! He’s kind of proving your point that he’s rude...
My TW award goes to the men on one of the boards that I sit on. I wanted to cancel our big tournament months ago, so that we could move on and restructure our plan for the year with plenty of time to adapt. They, however, were all in denial and kept putting the decision off thinking we could make it happen despite COVID (it’s a tournament with 1500 ppl from around the country, like, hello?). Now we finally did the inevitable and cancelled the event but because we waited so long, we have to rush all this planning to adapt the next few months. I even got accused of making the decision “emotional” when we were discussing it back in June (sexist a**). Too bad I was right, dudes!!!
Why don’t men ever want to listen to women when we are clearly right the majority of the time?
@shelmcclel arg I hate those type of arguments with DH!! I hope you guys work through it soon.
My DD is the TW. Her 2nd bday is today and she’s been such a crank all day! She totally ruined our Zoom gender reveal by just throwing fits and crying//whining the whole time so we just rushed through all the old wives tales and votes so we could light the smoke bombs. She threw up her dinner (2nd night in a row) which sucks and I feel horrible about that, so we were relaxing and watching a movie before bed, and she just starts throwing another fit because she’s not getting what she wants. DH is the MVP whisking her off to do an early bedtime while I’m sitting here in silence enjoying a small glass of wine to celebrate our reveal
TTC History:
Me: 36 H: 40 Married 2015. Together since 2010. TTC: Sept 2016-Oct 2017 BFP Oct 2017. DD born July 2018. TTC: March 2020. BFP March 2020 Due date was Nov 2020 DS born Sept 2020. DS passed away Nov 2020 due to prematurity and birth trauma. TTC: March 2021 IUI #1 Nov 2021, BFN IUI #2 Dec 2021 BFP. MC Jan 2022 IUI #3 Aug 2022 BFN IUI #4 Sept 2022 BFN AMH test came back at .081. Was going to move on to IVF with DE, but have decided not to. Will be leaving it up to the universe now.
@laurenspdx i fully agree! I’m sorry you are dealing with that - how frustrating to see an early solution and have people disregard it! my husband also wanted me to be “less emotional” about interpreting the test results “because it’s just science” and I was like how can I not have emotions about what they could possibly mean! And he said my rude comment was “snooty” - no I was stating literal fact that you are acting rude and superior with your vast array of medical knowledge and information at your finger tips which you are unwilling to share, BRO. If he doesn’t eat dinner tomorrow I will lose it, but i think he knows the limit has been met after today. Ugh. Men.
@bearmomma1 oh no!!! How did the reveal go though were people excited? Your DH sounds like a great partner! I’m jealous of your wine and I think I’m finally going to enjoy a glass next week during our vacation 😬 also this is just my DH’s stubborn process when I call him out for being unkind - he has a very bad habit of having a superiority complex around people who work for him or are less knowledgeable than him about things and he generally knows not to go there with me because when he does I make him very aware that he is not superior to me and we are equals. He does not like being told he’s done something wrong. I’m sure tomorrow he’ll be over it & back to his sweet normal self.
@shelmcclel I think people enjoyed it! We took a vote before lighting the bombs and 100% of the votes were for boy...and they were right! 🤣 I’m just bummed I didn’t get any videos/ pictures. I need to come up with something else to do that includes DD and to get pictures. Maybe a confetti balloon or Blue finger paint hand prints and me wearing a white shirt?
TTC History:
Me: 36 H: 40 Married 2015. Together since 2010. TTC: Sept 2016-Oct 2017 BFP Oct 2017. DD born July 2018. TTC: March 2020. BFP March 2020 Due date was Nov 2020 DS born Sept 2020. DS passed away Nov 2020 due to prematurity and birth trauma. TTC: March 2021 IUI #1 Nov 2021, BFN IUI #2 Dec 2021 BFP. MC Jan 2022 IUI #3 Aug 2022 BFN IUI #4 Sept 2022 BFN AMH test came back at .081. Was going to move on to IVF with DE, but have decided not to. Will be leaving it up to the universe now.
@shelmcclel sorry your DH is being like that! It’s rare but it drives me crazy when mine doesn’t eat what I made. Even when it is kinda bad. When I admit it’s not my best work I still want him to tell me it’s good and eat it anyway!
...This sounds way worse than it is... I haven’t been very easy to deal with...
I told him to “shut Up” when he was talking to the dog. Then he said he hopes I don't do that to our son. Then said lots of serial killers hated their moms as kids. 😡. That didn’t go over to well.
Now when I think about it cracks me up.
We haven’t been getting along great al the time. So yesterday, after this I told him do some research on how to be a good partner to a moody pregnant woman. It basically told him to not take my meanness personally don’t get defensive and treat me nice even if I’m not. I’ve been trying to tell him this but I am very glad he spent a few hours reading and hearing it from someone else.
My H has been taking my pregnant moodyness personally as well...lol I’m like just let me be moody and snappy and brush it off!
TTC History:
Me: 36 H: 40 Married 2015. Together since 2010. TTC: Sept 2016-Oct 2017 BFP Oct 2017. DD born July 2018. TTC: March 2020. BFP March 2020 Due date was Nov 2020 DS born Sept 2020. DS passed away Nov 2020 due to prematurity and birth trauma. TTC: March 2021 IUI #1 Nov 2021, BFN IUI #2 Dec 2021 BFP. MC Jan 2022 IUI #3 Aug 2022 BFN IUI #4 Sept 2022 BFN AMH test came back at .081. Was going to move on to IVF with DE, but have decided not to. Will be leaving it up to the universe now.
I’m very happy mine finally did a little research so someone else could tell him that instead of just hearing it from his bitchy wife, hopefully it will help!
Re: Twatwaffle Tuesday 7/14/20
My TW award goes to the men on one of the boards that I sit on. I wanted to cancel our big tournament months ago, so that we could move on and restructure our plan for the year with plenty of time to adapt. They, however, were all in denial and kept putting the decision off thinking we could make it happen despite COVID (it’s a tournament with 1500 ppl from around the country, like, hello?). Now we finally did the inevitable and cancelled the event but because we waited so long, we have to rush all this planning to adapt the next few months. I even got accused of making the decision “emotional” when we were discussing it back in June (sexist a**). Too bad I was right, dudes!!!
My DD is the TW. Her 2nd bday is today and she’s been such a crank all day! She totally ruined our Zoom gender reveal by just throwing fits and crying//whining the whole time so we just rushed through all the old wives tales and votes so we could light the smoke bombs. She threw up her dinner (2nd night in a row) which sucks and I feel horrible about that, so we were relaxing and watching a movie before bed, and she just starts throwing another fit because she’s not getting what she wants. DH is the MVP whisking her off to do an early bedtime while I’m sitting here in silence enjoying a small glass of wine to celebrate our reveal
TTC: Sept 2016-Oct 2017
BFP Oct 2017. DD born July 2018.
TTC: March 2020. BFP March 2020
Due date was Nov 2020
DS born Sept 2020. DS passed away Nov 2020 due to prematurity and birth trauma.
TTC: March 2021
IUI #1 Nov 2021, BFN
IUI #2 Dec 2021 BFP. MC Jan 2022
IUI #3 Aug 2022 BFN
IUI #4 Sept 2022 BFN
AMH test came back at .081. Was going to move on to IVF with DE, but have decided not to. Will be leaving it up to the universe now.
TTC: Sept 2016-Oct 2017
BFP Oct 2017. DD born July 2018.
TTC: March 2020. BFP March 2020
Due date was Nov 2020
DS born Sept 2020. DS passed away Nov 2020 due to prematurity and birth trauma.
TTC: March 2021
IUI #1 Nov 2021, BFN
IUI #2 Dec 2021 BFP. MC Jan 2022
IUI #3 Aug 2022 BFN
IUI #4 Sept 2022 BFN
AMH test came back at .081. Was going to move on to IVF with DE, but have decided not to. Will be leaving it up to the universe now.
I told him to “shut Up” when he was talking to the dog. Then he said he hopes I don't do that to our son. Then said lots of serial killers hated their moms as kids. 😡. That didn’t go over to well.
TTC: Sept 2016-Oct 2017
BFP Oct 2017. DD born July 2018.
TTC: March 2020. BFP March 2020
Due date was Nov 2020
DS born Sept 2020. DS passed away Nov 2020 due to prematurity and birth trauma.
TTC: March 2021
IUI #1 Nov 2021, BFN
IUI #2 Dec 2021 BFP. MC Jan 2022
IUI #3 Aug 2022 BFN
IUI #4 Sept 2022 BFN
AMH test came back at .081. Was going to move on to IVF with DE, but have decided not to. Will be leaving it up to the universe now.