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Wtf Wednesday 6/17

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in December 2020 Moms
W.t.f.
TTC History:
Me: 36 H: 40 Married 2015. Together since 2010.
TTC: Sept 2016-Oct 2017
BFP Oct 2017. DD born July 2018.
TTC: March 2020. BFP March 2020
Due date was Nov 2020
DS born Sept 2020. DS passed away Nov 2020 due to prematurity and birth trauma.
TTC: March 2021
IUI #1 Nov 2021, BFN
IUI #2 Dec 2021 BFP.  MC Jan 2022
IUI #3 Aug 2022 BFN
IUI #4 Sept 2022 BFN
AMH test came back at .081. Was going to move on to IVF with DE, but have decided not to. Will be leaving it up to the universe now.



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Re: Wtf Wednesday 6/17

  • karmbakarmba member
    Last night my DH looks at me and says "well my mom just replied to someone's Facebook comment that DS will be a big brother in December."  He didn't like my comment of "wtf is wrong with her?"  But seriously?  Last time we didn't announce on FB until DS was born.  Plus, I'm not even out of 1st tri yet.  DH just called it an innocent comment, but I was super stern with my parents about it and I can tell he wasn't the same with his.  I'm sure it was just a thoughtless post from MIL because that's how she is.  It's frustrating because I have some anxiety around posting it on social media since I've had a miscarriage in the past and one of my friends had a loss at 21 weeks earlier this year.  If something happens I don't want everyone MIL has ever met to hear about it  :(
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    Me: 34 DH: 36
    Married 10/15/11
    M/C October 2014
    BFP #2 4/3/16  EDD 12/8/16  DS 11/19/16


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  • dobiemom11dobiemom11 member
    @karmba.  That is a WTF for sure!!  I was like that with my MIL.  You cannot post anything, but I don't care who you tell on person or text.  She might not realize yet that I meant like this whole pregnancy you can't post, but my husband and I are pretty firm on it.  I am like I don't want the person you went to high school with and haven't spoken to IRL for like fifteen years to know.  Hopefully it will get better even though the cat is out of the bag!

    My WTF is I went a whole week without throwing up and now we are back at it.  Like what happened!  I did fall asleep before taking my meds last night, but body I am hoping you are more resilient than that!  
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  • bearmomma1bearmomma1 member
    @karmba that is so frustrating! My Mom posted the birth announcement of my Daughter on Facebook the night she was born, at like 1:00am. I went pure hormonal mamma bear rage on her. She now asks before posting anything =P
    TTC History:
    Me: 36 H: 40 Married 2015. Together since 2010.
    TTC: Sept 2016-Oct 2017
    BFP Oct 2017. DD born July 2018.
    TTC: March 2020. BFP March 2020
    Due date was Nov 2020
    DS born Sept 2020. DS passed away Nov 2020 due to prematurity and birth trauma.
    TTC: March 2021
    IUI #1 Nov 2021, BFN
    IUI #2 Dec 2021 BFP.  MC Jan 2022
    IUI #3 Aug 2022 BFN
    IUI #4 Sept 2022 BFN
    AMH test came back at .081. Was going to move on to IVF with DE, but have decided not to. Will be leaving it up to the universe now.



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  • shelmcclelshelmcclel member
    @karmba @dobiemom11 I’ve also got a MIL going rogue. We posted our social media announcement last weekend so now she’s getting attention from all of her friends and that has helped. But, I learned that now that others know about her grandchild, she is sharing every detail of my pregnancy with others and so this is going to be the new battle.
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