November 2020 Moms

Week 1 (11/01-11/07) Check-in w/o 6/1/20

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Re: Week 1 (11/01-11/07) Check-in w/o 6/1/20

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  • @magdaaaa girl I love Bahamas too!! <3 
  • mimsermimser member
    @hedgepig yes I like bringing stuff to the new place although we are not placing it yet, but it's nice to clear out our old place! I hate cleaning the new place though! We've been scrubbing the kitchen and bathroom all week...
  • @mimser Your new place didn't come to you clean? That sucks!
    @warmwinter Hey there edd and a/s buddy! There's something satisfying about having the 20 week u/s at 20 weeks exactly 😊 I just got my first pairs of maternity shorts too! Everywhere I looked was sold out, but I did find a couple at Target (online) and am happy with them so far. 
    TW
    Me: 33 DH: 32
    Started Dating: 2003 Married: 2013
    Started TTC August 2016
    BFP: 2/1/17 MC: 2/8/17
    BFP: 3/8/17 MMC: 5/1/17
    BFP: 7/23/17 EDD: 4/5/18
    BFP: 2/27/20





  • ksd20ksd20 member
    @hedgepig i don't have a LMP and at my dating US (~8weeks) they found a small cyst near the umbilical cord so I was referred to MFM for the AS. They scheduled it (aim for 19-22 weeks) and I'll be 19 weeks tomorrow (EDD 10/31) based off the dating US. 
  • @ksdelong20 I'm sorry that it's for a slightly scary reason! How did it go?
    TW
    Me: 33 DH: 32
    Started Dating: 2003 Married: 2013
    Started TTC August 2016
    BFP: 2/1/17 MC: 2/8/17
    BFP: 3/8/17 MMC: 5/1/17
    BFP: 7/23/17 EDD: 4/5/18
    BFP: 2/27/20





  • @hedgepig i am so stupid excited my sister is expecting. She struggles with fertility so this was such welcome news. Pretty much when she found out she lost her last baby we found out we were expecting. It’s been hard but she’s been such an amazing support despite her own pain. She’s due in January. I’m afraid none of my family lives near by 😳🤣. Closest is a 6(?) hour flight away? That’s what it’s been since college for me. I’m building a community where I live now though. It's SO exciting that our babies will be so close in age. 

    And yay for successful surgery - how is she recovering? Eye roll to that toddler. She thinks I hurt her because I took her bandage off. She has no recollection of surgery. Now to keep her out of sand and water. Then either a hat or suntan lotion for a year to prevent scarring. 

    I’m not going to lie your vacation sounds like fun. 
  • @name1109 I'm happy for your sister! Hopefully you can still keep in touch with family, at least as much as you'd like, even though they're physically farther away. 

    @hedgepig I got my shorts from Target too! Ended up getting the longer ones with the over-the-belly support. They're very comfortable so far. I also got a pair of black pants, just in case I ever need to dress formally or for work (if we ever go back to the school building), but I haven't tried them on yet. 
  • ksd20ksd20 member
    @hedgepig it went really well! The cyst is gone and baby has all normal pieces/ parts accounted for and measuring 2 days ahead! 
  • @36anditsmyfirst nice work!  Here’s for standing up to what’s right. 
  • @36anditsmyfirst Amazing! So happy to hear you are standing up to racism! I have a lot of book recommendations (for adults and children) if you are looking. :)
  • @laurenmicheley I’d love book recommendations for kids probably
  • @name1109 Here are a few I can think of, of hand. They are for various ages! The Snowy Day by Ezra Jack Keats (an absolute classic, and more for inclusion for your littlest child. I LOVE THIS BOOK! Gives me all the nostalgia!), A is for Activist by Innosanto Negara, Malcom Little: The Boy who Grew up to be Malcom X by Ilyasah Shabazz, Not My Idea: A Book About Whiteness by Anastasia Higginbotham (lovely illusstrations, too), Little Leaders: Bold Women in Black History by Vashti Harrison, New Kid by Jerry Craft, The Hate U Give by Angie Thomas (obviously, for older kids, but so impactful). 
  • mimsermimser member
    @laurenmicheley I'm actually interested in the adult book recommendations :)@36anditsmyfirst I am biracial myself so baby will have some African heritage and strangely, I feel so clueless on how to approach this as we raise him. Obviously the current situation is raising a lot of questions! Good job on standing up 🤗
  • @laurenmicheley I am interested as well! 
  • @mimser @bserena First place to start is How to be an AntiRacist by Ibram X. Kendi and White Fragility by Robin Diangelo. As a white, Jewish, and extremely privileged woman, these two books were a great foundation to start doing the work to understand and unlearn racism, for me.

    Some other books that are wonderful resources are: Black Feminist Thought by Patricia Hill Collins, Heavy: An American Memoir by Kiese Laymon, Me and White Supremacy by Layla F. Saad, and So You Want to Talk About Race by Ijeoma Oulu. Also, The Bluest Eye by Toni Morrison and I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings by Maya Angelou (if you haven't already read these two classic pieces of literature). Always open to other recommendations, too. :)

  • mimsermimser member
    @laurenmicheley thank you! I'm looking forward to read these 
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