3rd Trimester Woes - Send Help

FeelTheRain · June 2020

You guys. I am miserable. I need someone to pat me on the head and give me a nice "there there, quit your whining." I just hit my 3rd trimester on Monday and it is literally crushing my very soul. I am exhausted. I am nauseous (like 1st trimester nauseous. Whyyyyy??) I am sore. I am hot. My feet hurt. My head hurts. I have all of the hemorrhoids. You don't have any? Great news for you. I have them. They're over here. With me. I am starving all of the time. And then I eat 3 bites of food and I'm stuffed. And then 20 minutes later I'm starving again. I pee so many times during the day. I am 3 days into the 3rd and I feel like I got hit by a truck. I don't remember it being this way with my first baby. Oh yeah, I also have a 2 year old. His new favorite word is "AMUCK" if that tells you anything about his little personality. Please send virtual help. My only contact with other adults is my husband. Mr. You Should Go For A Walk Over Lunch When I Go For My Run himself. It's 95 degrees outside Bub, watch your mouth. And put your flat toned stomach away. Nobody wants to see that crap.
ETA - I originally posted this accidentally in the regular 3rd trimester board but meant to do it here. I can't figure out how to delete it from that one so sorry if you're reading this twice....

ziggymama06 · June 2020

FeelTheRain said:

You guys. I am miserable. I need someone to pat me on the head and give me a nice "there there, quit your whining." I just hit my 3rd trimester on Monday and it is literally crushing my very soul. I am exhausted. I am nauseous (like 1st trimester nauseous. Whyyyyy??) I am sore. I am hot. My feet hurt. My head hurts. I have all of the hemorrhoids. You don't have any? Great news for you. I have them. They're over here. With me. I am starving all of the time. And then I eat 3 bites of food and I'm stuffed. And then 20 minutes later I'm starving again. I pee so many times during the day. I am 3 days into the 3rd and I feel like I got hit by a truck. I don't remember it being this way with my first baby. Oh yeah, I also have a 2 year old. His new favorite word is "AMUCK" if that tells you anything about his little personality. Please send virtual help. My only contact with other adults is my husband. Mr. You Should Go For A Walk Over Lunch When I Go For My Run himself. It's 95 degrees outside Bub, watch your mouth. And put your flat toned stomach away. Nobody wants to see that crap.
ETA - I originally posted this accidentally in the regular 3rd trimester board but meant to do it here. I can't figure out how to delete it from that one so sorry if you're reading this twice....

QFP

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lachnessmomster · June 2020

@FeelTheRain Hi, there! We're all pregnant and mostly miserable, and many of us are also juggling other children/various obstacles while also being pregnant and miserable - which you would know if you had remotely participated on our BMB before showing up in third tri to throw yourself a pity party.

charhar0820 · June 2020

@lachnessmomster 🤣🤷🏼‍♀️🙏🏼

lachnessmomster · June 2020

@charhar0820 Girl, I am just not in the mood today. 😂

[Deleted User] · June 2020

Yeah, that and the fact that the whole thing is practically unreadable. I stopped more than once and TRIED to go back in case there was a kernel of anything worth responding to, but I'm just like NOPE! This post is not going to go well LOL

FeelTheRain · June 2020

Yikes. You guys are always so mean! Hahaha I keep wanting to find friendly faces on this site who have even one little iota of a sense of humor but I find that, once again, malice and bully's and trolls rule this site. This was supposed to be a funny little blurb that other people could come to and say "Girl, same! Chin up! Lol!" but you guys just take it to a whole literal other level. Feel free to keep up your troll comments, I can't deal with your level of pettiness and unhappiness and rudeness so i'm done checking back. The vast majority of you need to stop having babies so you can't teach your attitude to the next generation. For those of you who did read this as the light hearted paragraph it was intended to be, good for you. For the rest of you, I pray God's blessings on you all that you can find it within yourself to learn to support one another instead of tearing everyone down. Bless your hearts. All of you.

lachnessmomster · June 2020

@FeelTheRain Ah, yes. Telling a bunch of strangers that we should stop having babies, because we didn't give your cute blurb the reaction you wanted, right before raining God's blessings on us all is definitely going to be the best way to find friendly faces here. Keep that up, and let me know how it goes. ✌️

ziggymama06 · June 2020

charhar0820 · June 2020

@FeelTheRain No one said it wasn’t relatable.. you’d know that if you’ve participated here.

Guards are up at this point lady, we don’t know who you are! You’d most definitely get a warmer response had we recognized you.

I for one find your post and the entire thread comical.

Girl, walk it off. 😉

wednesdaygirl1019 · June 2020

[Deleted User] · June 2020

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<div>Yikes. You guys are always so mean! Hahaha I keep wanting to find friendly faces on this site who have even one little iota of a sense of humor but I find that, once again, malice and bully's and trolls rule this site. This was supposed to be a funny little blurb that other people could come to and say "Girl, same! Chin up! Lol!" but you guys just take it to a whole literal other level. Feel free to keep up your troll comments, I can't deal with your level of pettiness and unhappiness and rudeness so i'm done checking back. The vast majority of you need to stop having babies so you can't teach your attitude to the next generation. For those of you who did read this as the light hearted paragraph it was intended to be, good for you. For the rest of you, I pray God's blessings on you all that you can find it within yourself to learn to support one another instead of tearing everyone down. Bless your hearts. All of you. </div>
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QFP

I could get pretty bleeping pissed at a lot of this, but I don't have the energy... From being in my third trimester, too, tired, sore, cranky, and chasing around a toddler all day. But you know what, you don't get a girl same from me, because it is all.so.totally.100% worth it. Every tear shed, every penny it cost, every surgery and procedure, and every which way we REARRANGED OUR ENTIRE LIVES to get this incredible little toddler I now have running around the house, who depends on me, practically non-stop each and every day, as well as the little one who, at this point, is taking up more space in my body than is super comfortable atm. You really won't hear me complaining about any of that (much), because more than anything else, I am so incredibly humbled and GRATEFUL to be DDs mommy, and GRATEFUL for this second little blessing on the way.

Am I sore, cranky, achy, living in too close of quarters with my (at times, very annoying) H? Absolutely. But ask me how I'm doing...? Better than I deserve! Want me to get real about all the petty little bs? I could do that too, but I personally choose to save it for ppl who know me / care an iota. I didn't find your post light hearted or funny in the slightest; I found it whiney and immature. But then again...
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And I respectfully don't give to shhhs about your opinions on my personal family planning decisions, either.

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Bless your heart.

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