This thread is for anyone who has experienced loss at any point in pregnancy or experienced the loss of a child.
How far along are you?
Share your PGAL story if you'd like, or previously have not.
How are you feeling (symptoms, mentally/emotionally)?
Any upcoming appointments?
GTKY: Have you bought anything for baby? What did you buy?
If not, when will you feel comfortable buying something for baby?
Re: PGAL Check-in 05/03
Share your PGAL story if you'd like, or previously have not. Chemical pregnancy at 4w1d and Blighted ovum ending at 9w6d + D&C a few days later
How are you feeling (symptoms, mentally/emotionally)? I never had really big symptoms, but the breasts are still sore and I think I'm starting to show, so starting to actually feel pregnant. Emotionally, I'm super disappointed that I'm having such a hard time feeling confident for more than a few days after good news. I'm anxiously waiting for NIPT results and hopefully I can go a long way from there...
If not, when will you feel comfortable buying something for baby? No, I've bought a few things for myself (stretch mark oil and pregnancy safe face SPF lotion). I think I'm now waiting for NIPT results to really jump in.
Share your PGAL story if you'd like, or previously have not. MMC 2/19 10w w/D&C, MC 6/19 10w w/D&C
How are you feeling (symptoms, mentally/emotionally)? Symptoms are very mild at this point. I'm getting full very quickly and my clothing is TIGHT. Feeling pretty good about where I am right now - which is a nice change from the constant anxiety.
@mimser NIPT results will definitely make things feel more real (or at least they did for me). When do you expect to hear from your doctor on them?
Share your PGAL story if you'd like, or previously have not.
How are you feeling (symptoms, mentally/emotionally)? I’m feeling a lot better. Almost to the second trimester feeling better stage. I’m trying to remind myself that everything looks healthy so far and that I felt totally fine with my son, too.
my NIPT draw! In one week I have my 12 week appointment. I don’t know if I’ll get an ultrasound then. I’m sure it varies, but has anyone gotten the initial confirmation scan and also one at 12 weeks?
If not, when will you feel comfortable buying something for baby? No I haven’t. I’m going to wait for the NIPT results. Obviously I want to know that everything is ok, but since we already have a boy who was born in January we won’t need to buy much if this late November baby is a boy too! I do have a secret amazon registry to keep track of things I want. So far it’s just like a cosleeper bassinet, some zip up swaddles and a Hatch nightlight. I’ll probably get a “coming home” outfit just to make things feel special, even if it’s another boy 💙.
Share your PGAL story if you'd like, or previously have not.
How are you feeling (symptoms, mentally/emotionally)? Light nausea, frequent headaches
If not, when will you feel comfortable buying something for baby? This is #3 so we're pretty set. I probably won't buy anything til September or so.
@surlyj@surlyjaneausten I had one at 8 and 10, but I had low progesterone. I don't think my next one will be till the anatomy scan.
Share your PGAL story if you'd like, or previously have not.
First Pregnancy M/C at 11 weeks
2nd Pregnancy-DD Feb2019
How are you feeling (symptoms, mentally/emotionally)? So much better!!!! I had my 2nd appointment yesterday. The sub bleed has totally resolved itself. And I got to see my healthy baby. 🥰🥰🥰
I’m still having anxiety about telling work though.
I was supposed to have my genetic testing done yesterday, but my U/S and doc appointment was running an hour behind and the lab in the office closed at 5, so now they want me to go back. I took off half a day yesterday for the appointment and I’m not sure I can take off again.🙄