WTF Wednesday 4/29

swizzlemalarkey · April 2020

Anyone need a WTF rant?? (Can extend into Thursday since it’s already kinda late)

swizzlemalarkey · April 2020

Today was a whole big WTF. To start, last night H bitched at me because I didn’t check finances with him before going food shopping. (He handles everything because money stresses me out lol) so I never know our bank account balance. Is that weird? Probably but I like to be blissfully unaware. Anywho, it’s my fault for not checking but he knew I was going to the store. I guess he just didn’t think I would spend over $100. oops. I didn’t say anything when he was ranting because I wasn’t about to argue. I just feel like whenever I ask he tells me to get whatever but the one time I don’t he freaks out. I feel bad because it screwed up our automatic bills but I didn’t know he transferred money into savings. So lesson learned and I feel dumb now.
Then today one of my employees called out for the hundredth time, my GM was 40 min late without telling me. And then after doing two hours of work she sat in a dark office doing nothing because I guess she had a migraine. Which I get sucks but she didn’t once communicate ANYTHING to me except basically act dramatic and walk right past me when I was trying to do her wellness check when she got to work. The best part is her boss was there today when she did that and who the hell knows if he even said anything to her, I’m so ready to leave,
Also, my boobs itched SO MUch today.

rosesintherain · April 2020

My 2.5 year old had an epic meltdown because my sister (who I watch her daughters while she works) told him he couldn’t roll her fitness ball around the house. He screamed, cried and threw himself to the group for about 30 minutes.

Then I come home ask my husband how his day was and he is short and pouty. He’s all stressed because he can’t fully do his job from home and can’t go in to see his customers because of covid. After he complained I told him it’s a constant complaint I’m hearing. He just needs to accept what is in his control and let go what is out of his control. It’s not my fault or our son’s fault it’s like this. Leave it at the computer.....he’s less pouty now and I’m sure I’ll hear about how I wasn’t being supportive later. But it’s the same complaint for the last couple months!! Ugh. Wednesday’s.

twentythree19 · April 2020

It’s 10 pm on a Wednesday and my neighbor across the street has yet again decided to start up and rev up his side by side for 10 minutes. He’s always working on it and cleaning it during daylight hours, why can’t he run and rev it then too? I know I could complain to the HOA but I’m trying to make myself work up the nerve to talk to him in person first.

raesky1111 · April 2020

@corngirl I would be petty and complain lol and if the HOA doesn't take it seriously then to call the cops for noise disturbances. Most places, especially ones with an HOA have rules about that sort of thing and he's breaking them for sure.

So my rant is that last night my SO and I watched a movie together and then after he went and played on the computer which is fine. I set the remote down on the coffee table but I guess it must have gotten knocked off and fell under. Later on while I was napping he came in to ask me where the remote was and when I didn't wake up quickly enough to answer, he got pissy and slammed the bedroom door and then I cried for a couple of hours. Men are just dumb sometimes.
I'm not gonna be too harsh in him for it though because while he could have reacted way better, his depression is acting up today and that's probably why he was so moody yesterday.

pai314 · April 2020

H went back to work this week. They are providing masks even though they are required to. Their excuse they run out as fast as they get them in... guess they shouldn't have brought everyone back yet then?! And on top of that they cut his hours for the time being.

It's been an adjustment for all of us after he was off for a month. And my 7-year-old is sassy and the eye-rolling is going to be the death of me.

Thankfully tomorrow is his last day for the week and I can NOT wait.

Does this even count as the right place to post something like this?!

mflowers929 · April 2020

This happened on Monday, but it's still making me WTF.
My best friend made me a mask to wear for my appointments. It's nice, fits well, isn't too warm. So I go to the hospital and they have this check point set up, ask me the usual questions, then hand me a paper mask and make me change masks! The paper mask was warm, itchy, and kept sliding up my face. It's quite a hike from the main entrance to the OB clinic and the lower half of my face was sweating and my nose was running by the time I actually got there.
As soon as I was out of there I changed back to my fabric mask to go to the dollar store.

mflowers929 · April 2020

My other WTF is towards the government. I applied through Service Canada on April 8 for my unemployment and it's still under review. Apparently it's a problem with nearly everyone who applied through them. Meanwhile, people who applied through Canada Revenue get their money in like 3 days.

beaandthebabes · April 2020

I missed Wednesday bit we just got a notice that our property tax went up. It isn’t by too much for us to handle but right in this moment DH’a job has docked everyone a day so we are running on 20% less than we usually have so it feels stressful.

linz36 · April 2020

So my husband just figured out that we have a sprinkler system (we moved in October) and we have been using it for the past month. Got the water bill today and its $433 (up from $78)...holy hell...I do not like green grass enough to justify that insane amount of money on water.

robyn2201 · April 2020

@linz36 Yikes!! Could you turn the settings down? Like length of time they are on or maybe not come on everyday day?

robinj716 · April 2020

My H and I have just been bickering about stupid stuff. we can look at one another wrong and we both fight back and forth like children. He keeps saying my pregnancy is making me “off” this week which I in turn say no him being short and abrasive is making me “off”. He started back to nightwork today for the next 4 days so it’ll give us a little breathing room time to ourselves.

rosesintherain · May 2020

@robinj716 I told my husband he needs to go golfing. He loves to walk the golf course and he’s been getting so antsy at home (working from home and not being able to go anywhere but the grocery store). I told him he needs to go out once a week just to get out. Because he annoys me just sitting there with that look on his face like he needs to do something.

swizzlemalarkey · May 2020

@linz36 omg noooo that water bill!! Hopefully y’all can figure out a way to make it cheaper!

@raesky1111 sorry that your SO made you upset! I’m super sensitive with my H I feel like the littlest things hurt my feelings so I underhand !

@mflowers929 That’s crazy that they made you change it! Earlier in the month they weren’t providing masks so I brought my own (a fabric one) to my scan and they didn’t make me change it. That stinks! Also sorry you haven’t received your funds yet!! A lot of people I know are having issues here in the states too, I still haven’t gotten my stimulus and the site is giving me a hard time 🤦🏻‍♀️

raesky1111 · May 2020

Man fuck Canada. And on that note it sucks that the hospital makes you pay to have your ultrasound photos!! Mine has my phone number on file and do I her get a text that they've been uploaded onto the portal and I have 30 days to save them to my phone before they get deleted. I cannot imagine the heartbreak of not having those precious keepsakes ☹️

mflowers929 · May 2020

@greyl Yeah, it literally changed over the weekend. I wore my fabric mask on Friday for my AS, and then for my appointment on Monday they made me change it. It was weird, but whatever.
And since technically I applied for unemployment, they have up to 28 days. Which sucks since I was actually off for a month prior to applying. I just didn't apply earlier because I wasn't sure if I was going to be put off long term and it's not worth it to apply just for a 2 week period.

@raesky1111 yeah, it sucks this go around that we weren't able to get them, but we do have some from earlier in the pregnancy, and TBH I haven't looked at DSs since he was born since, ya know, I look at him every day lol

swizzlemalarkey · May 2020

@mflowers929 oh man I hope you get it soon!! And it’s crazy how fast the policies are changing, I kind of get why they would force the medical masks but at the same time there’s only so much those do anyway.

Also think it’s pretty odd that you’d have to pay for your photos. But I would take that over having to pay my insane insurance premiums and Deductible/OOP max 😂 oh and that killer maternity leave. But it’s a shitty time to make people pay for photos when so many people are out of work!!

mflowers929 · May 2020

28 days is coming up this week so if I don't have it reviewed by Wednesday I'll be calling. I'm getting really tired of waiting.

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