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TWW Tuesday 4/14

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Re: TWW Tuesday 4/14

  • edited April 2020

    Month/Cycle: 5/5

    CD/DPO: 21/5?

    Timing: -3, -2, O, +1

    Typical LP length: 12ish

    Testing: WFAF

    R/R: We had the craziest windstorm yesterday! Nearly blew over one of our little trees in our garden, and our fence almost blew over in 3 different spots! DH was anxious about it all day. Luckily nothing was too crazy, we were able to stake the tree and prop up the fence and will be able to fix it later. Now today it’s beautiful out!!

    CS/Q:



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  • Month/Cycle: 4/4

    CD/DPO: 26/10 or 11

    Timing: Good

    Typical LP length: 9-10

    Testing: Another BFN and temp below cover line, so I am 99% out

    R/R: I think this will be my last day over here. Feeling all the AF feels. My gut tells me its only 10dpo so if AF shows today my LP will be 9 again. I know it's only been 4 cycles and that isn't that many at my age (36) but I'm feeling pretty hopeless about our chances without intervention. DH and I got in a fight because he thinks I am being "doom and gloom" and I can't help but be resentful that he refused to start trying in the fall when I wanted to and now with the pandemic who knows when it will even be safe to go in for testing to try to figure out why my LP is so short or what else the problem could be. Overall just having a really rough time this morning between PMS and BFN.  

    CS/Q: Meh no point.

    *TTC History*

    Me: 37, MH: 38; Married August 2017

    TTC #1 October 2017: BFP on 12/1/2017, DD born 7/24/2018 @ 37+1 after induction due to preeclampsia

    TTC #2 January 2020: AMA, dx with DOR in May 2020

    IVF July 2020: 16 eggs retrieved, 14 mature, 12 fertilized, 3 blasts, 2 PGT-A normal

    FET 10/7/20: BFP on 10/12/20!!! (EDD 6/25/21); First beta 10/16/20 (9dpt): 148; Second beta 10/19/20 (12dpt): 621; Third beta 10/26/20 (19dpt): 4732; Fourth (and final!) beta 11/2/20 (26 dpt): 22,000+

  • @runningoncookies Yikes that is some crazy wind, glad nothing got damaged!
    *TTC History*

    Me: 37, MH: 38; Married August 2017

    TTC #1 October 2017: BFP on 12/1/2017, DD born 7/24/2018 @ 37+1 after induction due to preeclampsia

    TTC #2 January 2020: AMA, dx with DOR in May 2020

    IVF July 2020: 16 eggs retrieved, 14 mature, 12 fertilized, 3 blasts, 2 PGT-A normal

    FET 10/7/20: BFP on 10/12/20!!! (EDD 6/25/21); First beta 10/16/20 (9dpt): 148; Second beta 10/19/20 (12dpt): 621; Third beta 10/26/20 (19dpt): 4732; Fourth (and final!) beta 11/2/20 (26 dpt): 22,000+

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    @legallykate so sorry about the BFN 
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  • @stillcozy Thanks friend. I rationally know I need to get over myself but I am going to allow for a little pity party today.  <3
    *TTC History*

    Me: 37, MH: 38; Married August 2017

    TTC #1 October 2017: BFP on 12/1/2017, DD born 7/24/2018 @ 37+1 after induction due to preeclampsia

    TTC #2 January 2020: AMA, dx with DOR in May 2020

    IVF July 2020: 16 eggs retrieved, 14 mature, 12 fertilized, 3 blasts, 2 PGT-A normal

    FET 10/7/20: BFP on 10/12/20!!! (EDD 6/25/21); First beta 10/16/20 (9dpt): 148; Second beta 10/19/20 (12dpt): 621; Third beta 10/26/20 (19dpt): 4732; Fourth (and final!) beta 11/2/20 (26 dpt): 22,000+

  • @legallykate I'm so sorry friend for the BFN. Sending you virtual hugs 💕 sorry also that you and YH got into a fight. I've been there before with my DH too and him calling me a doom and gloom care bear. I hope AF doesnt show today so your LP will be longer then 9 days. I'm sorry girl that your having a really tough time this morning. Hang in there! take some time to relax today.. 
  • @legallykate I’m so sorry for the BFN, and I’m sorry you’re having a rough emotional day. Be kind to yourself ❤️ 
  • Month/Cycle: 6/4(AL) 

    CD/DPO: 28/10 

    Timing: -5(x2), -4, -2, -1, 0

    Typical LP Length: 10 days 

    Testing: Normally I don’t but for some reason I woke up and my gut was telling me too so I did. A BFN! Stark white.

    R/R: Well I guess I can add myself to the BFN club. 😢 I don’t know why I listened to myself and tested this AM. Now I’m sad and it ruined my day. That’s the prime reason why I never ever test. I’m supposed to get AF tomorrow but it’s weird cause it doesn’t really feel like it’s coming unless it’s coming late this month. 🤷‍♀️ All the symptoms I get for PMS haven’t really happened except for sore boobs which is weird. My temps are still up and haven’t dropped yet which is strange. I’m not going to over think it and read too much into this. Maybe my body is just off this cycle. I guess I’ll just WFAF at this point. Bleh 😖 

    CS/Q: None 

    @runningoncookies wow what a wind storm. Glad everything in your yard is ok. Glad it’s beautiful out today. 
  • Woke up to CD1. Cookie dough is acceptable for breakfast today right? hope to see none of you over in WTO. 

    Married 07.21.07
    DS#1 01.23.09
    DS#2 08.01.11
    TTC#3  08.31.15
    Laparoscopy/Hysteroscopy/HSG 05.16.17
    Hysteroscopy 10.04.17 10.05.17
    Laparoscopy/Hysteroscopy/HSG 01.10.19
    Left tube removed
    dx: Endometriosis, Adenomyosis
    BC: February-October 2019
    TTA: November-December 2019
    NTNP: January 2020!

  • @linzrunz sorry you work up to CD1. Hugs. yes cookie dough is def acceptable for breakfast and wine too lol 
  • @mindyb2019 Sorry for BFN, FX it is just to early if you have no AF signs and your temp is still up (plus all of your other weird sickness stuff).

    @linzrunz So sorry about AF. YES to cookie dough any time. I just got Chick-fil-A to cheer myself up. 
    *TTC History*

    Me: 37, MH: 38; Married August 2017

    TTC #1 October 2017: BFP on 12/1/2017, DD born 7/24/2018 @ 37+1 after induction due to preeclampsia

    TTC #2 January 2020: AMA, dx with DOR in May 2020

    IVF July 2020: 16 eggs retrieved, 14 mature, 12 fertilized, 3 blasts, 2 PGT-A normal

    FET 10/7/20: BFP on 10/12/20!!! (EDD 6/25/21); First beta 10/16/20 (9dpt): 148; Second beta 10/19/20 (12dpt): 621; Third beta 10/26/20 (19dpt): 4732; Fourth (and final!) beta 11/2/20 (26 dpt): 22,000+

  • @legallykate Thanks girl. It’s so weird with all the other symptoms I haven’t been having and my other sickness stuff.. FX it is just too early yet to detect it on a test. I guess we will see tomorrow if AF shows up. 
  • Month/Cycle: 23/17/7 (AL#2)

    CD/DPO: 30ish now I think.

    Timing: Meh...basically every 3 days.

    Typical LP length: 15-16 

    Testing: Probably tomorrow or Thursday to stop Progesterone.

    R/R: Been a busy and productive day today, which is good! The weather turned off cool today, but we still bundled up and got our walks in during breaks! I’m ready to just cuddle up on the couch this evening though! 

    CS/Q: None, stopped tracking early.

    @runningoncookies sorry for the windstorm...I’m sure that was stressful! Glad you were able to repair/brace all the issues it caused though! 

    @legallykate sorry for another BFN and the fight with YH! Sending hugs your way! 💜 I hope your LP hangs on another day or so! 

    @mindyb2019 sorry for the BFN, but fingers crossed it is just too early! The fact that you don’t have your usual AF symptoms sounds promising!

    @linzrunz sorry for CD1! Sending hugs your way...and I hope you enjoyed that cookie dough!! 💜

  • @mindyb2019 ugh sorry for the BFN! Hopefully it’s just too early!!

    @linzrunz breakfast cookie dough is 100% acceptable...sorry for CD1
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