TB won’t let me search to find a recent version of this, so I found this old version on the interwebs from TB circa 2015😆 I figured we could all use a judgment-free zone to whine about the current state of affairs!
1) Win - What's a small (or big) win you've had recently?
2) Wine - What's your favorite drink to have/make when you've had a hard day (doesn't have to be wine)?
3) Whine - What's your least favorite thing about life right now?
Re: Win/Wine/Whine Wednesday 4.8
Wine - Apple cider has been fantastic for boosting my mood or some reason lately. Yum
Whine - I have been trying really hard to just believe that the diet has been an issue this whole time and we will be successful on our own in a few months but my mind has thoughts creeping in that the idea is preposterous and I'm kidding myself. I'm also sick and tired of making a number of the same meals day after day lol. Need to work on getting some variety.
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC ended due to filing divorce
**New relationship starting May 2024**
Surprise BFP!! | 9.7.25 | EDD 5.11.26
2) Wine - What's your favorite drink to have/make when you've had a hard day (doesn't have to be wine)?
White hot cocoa mix my mom brought me back from London so yummy or vodka cranberry. I love cranberry juice
3) Whine - What's your least favorite thing about life right now?
I feel like I have cabin fever even though we get outside a lot. Also I just miss people. DH and I have not been getting along great this week I think for a lot of the reasons above.
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC ended due to filing divorce
**New relationship starting May 2024**
Surprise BFP!! | 9.7.25 | EDD 5.11.26
@stillcozy That's a huge win being able to find toilet paper right now!
1) Win - I'm coming up on my 100th day of yoga in a couple days! I'm so proud of myself. And I have increased my flexibility a TON! I could barely get to my ankles with my legs straight in front of me, and now I'm getting close to having my nose touch my knee.
2) Wine - I have a glass of hot chocolate every night before bed. It's so warm and soothing!
3) Whine - My coffee I'm drinking right now is kinda cold? I dunno. Despite everything going on, I don't have many complaints.
Married 07.21.07
DS#1 01.23.09
DS#2 08.01.11
TTC#3 08.31.15
Laparoscopy/Hysteroscopy/HSG 05.16.17
Hysteroscopy 10.04.17 10.05.17
Laparoscopy/Hysteroscopy/HSG 01.10.19
Left tube removed
dx: Endometriosis, Adenomyosis
BC: February-October 2019
TTA: November-December 2019
NTNP: January 2020!
@stillcozy I'm glad you've been giving yourself the time to clean the spaces that make your home feel like home. That's so important.
@linzrunz 100 days of yoga is awesome!! Keep it up! Movement is so important right now.
1) Win - I'm caught up on grad school work and my grades are awesome so far this term!
2) Wine - Guinness Extra Stout or rosè
3) Whine- I chose my paper topic for my ethical dilemma paper and it's really heavy. I keep reading the research and looking into the laws and it's hard to stay positive.
Married: 10.2018
DS #1: 06.2014
Hyperemesis Gravidarum (HG), Emergency C-Section
MC: 03.2017- 5 Weeks
Rainbow DS #2: 07.2018
HG, 19w Fetal Surgery, 24w PPROM, 33w Placental Abruption, Partial Uterine Rupture, Emergency C-Section
NICU, Chronic Kidney Disease
TTC #3: Medically Cleared 12.5.2019, had a bunch of problems and wonky cycles
BFP 10.13.2020 EDD: 6.26.2021
October 2020 TTGP Signature Challenge: Pets in Costumes
2) Wine - I love a good cup of black tea with milk and sugar, or some white or rose wine.
3) Whine - I hate having to send multiple emails to parents that their kids aren't completing the school work I am assigning. I'm sure they are all very stressed trying to work from home plus take care of their families and I hate adding to that stress. I miss going to the gym, the craft store, and my local ice cream places.
@linzrunz wow! 100 days of yoga! That’s incredible! What a feat!
2. Wine - a good ole fashioned cuppa. I used to hate tea and coffee (still hate coffee) before moving to the UK but now I can barely live without my daily cup of tea
3. Whine - my body’s sleep schedule. So. Tired.
Due: 6 Nov 2021
@stillcozy I've gotten so obsessed with keeping the house clean since I'm inside all day! It's like the one thing I have control over.
@linzrunz Wow 100 days of yoga! I've been practicing for years but it's been a long time since I was committed to really practicing every day. Good for you, you must feel amazing!
@ashaislurking Congrats on your grades!
1) Win - What's a small (or big) win you've had recently? Hmm well I made some banana bread that was good and actually did the online yoga class I was planning to do last night, all the way thru instead of stopping 45 minutes in the way I have been lately. Pretty small wins lately!
2) Wine - What's your fzvorite drink to have/make when you've had a hard day (doesn't have to be wine)? I do like a glass of wine at the end of the day! Red when it's cold and rose in the spring/summer. Or this "relax" tea with chamomile and licorice in it.
3) Whine - What's your least favorite thing about life right now? Worrying about SO and my family re: Covid! The economic issues as well as the health ones.
2) Wine - What's your favorite drink to have/make when you've had a hard day (doesn't have to be wine)? Before nonstop TTC, my go-to was white wine: Riesling, Sauvignon Blanc, or Pinot Gris. Now it’s tea.
3) Whine - What's your least favorite thing about life right now? We are on week 3.5 of taking stay-at-home & isolation super seriously. Others are not. Beyond infuriating.