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Month/Cycle:
CD/DPO:
Timing:
Typical LP length:
Testing:
R/R:
CS/Q:
Re: TWW Tuesday 4/7
Month/Cycle: 16/18 including 2 benched
CD/DPO: 25/8
Timing: -4,-2,-1,O
Typical LP length: 12
Testing: Later this week
R/R: ugh it’s only Tuesday?? Yesterday felt about a week long 😂. Hoping for a faster day today but I don’t want to get out of bed! We’re supposed to get bad storms today which always makes me uneasy when DH isn’t home. But I’m sure it will be fine, they never really get too bad here (knock on wood). Have a great day everyone!
CS/Q:
Month/Cycle: 4/4
CD/DPO: 19/4 (FF and Femometer and Ava now all say O was on Friday and not Saturday so I am going with it, even though it makes our BD timing worse
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Timing: -5, -4, -2, O, +1
Typical LP length: 9-10
Testing: Still waiting for 4/14
R/R: I started yesterday in such a good mood but by the end of the day everything was seriously irritating me. Hoping for a better day today. We did finally get a much needed grocery delivery yesterday and DH is going to make something yummy for dinner tonight (either meatloaf or chicken with bacon and mushrooms) so at least I have that to look forward to!
CS/Q:
Me: 37, MH: 38; Married August 2017
TTC #1 October 2017: BFP on 12/1/2017, DD born 7/24/2018 @ 37+1 after induction due to preeclampsia
TTC #2 January 2020: AMA, dx with DOR in May 2020
IVF July 2020: 16 eggs retrieved, 14 mature, 12 fertilized, 3 blasts, 2 PGT-A normal
FET 10/7/20: BFP on 10/12/20!!! (EDD 6/25/21); First beta 10/16/20 (9dpt): 148; Second beta 10/19/20 (12dpt): 621; Third beta 10/26/20 (19dpt): 4732; Fourth (and final!) beta 11/2/20 (26 dpt): 22,000+
@bows22 yesterday did feel like a week long 😂. I’m sorry you are supposed to have bad storms today. Hope everything is fine and they aren’t bad!
@legallykate your timing is still pretty good. I hate when I shifts! Sorry you had a difficult day emotionally yesterday and hope today is better
those dinners sound awesome and yummy!
Month/Cycle: 6/10
CD/DPO: 26/8
Timing: -4,-2,0 so not great
Typical LP length: still regulating
Testing: idk trying not to test too early maybe this weekend or early next week. I’m not feeling real hopeful about this cycle and just want to spare myself tearing woes
R/R: It is a rainy day here and 3 of my 5 clients cancelled today ugh. I’m trying to just focus on that I get more time to relax tonight which is nice. I’m thinking of making smothered grilled chicken breasts with mushrooms and onions and maybe trying my hand at baking bread this afternoon. I have always wanted to try and found my yeast packets. Have any of you made bread before and have advice for a beginner?
CS/Q:
CD/DPO: 21/3
Timing: -5(x2), -4, -2, -1, 0
Typical LP Length: 9-10 days
Testing: Nope
R/R: I'm trying to stay hopeful about this cycle despite what the doctor said to me yesterday. I have another blood test I have to go have early this morning before work. My DH and I started watching a few episodes of Tiger king. It was alright. Wasn't a bad show. I thought it was interesting, but I just dont understand the whole big hype about it??
CS/Q: none
@stillcozy sorry its raining and that lost of the clients cancelled today. Mmm.. your dinner sounds delicious. I love chicken with mushrooms. I love the smell of fresh bread. Yes, I've made bread before a few times. I cant really give you much advice as my bread usually turns out too dense lol. GL.
@legallykate sorry that your were irritated by the end of the day yesterday. I hate when that happens. Glad you were able to get some groceries. MMM meatloaf sounds sounds soo good. I hope you enjoy it. Hope you have a better day today.
@bows22 I agree. Yesterday did feel a week long haha it felt never ending 😆 ugh, I dont like storms either when my hubby is around. I hope it doesnt get that bad for you. Enjoy your day.
@stillcozy I actually think your timing is great still! Spermies live for up to 5 days and doctors actually recommend HIO EOD because it helps the man build his supply back up for stronger swimmers.
@mindyb2019 I think the big hype is that these people are insane rednecks and the things they do and get away with is CRAZY!!!
BFP: 10/27/2011 | EDD: 6/30/12
DS born 6/28/12 via C/S
TTC #2: September 2018
Me: 36 | DH: 39
Mirena removed 9/13/2018 after 6 years
BFP 11/11/2018 | MC @ 5.5 weeks on Thanksgiving
July 2019 - Diagnosed with Secondary Unexplained IF
August 2019 - 2.5 mg of Letrozole = Never Ovulated so Trigger and IUI were cancelled
9/30/2019 - IUI #1 (5 mg of Letrozole + Trigger) = BFP but Betas showed CP @ 4 weeks
10/28/2019 - IUI #2 (7.5mg of Letrozole + Trigger) = BFN
11/25/2019 - IUI #3 (7.5mg of Letrozole, Trigger + Crinone after IUI) = BFN
12/24/2019 - IUI #4 (7.5mg of Letrozole + Crinone after IUI) = BFN
1/24/2020 - IUI #5 (50mg of Clomid + Trigger + Crinone after IUI) = BFN and an Ovarian Cyst
3/2/2020 - Taking a break to reset/NTNP
11/1/2020 - At peace with where things are in life and are no long actively TTC. Whatever happens will happen and it will all be okay.
Month/Cycle: Jan 2018
CD/DPO: 10 / 2 - Short cycle this month I guess. Confirmed by both temping and an OPK so I am reasonably sure this is right, but will keep checking.
Timing: -2, 0
Typical LP length: 14 days
Testing: not for awhile.
R/R: I was able to hire someone to do the landscaping at our house - I am SO excited. I figure it should be safe, since he'll be outside, and we'll stay in. DH and I are both essential - My pay will end up cut by about 30% but he just got a 50% raise from switching jobs back in Dec, so we'll be okay. And I know we are helping a local family ride this out until unemployment / stimulus hits in a couple weeks.
CS/Q: Nope.@mindyb2019 I haven't seen it yet. I read the description and it seems... disturbing.
@legallykate We were able to get a wal-mart to-go last friday! We have also been doing "Dinnerly.com" one of the food delivery services. Honestly - it's the only way we got meat for a couple of weeks. We also love "misfits market" - we've done it for about a year!
@bows22 We got nasty storms last week. It wrecked our back yard, and we are still trying to repair some structural damage to a few things. Not the house, thank goodness.
@stillcozy Our timing is the same, so I am hoping it works for you... Lol!
@kpearse99 I am so burnt out from work right now. It's been crazy
CD/DPO: 20 something...
Timing: Meh...basically every 3 days.
Typical LP length: 15-16
Testing: Probably around 4/16 to stop Progesterone.
R/R: Happy Tuesday!! Hope everyone is having a great day so far! All good here...work has been busy, but passing the time fairly quickly! Happy that we have nice weather again today before rain hits!
CS/Q: None, stopped tracking early.
@legallykate I hope you have a better day today! Do you have any self care planned for today? Might be something you need to do. Hang in there!
@stillcozy I've never made homemade bread before, but I've been craving it so bad lately! All the baking stuff at our grocery stores are out, so I haven't even been able to buy stuff to do it. Hope it turns out good! Let us know!
@mindyb2019 Tiger King is one of those shows that is such a trainwreck you think it can't get any worse, and then it does. The memes that came out of it are hilarious. So sorry about the news about your doc appt yesterday. I hope you an navigate those emotions and come out of it stronger. You've got this friend!
@the_road_to_oz That is a short cycle! Do you usually O that early? And yay for hiring someone to do the landscaping! We did that last summer to help clean up our backyard and it was so nice to have someone else do all the work.
@bluetickgal Yay for a good day and some good weather! Hope you can take advantage of it as best you can right now before the rain comes.
Month/Cycle: 3/3 after 3 years during round 1
CD/DPO: 29/3
Timing: -2, -1, 0
Typical LP length: unsure
Testing: nope nope nope
R/R: My doctor emailed yesterday about my weird TMI thing I asked about yesterday. She said we could do a blood test to check hormones, but since it's not an emergency I should wait a couple weeks to go in and do it. She didn't seem too concerned about it, but I am. I'm just nervous my hormones are screwed up (especially since I O'ed so late this cycle) and since we have a time limit on how much longer we're going to try before I schedule a hysterectomy, every cycle counts. But I overthink and over worry about EVERYTHING, so there's that.
CS/Q: nope
Married 07.21.07
DS#1 01.23.09
DS#2 08.01.11
TTC#3 08.31.15
Laparoscopy/Hysteroscopy/HSG 05.16.17
Hysteroscopy 10.04.17 10.05.17
Laparoscopy/Hysteroscopy/HSG 01.10.19
Left tube removed
dx: Endometriosis, Adenomyosis
BC: February-October 2019
TTA: November-December 2019
NTNP: January 2020!
@m@mindyb2019 ive heard it gets better, but I refuse to watch it myself haha. I hope this next blood test goes well!
@k@kpearse99 glad I’m not the only one who felt like it should be later in the week than it is!
@t@the_road_to_oz i am hoping to get some people out here to give us quotes on leveling our yard and I thought the same about them being outside....but what if they have to use the bathroom ugh. I’m glad you were able to get someone to come though. MH and I are both still working, we haven’t heard anything about pay cuts yet but I’m worried that it’s coming. We will be okay too but I don’t want less money haha.
@linzrunz a lot of deadlines are being extended due to covid, so you could always push yours back too 🙂. I’m kidding, but I’m sorry you have to wait to get tested. I know it’s for the best but so frustrating for that kind of stuff to be on hold
Basically. I give up.
I was supposed to start clomid this month but.... the world ended. lol.
I'm sorry you are dealing with the chaos on top of the deadline. That's an extra strain for sure.
@bows22 He's our neighbor (well, within a couple of miles) my assumption is - he'd run home! LOL!
@linzrunz It is kinda a train wreck lol. Aww, thanks friend. 🥰 I will be ok and it will make me that much stronger. Just another bump in the road.
@bluetickgal thanks girlie! I’m trying to stay positive and optimistic. Your damn right I got this 👍 Im determined so it will happen. hahah good it’s not just me that doesn’t understand the fascination.
@bows22 yay for no storms! I’ll use my magic wand and slow time down a bit for you, but still make it seem like the day is flying by!! Hope it works!! 😉