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Re: TWW Wednesday 4/1
Month/Cycle: 9/3
CD/DPO: 27/10
Timing: -3,-2,-1,0, +1
Typical LP length: 🤷🏻♀️
Testing: In two days! 12DPO
R/R: Im falling out of my optimism and into pessimism thinking that it’s not our month. But who knows moodiness is a sign of PMS and early pregnancy haha. Despite what’s going on in the work I still do want this more than anything! Today will be another work day which is a blessing and a curse because it keeps me busy but also slightly stressed out
CS/Q:
Month/Cycle: 9/9
CD/DPO: NTNP/1?
Timing: surprisingly good amidst all the chaos
Typical LP length: 12
Testing: WFAF
R/R. The sellers of the house removed the filter under the kitchen sink and turned off the water. All of our attempts to fix it resulted in soaking wet clothes and kitchen. We contacted our agent to contact them and they are not responding. DH and I figured out how to get cold water after an hour of messing with it, but still no hot water. So we need to get someone out here to fix it. Our dog is not sleeping at night in the new house, so I also didn't get much sleep. He wants to be in the bean bag chair downstairs. I am of the mind that I will sleep on the couch and he can sleep on that until our new bed comes in. DH wants us all together and then no one sleeps. Practice for the future hopefully?
@tryingktogku. Thank you for your amazing work. I know it has been stressful for you and your TTC journey. I appreciate your dedication to your work!! Also fingers crossed for good news for you this week.
@tryingktogku - Stay safe today! Hoping this is your cycle and that they get you out of that unit ASAP!
@dobiemom11 - Ughh that's so frustrating! I hope you are able to get someone out there to fix it soon and that your pup adjusts quickly!
Month/Cycle: 21
CD/DPO: 27 / 7dp5dt
Timing: as good as it's going to get
Typical LP length: medicated cycle
Testing: HPT 4/5
R/R: I can't believe my transfer was a whole week ago already. The days go by so slow, but for some reason the week seems to fly by! Going to try do get some work done today, and I also need to contact some landscapers about mulching our front hill. Last year we couldn't get on any landscapers schedule, so hoping for better luck this year.
CS/Q: Nope
Month/Cycle: 6/10
CD/DPO: 20/3
Timing: -4-3-2-1, +1
Typical LP length: who knows
Testing: not for a long time
R/R: TW death mentioned
CS/Q: no crosshairs doesn’t mattr
@tryingktogku fingers and toes crossed for you for this cycle! esp given your work environment
@dobiemom11 good luck getting in touch with previous owner. they usually fall off right after everything goes through, but hopefully you have a better outcome!
@feather_heather mulching is the worst!! we just did part of our front yard last week--DH didnt want to pay our landscaper for that
@allthingscozy so very sorry for your loss, and the sucky timing of it all
Month/Cycle: 3/2
CD/DPO: 25/11
Timing: -1
Typical LP length: tbd
Testing: an expected BFN this morning. will test again friday?
R/R: awaiting our gas company's arrival because heat has been out for two days. i had an appt scheduled for yesterday, and they call prior to arrival on site. they asked if we had any heat and i said yes (because im using a space heater in bedroom), to which they said that the state utility board isnt allowing them to enter homes if there is heat. DH was furious that i didnt just lie (im terrible with these things over the phone), so i made a new appointment for today. when they call today i will be a good wife and lie
@tryingktogku and @feather_heather fingers crossed for both of you testing this week!
@dobiemom11 ugh that sounds so frustrating- can you temporarily move the bean bag chair upstairs?
@allthingscozy I'm so sorry for your loss. Don't beat yourself up though about still caring about TTGP! I think we're all probably dealing with that guilt to some extent right now, with how much crazy stuff is happening in the world right now... sometimes it feels crazy to care about anything at all other than the bad, but TTGP is a pretty powerful act of hope and optimism and that's kind of a small victory in-and-of itself.
Month/Cycle: 1/1
CD/DPO: 34/13
Timing: -1, 0, +1
Typical LP length: 12-14 (still figuring it out)
Testing: Out for this cycle... at what point exactly am I supposed to move over to WTO? I haven't gotten my period yet but I know it's coming.
R/R: Bleh... it's a cloudy, cool day here today, everything is covered in pollen, and I just want to go back to bed.
CS/Q: Nope.
@the_most_happy you move over on CD 1 (the first day of your period) and if you haven’t tested yet don’t give up hope often PMS and pre pregnancy symptoms are very similar
@tryingktogku - I had twinge-like cramps Monday night and on and off all day yesterday, but nothing today. Other than that not really feeling any different than usual!
@tryingktogku have a good day at work! Stay safe!
@dobiemom11 oh no I hope you can get in touch with the sellers. How annoying.
@feather_heather we want to get some quotes on leveling our yard and I’m worried about being able to get someone out here too. I’m hoping they are allowed to do that kind of work since it’s mostly outside? Let me know what luck you have.
@allthingscozy oh my gosh I’m so sorry for your loss. That’s so awful. Thinking of you ❤️
@asf0613 sorry for the BFN!
@the_most_happy typically we go over to WTO once AF arrives
I took about 3 hours to post this so I’m sure there are going to be people I missed. Will be back soon!
Month/Cycle: 16/18 including 2 benched
CD/DPO: 19/2
Timing: -4,-2,-1,O
Typical LP length: 12
Testing: I’ve been having a drink pretty much every night so I don’t foresee myself holding out on testing for too long
R/R: We were a little slow to start this FW but ended up with good timing. We planned to get +1 in but neither of us were really into it so we decided to skip last night. Oh well. Work is getting crazy with helping clients apply for disaster relief loans, etc. It’s a little overwhelming wanting to make sure all of our clients are taken care of. We have a firmwide call this morning where we will make a plan so hopefully I’ll feel less stressed after that.
CS/Q:
@bows22 good luck with work! im sure this adds just a whole new layer not only trying to make sure you yourself are covered but also your clients!
@the_most_happy sorry you are out this cycle. Also thank you so much for your kind words they mean a lot!
@bluetickgal thanks so much ❤️