<img src="https://us.v-cdn.net/5020794/uploads/editor/y9/btgox6f3wy22.gif" alt=""> What did you find helpful to stock up on? What would you wait and see if you need?
So I'm a clueless FTM with too much time on her hands right now, so I've been watching Youtube videos of what people have used postpartum (in addition to other baby related topics). I've heard that the mesh underwear you get at the hospital are either a) amazing or b) awful at holding all the stuff in. Some people were recommending Depends, I guess because they're big and stretchy and absorbent?
Since none of us really know how our births will go (unless you're having a scheduled c-section), does it make sense to have some things on hand at home for both types of recovery? Not that I know what that would even be lol.
I swore by depends ESPECIALLY at night time. I also had little control over my bladder for about a week after. (Eta which no one warned me was a thing. It was like my muscles were traumatized and I couldn’t hold anything. I had to use the bathroom every hour whether I felt I needed to go or not) I will 100% be buying them again.
I also used dermoplast (do NOT buy antibacterial!) and hernia wipes. (Witch hazel) We have a bidet hose and I swore by that as well. I hated toilet paper. A lot of women use a squirt bottle.
I personally did not like the ice packs.
Otherwise having someone (I had my mom and my husband) so I could sleep was more beneficial than any of the above.
Eta. I had an awful (allergic?) reaction to always pads. I had to invest in organic all natural. I had only ever used always and I can now use always again but be aware your body may not like what it usually does.
TTC1: May 2015
Primary IF May 2016; Failed HSG; Scheduled Lap Sept. 2016
Everything I had, I used. My birth center gave me two extra pairs of depends-type underwear (in addition to the pair I wore home) and four or five huge pads. I wore one pair of underwear a day with a big pad inside. I did not like disposable underwear. After going through what they gave me, I switched to my normal underwear with pads.
-Pads. I bought three types: some size 3, some size 5 and some overnight regular ones. I used very few size 5 and not a lot of size 3 either. In fact, I never bought another pack of either for D2, and I'm not buying any more 5's for this baby either. Don't stock up on tons of huge pads. Within about 1.5 weeks, I was down to needing just regular period maxi pads (plus some extra long ones for overnight). I should have bought more of those! You'll probably need pantiliners for a little while, too. -Earth Mama bottom balm and bottom tea. I really liked both of these and used them a ton. I made padsicles with the excess tea after using the pack itself, but I didn't really use them at all. I also had Earth Mama nipple butter, but I didn't use it much. -Arnica. This is a homeopathic remedy for bruising and muscle soreness. It really does help! -Peri bottle. I was given this at the birth center. It helps a lot!
General tips -WIIINGGS are your friend! They keep the pad from scrunching up between your legs. I won't buy any pads without wings. -I never used stool softeners. If necessary, I planned to take magnesium, but I never needed it. TMI, but I just took my time, didn't push hard and just let it come. -I had a second-degree tear with D1 and a first-degree with D2. I had stitches with both. My midwives recommended not looking at myself with a mirror for a few days, haha! I think I did on the third day. It honestly didn't look that bad, but I'm also not overly squeamish.
I liked Kotex brand pads i used a few depends after the mesh undies ran out witch hazel pads extra peri bottle for the different bathrooms stool softener disposable breast pads (overnight and daytime) for the first few weeks then bamboobies once my supply regulated during the day then disposable ones at night (they stayed put better) a sleep nursing bra advil
I used ice packs in the hospital, but didn't have any at home. I did order some Frida 2-in-1 postpartum instant ice maxi pads for my SIL, though, that I wouldn't mind trying out this time around.
So, I'm going to speak from the C section perspective since I've never had a vaginal birth.
Colace-- that first bowel movement is scary A belly binder, eliminates the need for a pillow on your stomach and support ls everything. Overnight pads-- sitting down for the toilet is hard the first few days, so extra long protection from the bleeding is super helpful. Ibuprofen Heating pad-- sometimes your back muscles will lock up since your abs arent doing a lot to help support your body. Loose fitting pants/shorts High waisted underwear This isnt a supply you can buy but is the most important thing: walk around as much as possible. The more you do it, the better you will feel and the faster you heal, seems counterintuitive, but I promise it works.
ALSO, I wanted to add this last night, but couldn't remember the name of the brand. I keep seeing Nyssa Care postpartum underwear pop up on my Instagram feed, and I think I'm going to check them out. These undies have openings that accommodate a heat or ice pack in the vaginal area and can be used for cesarean mamas as well! Does anyone have any experience with this brand? Here is the link!
Maybe there will be another place that talks about this, but if you are planning on nursing get some kind of nipple cream (I use lanolin) and apply it generously after every nursing! I feel like since it goes on us, it can go in this thread!
If you plan on pumping, a pumping bra will save you a lot of frustration. Also with that, it's nice to have extra pump parts so you aren't constantly cleaning after pumping. I would take a cooler stuffed with ice packs to bed with me every night and whatever I pumped overnight I would store there until the morning so I would recommend those additional supplies.
I've heard the Warmies stuffed animal heating pad is really nice for CS mama's since it is weighted. Like someone else noted, a weighted pillow would do the same to provide support when you cough or move but the heating aspect is an additional benefit!
Not necessariliy "supplies", but having frozen pre-cooked meat made dinner and lunch really easy in the beginning. Pull out a bag of shredded pork - BBQ sandwiches. Pull out a bag of ground beef - tacos.
A freezer meal thread might be good to have at some point! I'm hoping to get suggestions on meals that are prepared and frozen ahead of time but aren't actually cooked. So you pull it out of the freezer and then stick it in the oven. My H is a bit particular and doesn't like the results of cooked, frozen and reheated food.
Last time, my mom made us mini meatloaves. So they were mixed up, formed, frozen on a cooling rack (so they wouldn't be as difficult to pry off as if they were on a baking sheet), and then put in gallon freezer bags. So then, I just had to turn on the oven, pull as many as I wanted out of the bag, and put them in a pan.
Depends are awesome as are Always Infinity pads with wings for post-partum bleeding. Grab as many mesh panties as they’ll allow you when you leave the hospital- those things are gold! The peri bottle with warm water plus this spray were life changing. Also, stay on top of your stool softeners! Really important.
I had a little basket next to my master bathroom toilet with all my postpartum bathroom supplies in one place. It really helped. Pro tip- empty the trash can daily. 🤢
Ooh the spray @babytimeagain mentioned is on sale at the Earth Mama website ... actually everything in the site is 20% right now. FTM but instagram gives me all the good info 😂
For nursing: -the Medela Soothing Gel pads were a freaking life saver. I plan to have several packs on hand this time around. They help heal your nipple really well and quickly when they are cracked and bleeding. -A hands free bumping bra was another life saver. Whether you are at home or working, it's great to have your hands free while your pumping. When I returned to work, I never worked while I pumped. I've heard of some women doing that and that just was not something important for me. I wanted to focus on pumping and being relaxed as possible. I also heard watching videos of you LO is also helpful to do while pumping. -i did use a nipple cream, mainly after my pumping session, and that also helped the healing process of my nipples - I loved reusable nursing pads. They just felt great on my nipples and I didn't feel like I was throwing money away with the disposals pads
Delivery: - I plan to ask every single nurse I see during my stay at the hospital for the dermoplast spray. Especially after having my vagina cut, it felt so good to spay that stuff on my vagina. -combine the dermoplast spray with the peri bottle and I felt good food immediately after going to the bath. I barely wiped as well. I used the peri bottle to rinse myself and then i gently pat myself dry. -I plan to buy some type of diaper type thing this time around. I felt like the full coverage under, which I don't wear at all, with a pad, was just messy. I didn't bleed for long, but then was always blood everywhere. -I also plan on making an ice pad or whatever they are called for my vagina before hand. I think that would be extremely helpful.
I second the colace. It makes pooping so much better.
I feel like I wrote all of this somewhere on this board, so ignore me if I'm repeating myself.
Married: August 2012
TTC #1: July 2015
BFP 1: October 30, 2015; EDD: July 6, 2016- Team Pink
I love this thread! @coldlife I'd love a freezer meal thread and would also love ideas for what snacks/food are good to have on hand for quick meals when nursing since I've heard you can get really hungry. Did anyone make lactation cookies?
I don't think we are going to have a nursing specific thread (we had one about pumping), but I'm starting to think about what kind of nursing pillows folks recommend. I've had some friends say they were fine with just regular pillows and others who have sworn by having something nursing specific.
I made lactation cookies! @rivercitynik I bought all the special ingredients to make them for my bff actually, and so I still had plenty on hand to keep making more. The things I remember jumping out at me were the flax meal, Brewers yeast, and whole wheat flour (that's probably the only thing I need to get more of). There's lots of versions out there, but I think those first two ingredients are a couple of the big commonalities you'll see between most of the recipes. And then you can vary as needed.
Re: Postpartum Supplies
Since none of us really know how our births will go (unless you're having a scheduled c-section), does it make sense to have some things on hand at home for both types of recovery? Not that I know what that would even be lol.
We have a bidet hose and I swore by that as well. I hated toilet paper. A lot of women use a squirt bottle.
and my husband) so I could sleep was more beneficial than any of the above.
-Pads. I bought three types: some size 3, some size 5 and some overnight regular ones. I used very few size 5 and not a lot of size 3 either. In fact, I never bought another pack of either for D2, and I'm not buying any more 5's for this baby either. Don't stock up on tons of huge pads. Within about 1.5 weeks, I was down to needing just regular period maxi pads (plus some extra long ones for overnight). I should have bought more of those! You'll probably need pantiliners for a little while, too.
-Earth Mama bottom balm and bottom tea. I really liked both of these and used them a ton. I made padsicles with the excess tea after using the pack itself, but I didn't really use them at all. I also had Earth Mama nipple butter, but I didn't use it much.
-Arnica. This is a homeopathic remedy for bruising and muscle soreness. It really does help!
-Peri bottle. I was given this at the birth center. It helps a lot!
General tips
-WIIINGGS are your friend! They keep the pad from scrunching up between your legs. I won't buy any pads without wings.
-I never used stool softeners. If necessary, I planned to take magnesium, but I never needed it. TMI, but I just took my time, didn't push hard and just let it come.
-I had a second-degree tear with D1 and a first-degree with D2. I had stitches with both. My midwives recommended not looking at myself with a mirror for a few days, haha! I think I did on the third day. It honestly didn't look that bad, but I'm also not overly squeamish.
Kotex brand pads
i used a few depends after the mesh undies ran out
witch hazel pads
extra peri bottle for the different bathrooms
stool softener
disposable breast pads (overnight and daytime) for the first few weeks then bamboobies once my supply regulated during the day then disposable ones at night (they stayed put better)
a sleep nursing bra
advil
Craft Blog
- Sitz bath soak
- Witch hazel pads
- Nursing pads
- Peri-botle
- Colace
- Dermoplast
I used ice packs in the hospital, but didn't have any at home. I did order some Frida 2-in-1 postpartum instant ice maxi pads for my SIL, though, that I wouldn't mind trying out this time around.
Colace-- that first bowel movement is scary
A belly binder, eliminates the need for a pillow on your stomach and support ls everything.
Overnight pads-- sitting down for the toilet is hard the first few days, so extra long protection from the bleeding is super helpful.
Ibuprofen
Heating pad-- sometimes your back muscles will lock up since your abs arent doing a lot to help support your body.
Loose fitting pants/shorts
High waisted underwear
This isnt a supply you can buy but is the most important thing: walk around as much as possible. The more you do it, the better you will feel and the faster you heal, seems counterintuitive, but I promise it works.
I will add more if I think of any others.
I've heard the Warmies stuffed animal heating pad is really nice for CS mama's since it is weighted. Like someone else noted, a weighted pillow would do the same to provide support when you cough or move but the heating aspect is an additional benefit!
Not necessariliy "supplies", but having frozen pre-cooked meat made dinner and lunch really easy in the beginning. Pull out a bag of shredded pork - BBQ sandwiches. Pull out a bag of ground beef - tacos.
Last time, my mom made us mini meatloaves. So they were mixed up, formed, frozen on a cooling rack (so they wouldn't be as difficult to pry off as if they were on a baking sheet), and then put in gallon freezer bags. So then, I just had to turn on the oven, pull as many as I wanted out of the bag, and put them in a pan.
https://www.amazon.com/Earth-Mama-Perineal-Pregnancy-Postpartum/dp/B0065ZTKWS
I had a little basket next to my master bathroom toilet with all my postpartum bathroom supplies in one place. It really helped. Pro tip- empty the trash can daily. 🤢
-the Medela Soothing Gel pads were a freaking life saver. I plan to have several packs on hand this time around. They help heal your nipple really well and quickly when they are cracked and bleeding.
-A hands free bumping bra was another life saver. Whether you are at home or working, it's great to have your hands free while your pumping. When I returned to work, I never worked while I pumped. I've heard of some women doing that and that just was not something important for me. I wanted to focus on pumping and being relaxed as possible. I also heard watching videos of you LO is also helpful to do while pumping.
-i did use a nipple cream, mainly after my pumping session, and that also helped the healing process of my nipples
- I loved reusable nursing pads. They just felt great on my nipples and I didn't feel like I was throwing money away with the disposals pads
Delivery:
- I plan to ask every single nurse I see during my stay at the hospital for the dermoplast spray. Especially after having my vagina cut, it felt so good to spay that stuff on my vagina.
-combine the dermoplast spray with the peri bottle and I felt good food immediately after going to the bath. I barely wiped as well. I used the peri bottle to rinse myself and then i gently pat myself dry.
-I plan to buy some type of diaper type thing this time around. I felt like the full coverage under, which I don't wear at all, with a pad, was just messy. I didn't bleed for long, but then was always blood everywhere.
-I also plan on making an ice pad or whatever they are called for my vagina before hand. I think that would be extremely helpful.
I second the colace. It makes pooping so much better.
I feel like I wrote all of this somewhere on this board, so ignore me if I'm repeating myself.
I don't think we are going to have a nursing specific thread (we had one about pumping), but I'm starting to think about what kind of nursing pillows folks recommend. I've had some friends say they were fine with just regular pillows and others who have sworn by having something nursing specific.