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TWW Thursday 3/12

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Re: TWW Thursday 3/12

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  • @bows22 sorry for the BFN 😕 you are 100% allowed to have a pity party! Hopefully your tests will change AND your trip won’t be cancelled. 

    @legallykate sorry you didn’t sleep we’ll! 

    Month/Cycle: 4/4

    CD/DPO: 25/3

    Timing: -4, -2, -1, +1

    Typical LP length: 12ish

    Testing: holding out for a while

    R/R: I have meetings allll day today, which means I won’t get to provide therapy to any of my kiddos at school. Sometimes these full days of meetings are okay, but other days I just feel like I could/should be doing so much more during my time at work. And seeing my kids would actually be useful, whereas I’m not necessarily needed in these meetings. Oh well! My district is also starting to put together a plan for if the need arises for us to close for coronavirus. This has all gotten so crazy!

    CS/Q: Got my CH’s today! My chart for this cycle is so much easier to read than last cycle, which makes me happy.


  • Month/Cycle: 22/16/6 AL#2

    CD/DPO: 30/13

    Timing: Pretty good.

    Typical LP length: 15-16 (doesn’t matter with progesterone).

    Testing: Shooting for 15DPO to stop progesterone if necessary.

    R/R: Happy day before Friday!! This week has been going somewhat slow, but tomorrow is Friday...so we have almost made it to the weekend! All the Coronavirus stuff is a bit scary...it’s become so widespread now! Hope we can all stay healthy!! I’ve got a lovely headache this morning, so I’m hoping that goes away soon!! Also, November...


    @bows22 ugh...so sorry, my friend!! 💜 I was (and still am) hoping with everything in me that this was/is your month!! Do something nice for yourself today!! I really hope you get a better result tomorrow morning, I feel like there’s still a chance!

    @legallykate sorry you didn’t sleep well...hopefully you can watch something calming tonight and sleep much better! Hopefully FF gets its act together and gives you CH’s soon! 
    @runningoncookies sorry you have meetings all day, that stinks to not be able to meet with your kids! That’s good they are putting a plan in place for possible closure, sounds like they are doing the same around here too! It really is crazy...I hope all the precautions hope to get this thing under control!! 
  • Month/Cycle: 8/8

    CD/DPO: 26/11

    Timing: okay

    Typical LP length: 11-13 

    Testing: AF is coming tomorrow

    R/R:. Time change is just kicking my butt this week.  My mom is coming for the weekend and that means a bunch more early mornings.  She does not sleep in.  I have Monday off, but a bunch of appointments.  Just trying to make it to going home time and PJs.  Also probably wine- normally don't drink but AF can get a girl down!

    @bows22. Sending tons of love today!  Hoping tomorrow looks better for you!  When is your trip to Disney?  I know a lot of places are trying to balance the business and the health concerns. Maybe they will stay open and it will be smaller crowds. 

    @legallykate My MIL watches the 6 hour Pride and Prejudice every night while falling asleep.  She is literally asleep before the opening credits finish every night.  Much better than the news!

    @bluetickgal and @runningoncookies All this virus excitement is a bit scary.  Hopefully it will calm down soon.  My MIL texted me about making sure we have enough food for a couple weeks.  My sister has stockpiled an insane amount of food.   

  • @bows. I’m so sorry for the BFN. Crossing my fingers for you that it is just a bit early still/you had a later implantation. 
    @legallykate sorry you didn’t sleep well. 🙁 I definitely agree you should turn off that 24 hour news cycle. When I was in grad school, studying national security, I made the same mistake during the chaos of the Boston marathon bombing. I watched it unfold all day and all night and left it on when I was sleeping and I literally wound up dreaming that I lived there and the shooter wound up hiding in my house. 😶 I hope you get better sleep tonight and that you get crosshairs soon! 
    @runningoncookies yay for crosshairs! Sorry for the day full of meetings. I hope that the day goes quickly and you’re able to be productive with kiddos tomorrow. 
    @bluetickgal I hope your headache goes away soon! And I’m right there with you, already excited for Friday! Lol
    @dobiemom11 ugh, my mom is the same! She is also the complete opposite of me in that she can never sit still.... she’s always doing something.... while I just enjoy my chill time more. 
  • @legallykate thanks! So I did splurge on some concert tickets a few days ago as pick me up but stuff is starting to get cancelled around here so I don’t know if it will happen. It’s hard for me to get my hopes up about anything that involves leaving the house! I know it’s for the greater good though. I agree with you about FF - have you tried discarding any of those high temps?

    @runningoncookies my company is actually starting to think about a plan too! That’s how you know it’s bad. We plan for nothing. Things are getting crazy but I like plans. Yay for CHs!

    @bluetickgal thanks friend! I know, since I’m not temping I don’t technically know when I ovulated so part of me is like...maybe I’m only 10 dpo? But the other part of me knows that I couldn’t even squint enough to see a line so I doubt I’ll get a different result tomorrow. But I hope I do! I agree this coronavirus stuff is nuts. I think since they couldn’t really name patients it seemed so abstract but now that they are announcing celebrities getting it, it’s a bigger reminder that anyone could get it. 
  • Month/Cycle: 5/4 

    CD/DPO: 29/10

    Timing: -5, -1(x2)

    Typical LP length: 10-15, guessing 11-12 this cycle 

    Testing: Saturday! 

    R/R: I was not hopeful on like Wednesday, but now I am weirded out by my lack of AF symptoms because she’s supposed to be here by Sunday and I normally have sore boobs by now. Of course as soon as I start to get hopeful, that B will probably show up. 😒

    CS/Q: not temping in TWW

  • @dobiemom11 AF is a perfect excuse for wine! Our trip is in a little over a month - we still have a little time where we could cancel with a refund....but we paid with Disney gift cards so it would really just be postponing. But who knows when we could postpone it to? So we are just waiting and seeing right now. Have fun with your mom this weekend! 
  • @krystrist2014 oh that all sounds so promising! Fingers crossed for you!!
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    Month/Cycle 6/9
    CD/DPO: 33/15
    Timing: -2
    Typical LP length: still regulating 
    Testing: BFN today all faint lines vanished did both FRER and wondfo but real white. WFAF I guess
    R/R: I don’t know how to feel. I feel crazy as if I made up the lines but I went and looked at them and I can definitely see them. I’m angry I made the first appointment yesterday and have to call back today.  
    CS/Q: 


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  • kpearse99kpearse99 member
    edited March 2020
    Lurking from WTO - @allthingscozy I'm sending you hugs and love today, friend. Try and not be angry with yourself, it's not your fault. I'm here if you need to talk, just send me a PM, I've been through this. <3
    Our TTC Journey
    TTC #1: May 2011
    BFP: 10/27/2011 |  EDD: 6/30/12
    DS born 6/28/12 via C/S 3 

    TTC #2: September 2018
    Me: 36 | DH: 39
    Mirena removed 9/13/2018 after 6 years
    BFP 11/11/2018 | MC @ 5.5 weeks on Thanksgiving
    July 2019 - Diagnosed with Secondary Unexplained IF
    August 2019 - 2.5 mg of Letrozole = Never Ovulated so Trigger and IUI were cancelled
    9/30/2019 - IUI #1 (5 mg of Letrozole + Trigger) =  BFP but Betas showed CP @ 4 weeks
    10/28/2019 - IUI #2 (7.5mg of Letrozole + Trigger) = BFN
    11/25/2019 - IUI #3 (7.5mg of Letrozole, Trigger + Crinone after IUI) = BFN
    12/24/2019 - IUI #4 (7.5mg of Letrozole + Crinone after IUI) = BFN
    1/24/2020 - IUI #5 (50mg of Clomid + Trigger + Crinone after IUI) = BFN and an Ovarian Cyst
    3/2/2020 - Taking a break to reset/NTNP
    11/1/2020 - At peace with where things are in life and are no long actively TTC. Whatever happens will happen and it will all be okay. <3

  • @allthingscozy I am so sorry you are going through this. Sending you all the hugs. 


  • @allthingscozy I’m so sorry❤️  I was so hoping for a different outcome. Take care of yourself today
  • mindyb2019mindyb2019 member
    edited March 2020
    Month/Cycle: 5/3(AL)

    CD/DPO: 20/4

    Timing: -4, -3, -1, 0, +1

    Typical LP Length: 11-12 Days 

    Testing: Nope

    R/R: I’m tired today. I had a crazy nightmare last night about the Stupid coronavirus. It was horrible. It was soo scary and gross etc. It really creeped me out and woke me up at 12:30 am and I couldn't go back to sleep for a bit. It’s seriously getting to the point of I’m dreaming about it 😂 wtf? On another note, I have no idea why but my skin has been breaking out with pimples everywher so bad lately. My skin is never like this. I’ve always had good skin and it’s rare when I break out. As soon as one pimple goes away another shows up etc etc. It’s frustrating and I feel like I’m 15 again 😆 I hope it clears up soon cause I feel gross and ugly. 

    CS/Q: None 

    @bows22 aww, sorry for your BFN my friend. Hugs ❤️ Also sorry about your trip to Disney. I would be bummed about that. Disney is my happy place. You go a be self centred girl I don’t mind lol. 

    @krystrist2014 Oooh, FX for you! Stay away AF. 

    @dobiemom11 I hope you enjoy your time with your mom this weekend. So jealous. I wish I could have weekends with my mom but she died when I was 15 😢 I would give anything for that now. Also, enjoy the heck out of the wine. 😁 Sorry AF is getting you down. 

    @legallykate Sorry you didn’t sleep well. I feel ya on needing to watch Disney movies lol. I’m dreaming about COVID-19 now so I pretty much need happy shows to watch at this point 😆 

    @bluetickgal yay to the November Hype girl. ya this coronavirus stuff is getting a bit scary. I hope we all stay safe and healthy. 

    @runningoncookies yay for CH’s. I hope your meetings go well and go by quickly today. Sucks when you have them alll day. Sorry you don’t get time to see your kiddos. 

  • @allthingscozy So sorry to hear this update. Thinking of you. Take care of yourself today.  <3
    *TTC History*

    Me: 37, MH: 38; Married August 2017

    TTC #1 October 2017: BFP on 12/1/2017, DD born 7/24/2018 @ 37+1 after induction due to preeclampsia

    TTC #2 January 2020: AMA, dx with DOR in May 2020

    IVF July 2020: 16 eggs retrieved, 14 mature, 12 fertilized, 3 blasts, 2 PGT-A normal

    FET 10/7/20: BFP on 10/12/20!!! (EDD 6/25/21); First beta 10/16/20 (9dpt): 148; Second beta 10/19/20 (12dpt): 621; Third beta 10/26/20 (19dpt): 4732; Fourth (and final!) beta 11/2/20 (26 dpt): 22,000+

  • @allthingscozy oh my friend, I’m so sorry your going through this. Sending you so many hugs ❤️❤️ Be good to yourself today. 
  • @allthingscozy I’m sorry that this is happening to you, sending all the hugs ❤️ 
  • @dobiemom11 that stinks you probably can’t catch up on sleep over the weekend! Hopefully you can get in some extra rest though! Yes, it’s all so crazy...we stockpile a little just by the way we shop, but maybe we should do some more?! 🤷🏼‍♀️
    @bows22 I totally understand the back & forth! I’m going to continue being hopeful for you though!! Yes, the fact that they are naming people has made it very real...this virus does not discriminate! 
    @krystrist2014 that sounds very encouraging!! Everything possible crossed for you, friend!! 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻
    @allthingscozy so very sorry!! Sending you all the hugs possible today! 💜 Be kind to yourself!! This is not your fault...I know it sucks so badly, and it brings up so much anger/sadness!! We are here for you!

    @mindyb2019 so sorry for the scary dream!! You can’t escape the news about it, so no wonder it’s worked it’s way into your dreams! Hope your pimples clear up soon...sometimes mine are seriously way worse than when I was a teenager! So frustrating! 
  • Thanks ladies! @bows22 @mindyb2019 @bluetickgal

    @mindyb2019 girl, I feel your pain with the acne. But I am kind of used to it. I was lucky as a teen and pretty much never had any, but once I went to college it started and never left! It’s been 12 years now and it’s the bane of my existence. So sorry about your scary dream! I hope you get more sleep tonight and that acne goes away for you! 


  • @mindyb2019. I hear you.  I used to never have pimples, but going off BCP just threw my body into crazy acne-town.  I actually started a skincare routine with moisturizers, pore cleaning etc.  Never done anything like that, but asked my SIL about it.  She loved giving advice on that as a makeup guru.  

    @krystrist2014. Fingers crossed.  

    @allthingscozy. Sending love to you!  You are amazing!  
  • My mom just cancelled her trip which is a blessing and a bummer all rolled into one.  With my dad being immunocompromised at the moment, she doesn't want to risk it.  Now I can sleep as much as I would like, but it is a bummer not to see her.
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