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timmylulutimmylulu member
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Does he have a hard time finishing when it is sex week? ?Its like the pressure gets to him or something?
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  • lovesinthehouselovesinthehouse
    Day 6 in a row this time he did. Normally  we don't do everyday, and will never do it again. I promised him.
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  • garcia15garcia15
    Mine told me the pressure was too much. ?So we only did it every other day. ?We even got in a fight about it. ?He's much more comfortable when he doesn't know we HAVE to do it. ?
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  • Lucky428Lucky428

    DH did in the past.... I suggest lingerie and porn.  It ended that problem :p

    We do IUI's now so it's no longer an issue.

    GL!

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  • kimisuejoiakimisuejoia

    Hahahahaa!

    I just read this thread to DH who is laughing hysterically. His response was "No I don't have that problem, you have to beat me off with a stick! I'd love to 'have' to do it every day!"

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  • luvsbunnyluvsbunny member
    DH has a hard time having a "schedule". We do use porn and that helps :)
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  • mommashellmommashell

    DH didn't have this problem but he didn't like to think I was only jumpin his bones because I wanted to get Pg so this time around I didn't tell him it was time to handle business. I just took it upon myself to wear lingerie and do romantic stuff even afternoon quickies he thought I was being frisky I was on a mission. LOL. Worked though and here we are. I even charted the days and how many times. When we got our BFP I showed him the day it probably happened and he was like WTF have you been doing. Sly very Sly. Good Luck to! Valentines day is coming up start getting crafty!

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  • kristinem17kristinem17 member
    Yes - my DH has the same situation - he gets stressed, feels too much pressure... he prefers not to be told or reminded. 
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  • Luckiest03Luckiest03
    my DH said he didn't like the pressure, but since I really didn't let him know or think it was FWP time, it helped a lot.
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  • pollykinzpollykinz
    you're not alone - mine gets this way too. there have been several times he couldn't do it - it's very hard. but like pp's said - porn and lingerie can help!
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