May 2020 Moms

UO Thursday - 1/2

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edited January 2020 in May 2020 Moms

Re: UO Thursday - 1/2

  • Hmm not many opinions today...more of a statement than an opinion: I don’t really have “favorites” like a favorite movie or band or restaurant etc. It sometimes makes answering those security questions for password protection more challenging. I do have a favorite color/colors which happens to be any and all shades of blue. Know I’m super controversial over here with my non-opinion 😂
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  • Okay so I’ve been lying here trying to fall asleep and I keep thinking about my one sister. I have 3 sisters and 3 of us are in the same page, life wise. My other sister is kind of a mess. She has a 4 year old. She has mental health issues and does not take care of herself. She’s the most negative person in earth and has zero desire to do anything to help herself. All she wants to do is play a victim and tell her “Woe is me” BS to anyone who will listen and have people feel sorry for her. She’s recently been saying that she’s thinking about having another child. Meanwhile she also talks about how unhappy she is in her marriage and how she wants to get a divorce. She SHOULD NOT EVER have another child, mainly for her own mental health. But also because she and her husband barely scrape by as it is. They cannot afford their own health insurance and now our dad is paying for my sister to have health insurance. I’m just so irritated. The ONLY reason she wants another kid is because she’s no longer the center of attention and she can’t stand that. She was the first one to have a baby in our family and her son was the only grandchild for 2 years. Now my sister in CA has 2 boys, but they’re across the country so it’s not much of a “threat” to how much attention she gets by way of her son. But now that I’m having a baby, now she’s talking about having another one. Because I only live 2.5 hours away and our parents will have 2 geographically close grandchildren, so that’s a direct threat to the amount of attention she gets. UGHHHHH it makes me so mad. She’s so self-centered and always has been. If she wasn’t my sister, she would not be a part of my life. Too much negativity. Also, my other 2 sisters and my mom are in full agreement with above statements and everyone thinks it’s a terrible idea for all the same reasons. Okay that’s my UO, I’m saying who should and should not be having kids. Sorry for the crazy long vent, but it’s keeping me up and I had to get it out.
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