Welcome, new members! Please read The Ultimate TTGP Guide pinned at the top of the board (https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12685680/the-ultimate-ttgp-guide-newbies-read-this-first/p1). It's full of information about TTGP and about our community here on The Bump. Please introduce yourself and share as much (or as little) as you would like. Once you're ready, feel free to jump into any of our daily/weekly threads to participate in the community!
Ages (you and SO):
How many months have you been TTC?:
What are you doing to get knocked up (WAYDTGKU)?:
Tell us about yourself! (Kids, pets, job, hobbies, etc.):
What are you doing to get knocked up (WAYDTGKU)?: started out with just a bunch of sex, then began upping the ante with an Ava bracelet/charting in FF, SMEP and ovulation sticks. Got testing done for me and SO in the spring just to rule anything out, then gave myself the summer to keep trying. Wasn’t successful, so started IUI in August. Just found out today that my 4th IUI was not successful, so will be moving on to IVF next, after taking a break from treatments for the holidays and figuring out how to pay for everything.
Tell us about yourself! (Kids, pets, job, hobbies, etc.): I am married with one 3.5 year old and no pets (yet). I love yoga and walking, I am an avid reader and podcast listener, and am actively looking for a hobby to get me through this time that is not focused on fertility treatments. Ideas welcome!
I’m looking forward to connecting with people who are going through similar things and learning from everyone! Thanks for having me.
@buffythevampireslayer hello 👋 and welcome to the Bump. So sorry you have had quite the journey TTC. I hope your stay here won’t be long. How do you like your Ava bracelet? I’ve been considering if I should get one or not but it has a high price tag and not sure if it’s worth it. I look forward to getting to know you. Everyone here is great.
@mindyb2019 thank you for the welcome! Re: Ava, at the time I rationalized the cost as being less than fertility treatments, so I figured if there was any chance it would help, it was worth a shot. It was useful for temping but if I could go back in time I wouldn’t have bought it, and I stopped using it once I started treatments since I was being monitored. Now that I’ve tried Ava, temping and OPKs, I don’t think Ava tells you anything of significance that you can’t get from temping and OPKs. I did buy the fancy fertility monitor from clear blue and found that more useful than Ava, so if you are considering a purchase, I might recommend that. I took the probably regretful approach of just buying whatever I thought would help me!
@buffythevampireslayer welcome! There are lots of knowledgeable ladies who have gone through IVF in the IF Testing & Treatment thread (myself included)
*TW* History:
Me: 34 DH: 36 | Together since 2007 | Married July 2016
TTC #1 since 7.2017 Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3| all BFN IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name" RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer 2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20 Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21 Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22 | biopsy provided same effect as endometrial scratch; added supplemental progesterone and estrogen, prednisone, levothyroxine, and MTX Support to maintain pregnancy DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023 Consultation with RI | 6.6.23 Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56 Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox Repeat labs in 8 weeks Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues TTC put on pause
@buffythevampireslayer hmmm ok good to know. Thank you for that info on the Ava bracelet. I do use OPKs from Clearblue and I like them. I had looked into buying the fancy fertility monitor from Clearblue as well and if you found that more useful maybe I’ll just do that Instead of Ava. Does it tell you anything more useful than the advanced digital OPK’s do?
@mindyb2019 I believe that the monitor compares both luteinizing and estrogen levels to the the past stick to show result, whereas the advanced digital is just looking for certain standard levels. So I guess the theory it is more based on what your specific body does in terms of hormone levels. The monitor also saves your data for 6 cycles.
What are you doing to get knocked up (WAYDTGKU)?: temping and charting with a bunch of apps, trying to time out when we’re trying. Just starting with the temping last month.
Tell us about yourself! (Kids, pets, job, hobbies, etc.): one kid, one dog, love to knit and listen to podcasts. Thought I’d be a one and done mom but at some point decided I did want another one. SO was always good with one more or just the one. Due to employment issues we’ve waited what feels like a long time and not having any luck so far. I've tried a couple other forums but none were the right fit. They all seem to just be flooded with bfp posts and anything else was overshadowed. Was glad to see the rules here.
Possible TW(?) I didn’t start trying to find forums for TTC until recently. We haven’t had much luck yet, though every month it feels like that’ll be the month. Even so I felt like I was handling it ok until we got the pregnancy announcement from my SIL. I had no idea they were trying the same time we were. Since then I’ve found out there’s two others in the extended family expected next year.
Hopefully all this was right. I accidentally posted in the wrong thread already . I knew some of the short forms but there’s a lot of new-to-me ones.
Re: Newbie Intros w/o 12.9
How many months have you been TTC?: 15 months
What are you doing to get knocked up (WAYDTGKU)?: started out with just a bunch of sex, then began upping the ante with an Ava bracelet/charting in FF, SMEP and ovulation sticks. Got testing done for me and SO in the spring just to rule anything out, then gave myself the summer to keep trying. Wasn’t successful, so started IUI in August. Just found out today that my 4th IUI was not successful, so will be moving on to IVF next, after taking a break from treatments for the holidays and figuring out how to pay for everything.
Tell us about yourself! (Kids, pets, job, hobbies, etc.): I am married with one 3.5 year old and no pets (yet). I love yoga and walking, I am an avid reader and podcast listener, and am actively looking for a hobby to get me through this time that is not focused on fertility treatments. Ideas welcome!
I’m looking forward to connecting with people who are going through similar things and learning from everyone! Thanks for having me.
TTC #1 since 7.2017
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22 | biopsy provided same effect as endometrial scratch; added supplemental progesterone and estrogen, prednisone, levothyroxine, and MTX Support to maintain pregnancy
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC put on pause
How many months have you been TTC?: 8
What are you doing to get knocked up (WAYDTGKU)?: temping and charting with a bunch of apps, trying to time out when we’re trying. Just starting with the temping last month.
Tell us about yourself! (Kids, pets, job, hobbies, etc.): one kid, one dog, love to knit and listen to podcasts. Thought I’d be a one and done mom but at some point decided I did want another one. SO was always good with one more or just the one. Due to employment issues we’ve waited what feels like a long time and not having any luck so far.
I've tried a couple other forums but none were the right fit. They all seem to just be flooded with bfp posts and anything else was overshadowed. Was glad to see the rules here.