July 2020 Moms

Unpopular Opinions 11/21

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  • @b-1029 the texture of pumpkin pie ::shudders::
  • @modoodles ugh yes! I think it definitely is a texture thing for me. 
  • I agree with the pumpkin pie thing. I'm making caramel pecan cheesecake bars this year for something different. 
    On that topic UO I actually enjoy having completely untraditional meals for holidays but cant  get my family on board. We did have homemade pork tamales and tacos for christmas last year bc I was hosting and put my foot down. They are back to their whining for ham this year. Maybe we will compromise with prime rib or orange duck. 
  • @mommyofthefence we did prime rib last year for Christmas, but I would be absolutely on board for homemade tamales and tacos. If I knew how to make tamales. 
  • @modoodles you're right

    Everyone else...

  • @mommyofthefence pork tamales and tacos sound amazing right now!  I'm not a huge ham fan anyway but I'll eat it if it's in front of me. 

    @modoodles agreed! I used to have a coworker who always called herself a single mom b/c her hubs was gone a lot on business.  As a daughter of a single mom who made minimum wage, I always rolled my eyes at her. Not saying co-worker's life isn't hard, but being poor wasn't one of the things making it hard.

    On the theme of Thanksgiving food, my UO is I LOVE chunky whole-berry, homemade cranberry sauce.  Most people I know prefer the canned stuff. I make mine with whole berries, only use half the sugar in the recipe, and only lightly mash them. I can eat big bowls of this tart pink magic. 
  • @dancingtreepose me too! I could eat nothing but homemade cranberry sauce! I make mine with a little bit of orange juice, too. I don’t mash them at all just let them cook a long time and then throw in half a cup fresh at the very end so there are a few that just barely burst. Yum yum yum! 
  • modoodles said:
    @mommyofthefence we did prime rib last year for Christmas, but I would be absolutely on board for homemade tamales and tacos. If I knew how to make tamales. 
    Tamales are super easy!  There are a zillion recipes you can google, but really all you need are corn husks, masa, shredded meat of some form, and sauce of some form.
    Current pregnancy -
    First BFP on 1/4/22.  Due date 9/13/22.

    Four prior losses, no living children - 1 first trimester miscarriage, 1 blighted ovum, 1 chemical, and one extreme premature live birth daughter who died at 15 days old.


  • @dancingtreepose My husband prefers whole-berry cranberry sauce too. The first year he spent Thanksgiving with my family, we had to make a Thanksgiving-morning grocery run to get some. I feel like real cranberries should be better than a jellied mass that conforms to the shape of the can, but they're just...not.

    Sticking with the Thanksgiving food theme, my UO: dark meat is better than light meat.
    Me 32 | DH 32
    married 9/15
    DD: 1/17/17
    #2 due 7/26/20!

  • Team love homemade cranberry sauce. I add orange juice and a little maple syrup. I make it year round I love it so much!

    My UO is I cannot get behind the getting ready for Christmas before thanksgiving. Dat after, game on, but not before! And that goes for every holiday, don’t rush me through my damn holidays!!
  • My UO is that I love my artificial Christmas tree.  There is no way H is going to head out to cut a real one down or even buy a real one in a parking lot somewhere so I have a big beautiful fake AF tree in my basement...AND to make it worse, I'm totally dragging it out this weekend.  I won't decorate it, but I would like it to be out and get back into tree shape by the time we are back from Thanksgiving. 

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    History and blog link in spoiler
    2016 - dx with super low ovarian reserve; failed cycle with clomid, failed IUI, 
    2017 - egg retrieval #1 - 3 eggs, 0 embryos appropriate for transfer; ER #2 2 eggs, 0 embryos on day 3; ER #3 1 egg 0 embryos
    moved to donor egg in summer 2017; 35 eggs retrieved; 19 fertilized; 9 total embryos
    Fresh transfer Dec 2017= BFP!  baby boy born 8/22/18

    May 2019 - surprise natural pregnancy ended in MC
    Nov 2019 FET; MC at 9 weeks
    May 2020 FET; BFN
    July 2020 FET; CP treated with methotrexate
    Oct 2020 BFP! 

    Take a look at my blog


  • Team - I hate all cranberry sauce.  I prefer it not touch my food. 
  • @laurad75 totally team fake tree! We always had a real one growing up and I had to crawl under it to water that stupid thing, needles poking and leaving a rash. Then, you still find needles mo ths later poking you through your socks! Hard pass! 
  • blaf322blaf322 member
    edited November 2019
    @laurad75 yaaaaas to all of that! I'd be dragging mine out this weekend if our weekend wasn't totally jam packed. We aren't doing Thanksgiving at our house so I don't feel bad getting everything out early. 

    ETA @bluguitarhannah same... its gross and has no place on my plate.
  • @pretzellover I have a love-hate with them, actually. They're annoying, but I like the snark they bring. Mostly from me :neutral: but I'm hoping some other jump on board soon :D 
  • @b_1029 :D:D:D you were living on the edge there for a while...I love it! bahaha

  • @blaf322 all the freaking a-hole drive bys on TTGP 🙄 
  • @b_1029 "does this look positive to you?!" 
  • This thread on snowflakes is about to be my funny Friday. 
  • I just raise my eyebrow at folks who pop in for one question that is clearly answerable by google, their doctor, etc. Why are you spending your time asking strangers a question you could have figured out so so so easily on your own? I understand when the question is coming from anxiety but then you’d need to actually engage and support in order to be provided with support. How would reassurance/answer from a stranger be more helpful than that from a doctor/trusted friend/WebMD?? 


  • blaf322blaf322 member
    edited November 2019
    @rachelredhead I used to have a link that took them to a site that would act like a video where it showed them how to google/told them to input their question and then would actually google it. I need to find it... it was perfect for those types of posts.
  • There’s a ridiculous drive-by on the TTGP board right now. Worth a lurk to see a master class in meme usage. The random pop ins here I can ignore. But the ones that happen on TTGP just come across so cruel and insensitive. I just don’t get the thought process for those kinds of posts. 
  • @rachelredhead the ones who say oh sorry I didn't bother reading the rules and delete their posts are dumb but fine...but the ones who get sassy and do things like wish infertility on everyone / rub their fertility in everyone's face (I think that's the one I got warnings for but honestly don't remember at this point) are just ridiculous. Like who are you and where'd you come from? 
  • @pretzellover  AGREE.  the snowflake posts drive me insane.  I also cannot deal with the facebook group ones either.  No thanks...Facebook is so much less private.  You gotta weed out the trolls first!

  • @b_1029 oh heavens, I haven’t seen one wishing infertility on folks (though I saw plenty of defensive snark). That is an absolutely justified reason to get a warning for biting back. That’s just so gross. 

    I assume those women leave very sad lives. That’s the only reasoning I can come up with as far as mocking anyone’s struggle with TTC. 
  • Team - I hate all cranberry sauce.  I prefer it not touch my food. 
    Agree, I don't see it's appeal :smile:
    @laurad75 @modoodles also team fake tree! We had a traumatic childhood experience with a spider nest hatching in our tree one year... resulting in HUNDREDS of spiders. I still shudder at the thought!
    I just gagged a little, omg! Also team fake tree since I had one growing up. All smells are making me sick so I imagine I might not enjoy a real pine tree right now anyway.
  • laurad75laurad75 member
    edited November 2019
    @pretzellover My friend had a spider-infested tree one year!  The story was so unbelievable.  

    Also, I love drive-by drama.  I need to lurk over on TTGP to check it out. 

    michael jackson popcorn GIF
    History and blog link in spoiler
    2016 - dx with super low ovarian reserve; failed cycle with clomid, failed IUI, 
    2017 - egg retrieval #1 - 3 eggs, 0 embryos appropriate for transfer; ER #2 2 eggs, 0 embryos on day 3; ER #3 1 egg 0 embryos
    moved to donor egg in summer 2017; 35 eggs retrieved; 19 fertilized; 9 total embryos
    Fresh transfer Dec 2017= BFP!  baby boy born 8/22/18

    May 2019 - surprise natural pregnancy ended in MC
    Nov 2019 FET; MC at 9 weeks
    May 2020 FET; BFN
    July 2020 FET; CP treated with methotrexate
    Oct 2020 BFP! 

    Take a look at my blog


  • @laurad75 were you a A18 mom?? Your name looks SO familiar to me and I cannot figure out why!
  • @kc0711 Yes!  Were you?  I wasn't as active when we moved over to FB.  
    History and blog link in spoiler
    2016 - dx with super low ovarian reserve; failed cycle with clomid, failed IUI, 
    2017 - egg retrieval #1 - 3 eggs, 0 embryos appropriate for transfer; ER #2 2 eggs, 0 embryos on day 3; ER #3 1 egg 0 embryos
    moved to donor egg in summer 2017; 35 eggs retrieved; 19 fertilized; 9 total embryos
    Fresh transfer Dec 2017= BFP!  baby boy born 8/22/18

    May 2019 - surprise natural pregnancy ended in MC
    Nov 2019 FET; MC at 9 weeks
    May 2020 FET; BFN
    July 2020 FET; CP treated with methotrexate
    Oct 2020 BFP! 

    Take a look at my blog


  • @laurad75 yes I was!! I knew it!! I promise I am not a weird creepy internet stalker, I just have a weird memory association with names. Thank you all for bearing with me through this mystery, now returning to our regularly scheduled programming  :D
  • @kc0711 That's awesome! How fun that we are in it together again!  Thanks for bringing it up.  :)
    History and blog link in spoiler
    2016 - dx with super low ovarian reserve; failed cycle with clomid, failed IUI, 
    2017 - egg retrieval #1 - 3 eggs, 0 embryos appropriate for transfer; ER #2 2 eggs, 0 embryos on day 3; ER #3 1 egg 0 embryos
    moved to donor egg in summer 2017; 35 eggs retrieved; 19 fertilized; 9 total embryos
    Fresh transfer Dec 2017= BFP!  baby boy born 8/22/18

    May 2019 - surprise natural pregnancy ended in MC
    Nov 2019 FET; MC at 9 weeks
    May 2020 FET; BFN
    July 2020 FET; CP treated with methotrexate
    Oct 2020 BFP! 

    Take a look at my blog


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