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Monday BF 10/7

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Re: Monday BF 10/7

  • NYTino24NYTino24 member
    edited October 2019
    I accidentally sent DH to the office we were at yesterday for IUI part 1 for part 2 today. He got there and sent him to the office I’m seen at most often. Then they had a problem with the tech there and sent him back to the first office he went to. I am very glad I took a half day today. The tough part is it’s supposed to be “unplugged” day where no technology is used in the classroom and it’s so hard to do that because the subs really can’t be trusted to teach. I opened my email to send sub plans to a coworker and noticed they sent an after hours email on Friday that I have a meeting at 11:45 today. Not gonna be in until 12, so they will have to deal without me or wait. 

    Also, I’ve been up on and off since 3 am. My back and legs usually act up this time of year from all of the standing on concrete and sitting in the car for 3 hours ish a day. Well they were killing me and I had to massage, ice, and use ibuprofen before I could get back to sleep. I also forgot my phone and had to turn back after leaving home. Hopefully things go well at 8:30.
    It's funny how it's the little things in life that mean the most...not where you live, or what you drive, or the price tag on your clothes... There's no dollar sign on a piece of mind, this I've come to know! *ZBB*

    Me: 36 DH 35 
    TTC  9/2016     BFP 12/9/16    EDD 8/21/17    NMC 1/8/16 at 7w6d
    TTC  2/2017  BFP 3/6/17   EDD 11/17/17   DS born 11/25/17 via ECS
    TTC 12/2018   BFP 6/2/19   EDD 2/12/20  NMC / BO at 7 weeks, low progesterone
    TTC 7/2019   BFP 8/21/19 EDD 4/22/20 CP at 5 weeks
    TTC 8/19    IUI #1 w/ Clomid + Ovidrel + progesterone  BFN, IUI 2 and 3 w/ Letrozole + Ovidrel + progesterone,
    IUI 4 Follistim + Ovidrel + progesterone BFP 1/9/20 EDD 9/18/20

    AMA, ITP in pregnancy, vWD type II - low Factor VIII, unexplained RPL and secondary infertility
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  • Awful AF cramps bright and early on a Monday morning. 


  • @b_1029 Glad I avoided the news all weekend in an attempt to be more zen 😂

    @NYTino24 That’s like 5 mornings in one. Hope things smooth out. Sorry about your back and legs, that sounds miserable. 
  • Left for work late this morning! Our puppy is 5 months and still having separation anxiety. He barks for about twenty minutes after we leave (I check on our camera)It breaks my heart 💔. 
  • @tyrion_ to be fair, the actual world/country news isn’t all that great either so it’s a legitimate thought!
  • DH didn’t buy our Disney tickets yet and we leave in less than a month! I am so upset that we won’t have Fast Passes taken care of. 
    It's funny how it's the little things in life that mean the most...not where you live, or what you drive, or the price tag on your clothes... There's no dollar sign on a piece of mind, this I've come to know! *ZBB*

    Me: 36 DH 35 
    TTC  9/2016     BFP 12/9/16    EDD 8/21/17    NMC 1/8/16 at 7w6d
    TTC  2/2017  BFP 3/6/17   EDD 11/17/17   DS born 11/25/17 via ECS
    TTC 12/2018   BFP 6/2/19   EDD 2/12/20  NMC / BO at 7 weeks, low progesterone
    TTC 7/2019   BFP 8/21/19 EDD 4/22/20 CP at 5 weeks
    TTC 8/19    IUI #1 w/ Clomid + Ovidrel + progesterone  BFN, IUI 2 and 3 w/ Letrozole + Ovidrel + progesterone,
    IUI 4 Follistim + Ovidrel + progesterone BFP 1/9/20 EDD 9/18/20

    AMA, ITP in pregnancy, vWD type II - low Factor VIII, unexplained RPL and secondary infertility
  • I hate when I am off for a day and then come back and my inbox is like overflowing...


    TTC#1 - March 2013

    BFP 8/9/13 - EDD 4/14/14 - DS born 4/23/14

    TTC#2 November 2015

    Dx: Secondary IF June 2016

    Medicated IUI cycle#1- Clomid+IUI -1/15/17 -BFN

    Break Mid 2017 - Resumed TTC December 2018

    "She believed she could so she did..."

    Medicated IUI cycle#2- Femara 5mg+IUI 12/22/18 - BFP 1/4/19 - MMC 2/1/19

    Saline Sono 3/15/19 - All Clear!

    Medicated IUI cycle#3- Femara 7.5mg+IUI 3/28/19-BFN

    Medicated IUI cycle#4- Femara 5mg+Gonal F 50iu+IUI 4/27/19- BFP 5/11/19 - MMC 6/12/19 - D&C 6/14/19-

    Incomplete M/C Repeat D&C - 7/3/19 -Testing concluded baby was genetically normal  :'(

    Dx: Unexplained RPL July 2019 - Tested + as carrier for Usher Syndrome & Familial Mediterranean Fever 

    Saline Sono 8/7/19 - Mostly Clear! All systems go for IVF#1 

    But will need a repeat Saline Sono between ER and FET

    IVF #1 - Antagonist Protocol - 8/17/19

    ER#1 8/27/19 - 12R, 6F, 4 biopsied+frozen! (3d5blasts + 1d6blast)- 2 PGS normal embabies!

    Saline Sono 9/13/19 - All Clear! Onto FET Prep#1

    FET#1 - 4AA -10/4/19 - BFP 10/14/19 - EDD - 6/21/20 -Beta#1-10dp5dt- 379 Beta#2-12dp5dt- 1007 Beta#3-14dp5dt- 2844

    DD born 6/15/20  <3

  • @hanshotfirst77 I’m afraid for tomorrow. I’ve been out of work for two days. But back up is lazy af, so I just hope he didn’t screw my stuff up. 
    Married: August 2012
    TTC #1: July 2015
    BFP 1: October 30, 2015; EDD: July 6, 2016- Team Pink
    TTC #2: September 2019

  • Waiting for the nurse to call me back about getting in for BW today, since stupid AF started 90 minutes after my dr's office closed on Friday.....

    And as I was typing that she called me back, but she now wants me to have our PCP order MH's SA, which makes me nervous because MH has been a baby about going for a physical (we have one scheduled in November) and I just do not want to delay this. UGHHHHHHHH. 
    me: 35 / so: 34 | ttc #1 since 9/2018
    DX: MFI
    IVF Cycle #1 February 2020 4 embryos frozen, 1 fresh transfer = CP 
    FET #1 Natural Cycle March 2020 CXL'd due to Covid-19 :( 
    FET #1 Natural Cycle June 2020 - CP #2
    FET #2 Natural Cycle July 2020 - BFP!!!!!! Beta #1 = 273


    June Signature Challenge - Favorite TV Quotes


  • @blackgirlmagic its amazing how quickly it gets out of control. Confession: I totally just skimmed and marked all as read this morning. I don't got time to read all 100+ emails. lol I hope your backup didn't screw things up for you.

    TTC#1 - March 2013

    BFP 8/9/13 - EDD 4/14/14 - DS born 4/23/14

    TTC#2 November 2015

    Dx: Secondary IF June 2016

    Medicated IUI cycle#1- Clomid+IUI -1/15/17 -BFN

    Break Mid 2017 - Resumed TTC December 2018

    "She believed she could so she did..."

    Medicated IUI cycle#2- Femara 5mg+IUI 12/22/18 - BFP 1/4/19 - MMC 2/1/19

    Saline Sono 3/15/19 - All Clear!

    Medicated IUI cycle#3- Femara 7.5mg+IUI 3/28/19-BFN

    Medicated IUI cycle#4- Femara 5mg+Gonal F 50iu+IUI 4/27/19- BFP 5/11/19 - MMC 6/12/19 - D&C 6/14/19-

    Incomplete M/C Repeat D&C - 7/3/19 -Testing concluded baby was genetically normal  :'(

    Dx: Unexplained RPL July 2019 - Tested + as carrier for Usher Syndrome & Familial Mediterranean Fever 

    Saline Sono 8/7/19 - Mostly Clear! All systems go for IVF#1 

    But will need a repeat Saline Sono between ER and FET

    IVF #1 - Antagonist Protocol - 8/17/19

    ER#1 8/27/19 - 12R, 6F, 4 biopsied+frozen! (3d5blasts + 1d6blast)- 2 PGS normal embabies!

    Saline Sono 9/13/19 - All Clear! Onto FET Prep#1

    FET#1 - 4AA -10/4/19 - BFP 10/14/19 - EDD - 6/21/20 -Beta#1-10dp5dt- 379 Beta#2-12dp5dt- 1007 Beta#3-14dp5dt- 2844

    DD born 6/15/20  <3

  • A referral source told me that she gave my name to a potential new client. They called this morning (seems like right before I got in) and somehow our marketing partner ended up with the call. He just yelled from his office that he was going to CC me on an email but that he needed to get on a call and we would discuss after so that’s my only info so far. If I don’t get credit for this I’m going to be so annoyed. 
  • Update: we talked. I’m just a cranky brat with my period. Carry on haha
  • @mvt2003 Are they getting you in for BW today? Sorry about AF. I hope YH gets his physical and SA done fast.
    It's funny how it's the little things in life that mean the most...not where you live, or what you drive, or the price tag on your clothes... There's no dollar sign on a piece of mind, this I've come to know! *ZBB*

    Me: 36 DH 35 
    TTC  9/2016     BFP 12/9/16    EDD 8/21/17    NMC 1/8/16 at 7w6d
    TTC  2/2017  BFP 3/6/17   EDD 11/17/17   DS born 11/25/17 via ECS
    TTC 12/2018   BFP 6/2/19   EDD 2/12/20  NMC / BO at 7 weeks, low progesterone
    TTC 7/2019   BFP 8/21/19 EDD 4/22/20 CP at 5 weeks
    TTC 8/19    IUI #1 w/ Clomid + Ovidrel + progesterone  BFN, IUI 2 and 3 w/ Letrozole + Ovidrel + progesterone,
    IUI 4 Follistim + Ovidrel + progesterone BFP 1/9/20 EDD 9/18/20

    AMA, ITP in pregnancy, vWD type II - low Factor VIII, unexplained RPL and secondary infertility
  • @mvt2003 I know the feeling about H being a baby, I`ve been waiting for my H to do his SA since the end of August.  :/
  • @NYTino24 yep, I'm going to the office whenever I can get away from work, they have a lab. Thankful once again that I chose a doctor with 2 offices by my house and work. I'm going to take some deep breaths and call our PCP this afternoon, hopefully they'll just order a SA for me. 
    me: 35 / so: 34 | ttc #1 since 9/2018
    DX: MFI
    IVF Cycle #1 February 2020 4 embryos frozen, 1 fresh transfer = CP 
    FET #1 Natural Cycle March 2020 CXL'd due to Covid-19 :( 
    FET #1 Natural Cycle June 2020 - CP #2
    FET #2 Natural Cycle July 2020 - BFP!!!!!! Beta #1 = 273


    June Signature Challenge - Favorite TV Quotes


  • tyrion_ said:
    Awful AF cramps bright and early on a Monday morning. 


    You and me both :
  • It’s raining for the first time in weeks and of course it’s my birthday and I’m stuck at home alone all day with the dogs. And they’re going to go crazy. Fx my chewy package will come today. 
  • @NYTino24 Disney changed the fast pass system. You don’t buy it now, it’s all in the app, but you can only register for three rides to start, then one at a time after that. You can still get the bands to store your fast pass, but don’t need it if you have a smart phone. 
    That is relatively recent, changed since we were there last a few years ago. 

    My monday bf. i had an awful day so far. Misplaced the kitten for an hour, closed ds fingers in a door, just much crying and carrying on all around #iquit




  • @whatsbumpinpumpkin Yeah, I figure most of the rides he can go on at 34 inches might be booked up. We made some leeway and hopefully he will just take care of it tonight. I feel like crap and don’t want to make decisions.  I hope DS’s fingers and the kitten are okay.
    It's funny how it's the little things in life that mean the most...not where you live, or what you drive, or the price tag on your clothes... There's no dollar sign on a piece of mind, this I've come to know! *ZBB*

    Me: 36 DH 35 
    TTC  9/2016     BFP 12/9/16    EDD 8/21/17    NMC 1/8/16 at 7w6d
    TTC  2/2017  BFP 3/6/17   EDD 11/17/17   DS born 11/25/17 via ECS
    TTC 12/2018   BFP 6/2/19   EDD 2/12/20  NMC / BO at 7 weeks, low progesterone
    TTC 7/2019   BFP 8/21/19 EDD 4/22/20 CP at 5 weeks
    TTC 8/19    IUI #1 w/ Clomid + Ovidrel + progesterone  BFN, IUI 2 and 3 w/ Letrozole + Ovidrel + progesterone,
    IUI 4 Follistim + Ovidrel + progesterone BFP 1/9/20 EDD 9/18/20

    AMA, ITP in pregnancy, vWD type II - low Factor VIII, unexplained RPL and secondary infertility
  • @konoha pretty sure the Chewy boxes are my cat's favorite to jump in to. 😄

    @emeraldduchess your gif is in point 😆 

    @whatsbumpinpumpkin hope your day got better!

    My BF is that there have been no new test results posted today because dammit I need constant updates on this testing to satisfy my need for progress.
    *TW* History:
    Me: 34 DH: 36 | Together since 2007 | Married July 2016

    TTC #1 since 7.2017
    Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies

    IUI #1-3 all BFN
    IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
    FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
    RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
    FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
    2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
    Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
    TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20

    Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
    Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
    Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
    Bloodwork | 10.21.21 high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
    BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22 B) | biopsy provided same effect as endometrial scratch; added supplemental progesterone and estrogen, prednisone, levothyroxine, and MTX Support to maintain pregnancy
    DS born 7.19.22 after induction


    TTC #2 begins 6.2023
    Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
    Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
    Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
    Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
    Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
    Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
    Repeat labs in 8 weeks
    Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
    TTC put on pause
  • Long story but my BF Is... I work at a care home for seniors and one of my favourite seniors was this older fellow named Sandy and unfortunately he passed away this year. :( He was my buddy. 💔 Well anyways, when he was alive he had this nephew in his like 60s that used to come visit him all the time and he would also dress up as Santa Clause for the seniors Christmas Parties and have the kids and adults sit on his lap etc. When he was visiting his uncle he used to stare and gawk at me all the time and make these kinda creepy one- off comments. It’s always made me feel weird and uncomfortable but I was always nice and pleasant cause he was family of the senior that lived in the care home. Anyhoo, I was at the dollar store today and I ran into this lady whom is a family member of another one of the seniors that live at the home. I said hi and waved to her and we got to talking and she said ok, there is something I need to tell you. I’m like.. oook? She told me that she was on the app tinder for dating many months ago and she said she noticed on tinder that Sandy’s Nephew had a profile on there as well and had a picture of me on their as his profile pic.. I’m like WTF? 😳  I asked what picture it was and it was a pic of me from last years Christmas party we had at my work and he was dressed up as Santa and my boss made me sit on his lap for a quick pic. I didn’t want to cause I thought he’s creepy but she made me so I did quickly half kinda sitting on him and then left. Well apparently he has a picture of that and put it up on his tinder. I’m sooo pissed! And creeped out. Like WTF dude? I DID NOT give you permission to put a picture of me up in your Tinder profile for the world to see. That is NOT ok. I’m grossed and creeped out. I don’t want this picture of me on there. I don’t like this guy. He’s weird and awkward and creeps me out. Why the F*$# would someone put a picture of me sitting on their lap on Tinder?? What is the point of this? I don’t know this guy that well other then seeing him at the care home. Thank god he hasn’t been in since his uncle died. If I ever see him again he will get a piece of my mind. 😡🤬. Sorry, Rant over! 
  • @mindyb2019 what a creep? And how would one except to get a date with another women in your profile picture? I’m glad that you don’t have to see him ever again. But what an invasion of privacy! 

    @konoha happy birthday! Hopefully your H has something great planned for you tomorrow. 
    Married: August 2012
    TTC #1: July 2015
    BFP 1: October 30, 2015; EDD: July 6, 2016- Team Pink
    TTC #2: September 2019

  • @blackgirlmagic right!? Total creep. I have no idea how someone would expect to get a date with another women in your profile pic. Omg me too! Sooo glad I don’t ever have to see him again. I want him to take that picture down of me. A complete invasion of privacy. 
  • @mindyb2019 can you report him on tinder saying you didn't give permission to use a photo that includes you?

    Fun fact, at the rehearsal this weekend for the wedding I found out they met via Tinder 😆
    *TW* History:
    Me: 34 DH: 36 | Together since 2007 | Married July 2016

    TTC #1 since 7.2017
    Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies

    IUI #1-3 all BFN
    IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
    FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
    RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
    FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
    2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
    Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
    TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20

    Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
    Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
    Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
    Bloodwork | 10.21.21 high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
    BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22 B) | biopsy provided same effect as endometrial scratch; added supplemental progesterone and estrogen, prednisone, levothyroxine, and MTX Support to maintain pregnancy
    DS born 7.19.22 after induction


    TTC #2 begins 6.2023
    Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
    Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
    Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
    Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
    Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
    Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
    Repeat labs in 8 weeks
    Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
    TTC put on pause
  • @mindyb2019 My guess would be he either just really liked that picture of himself(odd) or he is trying to hint that you are his usual "type" and get similar (I'm guessing pretty and much younger) ladies to swipe. Right, left, whichever is the "yes" - I'd be weirded out too. You SHOULD mention it to your supervisor, in case he comes looking for you at work. 
    @konoha Hopefully your birthday ended up being special after all!
    @mvt2003 DH needed a CPAP BADLY. It took him two years to actually get to the appointment - after I did all the leg work. Men are so bad about that kind of stuff. I'd be frustrated too. 
    LC mention-- 

    @NYTino24 Most of the rides are okay for super little! There were only a couple my son couldn't go on, and they were things I wouldn't take him on anyway.  (like space mountain) His favorites were the Winnie the Pooh and Buzz light year, he was scared of Pirates of the Caribean (they added a roller coaster style drop in the dark) and the teacups. 



  • @inthewoods23 I have no idea if I can or not. I’ve never been on Tinder before and have no idea how it works really lol. 

    @whatsbumpinpumpkin I think I will mention it to my boss at work. Thank you. 
  • @mindyb2019 I’m glad you don’t have to see him anymore. I bet you can contact Tinder and ask them to remove the pic.
    It's funny how it's the little things in life that mean the most...not where you live, or what you drive, or the price tag on your clothes... There's no dollar sign on a piece of mind, this I've come to know! *ZBB*

    Me: 36 DH 35 
    TTC  9/2016     BFP 12/9/16    EDD 8/21/17    NMC 1/8/16 at 7w6d
    TTC  2/2017  BFP 3/6/17   EDD 11/17/17   DS born 11/25/17 via ECS
    TTC 12/2018   BFP 6/2/19   EDD 2/12/20  NMC / BO at 7 weeks, low progesterone
    TTC 7/2019   BFP 8/21/19 EDD 4/22/20 CP at 5 weeks
    TTC 8/19    IUI #1 w/ Clomid + Ovidrel + progesterone  BFN, IUI 2 and 3 w/ Letrozole + Ovidrel + progesterone,
    IUI 4 Follistim + Ovidrel + progesterone BFP 1/9/20 EDD 9/18/20

    AMA, ITP in pregnancy, vWD type II - low Factor VIII, unexplained RPL and secondary infertility
  • @mindyb2019 Ew that makes my skin crawl. I hope reporting it to tinder solves the problem for you. Gross. 
  • @mindyb2019 I don't know why that story makes me uncomfortable, be careful and hopefully you're able to get that photo down. 
  • @blackgirlmagic & @whatsbumpinpumpkin thank you both :) my birthday turned out great after all!
  • @chelsea-marie2 There is something called a dry trap! Google it. Pour a layer of cooking oil in after you fill the trap with water, it will stop it from happening again.



  • @whatsbumpinpumpkin I think that was one of the first things he tried in the shower, but i'll mention it just in case! The part comes in today so if the smell is not gone tomorrow i'm calling in the professionals haha
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