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CS/Q:
Re: WTO Thursday 8/29
Month/Cycle: 26/23 (I think??)
CD: 13
WAYDTGKU: FET in 12 days
R/R: I updated in the IF thread yesterday, but my monitoring appt yesterday went well! Estrogen is looking good, my lining is hovering around 8mm or slightly less. And the nurse said they're seeing a trilaminar lining which shows up as 3 lines on the US. My research shows that a trilaminar lining has higher pregnancy rates, so I guess I'm doing a good job of making my ute extra homey for the embryo!
In other news, I have an alterations appointment for my bridesmaid dress for my friend's wedding in October. The store I bought the dress from ordered the wrong size. I specifically requested a size 12 as that was the largest size needed based on my measurements. I distinctly remember being told I could go with a 10 or a 12 as for 1 measurement I was either a half inch too large for the 10, or an inch under the size 12. I wanted the 12 to guarantee I could fit into it. Somehow I ended up with a 10 and now the zipper in the back doesn't close (the under the bust or waist must have been the "half inch too large" measurement). So not only do I need the length hemmed, now I need to spend more money to let it out so I can actually zip the damn thing up. At the time when I picked it up it was early July and the weather was 90+ degrees and super humid so we all just thought I was retaining water. NOPE. Oh well.
CS/Q: nope
TTC #1 since 7.2017
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22 | biopsy provided same effect as endometrial scratch; added supplemental progesterone and estrogen, prednisone, levothyroxine, and MTX Support to maintain pregnancy
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC put on pause
Good morning!
Month/Cycle: 13/12/2nd cycle AL#2
CD: 19
WAYDTGKU: Prenatal vitamins, Fertility Friend, temping, OPKs, observing CM, progesterone post-O
R/R: Pretty sure I will be able to finish setting up my classroom today which makes me happy. I'll be able to relax over the weekend! I found a Queen Elizabeth II action figure online and I'm really tempted to get it for my desk at school.
CS/Q: Both OPKs were blazing positive yesterday, so O might not have happened just yet. We'll see what tomorrow's temp says.
Month/Cycle: 4/4 AL
CD: 12
WAYDTGKU: BBT, CM, EPO, PNV, OPKs, HIO
R/R: I’m pretty sure I’m ovulating right now. In this moment. And I’m just talking to my egg, giving it compliments, telling it it’s worthy of being fertilized. You know, very normal things.
CS/Q:
TTC #1 since 7.2017
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22 | biopsy provided same effect as endometrial scratch; added supplemental progesterone and estrogen, prednisone, levothyroxine, and MTX Support to maintain pregnancy
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC put on pause
@inthewoods23 That’s frustrating about the dress sizing. I hope it doesn’t cost too much to let out. Glad everything is going well so far for your FET!
CD: 25
WAYDTGKU: Benched...SHG next cycle and will restart Letrozole the next cycle & add in progesterone.
R/R: Nothing too exciting for me, just waiting for the weekend!! We were able to walk the pups last night, and plan on doing our big walk tonight...so I’m definitely looking forward to that! Just gotta survive the day!
CS/Q: None.
@inthewoods23 so glad your appt. yesterday went well! You are getting so close, and I’m so excited everything is looking good!! That is super frustrating about the dress! I had something similar happen with my bridesmaid dress for my brother’s wedding...except I was in between sizes and was a dummy and went with the smaller size as motivation to lose weight! I did not lose the weight and my mom had to work her sewing magic and move the zipper...but I couldn’t breathe that whole night I’m pretty sure! That stinks you have to spend more money to get it fixed because of their mistake though!! Hopefully it doesn’t cost too much and it fits you perfectly afterwards!
@emeraldduchess that’s exciting you should have your classroom finished today and not have to think about it over the weekend! I say go for the action figure! ☺️ That reminds me, I’m going to start the first Tudor Queens book after I finish the book I’m reading (most likely this weekend). I’m interested to see if I will enjoy historical fiction! MH has gotten me into fantasy/sci-fi, which I never would have thought I would enjoy...so I’m interested to broaden my horizons even more!
@tyrion_ yay for O! Haha, yes that’s totally normal!! I’m all for doing/saying whatever it takes!! Hopefully it’s the most perfect egg and is ready to be fertilized!!!
@emeraldduchess yay for classroom setup! And for +OPKs!
@tyrion_ I just loled 😂 my mom told me I need to talk to my ovaries/eggs and I’ve honestly been contemplating it. Glad I’m not the only weirdo
Month/Cycle: 22/25
CD: 13
WAYDTGKU: letrozole + trigger + TI
R/R: I’m just waiting/hoping for some O pain soon! On the last cycle, it felt like my left ovary was bursting. I was low key relieved it was still there on the US the other day 😂
It’s my last day of work for the week! Work has been super frustrating lately so I’m pretty excited!
CS/Q: nope
@emeraldduchess will do!! ☺️ Thanks!!
TTC #1 since 7.2017
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22 | biopsy provided same effect as endometrial scratch; added supplemental progesterone and estrogen, prednisone, levothyroxine, and MTX Support to maintain pregnancy
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC put on pause
@inthewoods23 - great news about the appt/estrogen/lining! That is so annoying about your dress. They should give you a refund when they blatantly get it wrong! Maybe it's worth at least asking?
@emeraldduchess - you should totally get that action figure! Hope you're able to get everything done so you don't have to think about it over the weekend.
@tyrion_ - Love your egg pep talk!
@bluetickgal - I hope your day goes quickly!
@b_1029 - yay for a short week! FX for O signs soon!
Month/Cycle: 13/12
CD: 21
WAYDTGKU: This month just CM, prenatals, shatavari, evening primrose oil, acupuncture. Dr's appt September 6 so just chilling out a bit till then.
R/R: TMI (not that there's really such a thing here)...At least some CM has shown up the past couple of days but seems a bit thinner than EW...but I'm glad to see something happening at least. Other than that excited for a 3.5 day weekend, leaving work early tomorrow to head down to RI for Labor Day!
CS/Q: nope!
@inthewoods23 So glad your Ute is getting ready and everything is looking good. That sucks about the dress being the wrong size though, how annoying!
@emeraldduchess Glad your classroom is almost set up. You should get the action figure! Yay for positive OPKs!
@tyrion_ Yay for O! C’mon egg, do your thing!
@bluetickgal Have a lovely walk!
@b_1029 Hope the day goes by quickly. Any fun plans this weekend?
@whitealbum29 Thin EW is good!! I wish mine was thinner! Have fun in RI!
Month/Cycle: 13/13
CD: 4
WAYDTGKU: Ava, OPK, Acupuncture, Chinese Herbs, Fertility testing
R/R: After having my mope day on CD1, I am happy to report that I am in a much better place! The sun is shining today for the first time in a few days. I had a lovely 2 nights at work.. it’s been a while since I’ve had such smooth shifts. I’m off to bed for a few hours then I have an acupuncture appointment later this afternoon. Unfortunately there are people coming to do yard work today, so my sleep may be interrupted.
CS/Q: nope
TTC since 9/2018
10/19- First RE visit
2/20- DH had surgery for bilateral varicoceles
7/20- IUI with 5 mg letrozole- BFN
9/20- IVF. 9 eggs retrieved, 9 mature, 8 fertilized with ICSI, 7 blasts, 4 PGT-A normal
11/20- Mock transfer/ERA
12/20- FET #1- transferred one 4AB- BFN
3/21- FET #2- transferred one 3AB- BFP! Due Dec 2021
12/21- Baby girl born!
Month/Cycle: 12/12
CD:15
WAYDTGKU: OPKs, BBT, PNVs, SMEP, Pre-Seed
R/R: I'm pretty sure O was yesterday, saw a nice temp spike this am. I'm going to hang out here for a few until I (hopefully) get CHs. MH was SUPER excited FW is done and Drill Sergeant MVT is gone for the month haha.
I woke up with energy today, which was really nice, hoping to get a few things done around the house after work tonight. I also woke up with zero work emails, which I didn't realize until I got into the office and turned my laptop on to find 12 new emails I think my password expired and caused havoc. It was a bit of a scramble to get everything addressed, but I think I'm in decent shape.
CS/Q: Nope
IVF Cycle #1 February 2020 4 embryos frozen, 1 fresh transfer = CP
FET #1 Natural Cycle March 2020 CXL'd due to Covid-19
FET #1 Natural Cycle June 2020 - CP #2
FET #2 Natural Cycle July 2020 - BFP!!!!!! Beta #1 = 273
June Signature Challenge - Favorite TV Quotes
@emeraldduchess Hooray for blazing OPKs!!!!! We're going to migrate to TWW soon!! Also, I vote you get QEII immediately!!
@tyrion_ I freaking pink puffy heart love you talking to your egg! I'm going to do that too!
@bluetickgal I'm glad you got to walk the pups!!!! That's so good for them and you!
@b_1029 super jealous of your extra long weekend!!! Hope it's super fun and relaxing!
@whitealbum29 Have fun in RI!!!!! (Also, tmi? That doesn't even exist here haha!!!)
IVF Cycle #1 February 2020 4 embryos frozen, 1 fresh transfer = CP
FET #1 Natural Cycle March 2020 CXL'd due to Covid-19
FET #1 Natural Cycle June 2020 - CP #2
FET #2 Natural Cycle July 2020 - BFP!!!!!! Beta #1 = 273
June Signature Challenge - Favorite TV Quotes
Morning ladies!! Happy Thursday/Friday for those of us that are off tomorrow!
Month/Cycle: 11/9 (AL)
CD: 25
WAYDTGKU: Preseed, EOD-ish, CM, PNV, Letrozole and next cycle trigger and IUI!
R/R: It's been almost a week and DH is finally feeling better! Back to EOD - woot woot!
So happy to have a 4 day weekend coming up! I think I'm going to finally use my gift card for a massage tomorrow (I've been sitting on it for almost 2 years!). I've been having some tension headaches lately so I think it will be good to get that out of my neck and shoulders. I may also go lay by the pool for a little too while DH is working. Have a nice me day, ya know?
CS/Q:
@emeraldduches yay for finishing up your room today!
@inthewoods23 ugh that is so frustrating!! I thought stores like that always pushed the bigger size. I hope everything works out! Also - somehow I missed your post on the IF thread yesterday with that update, that's fantastic news!!
@tyrion_ ha! I love that! You pep talk those eggs all you want!
@bluetickgal I'm not sure how I missed the fact that we are CD buddies in addition to being here on the WTO thread indefinitely.... so glad we are in this together!
@b_1029 enjoy a much needed long weekend from work!
@whitealbum29 oh your weekend sounds like it will be a great one!!
BFP: 10/27/2011 | EDD: 6/30/12
DS born 6/28/12 via C/S
TTC #2: September 2018
Me: 36 | DH: 39
Mirena removed 9/13/2018 after 6 years
BFP 11/11/2018 | MC @ 5.5 weeks on Thanksgiving
July 2019 - Diagnosed with Secondary Unexplained IF
August 2019 - 2.5 mg of Letrozole = Never Ovulated so Trigger and IUI were cancelled
9/30/2019 - IUI #1 (5 mg of Letrozole + Trigger) = BFP but Betas showed CP @ 4 weeks
10/28/2019 - IUI #2 (7.5mg of Letrozole + Trigger) = BFN
11/25/2019 - IUI #3 (7.5mg of Letrozole, Trigger + Crinone after IUI) = BFN
12/24/2019 - IUI #4 (7.5mg of Letrozole + Crinone after IUI) = BFN
1/24/2020 - IUI #5 (50mg of Clomid + Trigger + Crinone after IUI) = BFN and an Ovarian Cyst
3/2/2020 - Taking a break to reset/NTNP
11/1/2020 - At peace with where things are in life and are no long actively TTC. Whatever happens will happen and it will all be okay.
@misshelen86 thank you! Glad you are feeling better about things now! Hope you can sleep and the people working on the yard won’t wake you! Enjoy your acupuncture appt!
@mvt2003 thanks, it’s definitely good for all of us! Bahaha to the Drill Sergeant comment! Glad O has happened! Yay for having energy...and hopefully they got your email stuff all straightened out!
@kpearse99 I hadn’t noticed we were CD buddies either! Definitely glad we are in this together! Your day tomorrow sounds wonderful, hope you enjoy every minute of it!!
@emeraldduchess I love the idea of a Queen Elizabeth figurine for your desk!
@tyrion_ Totally normal to talk to your ovaries!
@bluetickgal Walking my dogs is so therapeutic for me. Enjoy!
@b_1029 I should probably know this, but did you go straight to letrozole? Or have you taken clomid? I'm starting clomid tomorrow and i am just curious how the 2 compare.
@whitealbum29 Have fun in RI!
@misshelen86 I still haven't tried acupuncture, but every time you talk about it, it makes me want to!
@kpearse99 You can never go wrong with a good massage. Good for you!
Month/Cycle: 7/9
CD: 2
WAYDTGKU: all the things, including clomid and IUI with trigger this cycle
R/R: I'm feeling so emotional this week. I don't think it's TTC- related, but if I'm honest, starting my 9th cycle doesn't help.
On the bright side, I got my CD3 labs and baseline ultrasound scheduled for tomorrow morning, so we're one step closer to IUI.
CS/Q: nothing to report yet
@kpearse99 a massage sounds awesome! I plan on having one the day before my FET so I can feel less stressed.
@mvt2003 I hate when my inbox updates and I'm like oh, no wonder I thought I wasn't getting any emails, it wasn't updating!
The good thing with my dress is I just need a little extra room at the top of the zipper (I'm guessing for alterations this means letting out the side seams on the dress). I think max letting out is 2 sizes so I should be fine. My friend, the bride and her MOH on the other hand.... *TW*
Funny how different our journeys to kids are. 1 unicorn x2, 1 unplanned x2, and me spending thousands with still nothing - but hopefully that changes next month!
TTC #1 since 7.2017
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22 | biopsy provided same effect as endometrial scratch; added supplemental progesterone and estrogen, prednisone, levothyroxine, and MTX Support to maintain pregnancy
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC put on pause
@inthewoods23 it is crazy how different everyone’s journey is, but I’m so hopeful for you next month!!