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Re: Recommended Pregnancy Books
STM here. Definitely pick up Expecting Better by Emily Oster. Science, FTW! I recommend it for all FTMs.
*Formerly LuND*
Me: 35 | DH: 37
TTC: 7/2016
Low AMH, mild MFI
BFP 7/29/17
EDD: 4/5/18
DS born 4/4/18
BFP #2 7/2/19
EDD 3/13/20
Did I tell you congrats yet??? I think I did.... but in case I didn't: CONGRATS and can't wait to read aaaallll the updates on your little sticky bean!!!
*Formerly LuND*
Me: 35 | DH: 37
TTC: 7/2016
Low AMH, mild MFI
BFP 7/29/17
EDD: 4/5/18
DS born 4/4/18
BFP #2 7/2/19
EDD 3/13/20
My OB recommended the Mayo Clinic Guide to a Health Pregnancy, and I liked that as a general reference.
UO? I thought the pregnancy books and infant books were a waste, especially with the internet and apps. I love the Ovia pregnancy app.
I do love the Sleepeasy solution and parenting with love and logic but I didn’t use those until much later
Natural BFP Feb 2017. DD born Oct. 2017
Natural BFP Aug. 2019, EDD April 2020
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Me 34 DH 34
PCOS
Baby number 2 due 4/11/20
I plan to get Expecting Sunshine by Alexis Marie Chute which is about PGAL.
While reading the reviews for this book on amazon, i came across specific reviews about the author advocating for alcohol (in minimal amounts) during pregnancy. I saw a lot of polarizing comments on this (as expected).
I've heard a few people recommend the Mayo guide as a general guidelines for pregnancy.
3 miscarriages.
2 chemical pregnancies.
1 infant loss.
8/2016: We lost our first baby to CHARGE Syndrome and HLHS when he was 3 weeks old.
1/2018: Our healthy son was born.
4/13/2020: EDD for baby #3!!!
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Me 34 DH 34
PCOS
Baby number 2 due 4/11/20
For books I wouldn't recommend, it would be "On Becoming Babywise," because it has been attributed to failure to thrive and dehydration. To be fair, I haven't read it and I don't agree with the methods, but failure to thrive is serious and scary.