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TTCAL week of 7/8
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1. Introduce yourself (if new)
2. Status?
3. R/R:
4.GTKY: what are three words that your SO would use to describe you
2. Status?
3. R/R:
4.GTKY: what are three words that your SO would use to describe you
Re: TTCAL week of 7/8
2. Self benched, waiting til we figure out our next steps
3. Rant went away for the weekend and DH got food poisoning so we basically sat around all weekend and did nothing. I guess it could have been worse, I could have been the one with food poisoning. Rave we made our first appt to go talk to the adoption agency on Thursday. We are also going to then make an appt with an IVF clinic. We are keeping all of our options open right now so we will see what they have to say and hopefully make some initial decisions from there. Neither option is cheap or an easy process.
4. Funny. Messy. Inspiring.
1. Introduce yourself (if new) not new nmc 2016, cp 2018
2. Status? Tww, 5 dpo
3. R/R: Rave we got the time off work and booked our hotel for the coast! I can't wait! Nor cal coasts are chilly so it'll be nice to beat the heat.
4.GTKY: what are three words that your SO would use to describe you
Ok so I asked him: beautiful, judgy, awesome. When he said judgy, I told him he could be a little bit nicer and he said "see, there's the judgy"
2. Status- waiting on AF to arrive. I go to the dr on Monday to be cleared from my surgery and I have a ton of questions for her! I guess I need to write them down! 😆
3. R/R: As the time comes to start trying again I feel very anxious. I just wonder if we are making the right decision trying again.
4.GTKY: determined, passionate, humble
@splashmountain yay for time off from work!!!
@splashmountain Oohhh where are you going? Being a creeper, sorry, but I'm in Norcal and I LOVE the coast. Mendocino is my happy place.
@Mamaof2beautifulgirls Trying again is such a hard decision. I always decide I'm done after a loss, but after a couple cycles. I change my mind. Good luck at your appointment!
1. Introduce yourself (if new) Not new. 5 losses. Four since 9/2017.
2. Status? TWW - we decided to bench ourselves before our IVF consult, but DH forgot...
3. R/R: I have a really big project I'm hoping to finish today. My week will get a lot better when it's done.
4.GTKY: what are three words that your SO would use to describe you. Impulsive, funny, and he frequently calls me a nut.
@ruby696 it looks like I'm going to your happy place! We're heading to Fort Bragg 😊
ETA: have you ever gone to Buckhorn Cove in Little River? I grew up playing at that beach. It's a tricky walk down with kids (poison oak), but it has the best tide pools and great fishing.
2. Status? Benched
3. R/R: feeling pretty blah this week, not much to rant or rave about.
4.GTKY: what are three words that your SO would use to describe you
He said Determined, organized, and pretty. I’ll take it 😅
Eta I never answered your question. I've never been to buckhorn cove but it sounds wonderful. That's definitely something to check out in the future.
@splashmountain I like “discerning” instead of “judgy” lol 😂 hope you enjoy your vacation
@Mamaof2beautifulgirls hope your appointment goes well! Deciding when to try again is tough, and I thought I would want a longer break before trying but once I got AF for the first time after my period I realized I just wanted to be pregnant again. I am still a little scared of being pregnant but like @Kurtni said, I think at some point the desire outweighs the fear, but that point comes at different times for everyone.
@Kurtni sorry you’re feeling blah. Here’s to a better weekend!
@ruby696 hope you were able to get your project done and that it went well!
1. Introduce yourself (if new): not new
2. Status? WTO
3. R/R: TGIF! Hoping for a quiet, relaxed weekend.
4.GTKY: what are three words that your SO would use to describe you? I didn’t ask him but he always says I’m “too nice,” weird, and smart.
Married: Oct 2015
Baby G born June 2017
TTC#2: July 2018
BFP #2: 2/6/19 MC 3/14/19
BFP#3 from IUI #2: 6/30/20 EDD 3/9/21