This thread is a safe place for those who are pregnant after a loss. (PGAL). If you have suffered a loss please feel free to answer the questions below and keep things going throughout the week as a continuing conversation.
If you haven’t suffered a loss, please refrain from answering the questions, but know we welcome anyone who wants to come in and support the PGAL ladies and their milestones with encouragement or love tits! Thank you!
1. How many weeks are you?
2. Previous loss(es)?
3. How are you feeling? Emotionally and physically?
4. Any appointment updates?
5. Rants/Raves/Questions?
6. Any milestones coming up?
GTKY: how did you and your husband/SO meet?
Re: PGAL 6.26
1. How many weeks are you? 19
2. Previous loss(es)? 14 week loss last Decembe .
3. How are you feeling? Emotionally and physically? I'm exhausted and in need of a break. I need a couch and TV so I can decompress. I would also like to let the kids zombify themselves for a bit so I can have a mental break.
4. Any appointment updates? No new appointment yet. I'm trying to decide who i want to go to. Whether I want another hospital birth or birth center.
5. Rants/Raves/Questions? I need my husband to get here already. I may end up in a hotel just for the TV. 😫
6. Any milestones coming up? None
GTKY: how did you and your husband/SO meet? We met in college. He was getting his MD/PhD and I was working on my undergrad. He was so dorky trying to ask me out. I thought he was super cute so I said yes. 😊
I had my anatomy scan this morning and the baby did not have a heartbeat. I am so shocked, I was feeling movement. I am just absolutely dreading reliving the worst experience of my life again. I’m getting some things together and heading to the hospital to be induced.
thank you to the PGAL ladies in this board who provided so much moral support to me, and I wish you all the best.
21+6
2. Previous loss(es)?
17 wk MMC in July of 2013
CP in January of 2018
3. How are you feeling? Emotionally and physically?
Emotionally... More confident as the days go by.
Physically... everything hurts. I feel like an 80 year old woman!
4. Any appointment updates?
OB on July 1st
5. Rants/Raves/Questions?
None
6. Any milestones coming up?
None
GTKY: how did you and your husband/SO meet?
We met at church. He was new and my Grannie (who was the pastor’s wife) introduced us and told me to be nice to him...and I was
2. Previous loss(es)? 1 early loss, 2 chemical
3. How are you feeling? Emotionally and physically?
I have been emotive lately. Just feeling things more easily and abut moody. Physically I have had a return of nausea and food aversions. I am having trouble making myself eat, which is a challenge with the GD where I am supposed to eat every 2 -3 hours. Also a bit tired.
The anatomy scan has helped me feel more excited though. It feels more and more real.
4. Any appointment updates?
Had my monthly and Anatomy scan this week. Baby didn't cooperate with the anatomy scan so I have to go back, but what they saw looked good.
5. Rants/Raves/Questions?
The anatomy scan tech was rude and pressed too hard on my c-section scar. I was not a happy camper.
6. Any milestones coming up?
Not really
GTKY: how did you and your husband/SO meet?
We met through the SCA (medieval recreation) in college. I gave him a ride to a camping event. He purposely left his shoes in my trunk so he would have an excuse to see me again. ♡ It wasn't until I gave him a ride to the next camping event (5 months later) that we started dating, we got engaged 6 months later.
@Kurtni I am so, so sorry to hear your news. I wanted to let you know that I will be thinking of you, YH and your angel baby.