November 2019 Moms

PGAL 6.26

This thread is a safe place for those who are pregnant after a loss. (PGAL). If you have suffered a loss please feel free to answer the questions below and keep things going throughout the week as a continuing conversation.  

If you haven’t suffered a loss, please refrain from answering the questions, but know we welcome anyone who wants to come in and support the PGAL ladies and their milestones with encouragement or love tits! Thank you!  

1. How many weeks are you? 

2. Previous loss(es)? 

3. How are you feeling? Emotionally and physically? 

4. Any appointment updates? 

5. Rants/Raves/Questions? 

6. Any milestones coming up? 

GTKY: how did you and your husband/SO meet? 

Re: PGAL 6.26


  • 1. How many weeks are you? 19

    2. Previous loss(es)? 14 week loss last Decembe . 

    3. How are you feeling? Emotionally and physically? I'm exhausted and in need of a break. I need a couch and TV so I can decompress. I would also like to let the kids zombify themselves for a bit so I can have a mental break. 

    4. Any appointment updates? No new appointment yet. I'm trying to decide who i want to go to. Whether I want another hospital birth or birth center. 

    5. Rants/Raves/Questions? I need my husband to get here already. I may end up in a hotel just for the TV. 😫

    6. Any milestones coming up? None

    GTKY: how did you and your husband/SO meet?  We met in college. He was getting his MD/PhD and I was working on my undergrad. He was so dorky trying to ask me out. I thought he was super cute so I said yes. 😊
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  • KurtniKurtni member
    TW Loss

    I had my anatomy scan this morning and the baby did not have a heartbeat. I am so shocked, I was feeling movement. I am just absolutely dreading reliving the worst experience of my life again. I’m getting some things together and heading to the hospital to be induced. 

    thank you to the PGAL ladies in this board who provided so much moral support to me, and I wish you all the best. 
    Pregnancy Ticker
  • @kurtni I'm so sorry. My heart sank when I read your post. Please reach out to me via PM if you need to talk. I went through an induction last December. I will be praying for you and your husband. I'm so sorry you are going through this. 
  • @Kurtni Oh my gosh! I’m so sorry. There is nothing more devastating. I will be praying for you and your family...
  • 1. How many weeks are you?
    21+6

    2. Previous loss(es)? 
    17 wk MMC in July of 2013
    CP in January of 2018

    3. How are you feeling? Emotionally and physically? 
    Emotionally... More confident as the days go by.
    Physically... everything hurts. I feel like an 80 year old woman! 

    4. Any appointment updates?
    OB on July 1st 

    5. Rants/Raves/Questions? 
    None

    6. Any milestones coming up? 
    None

    GTKY: how did you and your husband/SO meet? 
    We met at church. He was new and my Grannie (who was the pastor’s wife) introduced us and told me to be nice to him...and I was :)
  • @Kurtni I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you have people around you that can support you through this time. I willne thinking of you 
  • 1. How many weeks are you? 20 +3

    2. Previous loss(es)? 1 early loss, 2 chemical

    3. How are you feeling? Emotionally and physically? 

    I have been emotive lately. Just feeling things more easily and abut moody.  Physically I have had a return of nausea and food aversions.  I am having trouble making myself eat, which is a challenge with the GD where I am supposed to eat every 2 -3 hours. Also a bit tired. 

    The anatomy scan has helped me feel more excited though. It feels more and more real. 

    4. Any appointment updates? 

    Had my monthly and Anatomy scan this week.  Baby didn't cooperate with the anatomy scan so I have to go back, but what they saw looked good. 

    5. Rants/Raves/Questions? 

    The anatomy scan tech was rude and pressed too hard on my c-section scar. I was not a happy camper. 

    6. Any milestones coming up? 
    Not really

    GTKY: how did you and your husband/SO meet?  

    We met through the SCA (medieval recreation) in college. I gave him a ride to a camping event.  He purposely left his shoes in my trunk so he would have an excuse to see me again. ♡  It wasn't until I gave him a ride to the next camping event (5 months later) that we started dating, we got engaged 6 months later. 
  • Omg, @Kurtni, I don't participate in the PGAL thread and was just reading through but I am so, so sorry. You've been so helpful and supportive to all the ladies in the group and you will be greatly missed. Sending so much love and good energy for you, your family and your angel baby. Wish I could give you a big hug
  • *lurking* 
    @Kurtni I am so, so sorry to hear your news. I wanted to let you know that I will be thinking of you, YH and your angel baby. 
  • @Kurtni I just cannot stop thinking about this. I just wish there were right words I could offer you.  I know we are all trying to support you in our hearts.  I just wish there was something any of us could do. 
  • @Kurtni Oh sweetheart I wish I could fix this. I am sitting here at work in tears over this for you. I am so, sorry. 💔
  • mc0303mc0303 member
    @Kurtni I am so, so sorry to hear about your news and that you are going through this right now. I'll be thinking of you and your family  <3

  • @Kurtni I am so sorry for your loss, my heart is absolutely broken for you. ❤️
  • @Kurtni so deeply sorry for your loss.  Wishing you and your family strength and peace.  
  • @Kurtni I am so sorry for this loss. My heart breaks knowing you have experienced two late losses like this. My thoughts are with you and your family right now. I pray they find the cause of the losses and you have rainbows in the future if/when you are ready.
  • tashia5587tashia5587 member
    edited July 2019
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